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I wouldn't eat on the first date. Its expensive, feels too formal, and it means you are committed to spending time together for an hour or so.
/r/askTRP25/05/19 03:57 PM
0

Set the bar lower and lower. Stop playing video games from 6pm till 7pm every day. Thats all. Then 2 hours. Or 1 day a week. Keep escalating.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 10:01 PM
1

I never invite myself to their place - not saying it doesn't work, I just can't offer advice on that particular angle. But why don't you just invite her for a drink at pub_near_your_place and then go back to yoir place after?
/r/askTRP21/05/19 04:04 PM
1

Sounds like you are being to overt. Although you question is worded awfully so I cant offer more than that
/r/askTRP12/05/19 11:44 AM
2

First of all, all the info you need is in the main trp sidebar (and asktrp sidebar). You need to lift and have a good diet. I was a skinny bastard and put on 10kg in a year. Not loads, but achievable. I'm no a model now but i like my body. Having a better body helps. Be interesting. You so this by actually having an interesting life - not by learning some conversational tricks. Get some new hobbies. Learn to rock climb. Go to another country for a weekend. Read books. Then, when someone asks wha…
/r/askTRP12/05/19 10:34 AM
2

To answer the actual question - I wouldn't worry about changing your behaviour, what you did was fine. Pretty simple and useful thing to move your car. But you are right, you were operating in his frame. Sometimes its ok.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 10:27 AM
1

I have read receipts on, so they can also so when im last online. I actually just open whatsapp like once a day and dont chexk all the messages
/r/askTRP10/05/19 11:20 AM
2

Should of just Agreed and amplified both. "0, I was actually a virgin before tonight."
/r/askTRP10/05/19 06:57 AM
1

Approaching a girl you want to put your dick in is difficult - dont start there. Talk to the cashier slightly more than you would normally. Then strike up a conversation with some old dude . Then some gross women. Then fitties.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 12:33 PM
32

Give her lots and lots of attention and if she doesn't give you sex give her some more attention. No. Up your smv until she wants to gobble up your sperm of her own volition.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/19 12:47 PM
2

It takes time to click. And I think to some extent you are right - its a lot to think about. And at first, it will feel like you are overthinking things (which you probably are; but rp overthinking is better than blue pill programming). Just pick a couple things to focus on and then gradually expand. In general, that means lift, approach, and focus on improving yourself.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 10:36 AM
2

Money can drop panties but it won't make them wet
/r/askTRP30/04/19 08:47 AM
1

Alpha fux
/r/askTRP25/04/19 10:46 AM
1

Dunno. Lots of things in the world aren't the way i want them to be. I don't let them depress me. So why should the true nature of relationships depress me? It is what it is.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 12:26 PM
1

This is what I do also
/r/askTRP18/04/19 09:34 AM
3

Lift dude...
/r/askTRP06/04/19 01:00 PM
3

Ignoring her is kind if a bitch move imo. You broke frame and acted like a butthurt child. For an ltr, who is vetted, and nornally respectful - id give a bit of a chance if something came up. Shit happens you know; on the rare occasion everyone is late. I would of still called her out and enjoyed the evening "we arranged to meet at 8, if that doesn't work for you you should let me know". She should apologise at this point if the foundations are correct - and in the future she won't do it. Need t…
/r/askTRP30/03/19 07:55 PM
1

Yea difficult one. Normally, there would be at least like a 1pct chance that I would maybe be interested in that; so i wouldn't feel too guilty saying something like "thats moving way too quick I'm just enjoying how things are now" and if she pushes just "we will see". But yea basically non commital. I think if she was obviously infatuated with me I might be a bit more overt and say "im not looking for a relationship" - this would risk breaking the plate, but also hurt her less.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 11:46 AM
1

I read amoral as "you figure out the morality" rather than "immoral". But yea I struggle with it also. At the end of the day if you are a high value male, women will be disappointed if they can't lock you down. I think all you can do is be honest (within the bounds of your ability to pull and stop plates from breaking). I don't lie to plates, but I don't tell them I will never date them either. I'm kind of ok with that.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 04:41 PM
1

