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persolvamor/r/RPChristians19/07/19 11:49 PM
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You have to decide what you want out of life and in your personal walk with Christ. What is your reasoning for desiring marriage? Marriage will not be easier than being single, however it does have its own rewards. You have to be ready to sacrifice self.
/r/RPChristians13/05/22 03:22 PM
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I have zero idea why you’d have a problem with him being a Trump supporter. Successful people are more classically liberal. Trump is bombastic, but the media is incredibly unfair to him.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/20 02:25 AM
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I’m not sure how much if any warning was given for today’s ban wave. But greater preparation might be wise given the increasingly hostile environment towards “wrongthink”. Just my two cents
/r/RPChristians30/06/20 04:23 AM
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I echo the thoughts expressed with respect to this subreddit. As much of the posts made here as possible need to be archived. It might be a good idea to start a Slack or discord channel as a backup too. I’d even say a Telegram channel might be preferable for some conversations given it’s higher degree of encryption.
/r/RPChristians30/06/20 04:03 AM
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For what it's worth, I think you answered the question of what is wrong. He's watching pornography and it's destroying your marriage. In my own experience, turning pornography is where I've gone when I didn't want to get "hurt" emotionally as twisted and illogical as that sounds. It's like an emotional scab from a battle wound. You just keep picking at it. He sounds like he's in the spectrum of emotional "depression". This doesn't mean he is suicidal, it more likely means he had just numbed hims…
/r/RPChristians17/03/20 03:58 AM
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I think you're getting downvoted since you don't actually offer much proof to your points. I would start by saying that women do a better job playing the part in Christian circles. This means that they have a better understanding of how to create responses from individuals that make them feel good about themselves. Women are much better at pleading to a group and receiving a sense of "welcoming back". Whether their "conversion" is genuine or not, this doesn't change the fact that women are signi…
/r/askRPC16/01/20 05:13 AM
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If you're religious, getting involved in some church service/volunteering opportunity would be a good starting point. Now if you're not religious, you might be able to find opportunities in more neutral environments. I agree dating apps are a challenge, but it isn't completely hopeless. It would be worth noting, more than half of relationships now start via the internet/dating apps. Where I would start is taking inventory of the various social settings you have, And it seems like you have alread…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/19 12:39 AM
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Thanks for the reply, applying my recent experiences, I think a statement that Red-Curious made was really eye opening, he said, But women follow the mindset: "If he's not a good leader over small things, he won't be a good leader over big things.". I think my biggest flaw in my most recent relationship was that I actively chose and believed the right mindset was, "what bothers me, I speak up, what does not, I acquiesce". This meant I never really demonstrated my true potential strength/leadersh…
/r/RPChristians24/07/19 02:04 AM
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Thanks for the comment, your response gives me some good tidbits to think about, however I have one main question. How do I respectfully call out behavior I don't like or maybe doesn't really bother me that much at the time but could be a problem in the future? I definitely struggled with this in my relationship that just ended. I sometimes have a challenge determining whether something actually bothers me or I am just in a bad mood, so I tend to hold back until I've determined it bothers me. Th…
/r/RPChristians23/07/19 01:25 AM
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If I've been doing anything wrong, it's certainly been not digging hard enough because I can sense that it was going to take time. Neither woman had ever been in an actual relationship before and were scared of being hurt. Ironic because they both broke up with me but very different situations.
/r/RPChristians20/07/19 01:48 PM
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One thing I forgot to mention, we go to the same church and are both part of the same small group of about 25 people with some shared friends. So I likely will be seeing her at least once a week so unless I ignore her, I'll be talking to her more often than two months from now. I would say your general prognosis is probably right, her friends told me that and in many words that's essentially what she said. Now even though it was more of a "not now", I really don't want to even give myself hope o…
/r/RPChristians20/07/19 11:06 AM
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Mission: Take on a role of leadership in my local church and use my gift of technology expertise. 5+yrs from now, raise a family. Stats: 21yrs old, 6'2", 165lbs, body fat unsure, under 14% for sure, lifting twice a week Reading: I've read nearly everything on the sidebar (I'd still like to fully define my mission in a more concrete way) 70k, software engineer, student loan aggressively being paid off I pray daily, strengthening personal relationship with Christ. Been actively in my faith for abo…
/r/RPChristians20/07/19 10:53 AM
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This was certainly true of my relationship that just ended, we we're doing so well until her mom got cancer and then it was just a disaster. I would say I was getting better at it naturally. But it's still a challenge because most of the male figures in my life abused that kind of power, it wasn't generally God glorified and only hurt everyone. I still really believe that kind of power should be welded carefully. If someone (girl) had spoken up to me earlier, I would have changed my behavior a b…
/r/RPChristians20/07/19 02:30 AM
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Pretty clear reason being that he is asking this on red pill Christian; most Christians believe you shouldn't have sex before you're married.
/r/RPChristians05/07/19 03:05 AM
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That's why you need a counselor so everyone can voice their concerns. Something has caused him to shut down and that channel needs to be opened back up again. This is less of a redpill issue, the sense I'm getting is that he's not communicating something on his end that he should be. This doesn't seem like your fault, I obviously don't know the situation but that's why my advice would be to pursue counseling.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/19 11:59 PM
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I would advise some kind of martial counseling. I think your issues could be solved with healthy communication, especially on his part.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/19 11:24 PM
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