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Activism/Supportpete728415/r/MensRights16/12/23 10:14 AM
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I did read this, I'm just folding laundry at the moment. I come in Pease. Tbh, I didn't know this was even and issue. I'm here to help. Sorry people suck so hard.
/r/MensRights17/12/23 08:54 AM
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I agree with this wholeheartedly. I'm patting myself on the back a bit for just how wonderfully he's growing into a responsible young man. Straight As in school, goes to the gym, his friend group focuses on health and will not use drugs, and as a bonus he taught himself how to play guitar better than most adults that's dabble in it. He skipped a grade this year and takes AP courses and attends early college classes in the summer. When I go to his school i'm often stopped by a member of faculty A…
/r/MensRights17/12/23 08:18 AM
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I know men have a unique situation when it comes to domestic abuse. Because they're the larger party. Of course they're going to be looked at as the offender which sucks. I've also have to stand with women here because we're often not listened to either. My husband was kicked out of the army for spousal abuse. It was so bad that I never called the police. But other people did, so he was removed and that was the only time anything was ever done about it. What state are you in? If you wouldn't min…
/r/MensRights17/12/23 06:11 AM
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I lurked in there a few times and it was an absolutely delusional circle jerk.
/r/MensRights17/12/23 06:09 AM
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I've seen it happen. My downstairs neighbor is really verbally abusive to her boyfriend while on the other hand my next door neighbor is being abused verbally and physically by her boyfriend. If I can just say one thing to men, TELL ON HER. I'm In abuse survivor myself so I understand that this is way easier said than done. I can't tell you how many times i've called the police to help my neighbor and she lied for her boyfriend. I don't know what it's like to be on your side of thingso I i feel …
/r/MensRights17/12/23 05:57 AM
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That must have been rough. I know hiwninwas raised and if I had a brother to hear the way my mother spoke about men, I couldn't imagine. Just deflated from the beginning.
/r/MensRights17/12/23 05:06 AM
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I think the Susan G Komen foundation was actually found to be fraudulent in some way. But I can not back this up with facts. This is anecdotal. I heard it somewhere.
/r/MensRights17/12/23 04:55 AM
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I've said it before and I will say it again it isn't feminism it's fanaticism.
/r/MensRights17/12/23 04:52 AM
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Teenage girls grow up to be women, and teenage girls are the most vicious creatures on the face of the planet. They grow into adult women, and they really don't change that much. I've met some really shitty people. Unfortunately, they end up being popular And have all the attention they could ever want. They often use that to be assholes.
/r/MensRights17/12/23 04:51 AM
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Shit I need a fucking maid too.
/r/MensRights17/12/23 04:48 AM
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That's really sweet thank you so much. I Hope you are doing well also.
/r/MensRights17/12/23 04:48 AM
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I will make sure to add them to the list. Thank you for making me aware.
/r/MensRights17/12/23 04:48 AM
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I see where you're coming from here, but wrong audience in me, unfortunately. I have PMDD, which is double the length of PMS with added desire to commit suicide on a monthly basis. I'm in chemical menopause and awaiting a full removal of my ovaries, so i don't follow through with a bath that includes my toaster. There are hundreds of us finally receiving treatment because for two weeks every month, if we're not asleep, we're thinking about taking an early trip off planet. I said all of that to s…
/r/MensRights17/12/23 04:44 AM
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I hate that this is surprising you. My heart goes out to you.
/r/MensRights17/12/23 04:31 AM
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I've always been a "masculine" woman. I'm straight as they come, but I enjoy and engage in a lot of typical male hobbies. I've been called a "pick me" because I enjoy football and darts, and I am mechanically inclined. I crack mean dad jokes, can out-drink some men (thank you Germany), and I have a photo on Instagram of me changing my flat in heels and a skirt. I guess my only gripe really is I can't be myself as I'd like without being one of the guys or a pick me ass bitch. I also date men base…
/r/MensRights17/12/23 04:29 AM
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It was off my chest and female dating strategy. I was not subbed to either.