I feel what you are feeling sometimes. I think its because I try to hold myself to a high standard - I get one life, I want to live deliberately and exhibit a set of traits that I deem desirable; one of which is to not hurt other people. Would a women try to hurt me? Or course. But why the fuck would I use that as my benchmark? I'll try to not hurt them if I can. You geel guilty because you have the potential to cause pain, which is understandable. I don't have a solution.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 12:48 AM
7

Start easy and then get harder. Talk to the cashier, ask them about their day or whatever. Then talk to a random guy on the the tube or park bench or whatever. Then talk to ugly girls. Then talk to hotties. Aim low and then once you have achieved it move the bar.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 12:54 PM
4

She offered to reschedule so i would have accepted with "I can do Thursday evening" or whatever date you are free; don't be too available - you are a busy man. Trouble is you now put the ball in her court which you don't want to do. Now she has to lead. Which she doesn't want to do. And as a fellow red pill gent, you also don't want her to be leading right? I would now just wait and see if she texts. If shes doesnt, in a week or 2 just message "still dying?"
/r/askTRP22/03/19 09:58 AM
1

Difficult to say. Maybe she isn't interested; as interested girls wouldn't bring it up. Maybe she is; and she just wants to shift responsibility for her potential infedility onto you.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 04:56 PM
4

Being rich might drop panties but it won't make them wet.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 08:56 AM
1

Looks aren't the be all and end all. SMV is a difficulty setting. If your smv is higher then its easier. Looks are just 1 part of smv. Work on everything in the sidebar . And lift. No excuses to be honest. I am capable of hitting the gym 4 times a week, and studying, and reading, and playing sport, and working, and seeing friends and plates. There is plenty of time in the week if you stop wasting time and become more efficient.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 08:55 AM
7

Great analogy. Maximise your odds. But even with pocket aces you can still lose. One time I was gaming a girl, everything went perfect. Text book stuff, push/pull, kino, etc etc. Even got lucky with social proof as I knew the bar tender and he brought over some shots. She had her legs over me at one point. Tried to kiss her 2 or 3 times but no luck. Still no idea why. Sometimes you just lose. But if you play enough hands you are bound to win eventually.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/19 07:39 AM
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Lol. For me they are a tad tight around the arse. Doubt they are game breakers tho. If it suits your style then keep em.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 08:37 AM
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I think its fine. As long as you have your own style and are prepared to ignore their opinions if you disagree. Women are pretty good at this type of thing, turns out they spend a lot of time thinking about how people look. Just hold frame.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 11:34 AM
1

I thinj its fine tbh. You could always get a new dentist. "Soooo, I might have some more questions about flossing techniques, whats your number" with slight shit eating grin
/r/askTRP16/02/19 11:27 AM
1

Most of it has been said. But also hang out with witty funny people.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 08:56 AM
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I usually say "17 but I have a fake id". I look young. Gets laughs. And gets bjs.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 03:02 PM
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Ignore it. If she sends you any text you don't like or doesnt interest you - ignore it.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 10:13 PM
1

Eh. Not really. Be more covert.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 02:35 PM
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So. I actually get ridiculed for my dancing quite a lot lol. Arguably its just a shit test. (Although I am indeed shit). But I dont really care and they still end up on my dick cus I just have fun with it.
/r/askTRP09/02/19 11:32 AM
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"You nust be cold". Easy approach.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 09:35 AM
4

Approach men. Then old ugly women. And then more attractive women.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 07:32 AM
1

Just go if you want to go and can afford it. It will probably be a fun evening if you enjoy his work. It won't make or break you in terms or yoir rp journey.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 07:26 AM
1

