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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Should you go into extensive details about your dating history with your BF?	DATING ADVICE	personhumanperson1	/r/RedPillWomen	22/12/21 07:40 PM

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1	What rules your FWB out from being your actual partner? That's not what you indicated originally. You said he wanted someone with "his values" and his religion. If he's as you claim now, all the better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/22 10:27 PM
1	What rules your FWB out from being your actual partner? He had to flee to Norway? Not the nearest country without an active war? And probably with a similar culture. No, he wanted somewhere where he'd easily find NSA sex. As far as concealing his past...there's not a lot of women from his culture that will agree to marry him unless he hides what he's doing right now. If he was open to committing to a Norwegian woman and it's just that you two weren't compatible, that would be different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/22 04:12 PM
1	What rules your FWB out from being your actual partner? At least he's respectful. But why live in a foreign country if you think so highly of your own "way of life"? And then conveniently not practicing the inconvenient parts. And later on concealing your past and marrying an unsuspecting girl. There's multiple levels of hypocrisy in that thinking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/22 03:24 PM
1	What rules your FWB out from being your actual partner? Coming from someone raised in that culture...men like that are a scourge.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/22 02:55 PM
89	Both Men And Women In "Normal" Society Acknowledge Alpha Fux Beta Bux "Don't worry, he's just the guy women want to make babies. But you're the guy they'll want to raise babies!" Just awful. That's like telling a girl, you may not be the one that he loves and cherishes, but you'll be the one he's always gonna call for a late night hookup.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 02:22 AM
13	Ladies, what is the biggest thing that the men on this sub get wrong about women? I think the idea that only the most attractive or most successful men are sought after is not true. "Average man" is not really well defined. I'd say most average men can have some success with women, but not at the level they want. Sometimes this sub conflates below-average with average. Also, when women say personality is important that is actually very true. Personality is more than character, though. You can be a good person and not have a personality that is necessarily attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/22 08:43 PM
5	is it realistic to expect men to just be confident if they have faced a lifetime of rejection and isolation? True, failure can definitely shatter one's morale especially if they don't know where or how to fix their mistakes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/22 05:53 AM
2	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread I am that rare Conservative pro-choicer. People just need to conduct themselves with more responsibility overall in who they sleep with and in what circumstances they bring children into the world, and the plan if their contraception fails. Abortion should be a swift decision so it isn't carried out later than necessary, but extremely restricted abortions access can cause that to happen. The laws in the US are very unbalanced, in one state allowing until birth and the other completely banning it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/22 10:13 PM
2	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread As a pro-choice woman, I agree with this entirely. In fact, an early abortion may be the most responsible decision in the case that the man doesn't want to be a father. In general people shouldn't be so reckless with who they sleep with, but if they made a mistake a child shouldn't be unfairly brought into the equation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/22 09:42 PM
72	is it realistic to expect men to just be confident if they have faced a lifetime of rejection and isolation? It is stupid advice. Personality isn't infinitely malleable. Telling someone to "be confident" when they aren't naturally, is like telling a dumb person to "be smart". If you are naturally deficient in something, you have to develop it over time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/22 08:01 PM
23	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread To any woman who needs to hear this, if you miss your period or suspect you might be pregnant, Queen Anne's Lace is a natural emmenagogue and abortifacient. It is a natural progesterone blocker (like mifepristone), since an early pregnancy cannot continue without progesterone. It's most effective under 6 weeks, then effectiveness sharply decreases. You don't even need to be pregnant, it will induce your period early if you want that for whatever reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/22 05:07 PM
2	CMV: No one should drop their standards for any reason whatsoever, and high standards are eminently reasonable Exactly! There's a difference between what we cook up in our minds versus our lived experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/22 05:36 PM
1	So you want women to "lower their standards" but at the same time "not settle" for you....HOW is that possible? No I mean you're not an ugly troll who's settling when you're in your 20s. You actually have options but choose to be with one person in particular because you WANT to be, instead of having to be when you pass your prime.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/22 06:04 AM
1	So you want women to "lower their standards" but at the same time "not settle" for you....HOW is that possible? Other people	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/22 01:48 AM
7	So you want women to "lower their standards" but at the same time "not settle" for you....HOW is that possible? The ideas is to find a worthy guy when you're young and have other options, but still commit to him - don't just go for unattainable men. Because then you might end up settling when you're older and more desperate. I'm of the opinion to never ever settle! Sure keep your expectations in check, but chemistry needs to be there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/22 03:28 PM
2	Beautiful women, do you really doubt that most men want to f*ck you or is it just a front to seem humble? I'm not really beautiful but I immediately assume that of any guy insistent on hanging out! There's nothing noteworthy about me either...I'm pretty mediocre so why would a random person want to be my friend? Back when I was single I just played stupid and maybe went along with the "friendship" but now I don't out of respect for my relationship. Unless its a professional contact, I don't really keep male friends or acquaintances.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/22 06:37 PM