/r/MensRights17/12/23 04:01 AM
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You know I came in here. Hoping for some really great advice and I get it. I get being so angry and wanting to lash out when you feel you've been mistreated. However, this kind of talk really makes it difficult for me to want to ally with you. Please do not lump everyone together. It's really hard to take it seriously as a true issue that you're grappling with as an adult male when it's Just objectively incorrect. And I am one hundred percent on board with being wrong if you would be willing to …
/r/MensRights17/12/23 12:53 AM
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No but I don't get why this matters. Human suffering is still fucking human suffering.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 09:30 PM
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I agree. Masculinity isn't toxic. Shitty people are toxic. Masculinity isn't a bad thing. We need it. We also need femininity. It isn't a bad thing either. We're meant do have these traits as a species. It's not a competition. It's meant to compliment each other. It's gone sideways.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 09:22 PM
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Will do.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 03:33 PM
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I've been here for while. Never engaged. I don't hate men, I have no reason to.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 03:29 PM
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I have to say this is the first time. I have been canceled and I am laughing about it. Imagine being that mad all the time couldn't be me.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 02:49 PM
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Yeah I'm sorry about that. It's dehumanizing at the very least.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 02:47 PM
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Thanks for letting me know. That's absolutely wild.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 02:23 PM
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I owe you an apology. I see what you mean in the first few sentences. I took offense because I believe we as a species are both matriarchal and patriarchal. We have our roles, and I've been a long-standing believer in them. We belong in our villages. There's evidence that women need women and men need men, and we need each other. That was the point I tried to express. We're not doing well as a species because of feminism. Another thing I've been saying for a long time. I want to raise children a…
/r/MensRights16/12/23 02:18 PM
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Yeah, I'm trying to freshen the s*** up. So it actually works this time you know. I'm doing the opposite of just slapping a bandate on. That's my hope at least. It's really because women have such a advantage when it comes to being rehoused versus men. I really don't understand the intensity of the mistrust of my intentions here. But it kinda sucks.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 02:00 PM
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Where do you see the handout part? I want to make sure I didn't miss something.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 01:53 PM
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This is exactly what i'm saying. I agree with you. I think it's unfortunate because a lot of people don't really understand how deeply men do feel.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 01:41 PM
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Wow, that's a nit spot on. How is it working out for you? Also, my son has great friends, male teachers, and his father. His father is unfortunately just absent. Not for lack of trying. He's 15 now. So he has an eight p m curfew, and he has a bunch of male friends, and they go to the gym play guitar. I couldn't have asked for a better kid and while. I struggle to be a parent to a male child. He has plenty of male influence around him. My stepfather, for instance, is a great role model. We just d…
/r/MensRights16/12/23 01:39 PM
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That wasn't what I was offering. Not even close. But I do appreciate the input and I know the men that will take this opportunity and hopefully benefit from it will also be forever grateful for the input I've received today. I'm being a Dick because you're also being a Dick. It has nothing to do with gender here. You just called me clingy. How so? Why don't you read the thread and see what we've come up with as a whole? Because it's actually pretty awesome. I felt insulted. You know why. Has not…
/r/MensRights16/12/23 01:33 PM
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Now that i've been downvoted, was it the attitude or my refusal to condemn Hamas? Like, chill. refused to be talked down to or choose sides. I'm dickless. I'm editing to add also that. I was told to take a step back and not be a part of it. But what you're saying is I should help from the inside out. That's not how it works I wish I could explain it better. I'm also editing to add that. I was homeless on the streets in both New York City and Atlanta. Georgia before I was eighteen years old. I am…
/r/MensRights16/12/23 01:22 PM
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I see your point but I don't agree with you. That's not at all what i'm saying or what I meant by any of this. I also don't really need to prove myself in that respect. I am not a man I am a woman and I care about men. That should be plenty. What I have worked out from this thread alone. Is that homeless specifically men who have come morbid? Substance abuse disorder could potentially benefit from a apprenticeship style halfway house. That way, they don't feel like a Burden or a charity case. Th…
/r/MensRights16/12/23 01:18 PM
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Thanks man. I really don't believe in God. But if there was one I was put here to do what i'm doing. I made ninety grande a year being an esthetician and I hated it. Those were not my people. It wasn't intended for me to make money in this lifetime and i'm okay with that. Also you are getting the ramblings of someone who has insomnia and thinks too much. I'm also much older. Not much but older millennial. For instance, this guy fell on me on the bus the other day. Because the bus driver didn't s…
/r/MensRights16/12/23 01:08 PM
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This woman changed the way I thought and started me down a lath of some serious self reflection. I don't do the buzzword shit BTW. I would like to be in a kitchen baking all day. Thanks a lot susan b anthony. Sorry, long running joke haha. Also, I think this may be the first time the word patriarchy came out of my mouth because i'm using talk to text.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 01:02 PM
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Thank you for that really sincere compliment. That made me smile I appreciate that.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 12:25 PM