Thanks this is useful to think about.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 10:29 PM
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Thanks for the response. She has been asking for a while now, and I have been saying no/being vague. Now my position has changed and I feel she is good ltr material. So you think I should wait for her to bring it up? And then what? I appreciated wanting an ltr is not very rp - but it is what I want, and want to do it in the best way possible.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 04:26 PM
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I think its weak. Even though you said it, you are kinda putting it on her to agree and then make the move on you. Better to just try to kiss her when you are feeling it. Don't get verbal permission.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 08:36 AM
4

Personally don't like this. Too overt.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 08:35 AM
2

Np. Search for escalation ladder and apply same principles to sex.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 06:38 PM
3

Gentle holding hands/arms above their head. Then doing it hard. Then doing it one handed and holding their head near the base of their hair. Then pulling hair. Resting hand on neck. Then squeezing a little. Same as ASL really, 2 steps forward 1 step back. If she enjoyed it, escalate, if not slow down. Something like that.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 04:48 PM
10

Not a guru: I'd just arrange for a drink at the pub and then after a drink or 2 go to yours to hang/chill/cocktails/mario kart/food. Or skip that and say you will cook, and she can help. And then cook something you are good at or make pizzas from scratch or sumin. Good for kino and being assertive telling her what to do etc.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 11:10 PM
2

Whats OI?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/19 03:41 PM
9

It sounds like you are just looking for some good friends? I moved from a small town to a big city and then started playing casual sports and going to networking events. Apps like meetup are good. Take the lead and ask cool peopke to hangout other times
/r/askTRP16/01/19 11:25 PM
1

2 to 3 ratio
/r/askTRP02/01/19 01:18 PM
3

This
/r/askTRP06/12/18 11:20 PM
1

Well done mate. Careful with those jonnys, ive heard you can become gradually more immune to them, and then if you dont use them you become hyper sensitive. Theres info out there for lasting longer (breathing etc)
/r/askTRP06/12/18 10:38 PM
2

Personally, i tend to arrange a date for 3-9 days ish from when I message the girl. After that i don't initiate contact and reply slowly. On the day of the date, I text to change the time forward or backwards by half an hour - that way you can check she isn't flaking without looking like you are checking up on her.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 04:08 PM
1

I don't use social media, give me your phone number hands over phone
/r/askTRP28/11/18 09:39 AM
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Ignore her. Do something else. If she gets back to you tell her you made other plans.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 10:22 AM
2

I honestly find 1 or 2 to be the best. I know trp says having 1 plate is not a plate, but I know if it breaks I can find another easily so for me its fine.. Personally I only want to spend 1, maybe 2 nights a week with a girl. I find most girls want to see me at least once a week, and when they have to wait they are more likely to break. Soooo for me the ideal number of plates is equal to the number of nights a week I want to see a girl.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 01:29 PM
1

Dont use extended pleasure cobdoms. You will become dependent on them and cum even quicker without then.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 12:53 PM
1

Yea I'm similar to you. A lot of people are. And by similar I mean interested in deeper topics - but btw none of us are on the level of musk etc... But chit chat is a requirement. And actually, i learned to love it with girls. They are so surface level and silly, I find it relaxing. I read a lot and discuss big ideas with my work colleagues and lunch. After a long week I actually really like listening to a plate talk about unimportant stuff. Its kind of weird. I don't actually care about what sh…
/r/askTRP14/11/18 10:46 AM
1

I had a girl who would scratch me. I just pin her arms down. Although, annoyingly, that conditions her yo scratch me because she being pinned... Sooooo basically i just pin her the whole time
/r/askTRP14/11/18 10:35 AM
1

Try putting lube inside the jonny
/r/askTRP14/11/18 09:58 AM
1

Haven't read the whole thread. Gym membership isna good way to spend savings if you are homeless. 247 acess to showers and water. Plus, you know, lift.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 09:57 AM
2

Dude. I'm the first to admit that this sub too readily offers "read the sidebar" as advice. But jesus, "how to get a fwb" is arguably the entire point of the sub. Read asktrp and trp sidebar.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 09:52 AM
1

