perks33 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	FDS subreddit is NOT a landfill for depraved male content. Thank you ❤️ So important to protect the spirit of women (and sometimes teen girls!) who visit this sub.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/04/22 02:29 PM
80	I could not find ONE comment saying she’s in the right. He expects her to come over on the first date but gets offended when she mentions him paying for tea. A $2 item. 🥴 Notice she said, “ I know there are some girls who only go on dates just to have guys pay for them.” She wanted to separate herself from “those” women in hopes of earning his respect Women’s internalized misogyny and hatred for “gold diggers” (aka women with higher standards) is why so many end up in disastrous situations. Because they fear being thought of as “gold digger” they request $2 tea instead of proper courtship via multiple dinner dates Because they fear being thought of as “gold digge…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/02/22 01:51 AM
82	I only read female-dominated subreddits now I was just in the personal finance subreddit and there’s a trending post now on how couples handle finances. 98% of comments are 50-50 type of arrangements!! When women unfamiliar with FDS principles read that, they think Mhmm that’s what “normal” or EqUaL. One post with 50+upvotes was a man, unmarried, asking his girlfriend to split 50% on a house UNDER HIS NAME!!! And it was celebrated as EQuAL, by both men and women alike I kept scrolling and scrolling and not one person (including women) men…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/01/22 06:40 PM
190	Advice: He seems wonderful but isn’t as financially secure as me I have to say, broke men who can’t fulfill their desire to be providers turn into even worse nightmares than broke men who never intended on being a provider. Right now at 6 months it’s still honeymoon period, but eventually that insecurity will gnaw away at his sense of masculinity. He knows being a provider is a important part of his “role” as a man and you’ve even pointed that. Being unable to fulfill that masculine role (and him knowing that you know he’s unable to fill in that role) will ev…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/01/22 03:49 PM
38	Tired of the men obsessed with women “reciprocating” Every time I hear that term from a man I know to stay away. I guarantee 100% they do not consider emotional and household labor as a form of showing love and investment in a relationship . They don’t value the way women traditionally show and reciprocate romantic feelings. You could show up to a date, looking and smelling good, listening to him, asking questions, laughing at his shitty jokes, and thanking him for dinner, but he doesn’t value this feminine display of interest as “real”. As long a…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/01/22 12:22 AM
14	Yeah yeah I know the answer is just to leave, but this visual is hilarious! Goal post will just keep moving. Next he won’t know how to get the floors as clean as hers, the laundry as well done as hers…etc. He’ll wear her down with these lil tutorials until she’ll give up and do the damn chore herself Only way to address weaponized incompetence is to leave. If you can’t/don’t want to leave, then you should mitigate the effects of weaponized incompetence by making him carry all the financial labor of the house. No 50/50, no 30/70. 100%. Every mortgage payment, bill, every…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/12/21 06:41 AM
175	The kids are going to be fine. A lot of these "alpha" men are actually in competition with women for the sexual attention of other men. Why else would a grown "straight" man compare his looks to a woman!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/12/21 03:43 PM
3	If a man is this obsessed with slimness, he doesn’t deserve to have someone carry his child. He is also probably repulsed by pregnant women. When I was in OLD especially , I avoided men whose entire personality is gym/fitness/“keeping a healthy lifestyle”. One, it’s coded language to ward off women above 150 lbs. if you’re 110 lbs, eat like crap, and the gym has never seen your face, they’ll 100% make an exception for you. It’ll now be QuIRky instead of unHeaLthy. Because it’s not genuinely about healthy lifestyle for them, it’s about you being slim. Two, these men are the ones most likely to cheat/leave if you get pregnant, get PCOS…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/12/21 05:27 PM
41	Woman sees tornado and frantically moves her kids to safety. Husband questions her sanity, slights her for “scaring the kids,” and foolishly goes outside. Men who weaponize incompetence when it comes to “small things” like getting the right groceries will 100% be an Alex in life or death situation. Because sitting back and letting a woman do it all is a core part of who they are.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/12/21 02:08 AM