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Question For Menperv_alert93/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 02:39 PM
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Wow just wow. The kinda HVM you want in your life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 11:03 AM
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As a tall woman in my country I've been rejected plenty of times for being too tall. The first comment I get I get on OLD dates are "whoa you are tall". My bf was the only guy who commented "whoa you are tall" followed by "that's very attractive"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 04:31 PM
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There was just a post here a few months ago saying there is no intimidation. Intimidation is a fake phenomena made by rejected women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 04:29 PM
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I see you can't comprehend basic English
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 09:37 AM
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Woman don't need men but they want men. Women are still actively trying and by the look of amateur porn very hard. But I don't see men doing the same, the sad, proverbially single men I know irl are men no one wants to date
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 09:14 AM
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Trans rights have become insane and it's gotten to the point where feminism= trans rights. I was indifferent to it and mostly thought of transwomen are worn. Before stats of their sports participation, insistence on lesbians dating them etc came to light. Now I would gladly be called a TERF. TBH I feel like I've become distant from the concept of liberal feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 06:27 AM
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I have a pup to cuddle and watch movies with I bet many women would agree with the same sentiment
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 07:48 AM
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Haha I understand. The advice is for normal 30 year old women (not had multiple partners, not divorced, not widowed, not a single mother)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 02:33 AM
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I feel like you haven't comprehended my statement. She's unmarried that's it. Where does it say she's a single parent?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 02:05 AM
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Lol are you saying you can't fathom a reason why a woman would be single without getting divorced or widowed? Are you in 1960?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 01:44 AM
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Damn why go for such an obvious lie even
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 08:00 PM
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I never said I was 30 ?? This post is based on what will happen if you are single at 30
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 04:52 AM
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I see your point. Yes. But the only reason she loves me and finds me attractive is because I do all the things I hate that make me attractive. This is human nature. Ideally all I want to do is eat junk food, watch sitcoms and do nothing. Except I eat healthy, workout, invest in a career because that's required of me. Even in a relationship before I had sex the thought of putting someone's genitals in my mouth disgusted me yet I have. Life is oftentimes made up of things that we don't really want…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 08:26 PM
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But in your case from what I understand you do have someone who invested 8years of her life for you. Is she on the same page about marriage. So if someone has already invested 8 years of thru life into loveing you why do you think 5 years under the law would make a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 08:16 PM
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That's nice but if you are with someone for 8years why wouldn't you marry her? Do you not think she brings enough to the table. Do you also not want children? I agree with the baggage bit, while it is inevitable it only depends on how well you deal with it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 07:23 PM
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You only accept the love you think you deserve. This is also true.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 07:16 PM
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I will keep that in mind. I've heard and had awful experiences in OLD and it really does leave you completely jaded
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 07:15 PM
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Oh that sounds wonderful. With my bf it's also culturally expected that he too gets married (he has more time) but being unmarried is not an option for him either. That's why I wonder if it's the idea of marriage or the idea of marriage with me. I've brought this up and he's reassured me it's a mental thing but I can't help but wonder
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 07:13 PM
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Yes if I had a choice I would remain single and keep my dream of a husband and child locked away. Being single in my country comes with enormous stigma, it might even affect my career prospects. Unfortunately my bf who is of a similar age has more years before he feels the same amount of pressure. So he's not in a rush to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 07:10 PM
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Of course I want to get married to him. He's the only person I've loved romantically. However I live in a conservative country, it's only because of my liberal family I've been allowed to be unmarried. After 30 thee will be a lot more pressure and living as a singl woman in my country is very hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 07:00 PM
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I live in a conservative country so our relationship is a 'secret' there is actually a multitude of factors. At the moment we have decided on mid 2021 to officially communicate to everyone our intention to marry. At the same time he's also expressed some deep rooted fears about th institution of marriage which makes me scared he will bail. So far he's been consistent with the fact that I am the only woman he's even contemplated marriage with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:58 PM
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Fair enough. I do not use reddit much other than for some customised NSFW content (because amateur authentic content) I usually stay away from social media because I find it very detrimental to my mental health. The point of this question was to find various pov on what I can do right.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:55 PM
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Yes I've noticed. Personally my lack of romantic success can be because Ive been very introverted. I've only been in one LTR which was marriage or bust balloon atm
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:53 PM
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I completely agree about the no history part. This is especially hard for me to accept because I do not have an exhaustive list of exes or emotional baggage and would prefer a partner with the same ideal. Out if curiosity what's your ballpark age and are you married.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:51 PM
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Thank you for your perspective. But I honestly just wanted to hear what a wide variety of people have to say. This is the only sub where both liberal and conservative povs exist. I actually do not engage in casual sex or ONs but thank you for recommending a sub. And I do agree that giving head is not a prerequisite but icing on the cake, that's a great analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:49 PM
