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perfekti0n/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 04:23 PM
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My ex lay on the bed dramatically like he’d been shot I’m not laughing at your situation but that’s so accurate 😂 Not looking forward to this shit but it’ll be worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 11:07 PM
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I have a feeling he’s going to turn himself into a victim and act super sweet and helpful all of a sudden. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 10:02 PM
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What the shit. And men say we’re the fucked up ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 08:15 PM
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What a cool girl!! I remember being this way years ago. Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 07:22 PM
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Looking at porn at work? That’s a serious addiction. She needs to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 07:20 PM
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They deserve each other, that’s for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 04:58 PM
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I made a post the other day explaining my situation if you want to check it out — working on it! 💪🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 04:57 PM
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Feels like my future if I stay with my LVM boyfriend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 04:43 PM
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A bunch of upvoted comments talking about how pedophiles are also “victims”. Fucking gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 02:40 PM
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I’ll preface this as someone who isn’t a fan of either... she isn’t a gold digger though. They started dating before he had any money and only a few thousand subscribers. She makes her own money and does fashion design on her own accord.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 12:17 PM
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Thank you for understanding. It’s really inspiring to see all of you strong ladies here, even if it’s a little intimidating, haha :) I definitely need more female-focused subs if anyone has recommendations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 05:41 PM
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Wow, I really do sound like you. I’m going to follow you on Reddit if that’s cool, I want to see more of what you have to say. I’m sorry you had to experience all of that, I know how painful it is. I’m so glad you’re happier now. That gives me a lot of hope. I used scoff at the words “love yourself”, and now realize how important it is to respect yourself as an individual. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 05:36 PM
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What is your channel going to be about? Nice list!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 05:31 PM
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Thank you! It seems like a lot at once but just little checks in your “habits boxes” every day adds up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 05:29 PM
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Thank you! It’ll all be okay. When I decided to finally go to treatment for bulimia I said to myself “this is not sustainable.” Same with the marijuana addiction. And it isn’t in this case either. I’ll be able to do this. Baby steps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 05:29 PM
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If he continues to act this way, his only hope is dating girls in their early 20s because any woman my age or older should be too smart for this shit. It hurts a lot to be honest to click on so many levels with someone and have them become a part of you, being able to read their mind etc and then they stop giving a fuck about you because you become a security blanket.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 05:27 PM
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I explained a couple of comments up, but it’s financially complicated. Emotionally I’m basically gone. I’m working up to the first step of saying I want to separate. We would still have to live together for a while. Luckily there are two bedrooms. I just don’t know how to deal with that kind of situation. I have two friends who used to be together for years and are now room mates. I do not want that to be a permanent solution for us, but I definitely could use some advice on how to make it work …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 05:25 PM
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I don’t doubt he’s up to something shady. I have poor self esteem, but I know I have far more to offer than he does. I imagine him getting to be 40 in piss poor health, his relationships being with girls online who are convenient because he can hide his bullshit while sweet talking and acting like a perfect man at the same time. I convinced him to see a psychiatrist because he was doing better when he was on antidepressants last year but stopped cold turkey because he was too lazy to go to an ap…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 05:20 PM
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It’s scary to think about not being with someone you’ve been with for almost your whole adult life. It’s a shame because he does have a lot of good qualities, but he has good qualities for a friend, not for a partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 05:15 PM
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I have none. I’ve only been aware of this fairly recently due to finding this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 05:13 PM
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It’s a little complicated. We’ve been together since I was 20 and he was 25. We are 28 and 33 now. We rent a split level house with my mom, her boyfriend, and my autistic brother. We’re in a situation where if one of us lost our job, we would all be in trouble. We have the same job, at the same building, during the same shift, and share a vehicle (mine). He recently got one but it shit the bed so hopefully he figures out the issue with it soon. We have all of the same friends. Neither one of us …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 05:11 PM
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I honestly didn’t even realize how pathetic it is until I came here. I wanted to marry him so bad for so long. He’s the kind of man to let food rot in the fridge for months. To let his teeth fall out of his head. Procrastinate and let go. Ignore problems and cover your eyes and maybe when you open them it’ll all disappear. This behavior rubbed off on me. My teeth and hygiene went to shit for a while. I’m doing better with that. I stopped caring about what I ate. I gained weight but have lost 55l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 05:03 PM
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Oh boy. I used to manage a video game store some years ago and have a unique first name. I’d say I’ve had a dozen men who were my customers try to add/message me on Facebook trying to start a conversation. They’d ask me shit like “how much store credit can I get for Black Ops?” at like fucking 2:00 AM. Luckily I no longer work with the general public in a retail setting. I do work on the phone sometimes and have been complimented on my voice (one guy said he could tell I had a “cute face” by my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 04:48 PM
