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then maybe you should quit typing in MRP codes and just tell her you don't like it, it's not productive, I can agree with this. Then show her another way to express herself without all the build up and explosions. This requires vulnerability and trust in me which I don't think she has.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/20 10:48 PM
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If I had to point a finger she was raised by her grandmother while her mother worked, was taught not to show any negative emotion. Was told not to cry at the hospital when her mom died. Was told to cry when she got home. If I pressure flipped or fogged or even STFU it would have continued. But if you have some input I would love to hear it.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/20 10:02 PM
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Who taught her this was ok? Is she mirroring you? She is not mirroring me. I couldn't tell you who taught her this is ok but it predates me, back to her childhood. My energy was congruent. but only with my counterpunch. Much was said that was disrespectful on her part prior to my AM and sarcasm. I shut it down. Held frame, and she reacted with anger. I held frame, her threat of divorce was manipulation on her part as a power game. I didn't bite. I could have supplicated but whose frame would I b…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/20 09:04 PM
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Feels like there is more to the story. I wouldn't think minor shit tests typically lead to threats of divorce and things being thrown around the house. Maybe an boundary enforcement, depending on what it is. Sure. Shit test escalated with some AM with a little too much sarcasm. When the harping continued, I shut it down with you need to leave, our mojo is not good right now and this is not working for me right now. She had somewhere to be at the time. She went to the car, then came back into the…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/20 06:05 PM
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OYS #10 Stats: Age: 43; Married 8yrs, Together 10yrs, Wife 39, two kids 4 and 6 Readings: NMMNG, WISNIFG, Rational male, MMSLP, TWOTSM, Book of Pook, Practical Female Psychology; The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck; Currently reading The Daily Stoic and relistening to Practical Female psychology and TWOTSM and Stickied posts Fitness: 199.0lbs, 5 11", BF 17% (caliper) BP 275, DL 406, squat 375, OP 205. I lift 5 -6 days per week, Intermittent fast M-F. Still feeling strong. Bench last week I was a…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/20 03:16 PM
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Not my intent. But I hear you. Probably some impatience on my part looking for feedback that I’m on the right track to unfucking parts of my life. Instead, I should own my shit, read, lift, sidebar, apply, test, observe, recalibrate, rinse and repeat and allow my growth to reveal its own results. Frame needs to carry over my OYS as well. Thanks for pointing this out.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/20 02:54 AM
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Thanks for the feedback. I only have been posting for the past 7 weeks, but have been sidebaring, reading, and applying principles since last summer. I don't know if my convo in my OYS about my wife leaving and taking the kids was a mini main event or not but things have been better. I have been better. And so has my relationship. I really feel like I'm on the right path to becoming the best Petey208 I can be. Especially in leading in different aspects of my life. When I write my OYS, I write to…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/20 04:06 PM
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I suppose it could be. Wasn’t seeking it. I’m happy they ordered the best damn burger I have ever had. Ground Wagyu cooked to order (medium rare) with house fixings on a fresh Brioche bun. Make you wanna slap your mama good. What do you have against burgers bro? Edit: great post on Manning 101 BTW. I am proficient here. I don’t seek validation with my friends, social circles or the corporate world. I have always done well there. Yes, I have sought Validation in my current LTR. Good lover, egalit…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/20 02:27 AM
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If I asked you what time it was you would tell me how to build a watch. You think way too much. Growth is going to come from action. Not analyzing the consequences. It's ok to fail. It is how you grow.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/20 09:08 PM
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I've been an absolute lazy sack of shit in many areas You are living in Choas. It's hard to grow in that environment. Mow your fucking lawn, fix your fucking car, do your chores to fix your house. Clean your house daily. My living area and kitchen is picked up and clean every night. Like a reset button. Its the last thing I do before I head to bed. I wake up to leave for work and my house is ready to be open for business. It's not difficult. Be the last one to bed. Clean your castle. It's yours.…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/20 04:34 PM
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OYS #9 Stats: Age: 43; Married 8yrs, Together 10yrs, Wife 39, two kids 4 and 6 Readings: NMMNG, WISNIFG, Rational male, MMSLP, TWOTSM, Book of Pook, Practical Female Psychology; The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck; Currently reading The Daily Stoic and relistening to Practical Female psychology. Fitness: 199.0lbs, 5 11", BF 17% (caliper) BP 275, DL 406, squat 375, OP 205. I lift 5 -6 days per week, Intermittent fast M-F. Still feeling strong. Bench last week I was able to push 225lbs 16 times. S…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/20 03:33 PM
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Grip starting to fail on Deadlift. Consider using the “Hook Grip” and get some chalk. Both make a difference.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/20 05:11 AM