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I am 5'8 and 62 kgs. So am well within my normal weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:46 PM
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Unfortunately I have a demanding career that severely limits my interaction with the opposite sex. I mostly meet men through OLD but the demographic is much younger and people are looking for something casual than serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:44 PM
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It is a bit of contradictory advice because a vast number of people here have advised to visualise what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:42 PM
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Thank you. I must admit that I do have a partner. This was in a moment of insecurity because I am taking a huge carer risk in this year. I am afraid that if my partner decides not to marry me before I will turn 30 as a single woman
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:41 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:40 PM
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Fair enough. I do workout but will definitely join a gym post Covid. Especially because staying indoors has given me cabin fever
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:39 PM
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That's also a solid point. But at the same time I also think you start to hate people when you are exposed to vitriolic sentiments. Which is why I've quit twitter. So take information but don't get looped into echo chambers that one reiterate a single POV
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:38 PM
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Aw it's ok. My cousin also can't seem to grow her hair beyond her shoulder length. And she looks adorable af Personally I would say my hair is one of my best features. I have hair presently below my tits length. It's thick and voluminous, a bit on the wavy side and curls up in humidity but very healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:35 PM
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Oh I've only been in one relationship. If it does end it would probably because he's not ready for marriage. There isn't another reason I could think of why I would break up with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:34 PM
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Brilliant. Don't succumb to sunk cost fallacy. This is solid advice
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:33 PM
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Personally someone who I find attractive (I prefer skinny and pale) and is kind, loyal, passionate and is willing to work on things. He must have a growth mindset and want to built a good and secure future together. The one stickler is the passion. I find men who are passionate about things (even of it's something I don't understand) completely fascinating
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:31 PM
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Yes I agree. I personally look way better now than I did in my teens or early 20s. Because I know have the time and resources to cultivate my looks, invest more in beauty and outfits. The issue is how 30is a huge number. Men in their early to mid 30s look at women in their mid to late 20s than 30. The number seems so final.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:28 PM
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Thank you. This is a very kind and thoughtful advice. I appreciate you taking the time to write this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:25 PM
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This is actually brilliant advice. Though I have to say this. I have a friend, gorgeous and in a very high profile career. Sh has this list of a man but unfortunately she cannot seem to meet a guy who fits her criteria. It's gotten to the point that she's definitely changes a lot of her ideals still no dice. She's one of these women with an hourglass figure and is kind and very lovable. I think it's because her career is so demanding that it limits her options of meeting people
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:24 PM
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Oh I definitely do not have a child or was married. My n count is 1. This is just a hypothetical question in case I do wind up single because my current so won't marry me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:21 PM
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It's interesting advice. And this is a mixed group so I wanted to know differing opinions to get an outline.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:20 PM
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Very interesting advice. I am more on the curvy (narrow waist, thick thighs) side because of my ethnicity. So while I am fit I can never be willowy thin. I will definitely listen to the remaining advice
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:19 PM
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Eh I have exceptionally nice skin. No need for make up
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:17 PM
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Depends on how you define a HVM. To me an average looking guy with a nice smile, good manners, loyalty, kindness is an HVM.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:17 PM
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How would you define a bitch. Because the definition would vastly vary for different people. But interesting advice I will keep that in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:15 PM
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Thanks for nothing. I am nog a baby making machine, also with my country's population it's awful to have three kids. And in this economy??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:14 PM
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This is a solid list. I love that you put it in bullets. I will definitely come back to this when I need reminders ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:13 PM
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Yes she does seem very bold and straightforward. I am not black but I assume you meant the confidence and style.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:12 PM
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I think I am a bit reserved and shy. Especially because I have such a limited exposure to men it's hard for me to date or.meet new people. I've only given head to one person whose told me I am fantastic. Though in all due fairness I read and watched videos and practised on him till I got better( but you always have room for improvement)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:11 PM
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That's good to know. I think because everyone talks of the wall I was wondering when I should legitimately give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:08 PM
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I do have a good education and a decent career. I am working on a one year plan that could potentially launch my career and be very successful (but if it fails it will be a drawback) but at the moment I am financially secure and able to take a risk in my career.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:07 PM
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1.I am above average and work hard to maximize my physical attributes. 2.I already am well qualified, I try to read and be aware of things as well. I cannot objectively say if I am smart. 3. I try to be kind. I do come across as aloof and reserved but am warm to the people I love. This may have to change as many.men may not stick around to thaw me out. I am supportive to all my.loved ones within reason
