persistantcoffee Archive

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–	Average guys typically shouldn't expect casual sex I don't consider myself red pilled and I'm politically independent but I can venture a guess as to why this may be true. The appeal of red pill is seeing the world as it truly is and offering strategies for navigating that world. I'm not defending red pill and I think too much of it is toxic tht is how I see it. The modern left does the exact opposite of that. They see the world through idealized, unrealistic glasses and essentially gaslight people constantly about everything in order to keep th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/23 02:12 PM
–	Average guys typically shouldn't expect casual sex who?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/23 02:03 PM
–	Average guys typically shouldn't expect casual sex Reason 1,002 why prostitution should be legalized and regulated. Assuming we are talking about the USA. Sex is a basic human drive right up there with eating and breathing. Yet we have a culture where prostitution is mostly illegal and in 99% of relationships there is an expectation of monogamy and women can and do withhold sex or shut if off entirely while demanding fidelity. Most women can get sex whenever they want. They just have to show they are interested. You are right.. the majority of g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/23 01:48 PM
1	The best way to look as a woman is average (7/10) I've often wondered what this must be like for women and I agree it can't be pleasant. I imagine it's rare that you have a normal interaction with anyone. It must be almost like a celebrity where you have no anonymity. Do you ever come across guys who don't make your looks the focus of the interaction?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 02:48 AM
-1	How do you justify asking for a woman with a low body count, if yours is high? Have a lovely night.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 02:41 AM
-2	How do you justify asking for a woman with a low body count, if yours is high? If there were a bakery that gave it's employees free cakes and donuts everyday, would you be more impressed with the fat person or the fit person who worked there? ...and tall, handsome men are not "swimming in pussy". Please.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 02:18 AM
1	The argument for being a player. Being a player is a craft and you should strive to be crafty. We disagree. End of story. I'm not going back and forth about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/23 08:25 PM
19	How do you justify asking for a woman with a low body count, if yours is high? "I don’t get why men hold women to higher standards than men" There are big differences in how easy it is for a man and a woman to get laid if they choose to. A woman merely has to show she is interested and will have tons of offers. A man has to put in lots of work with no guarantee of success. I am paraphrasing what I read someone else say about this but its no "flex" for a woman to get laid. Something that requires effort and discipline to achieve results is praised, this is what men have to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/23 08:19 PM
1	The argument for being a player. Being a player is a craft and you should strive to be crafty. I don't resent them for having unrealistic standards, I choose not to reinforce them and encourage them. "Would you still be mad if you met all the standards you have control over? I would assume no." I never said I was mad. unrealistic standards are still unrealistic whether someone meet them or not	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/23 06:42 PM
1	The argument for being a player. Being a player is a craft and you should strive to be crafty. Because too many women have very unrealistically high standards. Due in part to how online dating works, social media and our woke culture that gasses women up and bashes men. IMHO.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/23 05:35 PM
1	The argument for being a player. Being a player is a craft and you should strive to be crafty. ie. a need for validation, abandonment issues, self image problems Yeah, I'd feel crappy hooking up with someone with those issues just to get laid is what I meant	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/23 05:34 PM
1	The argument for being a player. Being a player is a craft and you should strive to be crafty. I agree and if I ever wanted to just get laid, I'd see an escort. I actually feel more morally comfortable with that than I do trying to manipulate someone to have sex with me. What's worse is there are some women who are in a bad spot where they are sex addicts because of their upbringing or bad relationship experiences and I wouldn't feel good about taking advantage of their situation just to have my "turn" with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/23 05:10 PM
2	The argument for being a player. Being a player is a craft and you should strive to be crafty. The only thing you can do, is meeting those standards. Disagree strongly! That is like rewarding bad behavior and it guarantees standards will become even more unrealistic. If the coffeshop starts charging $10 for a cup of coffee and people start paying it, pretty soon they will charge $12 I think the correct answer is what many guys are doing, deciding the juice is not worth the squeeze.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/23 05:03 PM
1	The argument for being a player. Being a player is a craft and you should strive to be crafty. The big problem I always had with redpill is that you have to practice on real people to get better. Common advice is to go on 100s or 1000s of approaches until it feels natural or comfortable for you. Thing is.. that is 100s or 1000s of women who get unwanted, fumbling attempts at a pick up or a conversation when they are just going about their day. I also aware that there is a degree of fear when a strange man approaches you in public because guys are bigger and stronger than most women and fr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/23 04:55 PM
5	Being a passport bro isnt going to fix you're problems "I would also like to point out that women are not jealous of passport bros. There is nothing to be jealous of... these men are bottom of the barrel" ...Which is TOTALLY why there is a post about this subject nearly every day trying to hector and shame men against doing this. Women aren't worried about guys they don't want to date anyway doing this, they are worried that the idea might spread and take away some of their power in the dating marketplace. Non-conformity is a threat to the status qu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/23 02:19 PM
6	Being a passport bro isnt going to fix you're problems I didn't realize this until I traveled for work. I always thought it was me! There is something wrong with our culture and it's just so natural and easy elsewhere. I guess that is why red pill is popular? We have a broken, dysfunctional culture and red pill teaches you how to navigate in that culture often by acting in broken and dysfunctional ways like "negging" and things like that. I'd rather just go somewhere that you don't have to play stupid games and have normal and natural interactions w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/23 01:53 PM
5	Being a passport bro isnt going to fix you're problems The problem with this post is that the fundamental assumption is wrong. Guys don't have "problems" that they need to fix. They happen to have been born in a time and culture where dating is dysfunctional and broken and too many local women are highly narcissistic, masculine, overweight, picky and very poor choices for relationships. Passport Bros is guys waking up and realizing women aren't like that everywhere. And seriously.. 90 day fiancé? Reality TV is garbage and should not be ever seen as …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/23 01:42 PM
75	Men shouldn’t feel bad about women preferring“bad boys” over “good guys” because those women are not worth chasing in the first place This was sort of my red-pill moment even though I don't consider myself a red piller. My sister is a well adjusted woman who grew up in a middle class home, went to college, has a great job and family. Despite all of this, in her twenties she dated a series of losers and jerks and almost married one. When she was in her late 20s she married a great guy with a similar education and background and they started a family. The thing is, that I cannot shake is that she would have rejected my brother i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/23 01:21 PM