Maybe search trp for covert communication as a starting point
/r/askTRP14/11/18 09:47 AM
1

Use your i initiative. The rule is a guide not an absolute. Its to try to stop you from pussying out to early. Its not approach and stay by her side for the next 2 hours. Having said that, sometimes I will leave quite early if I can feel the trajectory of the convo dipping. Better to leave while the conversation is good than when its bad. Leaves her wanting more and not seeing you as a werido. If the convo goes cold thats bad. If you leave because you were scared thats bad. I think its kinda nua…
/r/askTRP11/11/18 03:31 PM
1

Don't do this you need to communicate covertly
/r/askTRP11/11/18 03:27 PM
22

Reply with "my dog ate it"
/r/askTRP09/11/18 10:50 AM
22

Yea, because dropping tablets into a drink will be less suspicious
/r/askTRP08/11/18 09:32 PM
12

What is Jupiter in mercury retrograde?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/18 10:06 AM
236

Do not explain yourself. Tbh agree and amplify might be the best. Tell her you are a high wizard of the patriarchy and looking for a new Tuesday sandwhich maker.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 11:48 AM
2

He pulled INSPITE of calling her beautiful not BECAUSE of it.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 09:48 AM
2

10/10
/r/askTRP01/11/18 04:49 PM
2

"Engaging" seems like a strange choice of word, I'm going to ignore it, but if that is actually what you want ignore my comment. I don't think you neeeeed games to nake mingling happen. That is partly you role as host, when new people arrive introduce them to each other (good for social proof also). Games can be good, I usually stick to basic drinking games and beer pong. They are another good way to get people talking, but its up to you as host to herd the cattle.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 09:43 AM
2

Personally I don't make backup plans. I make the plan "lets meet at 8". At 6ish or whenever I'll say actually 8.30. Then she will confirm (without me doing a "hey you are still coming right?" text). Or if she flakes I'll go to the gym or read or something. Personally don't feel the need tp have to absolutely be doing something on a Friday night.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 12:37 PM
2

I agree its not super high as you would of moved the world to make something happen. I don't think her interest is super low tho, she doesn't have to say "another time". Girls leave that out when they really aren't interested imo
/r/askTRP18/10/18 12:43 PM
1

Those are two very different goals - for the former, read on the commute (or audio books if you drive).
/r/askTRP12/10/18 02:06 PM
1

I'm kinda like you. Trp teaches to spin plates; but thats really to teach abundance I think. Personally I just have 1 (maybe 2) "plates" and then get a new one when they break. I'm happy seeing them once a week and having 4 plates who get to see me once a month is too much for me personally.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 02:01 PM
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No. It absolutely isn't useless for ugly guys. A bp ugly guy might get 1 or 2 hb4 girls. The same guy but rp could get lots of 5,6,7 girls. Looks are a factor. But you can manipulate looks a bit with lifting and fashion. Sure you might never bang a ten. But its still worth maximising your odds.
/r/askTRP29/09/18 10:20 PM
1

Hey I used to be like you, but I got better. It was hard and am from perfect. I used to describe myself as introverted. Now my friends and girls would never ever describe me like that. Its possible to change. It takes time. And hard work. Failing is a mandatory pre requisite to become the person you want to to be. Being bad a socialising precedes being good. So practice. Talk to everyone. If you normally don't speak to the cashier say
/r/askTRP27/09/18 07:57 PM
1

I like this. I think you need both. Part of trp could be considered product development and part could be considered marketing. Both are important. Although eventually if you transform your product (you) to be great enough - it will sell itself.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 11:05 AM
1

You sound like you have a rich and fulfilling life so I wouldnt worry about it. You don't need a tick in every box but I guess these things are good for people starting out. If you are really keen tho, maybe a variant of one of your current hobbies? Book a gig in a different country or something?
/r/askTRP24/09/18 07:10 AM
6

You really don't need it
/r/askTRP24/09/18 06:51 AM
1

Should of kissed instead of hugged then escalated more
/r/askTRP23/09/18 09:17 AM
3