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:06 PM
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That sounds awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:03 PM
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That's solid advice. I will definitely keep that in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:03 PM
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Thank you for the solid advice. While it shouldn't be too hard to date within my income bracket (I am set to inherit a bit of wealth) so it might be harder. But if it's a guy with growth mindset then I don't have a problem. In general I am complimentary because I appear cold to strangers but I am very affectionate to the people who are important.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:02 PM
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I've never been hypergamous or branch swinging. I've only dated one person ltr and only slept with him. The question is what if it doesn't work out especially because he's not very pro-marriage while I definitely want marriage and a child (at least). I wouldn't mind being voluntarily celibate because I am pretty well rounded and could adopt a child as a single woman. It's just that I've always wanted marriage and kids and just reluctant to let go of that dream
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 05:59 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 05:55 PM
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I live in a country where women outnumber men by millions. Btw it doesn't really make a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 03:56 PM
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I want a mixed answer. I've read the sub advocating forgiving cheating which is a strict no-go for me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 03:53 PM
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Lol that's one way to see it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 03:43 PM
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That's very true. What would you call a solid window after which finding a good mate would be impossible?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 03:43 PM
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It's funny because in my experience it's a mix of both. The woman needs to be attractive and be educated. If either is off he may be criticised
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 02:41 PM
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Lol the waxing, threading, facials all of which are appearance things. Wax your labia and then we will talk
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 02:14 PM
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Tinder am gonna go by how cute/hot the guy is. If he's average and a great bio then instant match, if he's super cute but no bio still a match. I gave a guy my number like two convos in because he was cute and lived less than 1km from me which was a super bonus Also agreed to meet with him with very erratic conversations with months in between cos he send me a super cute selfie. I am a shallow woman so yea that worked
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 12:23 PM
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Have you ever had period cramps so bad that you almost pass out. As your utrine wall collapses in bits and pieces and slowly leeches off your body. Have you had some woman pluck the hairs off your face individually with z a thread as your face turns red into irritation. This is 90-100% of women. Your deadlifts is less than 5%
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 12:09 PM
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Exactly skin care is essence, serums, face packs, threading, black head removal and facials once a month at the saloon. Other than night creams, day creams, and daily under eye creams. The right kind of products for your skin. The exact color style of make up for your tone, skin type, facial structure. That is just your face. You need cellulite removal, body scrub, scented oils, perfumes. I cannot even stress the sheer amount of work that goes into maintaining my appearance for being slightly ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 10:39 AM
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Lmao you try these things. An average women's beauty regime would probably make you weep
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 10:28 AM
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Honestly offline this only applies if you are attractive or the engaging party is attracted to you. Otherwise they are more likely to charge you a higher rate for services without a fixed price, rude or dismissive. I've seen this behaviour from drs treating my mom, mechanics, to staff, even waiters and bartenders. I've seen this 'dismissive towards girls/women' from fellow women in positions of power as well which is disappointing. I do live in a patriarchal country so men being authority is so …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 07:54 AM
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Yes I am just imaging a woman with a huge clit and a wide vagina. Thanks for the laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 07:30 PM
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Yes r/badwomansanatomy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 06:00 PM
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Lol you keep telling yourself that. Let me redirect you to r/ihavesex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 05:39 PM
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Because the biggest proponents against casual sex and bc are incels who think giving women autonomy has moved them away from family. Ultimately women have the right to make that choice. Even now lots of high profile, career driven women are choosing income over marriage and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 03:09 PM
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Except that has been the side effect of it. Look at popular feminist shows in the 2000s like sex and the city. They definitely pushed certain amount of promiscuity as being in control when in reality it forced women to divorce their feelings from sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 03:07 PM
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Lol hardly any men do. That's why casual sex sucks for women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 02:51 PM
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Well it is their nature as much as it is man's nature to fuck everything with a hole. Humans not having a heat/reproductive season means every season is for fucking. BC definitely gave women more autonomy and the power not to bear unwanted children. Yet they gave into sexual revolution where only men are satisfied. Men who believe restricting women's freedom to fuck them is the lowest form of scum.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 02:50 PM
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Think about it for a second, who has actively pushed down the idea of free love and sleeping around being good for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 02:27 PM
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If your partner is committed to getting you there and not just speed racing to get himself off then no. For plenty of a women penetration hurts without proper preparation
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 02:25 PM
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The fact that you can't discern the difference is astounding
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 01:20 PM
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Because liberal feminism and mainstream media has shoved down this idea that true freedom means putting many dicks inside you and get validation deep throating some guy's balls. In reality these women neither get orgasms, put themselves at greater risk of abuse, STDs and pregnancy. Can't think of a good enough reason other than serious self esteem issues why these girls and women would do this
