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Just a quick bit of info, nerve ending will get desensitized from toys, although fun, regular simulation won't be the same, I would take a break from it for a bit.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/23 02:36 AM
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Can I ask... how long have you been together? And how old are you both?
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/23 11:11 AM
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drop him. As a RPW, you don't want to align yourself with that type of man. You can get your internship in other ways.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/23 11:47 AM
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Oh good luck!! I hope the both of you get the best Christmas gift ever, each other! Honestly from what I've learned, a lot of the times love doesn't come from the perfect situation. It is designed to test you and your determination to fight and stand for each other.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/23 04:44 PM
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Oh man, different countries.... that's rough but do-able!! I sincerely hope the best outcome for you and OP.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/23 12:29 PM
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Do not feed into that "if he wanted to be would". I would establish whether or not he intends to take this further after the move. Long distance is HARD. But if you have things that bide your time, and you are confident and secure in not only yourself but within your connection, there's no need to fret. Yes on occasion you and him both will need reassurance and that's fine. If you do decide to LDR, I will leave you with this one piece of advice. Lack of attention doesn't mean the absence of thei…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/23 03:51 AM
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Little cultural context, Japanese people tend to compartmentalize work and personal life. I think he's genuinely interested and doesn't want to waste time. However, always be cautious. Without knowing him personally, I can only speculate. People are on their best socially accepted behavior the first 3 months of dating. After that the dirt starts coming undone. Then it's important to look at all the factors and whether or not they have grown from their mistakes. If you have a boundary, communicat…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/23 02:45 AM
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Just because the entire family is in on it, doesn't make it ok. Your partner learns it from somewhere. If it is not something you are comfortable with, you make that clear. It is really enough that you can let go of needed. Don't mistake attention for intention. A good masculine man doesn't need to test your boundaries. He needs to not react to his emotions. That doesn't mean that he can't be vulnerable in moments with you but he doesn't need to push you mentally and emotionally either.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/23 03:44 AM
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This needs to be a serious discussion, it cannot be looked over or played off. Although giving compliments to your man is just as important as you getting them from him, you cannot carry his confidence for him. I would say the next time he brings it up, ask him why he thinks that he's nothing special.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/23 01:54 AM
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As much as I love hearing when he calls me beautiful or tells me I look fantastic, I need to fill that role for myself as well. Do I feel good? Do I think I look good? And so on and so forth. My self-confidence is just that. Self..... confidence. Men don't communicate the way women do, and that's not something I would ever want to change. They show their appreciation in other ways. And each man is different. Some prefer touch, some express it verbally, it just depends on who he is. Women love to…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/23 07:02 AM
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I tend to communicate more with my partner. I do typically warn him ahead of time that I'm either in my head or in my feels. We'll talk through it and if it's trivial (typically is) I usually end up letting it go on my own. At the very least, if that specific toy discussion comes up again, I would reword your request, like let's try it again. If that toy/ experience is particularly important to you.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/23 04:47 AM
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Of course. 🥰 best of luck
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/23 02:24 PM
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I think this is the best course of action then. Unless his friend keeps at it, then I might consider telling your boyfriend. I think you'll be fine
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/23 02:13 PM
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I would just put your foot down with his friend. If your boyfriend isn't the jealous type, then I would tell your boyfriend..... actually I'm the kind of girl that will tell her boyfriend anyway. It's kind of best to not hide things. But put your foot down girl so he sees how much you respect him as a partner (not saying that you don't respect him or need to prove that)
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/23 02:00 PM
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It's ok to be vulnerable. Especially since he had commitment issues before, but at least he is working on it. I wouldn't give him an ultimatum or be strict with about his social media. But you should definitely talk to him about how this makes you feel. And it's more so that you feel that his focus should be on you and not his ex. Not forever, just while you rebuild.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/23 01:57 PM
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I don't bake unless I can give it away. I do enjoy it. But I really shine when it comes to dinner. I have a ton of receipts and depending on the season too. My go to when I have no idea for dinner, it's spaghetti. I know, so simple however it has never failed, even with picky eaters. Diced onion, mushroom, ground beef (salt/ pepper/ garlic to taste) (onion/ mushroom is optional) Not optional, must be made in a cast iron pan, add a splash of sherry wine after the beef is done cooking, add stewed …
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/23 01:52 PM
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I'm moments like these, I have come to realize that it is not the situation but my reaction to the situation. Then I start to inwardly focus. Sadly sometimes it will take weeks, depending on how far back the wound stems.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/23 01:47 PM
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Your boyfriend's friend is being inappropriate towards his friend's girlfriend. Unfortunately cut and dry, that's how it stands. No matter his qualities, don't be fooled by a bunch of pretty words. It has always been my MO to focus on the man in front of me and never to shop while I'm dating someone.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/23 01:40 PM
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