perceptionsmk Archive

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–	Men in your 30s, do you actually not want to date women in their 30s? Yeah, this late bloomer group is typically socially awkward.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 07:05 AM
–	Men in your 30s, do you actually not want to date women in their 30s? I am in my 30s. I have tried. After many bad experiences I have given up and now I am dating a women who is in her mid 20s. If this doesn't work out. I will not date older than 28. The issues I have run into with women over 30 are generally they are less flexible (own a home already, have a demanding career they don't want to give up) and have unrealistic expectations (Want some sort of 50/50 type thing where their is no division of labor). Another group are the socially awkward, while they look…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/23 06:46 AM
14	Trying to be Setup with Single Mom ✋🏽🛑 Your married friends are not friends.	/r/TheRedPill	25/08/22 03:31 PM
3	How to start when you are completely inexperienced? This sub needs a dating app or matchmaking service.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/05/22 09:23 PM
3	Dear fellow red pill women, I have a question! now there is an amazing man who I’m dating but I’m not sure how to tell him I want to be a traditional wife. My mom was a homemaker and possibly I’d love to be one as well. How did you fellow women told this to your partners? It will be a different experience than a "modern" date. It can still be about having fun and enjoying each others company. One place i think women get tripped up is on the expectations for how the courting process will go. Don't expect him to entertain you and plan every date indefinitely. Your entertainment isn't your mans full time job and the courting process is supposed to be about settling into a stable relationship. If your dating the right guy, his time is limited because he is busy makin…	/r/RedPillWives	07/04/22 02:20 PM
-2	How To Deal With Not Being What He Wants? Men are people. If you want them in your lives you gotta grant them some grace that they will make mistakes just like you will. Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood. How exactly would a mom teach a son how to interact with a women in a sexual/romantic relationship? This would would be inappropriate and unproductive. Men who are raised by single moms tend to have dysfunctional relationships with women. My helpful advice was to agree about getting therapy. Very helpful IMO	/r/RedPillWomen	30/03/22 09:19 PM
-3	How To Deal With Not Being What He Wants? I agree the BFs behavior wasn't healthy. Men carry baggage with this stuff into relationships too, he might not be intending to hurt. Most men are not raised by fathers that get it and we bumble through. Adapting our direct and indirect communication to what a women we value needs is complicated.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/03/22 08:10 PM
-16	How To Deal With Not Being What He Wants? Men are not going to speak to you like other women will, especially a husband. It is a completely different relationship dynamic. Regardless of what you decide to do with this relationship going back to therapy is a good idea, Best of luck!	/r/RedPillWomen	30/03/22 07:20 PM
2	Men marry out of love or convenience Feminine, Beautiful and Inspirational.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/03/22 06:48 PM
3	Texting frequency This is very underrated. I love to see a nice "have a great day text" It makes my day. I can see why he married you lol	/r/RedPillWomen	30/03/22 06:02 AM
1	Men marry out of love or convenience Not an incel, just trying to help. I'm in that top 20% The math is what it is if you start putting it down on paper.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/03/22 08:12 PM
1	Men marry out of love or convenience Think what you want. But start putting your requirements down on paper like having a job, no mental illness, home, car etc. That 100% of men shrinks down. Add in looking for higher income and attractive your fishing in a small pond of men.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/03/22 07:58 PM
6	The ‘why are you still single’ question... It is just part of the vetting process. Answer it the best you can and the right men will self select to continue dating.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/03/22 03:26 PM
4	My BF doesn't want a marriage certificate He is correct that today marriage is a bad deal for men. The commitment is one sided since the women can bail at any time for any reason and the man will still financially be on the hook. Not suggesting you will. But if you had a eject button that allows you to take his assets and "live in the manner you are accustomed to" do you think that will make you fight harder for your relationship or not? Marriage is hard and their is not much social pressure keeping them together. The incentives today e…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/03/22 03:24 PM
4	Men marry out of love or convenience Women only really see the top 20% of men. The rest are invisible. Women see the top 20% that have options and apply that lens to all men.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/03/22 03:10 PM