This was a good read, so thanks op I will try to apply. However, it seems to conflict some of my learnings regarding covert communication rather than overt. Is anyone able to reconcile that for me?
/r/TheRedPill22/09/18 09:55 PM
5

Agree. Happiness = reality - expectations
/r/askTRP15/09/18 06:06 AM
1

Some beta cuck will buy it at whatever price purely for the thrill of being on her presence for a few moments. You both did the right thing imo. She will get more money from someone else, you will find it cheaper from someone else.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 07:20 AM
2

Bros before hoes
/r/askTRP14/09/18 07:17 AM
2

Sounds like you are chasing her a bit now. Id stop texting and maybe she will message you in a few weeks. Your turn might be over tho.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 06:27 AM
1

Dude shes obviously dtf. You should take your chances with waaaay subtler signals than this as well.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 12:19 PM
1

Pretty new to trp myself - but I think its a rule that you can apply to force yourself to overcome adversity. I.e she says she has a boyfriend, apply the rule, you a forced to stay and come up with a response. Having said that, personally, i think its better to leave on a good note rather than hanging around and forcing conversation. In an ideal world you close there and then, but in the past if the convo feels like its simmering down I just to number close and rearrange. Would be interested to …
/r/askTRP08/09/18 04:53 PM
1

If it was me I'd go and plan an exit. Then you can hit on her friends and leave after an hour to see your friends or something.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 09:32 PM
1

Shes getting fucked in the ass
/r/askTRP07/09/18 01:01 PM
1

Just practice more you will get better. Talk to everyone. Cashiers etc. You will still nake mistakes. Mistakes are a necessary pre requisite for improving.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 08:30 AM
1

Shes getting fucked in the ass
/r/askTRP07/09/18 08:13 AM
1

10 is a lot imo. Id say 2-5
/r/askTRP07/09/18 08:10 AM
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Yea you probably look better now. My ex ltr used to say she didn't like guys with msucle when I started hitting the gym
/r/askTRP07/09/18 07:59 AM
8

I use them. Just use sparingly or less than her. Maybe the 2/3 rule can be applied to emoji usage
/r/askTRP03/09/18 09:37 AM
1

Hmm ok thanks for your thoughts. But to confirm, you would really just keep trying to kiss her? Does that not just come across as needy? "Keep trying to kiss her until she leaves"? Thanks for you ideas r.e smv, its a nice way to think about it and reinforce the idea that I'm the prize.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 03:03 PM
1

The problem with social media is that you end up comparing everyone elses highlights real to your behind the scenes.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 07:27 AM
2

Thanks for the comment - and yes, to blow my own trumpet, I am also proud that I persisted after initial rejection. Although as food for thought, i think its difficult to balance persistence and indifference. Yea I'm not going to message, if she hits me up great, if not, there are others birdies which is also great :)
/r/askTRP16/08/18 07:17 AM
1

Wow first method sounds risky as fuck (no hate just saying! Fair play if it works for you). With hindsight; would of been pretty rapey with this girl as she wasn't into me? I normally put ny hand on their face to turn/guide their head. Hmm interesting. Maybe the 'moment' could of been more ideal. I'll contemplate on that one. By the same token even if the vibe/moment isn't perfect I still want to try (better to get kiss rejection than not try right?) I dunno man. Why did she let me have my hands…
/r/askTRP16/08/18 07:15 AM
1

Well I acted unphased by her rejection and then tried again. Yea not going to message her but if she reaches out then maybe we will meet up. Dont want to waste my time tho.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 07:09 AM
1

Hope it goes/went well. Let us know the story!
/r/askTRP16/08/18 07:07 AM
1

Hey thanka for taking the time to comment. I think you are right, whilst I'm new to trp I couldn't think of anything I did "wrong". I think I could be more outcome independent. I have a busy life, sucks to waste an evening. I can deal with rejection, hell, sometimes I like it for the personal growth - but I know I am still disappointed inside. So thanks, ill work on it.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 07:27 PM
1