2	Age Gap Relationships If you truly love and care for someone that's what you have to do sometimes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/22 01:36 PM
0	Do you agree with the right to have financial abortions ? Instead of making him decide once during pregnancy before he's met the baby, he should be on the hook for 2 years, then choose to continue or surrender rights after that point. If there is a paternity doubt then a DNA test should be given.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/22 01:24 PM
1	Do women you’re not attracted to you mean anything to you at all? Do you look up to or admire any women? Yeah I agree...my mom is an extremely competent career woman and engineering professor, very generous with her time and contributions, and she is highly valued by her peers, male and female alike. But I've seen first hand that she struggles to maintain an intimate relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/22 08:15 PM
1	men who believe that woman are "after their money" actually know deep down that they have nothing to bring to the table besides money Social morphic fields describe the variety of experiences out there, seemingly paradoxical. We are easily exposed to these alternate realities in the virtual landscape of the internet, not so much in real life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/22 01:04 AM
6	For generations a women’s only worth was her looks. Now it’s mens turn. Ok...and if you don't find a guy who fits your standards who also wants to commit to you, that's on you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/22 04:14 PM
3	Do Women Give Their "Sexual Best" To Their Boyfriends or Husbands? The problem is when anyone settles. It's women who settle and who absolutely must marry or be partnered, that can go down this path either due to personal preference or cultural conditioning. But I'd rather die alone than marry the wrong guy, which I think is the right perspective to have. Any guy that I end up with is someone I'm very attracted to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/22 01:34 PM
2	Is making some women uncomfortable just part of dating for men? You gotta shoot your shot, I think everyone should be understanding of that notion. If you are turned down, accept the loss gracefully and move on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 03:13 PM
6	Women absolutely are not attracted to nice guys, and men expressing their understandable frustration with the dishonesty of them saying they do is met with shaming and attempts to silence them. This is the foundation of TRP. Evolutionarily speaking, it's in people's interest to cooperate with one another. If we were entirely evil, we wouldn't even exist. However, we have an in-group preference and tend to minimize the plight of others. Once we realize that life isn't a zero-sum game and other people's well-being is as important as our own, then humanity makes progress.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/22 09:01 PM
–	Women absolutely are not attracted to nice guys, and men expressing their understandable frustration with the dishonesty of them saying they do is met with shaming and attempts to silence them. This is the foundation of TRP. I believe there is good in all people. Fear, hurt, ignorance, etc. keeps us from our full potential.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/22 07:57 PM
–	Women absolutely are not attracted to nice guys, and men expressing their understandable frustration with the dishonesty of them saying they do is met with shaming and attempts to silence them. This is the foundation of TRP. I sort of agree, although I'm not a complete misanthrope. Everyone likes to point the finger at others instead of looking to their own damn self. People's hypocrisy amazes me. Seriously, all these issues people have would be solved with some empathy but apparently that's lame.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/22 07:48 PM
0	Should you go into extensive details about your dating history with your BF? It is mean-spirited, in the passive-aggressive sort of way...I encounter it a lot as an autistic person. You ask people in earnest and they misconstrue or giggle at your words.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/12/21 06:05 AM
0	Should you go into extensive details about your dating history with your BF? He's a little curious but is respectful not to pry, so I think maybe to assuage his concerns. He talks to me about other women in his past and even present so idk. We are not just lovers but also friends...idk people have been mean-spirited about this. Oh well.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/12/21 03:05 AM
-5	Should you go into extensive details about your dating history with your BF? I'm sorry, you'll get through it my friend.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/12/21 09:56 PM
-13	Should you go into extensive details about your dating history with your BF? It is flattering though. I mean, if it wasn't flattering I'd be with the ex and not him, ya know?	/r/RedPillWomen	22/12/21 09:27 PM
-3	Should you go into extensive details about your dating history with your BF? Well that's the thing, they all sucked and were losers. I never had incredible sex lol. By felt, I mean emotionally felt.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/12/21 09:23 PM
1	Should you go into extensive details about your dating history with your BF? But why? It sounds like you’re the one who wants the reassurance. Cuz there's this whole thing about women lying about their past, being secretly alpha widowed, etc. It seems like if there's not some sort of moment of radical honesty, those concerns may linger in the back of his mind. I want him to know he's the best in every way, cuz he is.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/12/21 09:05 PM
-2	Should you go into extensive details about your dating history with your BF? Do you want to know how much he thinks about the women he’s been with? That's up to him if he'd like to share, whatever he feels comfortable with.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/12/21 08:54 PM
-2	Should you go into extensive details about your dating history with your BF? What about the whole honesty thing? I'm a little on the autism spectrum so I don't understand what's appropriate to share or not, it's kinda arbitrary.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/12/21 08:16 PM
1	Women, do you care about a man's sexual history/body count? I may be in the minority, but I don't care at all. It's only our connection that matters. My man comes with a lot of baggage, like crazy exes that stalk us and he has a high n-count. It's just interesting, that's all. He's very sweet and introverted, not a douchebag or any other stereotype of high n-count men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/21 10:06 PM