perilousp69 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Any of you who initiated the divorce, went through with it, but regretted it later? What do you wish you would’ve thought of or done beforehand? Putting it off now will only make it harder later when the kids really understand. I'm going through a divorce right now with a person I can't rely on from day to day. It's going... OK I guess. But I wish I had done it much sooner, for my sake and my son's. He deserves to see his father living a happy life. She wrecked me in a lot of ways. Almost all because I waited and put my head down and did what I should do as the main breadwinner. If anything, your stress and depression will reflect in you…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/06/22 07:28 AM
0	What does one do when you’ve lost everything? I'll get negged forever but what is wrong with your partner has more to do with her humanity than her gender. I am going through a divorce right now. My 5-year plan is to stay out of bankruptcy. As frustrating as it is for decent guys who are getting screwed, the laws are the way they are because women have been fucked over a long time. With so many divorces happening in the 70s and 80s, the law shifted pretty quickly to a 50-50 split because it was the quickest way to move those cases through t…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/05/22 08:14 AM
3	How to not mess up our child when the ex is lying to her. My son is 17 and his mom is trying to do the same. I don't think he's going to like it much, but if he does it's his call.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/05/22 09:09 AM
1	Maintenance in WA question Wa here too and right in the thick of it. How confident would anyone be counting on a judge to consider cost of living. Ex will be moving back home to a low-rent area.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/05/22 09:08 AM
1	Sunk cost fallacy Totally same here. I don't know how I'll manage my finances and still live in the expensive area where my job and life are.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/05/22 05:08 AM
3	Sunk cost fallacy yep	/r/Divorce_Men	21/05/22 05:06 AM
2	I hate her, how can I forgive? I plan to carry my hate long into the future. What my soon-ex is doing now to the kid is unconscionable. Sometimes the meanings of words match. There's no hyperbole. Society might not like it, but you have experienced A and felt B. I B = hate, we have reasons and those reasons should matter. Some people deserve hate. They have earned it. Grace is a two-way street. In a lot of areas of our lives, we should probably take a better look at what we're forgiving people for. Some people are unworthy. W…	/r/Divorce_Men	20/05/22 12:38 PM
2	I hate her, how can I forgive? Well said	/r/Divorce_Men	16/05/22 06:55 AM