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personadabes/r/askTRP07/03/19 09:24 AM
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personadabes/r/askTRP07/01/19 05:34 AM
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personadabes/r/askTRP02/01/19 06:10 AM
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personadabes/r/askTRP29/11/18 11:01 AM
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personadabes/r/askTRP04/01/19 04:45 AM
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personadabes/r/askTRP20/10/18 02:11 PM
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personadabes/r/askTRP12/12/18 10:00 PM
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personadabes/r/askTRP27/11/18 10:41 AM
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personadabes/r/askTRP04/12/18 02:12 AM
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personadabes/r/askTRP27/11/18 10:22 PM
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personadabes/r/askTRP02/05/20 09:27 PM
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Questionpersonadabes/r/MensRights15/04/15 08:24 PM
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personadabes/r/askTRP27/03/19 07:32 AM
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personadabes/r/askTRP24/10/18 10:58 PM
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personadabes/r/askTRP19/02/19 03:23 AM
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personadabes/r/askTRP03/01/19 08:49 PM
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personadabes/r/askTRP28/11/18 12:08 AM
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personadabes/r/askTRP28/01/19 10:51 AM
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personadabes/r/askTRP14/01/19 08:32 AM
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fake story, lame ass
/r/askTRP27/03/19 06:26 PM
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yeah and it's against what you're saying: My go-to advice for how to deal with shit tests are as follows: Agree & amplify (to absurdity) Change the subject Ignore her shit test completely Pressure Flip The Nuclear Option (reserved for women who aren't flirting and are giving shit tests because they're deliberately trying to tool you, or worse) Command respect
/r/askTRP27/03/19 07:46 AM
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what would you respond then specifically?
/r/askTRP27/03/19 07:41 AM
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None of this is true, they find security in control due to their dysregulated emotions, they have a poor sense of boundaries, so anyone with a 'high' sense of self scares them, at first they mirror them and go into an idealization stage, however the devalue and discard stage is always eminent, no matter how 'alpha' you seem, unless you fit into their loose boundaries to fulfil their hunger, which I'm not sure why you would want to do that.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 11:51 PM
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she's attractive
/r/askTRP28/01/19 11:55 AM
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Noetic polarity forms all Will. Be careful citing Freud and hysteria, long refuted psychoanalysis. Read Lacan. I agree with you in principle though. How do you believe you should act to the mystery optics of any conflict or situation with women? For example... a woman wants you to react to them so they play games with you, or they want comfort/care but find it disgusting when you give them it because of their mental condition. There's a paradox here that makes you not know how to act. What would…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/19 06:45 AM
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what should the conversation after that be? just normal talk?
/r/askTRP14/01/19 12:00 PM
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approaching '500' women at college will get you a reputation.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 11:20 PM
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read 30 pages, it was so boring
/r/askTRP09/01/19 05:18 AM
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which section in particular?
/r/askTRP08/01/19 10:24 PM
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What do you define as 'bad boy'? You mean a man with charisma and confidence?
/r/askTRP07/01/19 11:42 AM
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What if you were in 'love' with her?
/r/askTRP07/01/19 09:31 AM
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I don't want to have to worry that I'm being manipulated. It causes me to have unfounded judgement. I've never mimicked qualities a girl wanted. I've always been authentic so I might unconsciously be 'supplicating' but in reality it's how I feel. How would you do so from your own frame? For example, if a girl tells you she is 'suicidal'?
/r/askTRP07/01/19 08:10 AM
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and what should those 'guns' be? i keep thinking the manipulation is authenticity and that they actually desire comfort and kindness.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 07:27 AM
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I directly pursued a girl after she not only dropped hints but outright said she wanted to date me and it feels like I gave her power through my kindness, now I'm left wondering 'how to act'. She said she was suicidal so I just gave her comfort and told her not to listen to her fears and worries since she kept saying insecure shit. How should I of acted?
/r/askTRP07/01/19 07:22 AM
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what 'fun' are they looking for?
/r/askTRP07/01/19 06:24 AM
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what do you mean by 'strong' and why does being nice counter that strength?