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Not young and naïve enough. 2/10
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 04:43 PM
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Lmao at men who think they’re such studs they should exclusively date girls in their 20s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 04:41 PM
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1) Lose 50 to 70lbs. I already lost 55. I might not get there all the way in one year but I’m going to try. I have lupus and my recent numbers were the worst they’ve ever been. Becoming healthier will make it less likely I die prematurely or end up in a wheelchair so yeah, kind of important. 1a) Related, but I bought a bunch of meal prep containers, a vegan cookbook, supplements, and some groceries to give a vegan diet a shot. I’ve done a lot of research on how to do it “right” so I can stick wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 04:38 PM
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There’s a lot but I’ll just post my top - Dump him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 01:02 PM
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What exactly is the “utility” of a woman’s sexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 03:58 AM
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It’s harder when you live together and have been living together for seven years, in a house where your own mother lives on the top floor 💀 I’m working some shit out though. Finding this sub a couple of weeks ago has been a slap in the face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 04:50 AM
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I stopped asking years ago and now when he’s in the mood once every two months that’s when we have sex. He doesn’t care at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 04:46 AM
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It’s so hard. I’ve spent my whole life gagging at the phrase “love yourself” and within the last couple of months I’ve come to realize that if you don’t love and respect yourself, you’re on a death march. My fridge is full of healthy food to start the day after tomorrow, and my work shift is changing to allow more time at the gym! I feel ready. I’ve held myself back so much in life because without love, I don’t know who I am. I’ve come to realize that this “love” I have is simply comfort food. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 11:12 PM
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♥️♥️♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 11:09 PM
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I really want to go back to school. I need to do all of this now before I get too old. I have a progressive disease that might disable me in the future and I’m sitting here letting both my body and soul die slowly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 11:09 PM
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Thank you. You know how long I’ve spent “single” the last sixteen years of my life (since 12)? ONE MONTH. I’m going to make a promise to myself to stay single for at least a full year, maybe two. I don’t even know who I am.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 11:08 PM
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We have to keep an eye here and keep reading. Reading some of the recommended books, take care of our bodies and minds, focus our love and attention internally for once. I know it’s waaaay easier said than done...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 11:06 PM
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Thank you. I’m 28 and he’s 33. If we break up next year, it sounds cruel, but I kind of look forward to saying “good luck starting over again in your mid 30s, you fucked up”. I don’t even want to marry him anymore which has been such a shock to my system.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 11:05 PM
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I’ve been trying to not shower him with as much needless attention and baby talk. I think he’s noticing a little, he did a three hour favor for me last night. I’m not about to jump for joy and suddenly gain hope, but I am a little surprised. I’m going to keep at it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 11:03 PM
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It’s derived from the c-word :x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 11:01 PM
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Seeing how far they can push boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 06:26 PM
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I have Pseudotumor and would be glad to answer any questions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 05:16 PM
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I’ve been with my boyfriend for eight years and we aren’t even engaged. Reading this sub is making me want to build my confidence and self worth. I’m going to go through the side bar and buy a couple of the recommended books. I used to want to marry him, and ever since finding this sub two weeks ago, I decided I’d turn him down. I can’t get him to clean empty soda cans off of his desk. It will never happen. I turn thirty in 2021 and that would be 10 years together. It’s a long story about how I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 05:05 PM
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As a Pickme who desperately wanted to get married until a couple of weeks ago when I found this sub, to a man I’ve been with for 8 years. Since I was 20. oof ouch owie my soul
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 12:06 PM
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“Don’t take this the wrong way but” What a useless fucking sentence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 05:52 AM
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Men is too headache.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 11:02 PM
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I missed that! I’m from NY. I’d say a third to half of the people I work with get a cup of coffee at the deli every morning... lmao what the hell?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 11:42 AM
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My mom had me at 30 and my brother at 33! I think these women are just prioritizing being “attractive moms” over all else due to wanting to impress men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 09:10 PM
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While the dormancy thing might be true, they don’t take the health and consent of others into account. Sorry, I have lupus, I’m immunocompromised, I see no reason to invite another potentially life threatening disease into my body just so I don’t hurt someone else’s feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 07:15 PM
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As someone who doesn’t want kids until at least after 30, it kind of makes me feel like junk when people feel like they have to remind me that I’m going to be an “old mom” and that they’re sooo happy they had their kids when they were 20 so they can be “hot moms”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 05:26 PM
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