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| 1 | Masculinity is defined by not being feminine. This a poor definition.I try to be my brother's keeper, in a general and actual sense. I consider that part of being protective and being masculine and being a just person is a part of that. Having a sense of justice, I believe, is a large part of masculinity. We don't like seeing others being taken advantage of, bullied and etc. I also said being peaceful is another trait. The old Red pill guys might think of it as "holding frame," and that's a part of being peaceful and consistent. These to me are masculine traits. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Masculinity is defined by not being feminine. This a poor definition.Masculinity is defined by being just, peaceful and protective. (?) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Let's be honest: men also have different rules for the women they're attracted to.I did it call it a "theory," but for clarification theory in the colloquial, non scientific way. It's just that 80/20 advocates point to women dating the same men as a reason for their conclusions. Dating the same is the premise of the post, and given as an actual, common scenario, proving the 80/20 guys at least partially right. In any case, women, have some self respect, holy heck. Don't date men who don't like you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 07:34 AM |
| 2 | Let's be honest: men also have different rules for the women they're attracted to.Why are you with a man that's not attracted to you? That sounds like hell. This is not helping the 80/20 theories. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 09:47 PM |
| 5 | Question for Women: What are the barriers that stop women from just taking the initiative and asking guys out on a date that they clearly like or have a crush on?it’s a low effort opportunity to get sex I really don't know any men like this, and I've known a lot of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 03:07 AM |
| 1 | If women are kind of disgusted by male sexuality by default, then they really shouldn't be so shocked that men too have negative feelings about theirs.I'm too lazy to write out personal experiences but they're all over the internet. Now it's content so some of it is tongue in cheek, hyperbole, comedy, etc, but it seeps into the culture. On ogling there should be discussions. Not everyone is treated the same and guys get accused of ogling when they're just existing. Without going into anecdotes, which I have, gym content women post that all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 02:50 PM |
| 2 | If women are kind of disgusted by male sexuality by default, then they really shouldn't be so shocked that men too have negative feelings about theirs.women's sexuality Thanos voice: "I don't even know who you are." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 09:01 AM |
| 0 | If women are kind of disgusted by male sexuality by default, then they really shouldn't be so shocked that men too have negative feelings about theirs.Why should I be subjected with getting a tip directly into my back pocket with a pinch? Women are just as bad as men. An old ass woman looked me up and down and licked her lips as I passed her. Why should I be subjected to that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 08:59 AM |
| 2 | If women are kind of disgusted by male sexuality by default, then they really shouldn't be so shocked that men too have negative feelings about theirs.Men don't goon to women's voices/convesations either. That guy was kind of a creep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 08:57 AM |
| 1 | If women are kind of disgusted by male sexuality by default, then they really shouldn't be so shocked that men too have negative feelings about theirs.Disgust or not there is a prevailing dictum that "men did this to me." Somehow, if something goes wrong, it was the guy's fault. There's not much introspection from the other direction. Did I, the woman, do something wrong, was I unpleasant, etc. It doesn't seem women ask themselves these questions. It should be the first or second thing they question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doGuys gotta gymmaxx. It's true. The lucky part is it becomes fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 06:41 AM |
| 3 | Women advise men to be confident, but also get annoyed if a guy has the audacity to think he has a chance with themSure, but women aren't overly more attractive than men. There really is a 1 to 1 mapping between men and women. We all live in an attractive spectrum and looksmatching is the simple matching of "We're both in this spectrum." One of two things is happening. Men are hornier than women, which I think is false, or women overestimate their attractiveness. In any case, "confidence" is a huge cope. What even is confidence? Is it a tone of voice, a twinkle in the eye, an easy smile; we may as well defin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 09:29 PM |
| 17 | Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superiorA lot of twitter women refused to understand how telling their bf "I wouldn't hook up with you if we just met, but I would hook up with him" was an insult. They could not understand that part, but that's so weird, because all it takes is role-reversal. No woman I know would not take this as an insult: "I would not hook up with you, babe, if we just met, but I would hook up with her." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 06:21 AM |
| 2 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.Otoh, you could just be having fun and romantic and impulsive. If you don't have any expectations, and you maybe want to make somebody smile, have some courage and some self esteem and say hi. So you didn't get a phone number, but maybe you had some fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 05:53 AM |