Hey thanks for your thoughts. I just wanted to post to either reaffirm my learning or course correct. Meeting a girl next week hb7 (this post was hb8 at least, tbh hb9 in my books). I'll play it the same, hopefully the gods rule in my favor. Cheers bro.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 07:24 PM
1

Shes getting fucked in the ass
/r/askTRP14/08/18 08:40 AM
1

Shes getting fucked in the ass
/r/askTRP14/08/18 08:32 AM
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Theres a quote which I can paraphrase (badly), i believe the original context was the societal level, but for me I think about it for my individual life as well. "Good times make weak men, weak men make bad times, bad times make strong men". It will make you stronger. Dragging your ass to the gym when you don't want to go is more of an achievement than going because you enjoy it.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 08:17 AM
1

Honestly getting rejected helps my confidence massively. Makes me realise I don't care what over people think of me - I'm happy with who I am. Paradoxically as soon as I'm making progress with a girl or even when shes chasing me, my coincidence can wane.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 08:05 AM
2

Yo - what you need to do is text her an hour or so before saying your are running 15 minutes late, if she replies all good and you don't look needy
/r/askTRP13/08/18 07:21 AM
1

maybe I'm completely misremembering, but isn't one of the iron rules to always conceal your true intentions? How should I interpret/reconcile these conflicting ideas?
/r/askTRP13/08/18 07:17 AM
2

Personally, if its me, I put something like, "last night was fun, I'm pretty busy over the next few days but lets grab a drink on [day]"
/r/askTRP12/08/18 02:10 PM
2

Shes getting fucked in the ass
/r/askTRP12/08/18 08:39 AM
1

Thanks, I appreciate the advice :) I have read the sidebar but obviously haven't remembered all of it. Did you have a section in mind?
/r/askTRP09/08/18 07:25 PM
1

Appreciate the advice. I'm capable of closing, have done in the past, but am still learning. Jist trying to maximise my odds; and having learnt about social prood I thought it could br a viable plan. But thansk :)
/r/askTRP09/08/18 07:24 PM
1

I don't use sm but ty for your thoughts. If I don't use sm then I cant flaunt social proof before closing?
/r/askTRP09/08/18 01:28 PM
0

Nah defo not scared (not a brag just saying). However I do think trying to bang on second date rather than first might be more succesful. Just a theory. Reason in this case is that we spoke (when we met as a grouo) about a particular venue which is bad logistics. I think maybe I'll meet her near my house, and then go for group meet after I closed.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 01:27 PM
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He's fucking her in the ass.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 11:11 AM
2

r/bodybuilding
/r/askTRP09/08/18 08:16 AM
1

This one.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 08:16 AM
1

Attraction is not negotiable. The only way you csn bang her again is to build yourself into a mountain, ignore her, fuck other girls, and hope she comes running back. You absolutely can not negotiate attraction.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 07:46 AM
2

Shes bored. Your texts entertain her. She doesn't want to fuck you, she wants to finger herself over your writing. Tbh all of what you have done is wrong. Read the side bar. Text for logistics.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 07:44 AM
3

Search escalation ladder
/r/askTRP09/08/18 05:19 AM
1

Awesome let me know when its up!
/r/askTRP06/08/18 07:59 AM
1

Maybe you are doing something wrong on the dates? Do you escalate?
/r/askTRP04/08/18 08:47 AM
3

Just do it lol...
/r/askTRP03/08/18 12:26 PM
1

Hard to say because each context is different. However I firmly agree that you can't build attraction over text. Also, I have a hunch that you are showing a lack of abundance mentality - personally wether its tinder, or someone I met irl, I ask by message 2 to 4.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 11:58 AM
4

This is a weird convo. Only text for logistics
/r/askTRP03/08/18 07:02 AM
1

Thanks for sharing; very interesting read. I think you should paste it as a thread I would be interested to hear more of the subs opinion on your story :) from the sounds of it you hit a perfect mix of alpha and beta traits for a ltr
/r/askTRP03/08/18 04:59 AM
2