/r/askTRP07/01/19 06:24 AM
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how is showing how vulnerable you are a way to 'dominate' exactly? i sense that but i'm curious.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 05:52 AM
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no fap bullshit
/r/askTRP07/01/19 05:49 AM
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it's not personal, theyre crazy
/r/askTRP04/01/19 06:47 AM
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I'd have to see what you look like and what you offer in order to judge why
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/19 06:03 AM
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If it's the latter, I don't know why she bothered pursuing me and telling me she was into me. She did all that just to be emotionally unavailable at the best parts, it is stupid. I don't want to tell her as she's ignoring me and i'll look desperate
/r/askTRP04/01/19 06:01 AM
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Do you type that much to the men who are loving towards you? Be honest with yourself here, it must be a pattern
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/19 05:44 AM
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she said she was falling for me, and we were talking casually then she tells me how shes depressed and cant handle 'feelings' then left. i dont know how to respond to that. not the first time a girl has done this
/r/askTRP04/01/19 05:20 AM
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they closed the door but their attention whoring shows me that they want me to do something in order for them to open it. i know why you think men should stay away from mentally ill women, but in this year it's all too common and the fast ride is much more interesting than the slow one.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 08:57 AM
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they always burn. why do you think you can escape it just by cutting them off completely? might as well make them handy and put them in rotation.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 08:07 AM
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She kept saying how much she was into me and we spoke about dating and then she tells me like she usually does how she's feeling like she's in a 'horrible place', but refused to tell me why this time, and then she kept tweeting 'Show me your cuteness in a traumatizing way' and shit like that to get my attention.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 08:06 AM
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i like what she offers to me. all women have a degree of darkness in them, and the nice ones are usually boring in personality.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 07:51 AM
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Do these sorts of girls usually come back? Pretty sure she's got BPD.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 07:40 AM
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you're right. i thought this originally, but i second guessed myself because they keep liking tweets insinuating that i do just that...trying to get my attention. i haven't reacted to it.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 07:30 AM
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I have been doing that. It doesn't sit right with my spirit that they did that and they did cryptically say they want me to say 'no' to them essentially, so this could be a blessing in disguise. You still that I should let it go?
/r/askTRP02/01/19 06:21 AM
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ltr
/r/askTRP12/12/18 10:33 PM
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it's not common to use texting for logistics only, especially in the age of social media, you have to be able to hold a conversation in text.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 10:14 PM
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You're right, but a bit of validation and care can go along way for an insecure girl, don't you think? Sure you can focus on other girls whilst doing this, no problem
/r/askTRP04/12/18 02:43 AM
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Could genuinely be protective on her side
/r/askTRP04/12/18 02:35 AM
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If you pull away at the disrespect, they might be too anxious to double text you because they feel like you hate them, so you lose them. The newfound feeling of love might be heavy on them so they might self-sabotage to lose it. Of course we can all walk away but that's easy mode. How do you think you should essentially pull them back in your frame after they've been gone for a week?
/r/askTRP28/11/18 07:41 AM
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that's giving up too easy. there's something that prevents her from talking to me so I should alleviate this somehow
/r/askTRP28/11/18 12:58 AM
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What advice do you have for me? I can tone it down and 'quarantine' them but I think this is necessary first.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 12:52 AM
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nexting.... you shouldn't give up that easy
/r/askTRP28/11/18 12:36 AM
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where can i read about this?
/r/askTRP27/11/18 11:15 PM
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how can i flip this then
/r/askTRP27/11/18 01:03 PM
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they might be too awkward to reply and they said they were feeling depressed. they also might be deliberately trying to forget me due to feelings of insecurity.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 12:53 PM
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so what should i say to her?
/r/askTRP27/11/18 12:29 PM
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not even in the same country. she was interesting at first and she's very attractive and she wants to visit here later on so that's why i'm pursuing
/r/askTRP24/10/18 11:30 PM
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I don't want to give her an ultimatum like that and make it futile. I'd rather just tell them off and maybe challenge her to think of something, but her ego is large so maybe I should direct the conversation to something else...any advice?
/r/askTRP24/10/18 11:28 PM
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because that's the basis of conversation?
/r/askTRP28/12/17 05:06 AM
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