person1369 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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5	Struggling I looked through your post history and it seems like you are still new in this relationship (4 months?). That could be part of the reason it's hard for you to accept what happening. You were in honeymoon stage with little responsibilities and now he has to be a full-time parents, bursting that love bubble (I'm assuming). I would advise working with your therapist on self-coping strategies so you can be less emotionally dependent and not internalizing other's struggles. Also, I would say that thi…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/06/22 03:56 PM
1	Trying to not feel ashamed by wanting to be a housewife. If you don't mind me asking, what is your daily life like as a child-free housewife?	/r/RedPillWomen	22/06/22 12:55 AM
1	What to do when your partner is in a heated situation? I don’t want to undermine his masculinity but I also really dislike this type of confrontation. If it looks like you're partner is about to fight, just calmly try to take them to the side and ask them to calm down cause it makes you feel unsafe. I always thought of it as the job of the other partner to deescalate situations. Especially something like road rage where you have no clue what the other guy will do/your man can go to jail for fighting. You don't have to get between the two and yell at them, but you could say "hey, babe can you look at this" and then express how you feel. However…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/06/22 03:27 AM
6	Your husband comes before your children. Almost always. 1.) But you're arguing the case for why your husband should be the center of your universe if you want your marriage to survive. That's a charged statement with little room for interpretation. Unless you're being metaphorical and meant when you're with your husband treat him like the center of your universe, which is different. I'm explaining that your word choice is causing some people to push back on what you're saying. For example, with your parent's tea time. You said they would cancel if th…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/05/22 02:29 AM
4	Your husband comes before your children. Almost always. I think the issue is how hyperbolic "number one priority" and "center of universe" is. I think your husband should be a priority, but not number one above all else. If it came between saving my kids or my husband, I will save my kids every time and expect my husband to do the same. That wouldn't be the case if he was the center of my universe. I'll prioritize my husband's wants over my kids' (most of the time) and my kids' needs over my husband's (most of the time). And sometimes I'll prioritize…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/05/22 12:43 AM
2	hitting the wall and settling for mr wrong I can say as someone who has an immature, abusive father. It is way better to not have one. The crap that he'll put you and your kid through will haunt them. If he's how you say he is, he will not be a good father and probably will be either a physically or emotionally absentee dad. With a sperm donation your kid will probably have a fleeting thought of "I wonder who my dad is and where I came from" vs a life time of "why was I not good enough for him".	/r/RedPillWomen	09/04/22 11:40 PM
2	Dilemma with fiancé I'm assuming based on her saying they were in a relationship on and off for two years, she doesn't actually consider them married right now but engaged (and having sex), and having premaritial sex that they aren't strict conservative Muslims. She wouldn't have been dating him in the first place if they were, and definitely wouldn't be on reddit sharing these things about her relationship. Just to clarify, none of these things are bad. I'm well aware of the cultural difference that exists, but sh…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/03/22 11:32 PM
13	Dilemma with fiancé First, if you don't feel certain or safe in the relationship, do not marry him. You should have felt that before the engagement. I think your fiancé was being blunt with the find a solution or divorce because difference in libido is a legit reason couples divorce. Second, I think you could be blowing the sex drive thing out of proportion. It's better to calmly communicate what's bothering you about it to him. Is it you're just sexually frustrated? Possible solutions: he gives oral, you mustrubat…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/03/22 05:29 AM
2	Should I Stay Or Should I Go? I think it depends on how much effort you want to put in to making the relationship work and what's most important to you in a relationship. First, do you even feel sexual attraction? It could be you're on the spectrum of asexuality or have a low libido. Second, is sex important to you and strong sexual desire something that's important to you in the relationship. Either way, you need to talk to your partner about how you feel cause you not showing desire without explaining what you're going thr…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/01/22 11:26 PM
12	Young woman in a blue pill house hold, interested in taking the red pill. So the problem is that RPW is not political, which is why some people have a problem with you asking here. Red pill ≠ right wing, blue pill ≠ left wing. Blue pill actually has to do with men feeling oppressed by women. There is a big difference between being conservative socially and conservative politically and you're assuming this is a politically conservative subreddit. If you believe in right-wing things, that's fine. If your family are mostly centralist with some left-wing ideology, I doubt…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/01/22 06:07 PM