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I apologize on top of having adhd am also dyslexic so I mix up a lot of that sentence. I reread it.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 12:22 PM
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Same here. It does indeed rub in families.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 12:20 PM
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I can sincerely say i'm not going to give up. I've said before this has been rolling around my brain like a rotisserie chicken for ryears. I've had the good luck of working with the higher ups in the nonprofit that I work for and they can help me to ride the grant and find the right one. If I end up doing something special. I will be sure to update every singl one of you that has been so helpful.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 12:18 PM
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Vulnerability is not a comfortable state of being. It sounds to me and I could be wrong that you are judged in a state of vulnerability. And yeah that will fuck you up especially as you are aging. I'm not much of a crier either. I cried when I was on the phone with my mom last year and I ended up having to calm her down because it was so loud of character for me. I don't talk about my emotions very often. When you've lost trust to be vulnerable bull around people. It takes a lot to get to a poin…
/r/MensRights16/12/23 12:16 PM
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I hate to say I kind of feel that. During covid, I only saw my children every two weeks because I was working two jobs. I just wanted to run away. Still do
/r/MensRights16/12/23 12:12 PM
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As a woman that was not coddled. I was actually on my own. Since I was the age of thirteen I can without a doubt say they are some spoiled ass bitches. Maybe not the kindest thing to say but that's how I feel about it
/r/MensRights16/12/23 12:09 PM
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I was a case manager for housing first facility. Unfortunately, they had never dealt with state grants. So it was my job to make sure we were following all state laws to A. T. I wrote all of the policies and procedures made sure we had fire extinguishers where ocean compatible train, the staff and then my fiance died so I stopped working. I don't know how they're doing these days. But I know that they're still using my work. Typos. Talking to my phone.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 12:06 PM
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I'm going to check this out later when I have time to take some.notes. I can't thank you enough.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 12:05 PM
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What write you to where you are now? Are you happy? ( If I could live in a cabin in the woods. And be self sustaining I would do it without a moment's thought no judgment)
/r/MensRights16/12/23 12:04 PM
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I found myself googling how to deal with a moody teenage boy last night and found something interesting that I never would have considered. We all blame it on hormones. But their brains are literally changing and evolving and it's uncomfortable. He helped my face I gave hug. I also told him to never speak to me that way again. It is what it is Thank you for the suggestion. Always open to new music
/r/MensRights16/12/23 12:03 PM
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Clout, clearly. 13,000. I'm hitting levels of popularity I could only dream of! I can say I am absolutely genuine. I have felt this way for a very long time. For a while I did have the wool pulled over my eyes and I stood behind some dumb some really ridiculous shit. Luckily i'm a critical thinker and I got right the fuck out of there.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 12:01 PM
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My father was the President of a motorcycle club. And that sounds very familiar to me.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 11:54 AM
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Great, thank you for the link. I could definitely use an inspiration.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 11:53 AM
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Please give me pointers that was the whole goal of the post. Thank you
/r/MensRights16/12/23 11:49 AM
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I started asking myself some pretty hard. What the f*** is actually happening here? Questions over the last few years
/r/MensRights16/12/23 11:46 AM
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Of course I understand. I don't know exactly but I understand the scepticism
/r/MensRights16/12/23 11:45 AM
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I don't ever want to fix anyone. People are so unique and the shit they go through make them pretty fucking awesome. I work with this community because they are my people.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 11:45 AM
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Yeah the hierarchy of who actually gets housing is kind of absurd. Men are often last in line barring a disability. HIV will get you housing faster than actually living in a tent. There are so many abandoned houses. Contractors need crews if they're going to fix them. I see no reason why we can't take some of those empty places. Fix them up, teach a marketable skill to people who could make money off of it in due time and have a place to stay while they're doing. I said above I was walking past …
/r/MensRights16/12/23 11:43 AM
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And I agree with you on that. I wrote down some things that stood out to me. As such as instead of a mentor to speak to, you would meet with a skilled professional as an apprentice to build a skilled trade that you could eventually make money from and live off of.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 11:38 AM
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Please don't insult me like. I do not agree with the feminist that you see. I said above i'm a feminist and that I agree equality is key. If you're too scared to pick up a gun and go fight a war, then you're not a fucking feminist.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 11:37 AM
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I do but they're very inconsistent. My own father passed away when I was seven. I lost my cousin to a suicide. My teenage son jesus father once a week. I say out of it it's there hang out time. I even pay his father's phone bill so he'll talk to his son. My fiance passed away two years ago. Unfortunately it just been he and I since then. He is doing wonderfully and i'm very proud of him. To edit I love your idea. As I've been going through the comments. I've been writing some things down and it'…
/r/MensRights16/12/23 11:35 AM
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Do you have different protocol in clinic regarding methadone. I had to remove someone from shelter for blowing above the legal limit. I gave drug test three times a week and it was part of their agreement of being housed by our program. I don't give a fuck about internet points as a woman. Especially if you're going to speak to me that way. I can seek validation elsewhere what would be much more kind. I want to get men in crisis off the fucking street. Where my location is we do have some men's …
