persephonepleas Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Overweight men have shorter penises. (and my thoughts on obesity and body positivity) Omg all of this. Can confirm ...and never again!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/05/21 03:04 AM
22	Divorce Him. It's not a woman's job to be your secretary and don't even let him start with the "babe where is my/have you seen my..." Men don't do this for us and it's exhausting to manage their lives for them. Run. YUCK thanks for the flashback to my longest relationship (age 17-25). I should have run when I met his family for dinner the first time when we began dating and his mom still cut up his food for him	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/04/21 09:25 PM
11	Reject pornification and leave your pubic hair alone. It has a purpose, a job to do and it's healthy to keep it LONG LIVE FEMALE PUBIC HAIR!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/04/21 02:26 AM
2	The audacity is off the charts. This is also why FDS advocates blocking and deleting men as soon as it’s done (NOTE: this screenshot was found on Twitter). HAHAHAHA	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/02/21 07:59 PM
11	So-called "petty" deal breakers Just chiming in with a HELL YES! I spent way too long in a relationship with someone (a grown capable adult) who couldn't be bothered to cook or clean or do laundry etc. unless I told him too/got angry with him over it. I became bitter and resentful after 9 years and 1 child together. Now it's an immediate dealbreaker if our health and cleanliness habits don't line up. I refuse to waste my time and energy like that ever again.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/01/21 07:54 PM
156	From Men’s Mouths to Your Ears. Don’t be a forever girlfriend. I was in a committed relationship from age 17-25. We lived together for about five years. When we met (as teenagers) he was clear that he 'didn't believe in marriage.' I figured he would change his mind. Nope! Now I refuse to move in with a man without a ring on my finger and wedding date imminent. I'm also clear in the beginning that I'm dating to find a marriage partner.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/01/21 08:45 PM
2	Don't fall for a Fauxpology or a Self-made Victim: "I'm Sorry it Came Off That Way," "I guess I'm the Bad Guy Once Again" The first guy I dated seriously after leaving a 9 year relationship was the king of manipulative apologies! What a mess. I left him almost 3 years ago and I'll never forget how he made me feel.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/10/20 09:56 AM
14	This, my fellow Queens, is why we say that men should plan dates and show effort from the very beginning. Because if he doesn’t, it will NOT get better. Early this year, a guy (25) drove two hours to my town to take me (30) out for sushi as a first date. Dude doesn't even like sushi, but knew I really did; we spent hours together, talking. He then drove those two hours home, no complaints. Just happy to have met me. I haven't gone on a 'coffee date' in a couple years. Low effort isn't attractive.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/09/20 01:42 AM
2	"It was a joke" after insulting me and me getting upset. I have deleted guys over this BS. One of them casually tossed around a racial slur in conversation and I called him out. He got angry that I was offended/upset because "lol it was a joke." I replied: "If it's a joke then why am I not laughing?" Then BLOCKED.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/06/20 12:42 AM
3	For those men who are 35+ and say ‘i’M nOt lOoKiNG 4 aNYtHINg sERIoUS’ my dude you’re half way to being elderly lmao like get it together Michael. Stop deluding yourselves into thinking you’re a spring chicken, you’re not! Exactly. It's funny and pathetic.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/03/20 02:47 PM
162	How to let a man know if they date he suggests is not appropriate Just yesterday I replied with something similar to "Oh, I thought we were going on a date... Did I misunderstand? I want to make sure we're on the same page." He said, "Then I guess I'm not asking you on a date." And he unmatched me. Gotta love when the trash takes itself out.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/20 07:30 PM