personguy Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	I stopped moving out of the way for women and it's been shockingly liberating Too real.	/r/PussyPassDenied	19/06/24 11:01 PM
4	I stopped moving out of the way for women and it's been shockingly liberating I worked in Florida for a bit. Everything is poisonous and everyone has a gun.	/r/PussyPassDenied	19/06/24 11:01 PM
140	I stopped moving out of the way for women and it's been shockingly liberating Yeah. Wisconsin here. I move out of the way for women, they move out of the way for me. We both say "ope, sorry 'scuse me" and go on with the day. I wonder where op is from.	/r/PussyPassDenied	19/06/24 12:26 AM
2	[All] Married Women Mid 30s This scares the hell out of me right now. Wife left after 17 years together (10 married). Had a date 2 days after moving out before we even started divorce. Hardly seems to matter if she was cheating or not anymore (yeah I got tested). Now I'm seeing a wonderful woman who I can see a future with. Problem is, she's in her 20's. I could easily see a repeat happening again. But hell, I spent 7 years dating to make SURE it would be a good marriage. That sure didn't work. So I'm torn between wanting …	/r/Divorce_Men	08/01/20 12:36 AM
2	Is a "separation" for her to get psyche help a viable thing? Well... My bpd pushed for a separation. She was dating within 2 days of leaving the house. We're divorced now. "separation" to a bdp is often code for "its over." I would push for therapy and every other available to you first. Good luck.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/12/19 03:18 AM
1	[serious] Divorced men, how soon after your separation or divorce did you have sex with another woman and how “sturdy” were you? Oddly enough my drive was at its lowest point with my ex and got better after she left. It seems constant criticism wasn't a turn on for me. Go figure. I used Tinder and Bumble mostly. Thing to remember, is women get to pick and choose in those scenarios and tend to swipe right on about %10 of pics. Men have to swipe right a LOT more to even have a chance at matching. So if you go that way, remember it's a numbers game, and also, be willing to but in the miles. Again, many women have their radiu…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/08/19 01:29 PM
1	[serious] Divorced men, how soon after your separation or divorce did you have sex with another woman and how “sturdy” were you? Well, first I burned through friends who had apparently been eyeing me up while I was married. It might be a regional thing, but Tinder worked out really well for me. I was also not looking for casual hookups (but I did find some). Most of the women I found were looking for a relationship. In order of successful dates: Tinder, Bumble, OkCupid. In order of times I was ghosted or stood up.... same order. Also, coming from a smaller town, I had to be willing to drive. There's a metro area about 1.5…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/08/19 03:20 PM
6	[serious] Divorced men, how soon after your separation or divorce did you have sex with another woman and how “sturdy” were you? Well... I found out my ex was dating someone 3 days after our separation and the divorce wasn't even started yet, so I.... went a little wild. I would have sex with anyone willing. And being in my late 30's, the divorced single moms were everywhere. It was maybe a month in when I started having sex (again, after she left, before the divorce) and I did it out of spite for her. That was a huge mistake. I hurt some people who got feels when I wasn't ready yet. I was not stable or sturdy in any way.…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/08/19 04:30 PM
2	Read an article about “Signs of Emotional Abuse”. Hey man, it was the same for me. Luckily she got fed up and left me. Wish I would have seen the signs and left her years before. Heck, she started showing emotional instability while we were dating. Good on you for seeing the signs.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/11/18 08:23 PM
3	Need to get this out, and looking for strength No advice, but it sure feels good to stand up for yourself. Well done.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/10/18 06:32 PM
2	Letting go Fear of loneliness kept me in far too long. In fact, until she got so lonely she left. Now I am alone... and lonely, but it's so much better this way. I don't know your situation, but my ex and I were tearing each other apart. We couldn't keep going like that forever.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/10/18 03:50 PM
3	Letting go What helped me... realizing how many times I doubled down. How many times I recommitted... and how little things changed. Then asking myself "Can I live the rest of my life like this?" Loneliness is a very powerful deterrent.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/10/18 02:06 PM
1	Here I am again at a bar killing time to go home, hopefully shes asleep when I get home. I come here after a long day at work to kill time, I cant stand going home and interacting with her. Shes terrible. All we do is argue. I hate my home life. I want out! Thanks for the reminder as to why I got out. Still stings, but at least my depression and anxiety are lifting.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/10/18 03:14 PM