| 2 | Most Blue Pill men are just “sneaky fuckers” practicing sexual mimicry.I thought Blue Pill meant you believed in romance, true love and all the sappy stuff. I think Blue Pill guys are just guys who have succeeded with sappy stuff. Why would they not be like that if it works for them? That's why I'm Purple Pilled. You have to be okay with having a generous heart and seeing the best in people and believing in love even though it's only hormones or whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 05:06 AM |
| 5 | Is there a female equivalent of "betabuxx"?what's the Venn diagram between forever girlfriend and bangmaid look like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/24 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Getting women is supposed to come naturally, all this dating, PUA, or being nice and improving your personality are fairly new western concepts +globalization of the dating market ruined everything rantYou should gymmaxx and try being nice and open with others. It's Sunday. Get off the couch and go for a jog. Rant over. Cry about it more. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/11/23 11:52 AM |
| 4 | Dear Women, Do you think all men care about is sex?I want an entertaining relationship with great sex. Sex is important to me but it has to be within a relationship. In the dating world I still run into the "guys only want one thing" mindset. It's honestly childish. It literally sounds like middle school. And it's not true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 09:52 PM |
| -1 | Most women would be incels if they were born a manWhy is this controversial? Whatever you think about personalities, motivation, outcomes, etc, the fact is for whoever the observer is, you look at men and you take the percentage of them that you think are incels, ugly or losers, and that's the percentage the women you know in your life that would be incels, ugly or losers if they were men. We're a binary population of the same species. We map 1 to 1. It's just fact. It's not all blackpill either. I see an ugly girl I'm attracted to and I have h… | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/11/23 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Once a woman stops being attracted to her husband, and the bedroom is dead, there is no reviving it.Do people need to be attracted to each other to enjoy sex? If so, that's b.s. I'd dump a woman in a heartbeat for being lackluster in bed. It's a sign she's a deranged lunatic. If you're a guy who isn't a landwhale, enjoying sex should not be difficult for either party. I'll die on this hill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 07:52 AM |
| 2 | CMV „As a Man you should never be emotional/weak infront off you‘re Girl“ is one of the most brutal reality’s that a Man has to accept.The video posted a day ago or whenever isn't indicative of much. The crying guy mogged her. She knew it. He knows it. Therefore, he doesn't care, because she did a pre-emptive strike based on a made up reason. That was my take away. A 9/10 guy can do whatever he wants as much as a 9/10 lady. If he hit on her immediately after that production, she'd go with him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 07:47 AM |
| 3 | Men who refuse to raise a child that isn’t biologically yours but want kids, why do you want kids?But adoption exists in great apes too; in lion prides as well; and in the animal kingdom generally. Dogs will adopt tigers in captivity. Coyotes adopt stray dogs in the wild. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 12:01 AM |
| 0 | Men who refuse to raise a child that isn’t biologically yours but want kids, why do you want kids?Is OP saying people shouldn't raise their own children, or just that there's nothing wrong with raising someone else's? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Opinion on this? Comments were wild on thisOkay, but this is fake and made for engagement. The creator knows it will get a lot of comments. I personally have never seen this work out irl. Have any of you? | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/10/23 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Opinion on this? Comments were wild on thisWhat about this scenario... A friend of mine, one of the most beautiful girls you'll ever see, dated two chads in high school. I know for a fact she didn't have sex with one of them because he was my best friend. Can't say anything about the other guy because he was older than us. But, she goes on to marry a year or two after high school a 5'5 guy, not handsome, rather trollish, who became a dentist; nice dude, nothing wrong with him. For context, she's 5'7. | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/10/23 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Men's standards are almost always perceived as misogynistic and judgmental?high n-count women are also at the bottom of the bucket for men. Really? I'm usually attracted to attractive women. Maybe my body count detector is on the fritz, because I can't tell someone's body count when I first meet them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 10:06 AM |
| 1 | Men's standards are almost always perceived as misogynistic and judgmental?What's your body count and what's an acceptable body count to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 09:59 AM |
| 1 | I think the majority of men are unattractive in large part because of their high bodyfat %Hey, I said the same thing about a week ago in a thread about the % of women deemed attractive vs the % of men: https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1776qkw/more_women_than_men_are_seen_as_attractive_by/k4s8unn/ My thought was that women have more attractive fat distribution than me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 04:56 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of this situation?The internet has allowed lonely people to express themselves, something rare in pre-internet times. It's a modern marvel and a positive one. You're right. It is a source of amusement, one which didn't exist to people before. | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/10/23 07:11 AM |