4	is it bad to want a man to take care of you? If you want him to pay the bills. You are gonna have to give up some independence and let him have a little more decision making capability. It would not be fair for him to pay for or clean your apartment if you choose to keep it. I suspect the only reason you have it is because your afraid of ceding any independence to him by moving in. As long as he senses your trying to get a better than fair deal he is not gonna want to take care of you the way you want. Men don't want to feel like they are …	/r/RedPillWomen	27/03/22 10:53 PM
3	is it bad to want a man to take care of you? Why would he do chores at a house you are choosing to keep? Does he live at your place? Your not entitled to his paycheck as a girlfriend just cause he makes more.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/03/22 10:42 PM
4	is it bad to want a man to take care of you? What do you want from him?	/r/RedPillWomen	27/03/22 10:36 PM
2	boyfriend tries to help with housework, but half asses. how to correct? I know you have feelings for him. But serious question. Why are you planning on spending your twenties dating a dude that cant afford to make you a SAHM right now? Its been 3 years and your kinda killing time and fertility on this. A serious man that could afford a wife would have already put a ring on your finger inside of 6-12 months. Find a dude that can employ you to work the SAHM role/job you really want right now!	/r/RedPillWomen	27/03/22 10:26 PM
6	is it bad to want a man to take care of you? Then pay your own bills and live independently without complaining. Nothing worth having in life is free. Make a fair deal. If he did those things without you doing anything for him you would lose respect and attraction to him anyway because he is weak.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/03/22 10:13 PM
9	is it bad to want a man to take care of you? He is not your dad. Your not entitled to his money. If you want him to take on more of the financial load because he is a better earner that is fine. But you have to make it a fair deal. If you choose to have your own place why would he do your chores?	/r/RedPillWomen	27/03/22 10:12 PM
3	Need advice about a man [24F] Mans perspective here. Your on RPW so I am assuming your looking for a traditional man. What are your goals? Do you want to be married, a mother? What is your timeline for these life events? Can this man make enough to provide those things in that timeline? Do you want to work when you have kids? It seems like your focused on the details of this relationship rather than the bigger picture.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/03/22 09:53 PM
1	My defensive walls are ruining the potential for a good relationship.. Being a wife is a hard job. You gotta come well prepared. The men are sensing your not ready and are not who you say you are. Your future husband is counting on you to provide peace at home. I suggest finding a therapist to talk these things through.	/r/RedPillWives	27/03/22 09:41 PM
2	What can wives do to encourage spending quality time with their husband? Schedule things with him, put it on the calendar. We love spending time with our ladies. We cant read minds to know what you want to do.	/r/RedPillWives	27/03/22 09:36 PM
1	Men marry out of love or convenience Love is a choice, so is happiness. If you chose your mate for the right reasons. A happy relationship is a choice both people have to make everyday.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/03/22 09:29 PM
2	Was it Love Bombing or am I just impatient? What do you want your life to look like? Do you want to be a stay at home wife? do some research about how much it costs to raise a family and have a home where you want to live. Once you know the income you future husband needs you can focus on men with careers that make that and get their attention. They will likely be a little older. A 21 year old can't afford a wife.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/03/22 09:18 PM
4	Dear fellow red pill women, I have a question! now there is an amazing man who I’m dating but I’m not sure how to tell him I want to be a traditional wife. My mom was a homemaker and possibly I’d love to be one as well. How did you fellow women told this to your partners? Tell men before you meet them. Make it very clear upfront so you don't end up wasting time or heart broken. The men that are looking for a home maker will make it clear and those that don't will self select out. You can be direct communicators and feminine. Its a female super power. The men you are looking for are out here and we are looking for (COO/homemaker) to manage parts of our lives. Be excited and make it clear you want the job and what skills you have to do so.	/r/RedPillWives	27/03/22 08:48 PM
1	How to find a man? Work with a matchmaker. Tell them your looking for a traditional husband and gender roles.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/05/21 05:03 AM
2	Struggling to meet an Alpha. I would suggest you get in touch with a matchmaker. A lot of busy and successful conservative men are looking for women just like yourself. Online dating is a basically a dumpster fire and most quality red pill men have given it up long ago. I have quite a few friends that all meet the criteria you are looking for, none of them OLD (only exception is using farmersonly). Like someone else said it basically is like fight club, we don't talk about it. We run to much risk bringing up our beliefs.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/05/21 04:54 AM