Hey - I'd he really interested in how you got into a one way open relationship; or if you have links to any material :)
/r/askTRP02/08/18 07:10 AM
1

Start small. Make your goal to not fap on Saturday. Then the weekend. Then the whole week. Do it by the hour if its too hard. Start small and grow.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 07:07 AM
17

Sleep properly. Charge your phone somewhere other than your bedroom if you go on it instead of sleeping. Get good at talking to low value men. Then high value men. Then low value women. Then high value women. Read how to win friends and influence people. You get better by practising. A lot. Not reading theory alone. Try saying an extra something to the cashier that you normally wouldnt. Lifting gives you energy (paradoxically)
/r/askTRP01/08/18 09:08 AM
7

Hey im a bit of a TRP noob - isn't telling the girl that she is flakey poor frame plus lack of abundance? Happy to hear why I might be wrong
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 10:27 PM
2

When I get this I say something like 'yea im actually 17 buts its cool I have a fake id'
/r/askTRP27/07/18 12:11 PM
1

Yea i know I slipped up on number 1 (relatively new to trp). Frame was imperfect...lesson learned hopefully On point number 2, I do have other girls, but is it still wrong to try to work out the best strategy for this new girl? Edit: ty for your thoughts
/r/askTRP10/07/18 01:02 PM
2

For me talking to men and or older women; basically anyone who I wasn't interested in sexually. Strike up convos with thise people, then move on to hb5s and up.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 06:59 AM
5

Decide what you want from you life. Think about it, decide what the best life for YOU is. Then aim at it. Better to fail at something you want toa achieve than choose some random easy option. Plus, you might just find you succeed.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 10:58 AM
2

Why not 2? For me its my goto and seems to work
/r/askTRP29/06/18 07:19 AM
1

Checkout r/bodybuilding
/r/askTRP19/06/18 06:31 PM
2

Well. That seems like a conclusive concensus. Ty. Is the idea that it would cause drama therefore bad?
/r/askTRP13/06/18 11:54 AM
9

I would read how to win friends and influence people + another which i forget the name, something like '92 ways to talk'
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 05:45 AM
6

I agree with this. Perfect your deadlift form with light weights high reps. Up the weight and lower the reps as you feel more confident. This is literally how to strengthen your back muscles so its hurts less. Worked for me anyway.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/18 10:11 AM
2

I get it too. Not as bad from the sounds of it. But I'll make incredible progress - like, I can actually fucking talk to girls now (which already sounds lame that its even an achievement). I even fucked a girl from tinder (I know, hold your praise). Anyway, I'm proud of the progress im making even if I have far to go BUT even then, I'll still feel like shit for tiny stupid things like a girl taking a long time to message me or making mistakes in my game. Anyway man, typing that out actually help…
/r/askTRP29/05/18 09:17 PM
1

I only scan read this, tbh I only really read the title. But I think I know what you mean. Try to distinguish logical thinking from emotional thinking.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 07:29 PM
2

Its also to do with 'delayed gratification'. In general its easier to do things that ere definitely good right now than maybe better later. Working out is effort over being ripped eventually. Approaching is scary over maybe getting laid later. Jordan Peterson wrote about it. Resonates with me.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 04:40 PM
1

Read the nearly almost perfect people.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 05:22 AM
22

I am only halfway through the book - how does that quote relate?
/r/TheRedPill22/04/18 05:15 PM
2

I am more than capable of approaching a girl on her own. The idea of approaching groups feels like a completely different ball game. Any advice or recommended reading?
/r/TheRedPill28/02/18 05:49 PM
2

Check out r/tressless and take fin
/r/askTRP03/01/18 02:15 PM
1

Thanks - most of this info starts from a paradigm whereby the initial meet was digital. What about for follow ups of an in person first approach? Same rules?
/r/askTRP10/11/17 01:32 PM
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