| 2 | What do you think of this situation?Do you expect khhvs to be content when everything in the world, absolutely everything, tells them not to be content? It's a bit much. I'm not sure Buddha could do it in today's world, much easier in 500 bc when there wasn't much to it. | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/10/23 04:56 AM |
| 1 | More women (than men) are seen as attractive by other women, because the standard of what passes as attractive man is higher and unforgivingLook at the disparity between self-identified attractiveness between men and women. Notice how women rate themselves attractive at a higher rate than men. https://twitter.com/basic_chanel/status/1713571274050420740 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 07:26 PM |
| 2 | More women (than men) are seen as attractive by other women, because the standard of what passes as attractive man is higher and unforgivingThe blue pill is true. Everything you say is normal and natural. However, the red pill side is also true. Women do have a beauty standard even if it's low. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 08:30 PM |
| 3 | More women (than men) are seen as attractive by other women, because the standard of what passes as attractive man is higher and unforgivingMen go to the gym more because a fat man is more unattractive than a fat woman. Men who go to the gym for aesthetics know this. A little pooch on a woman never hurt anyone. A pooch on a man is the subject of ridicule. So it's not a matter of men go to the gym because of obesity. They go to the gym to be attractive (and health of course). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 12:52 PM |
| 6 | More women (than men) are seen as attractive by other women, because the standard of what passes as attractive man is higher and unforgivingExcuse me. I see all women, because I'm not a shallow person interested in others solely for dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 05:13 AM |
| 6 | More women (than men) are seen as attractive by other women, because the standard of what passes as attractive man is higher and unforgivingWhat I'm saying though is that in comparably fat people, women are considering pretty whereas men are not. A chunky woman gets a lot of attention whereas the male counterpart does not. Yes, there's been a national uptick of women in the gym, but in terms of pure numbers nationwide, and the dedication men put into it versus women, I'm not convinced that women are catching up; maybe in your town. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 04:55 AM |
| 7 | More women (than men) are seen as attractive by other women, because the standard of what passes as attractive man is higher and unforgivingI'll play this game. Men out number women in the gym by 10-1 at least. Men participate in sports in their mid 20s and beyond by an equally large measure. Of course people can "let themselves go," but women can be twice as fat as men and be considered hot simply because of where their fat collects. I'm saying this as a generality, and not that ugly women, i.e. women who collect fat abnormally, don't exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 01:10 AM |
| 1 | More women (than men) are seen as attractive by other women, because the standard of what passes as attractive man is higher and unforgivingHey guys, don't worry. the issue's been solved. Just work 40+ hours a week and have the Brad Pitt body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 12:56 AM |
| 6 | More women (than men) are seen as attractive by other women, because the standard of what passes as attractive man is higher and unforgivingNot only all of this, but men collect fat on their bellies, women on their thighs, hips, butts and breasts. A woman can have the same or more amount of fat as a man, and the woman will be hot, sexy and fuckable. The man will be ugly, ogre, unkept; at best, dad bod (with the implication you're getting a pity A-B rating). If you want to be a hot dude, you have to spend at least half your year in the gym. Women have to skip a pizza every once in a while. Lol, idk if I'm exaggerating but it's more o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 12:52 AM |
| 5 | Rate his pERsonalityNo, he's a terrible person, a frat guy and all around asshole. | /r/AllPillDebate | 13/10/23 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Women don’t want men to have success in datingDo you think what's in those magazines helps women? For example, is improving your make up by 10% going to make a difference? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 09:35 AM |
| 10 | Why we need to gatekeep the blackpill communityToo late. All the e-communitycels are blackpill lingomaxxing. It's been over. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/10/23 07:05 PM |
| – | Why SHOULDN'T I treat marriage like a job?I'm with you except that as a guy, I treat the emotional stuff as a job. Treating you with respect, listening to you, keeping my eyes and heart solely for you, prioritizing you .... all of these types of things = job. You can be the hottest, most interesting woman in the world; there will still come a time when you turn into a job. That's why I wouldn't mind if you got too clingy. It's just another detail in my chosen profession. Sex is the only thing that won't turn into a job. The funny thing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 09:04 AM |
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