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 11:22 AM
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Sounds like an egalitarian marriage. I hope you are happy in the marriage cos you are a catch
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 07:08 AM
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There is no 'his' movie. The movie is from his pov doesn't make it a his movie. It 100% is a projection of your entitlement
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 07:07 AM
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Except it's not. To her she's only known him for a day and the romance does not further the story at all. I can totally see you are the sort who thinks the hero is entitled to the woman because hurr durr
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 03:43 AM
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Edge of tomorrow had a forced, unnecessary kiss and implied happy ending.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 02:59 AM
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Isn't her love more pure considering she loves him despite his debilitating flaws. Awkward neurotic losers are a pain in the ass and an emotional leech in which women get rewarded with 'conditional love' and nothing else. A normal relationship would be much better for the women hands down
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 02:58 AM
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Yes more women stay than leave
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 05:14 PM
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How's it not relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 05:13 PM
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Yes but in the ideal situation the husband doesn't cheat. Why stay with a man who can't follow the fundamentals of marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 04:16 PM
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Yes am saying HVM are picky with who they sleep with
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 06:20 AM
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But by what market definition. There is no universally applicable standards to what people even find attractive. Look at Timothy chalamet or Kpop stars, they are the guys with the biggest female fan following, they do not exhibit any alpha traits that one would consider HV. So are they HVM or LVM? I think it's contestable what high value actually means.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 03:30 AM
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I agree with this sentiment. A woman clearly defining her boundary is different from a woman playing pretend.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 03:26 AM
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I completely understand your pov. I am sure there are men who are in the same boat as you but finding it harder to settle. Tbh when I met my current bf I was shocked that he was in the market. An attractive, qualified man in his late 20s looking for a relationship on OLD is basically a unicorn. I kept wondering about the catch. Honestly I've heard some pretty terrible tales from single women attempting commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 03:19 AM
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Are you saying a man abstaining from sex is a man who does not have options?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 03:05 AM
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I completely agree. And the reality is an HVM/HVW can easily discern people who are genuinely busy v people who are playing games. Oftentimes if the partner is HV they would bow out and lose interest in the person playing games.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 03:01 AM
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What you wrote is very consistent with what I've seen irl. I do not know attractive men who date down or even sleep around. In fact most attractive men I know are committed by their mid 20s. The ones who are not are wilfully keeping their 'options open' However, I would not say the same is true for attractive women. I know some very attractive women irl who are also accomplished being woefully single.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 02:57 AM
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Honestly I've always thought that men had it way harder than women thanks to reddit and very little irl interaction with men. Then I made friends with two above average guys and my perspective totally changed. Both of them are pretty outgoing so women speak easily to them. A lot of women give them numbers unprompted. They also change conversations to flirting. A lot more touching Nd laughing. Unlike men women seem to be more comfortable flirting online/texting than in person. Also some of the 'b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 02:41 AM
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I enjoy reading especially poetry. Would love to date someone who shares these interests and political views. My bfs likes gaming and is constantly trying to get me to game. So I assume everyone feels the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 06:49 AM
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Like a deal too good to be true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 05:05 PM
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I am in awe. Let us know how that goes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 03:49 PM
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Lol they are imagining hot attractive crushes asking them out. As an unattractive woman I've seen how men reacted when I showed them interest, from downright ignoring me to avoiding me blatently. So I can only smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 03:13 PM
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"The same dudes that want sex by the 3rd date also want the girl to have a low N count or to be a virgin. How ironic." I think guys who say that have no clue what they are looking for. I was a virgin and the guy I slept with, I dated him for 4months before sleeping with him. If i had such a huge vetting process and "saved myself" why would i sleep with the guy on the 3rd date?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 02:27 AM
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Oh no i am in complete agreement with what you are saying. I am saying OP stereotypical portrayal of Asian women comes from not meeting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 03:23 PM
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Aranged marriage works out "better" because most people in them are too afraid to leave. Plenty of people are extremely unhappy but continue to stay in such marriages because of society. A vast majority of them women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 02:03 PM
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Eh depends i don't see anything wrong with it as long as it fulfills your needs. Personally I could never imagine being with someone who can emotionally disconnect during sex or buy it. But that's with regards to a.personal choice, as long as you are happy you do you!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 01:30 PM
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Most men saying this have no real interaction with Asian women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 06:00 PM
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It could be that both your looks and personality is pretty bad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 07:17 AM
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I wouldn't cheat on my SO (the only person I've eber been with or loved) but i would leave if he turned cold or uninterested to the point that i am single handedly making it work, making plans etc( it has happened before)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 04:34 PM
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