/r/MensRights16/12/23 11:31 AM
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Thank you for saying that. I appreciate that and it means a lot to me.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 11:22 AM
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Well, I was just accused of posting this for internet points as a woman. I could get internet points by bragging I can change my own brakes. I've been doing this s*** for years and I'm tired of seeing apathy. No sympathy, i'm angry. Thank you for your kind words.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 11:21 AM
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I didn't read all of this yet, but I am indeed a social worker and I work with the homeless community. I used to be a housing case manager for veterans. I'll be back shortly.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 11:15 AM
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I have heard of it and it sounds pretty successful. It's something. We need more of this. I'm glad we can talk about it because it's almost a dirty word. Homeless. It could happen to anyone at any time. Thank you for the links.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 11:13 AM
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Also that is something I considered. Last winter I walked past eight bordered up house with a man sleeping on the steps. What I thought about after that is? What can we do with abandoned properties? That would offer one a job. For men that don't have one and a place to stay for men who don't have a place to stay? It's criminal. I think it would be great to integrate an apprenticeship program and carpentry or hvac. Or anything that teaches you a skilled trade and a place to call home.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 11:09 AM
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I really value your opinion I think it's great. There was some insight and there I hadn't considered. I promise you I do not believe that you are incapable. Isolation is sometimes actually super fucking helpful. This is why it wasn't such a fleshed out idea. It's been something. I've been running around my mind for a while. And what I came up with is most of the people. I knew growing up only had one parent. And i'm in no way wanting anyone to feel like they're being spoken to in a condescending…
/r/MensRights16/12/23 11:06 AM
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That's a really tough spot to work through. But it's something you know that you need to eventually. The amount of people that are upset with their parents because they couldn't give a shit list about helping you reach your full potential, isn't uncommon. My only advice is shove it in their face and do it anyway. Your first sentence screams adhd to me by the way. Have you been screened?
/r/MensRights16/12/23 11:02 AM
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The state I live in works similarly to that model. Definitely not all drugs are decriminalized, ut we are huge on harm reduction. Unfortunately, a urine screen that pops up with any kind of drug can get you booted from shelter. I don't think that that is acceptable or helpful.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 11:00 AM
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I have! A lot of their programs require sobriety or a detox before you can begin the program. Now I understand completely why this is reasonable to request. However, some people just aren't ready. To get off of drugs and to get sober requires a feeling of safety. Home first, safety first, then heal. One of my contacts is a pretty successful grant writer, so I'm going to reach out to them and see how they can help. I would just like to present something that is doable and reasonable and helpful.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 10:54 AM
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I understand this also. Another not so fleshed out point of the program i'm thinking of would be peer to peer support with other men who have been through similar and came out on the other side.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 10:51 AM
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I have looked into a lot of them and some of them require sobriety as part of being a part of the program. I don't agree with that. I actually think it stops some people from seeking out help. Massachusetts
/r/MensRights16/12/23 10:49 AM
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I understand and I already agree with you. I have felt that way for quite some time. You mentioned that the system is favored towards women. And I wrote this post to maybe take the first step in changing that a bit. I'm working with what I know about my generation. Not a lot of fathers around and basically not knowing what the hell to do. I'm a feminist in the sense that I am for equality, But that's where it ends. The new wave feminism. I honestly don't even know what it's about. But my idea of…
/r/MensRights16/12/23 10:46 AM
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If you're going to down vote, me please tell me where i'm going wrong. I'm really trying to build some support for the men in my community. I am a mother of sons, and I am upset that So many men have just been left behind.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 10:26 AM
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I was expecting vitriol from a man I I tend to skim. I caught buzzwords and missed the sarcasm. Apologies, truly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/22 02:01 AM
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You sound like an idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/22 01:48 AM
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This doesn't feel good. Gross. How can anyone have an orgasm while pretending absolutely torturous physical pain is what gets them revved up. This isn't normal, this is for degenerates. I hope they're safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/22 01:46 AM
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I asked the man I'm dating (this has been his only fuck up thus far) if he was insecure because of how many times he told me his female friends were "smokeshows" and his exes didn't like them. I said basically "I'm glad you have pretty friends, are you being insecure because I also have attractive friends"? And then we had a communicative conversation that solved the issue. I was completely taken aback.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 11:22 PM
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That's when my ex started his affair! He's married to her now. I'm still happily single. Broke, but working hard, but I would much rather this than having to handle all the bills and money while some gross dude uses the internet I pay for to masturbate. I appreciate her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 10:57 PM
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