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OYS #8 Stats: Age: 43; Married 8yrs, Together 10yrs, Wife 39, two kids 4 and 6 Reading: NMMNG, WISNIFG, Rational male, MMSLP, TWOTSM, Book of Pook, Practical Female Psychology; The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck; Currently reading The Daily Stoic and relistening to TWOTSM audiobook. I have found more value in my re-reads, or second round via audiobook. Fitness: 199.0lbs, 5 11", BF 17% (caliper) BP 275, DL 406, squat 365, OP 205. I lift 5 -6 days per week, Intermittent fast M-F. Still feeling st…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/20 02:05 PM
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Yes. You might want to read this: Transformation and Building Escape. You become her escape with your immovable trust. I came to this write up a while ago after reading part 1 but saw caution tape as I was still operating in my wife's frame. I may have skimmed it but regardless, I wasn't close to any point of application. TWOTSM. Read once, Audio book and on my second listen. It is making much more sense this listen. Step 1. I have accepted that I cannot change her frame or her, but be a contain…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/20 09:08 PM
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The idea is this: she was being crazy feminine, riding the waves, and there you stood as the oak. Let her do her thing, whatever, but you have boundaries. She pushed up against that boundary repeatedly to test it and you held it. This is an aphrodisiac to women and makes them wetter than niagra falls. They use their feminine to push up against you to feel the masculine. Calibrate. Very little shit tests after the episode and she was much more open emotionally as well after this. This woman's def…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/20 05:18 PM
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OYS #7 Stats: Age: 43; Married 8yrs, Together 10yrs, Wife 39, two kids 4 and 6 Reading: NMMNG, WISNIFG, Rational male, MMSLP, TWOTSM, Book of Pook, Practical Female Psychology; The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck; Currently reading The Daily Stoic and relistening to TWOTSM audiobook. I have found more value in my re-reads, or second round via audiobook. Fitness: 199.0lbs, 5 11", BF 17% (caliper) BP 275, DL 406, squat 345, OP 205. I lift 5 -6 days per week, Intermittent fast M-F. Still feeling st…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/20 01:56 PM
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Which brings me to, are they really that good? What is so different from a few years ago and do you see a real transformation in the dynamic since then? Currently, the seas have been calmer for this captain. I've been handling my shit, holding frame, and STFU. I am less angry at the past. Less Negative thoughts on the past. Less knee jerk reaction to shit tests. I'm not camping in Ramboville and have sprinkled a little more beta (comfort). I am calibrating where I need to. I'm happier with mysel…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/20 05:50 PM
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I also wouldn't worry about the "thirsty for sex" thing... As long as you're not being an idiot about it, I think it's good to be sexual throughout the day, just be mindful about how much validation seeking you're doing versus cocky/funny/confident. It was my own observation that if I am a little more aloof towards her body.. just a little, she is actually more receptive if I initiate. I am not an idiot about it...I just noticed that less is more. If I don't smack her ass EVERY time I walk by (h…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/20 04:48 PM
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OYS#6 Stats: Age: 43; Married 8yrs, Together 10yrs, Wife 39, two kids 4 and 6 Reading: NMMNG, WISNIFG, Rational male, MMSLP, TWOTSM, Book of Pook, Practical Female Psychology; The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck; Currently reading The Daily Stoic and Rian Stone YT MMSLP refresher. I have found more value in my re-reads, or second round via audiobook. Fitness: 199.8lbs, 5 11", BF 17% (caliper) BP 275, DL 406, squat 345, OP 205. I lift 5 -6 days per week, Intermittent fast M-F. Still feeling stron…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/20 02:13 PM
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OYS#5 Stats: Age: 43; Married 8yrs, Together 10yrs, Wife 39, two kids 4 and 6 Reading: NMMNG, WISNIFG, Rational male, MMSLP, TWOTSM, Book of Pook, Practical Female Psychology; The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck; Currently reading The Daily Stoic and Rian Stone YT MMSLP refresher. I have found more value in my re-reads, or second round via audiobook. Fitness: 196.8lbs, 5 11", BF 17% (caliper) BP 275, DL 406, squat 345, OP 205. I lift 5 -6 days per week, Intermittent fast M-F and fuck it up on th…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/20 03:43 PM
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Yeah, and maybe it's not worth reading into all that much or making such a big deal. Not everything is some super deep mystery that needs to be philosophized over and over. I had similar thoughts before I put it to paper. Edit: just read your post history, looks like you're well acquainted with ILYBINILWY I met a version of ILYBINILY in late 2017 with an EA. Early this year over a glass of wine and deep conversation, I was told the She didn't want it to define her love for me and was internalize…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/20 01:51 AM
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I see it differently. If she's lying like that, it's likely because she doesn't respect you as much as you'd like (and perhaps other reasons, like if you've gotten really mad at her for making purchases in the past, etc...). Could be lack of respect to someone that has allowed you to treat them like a doormat and has only been establishing boundaries for about a year. Or it was an oh shit, I bought myself shoes when I went "school clothes shopping " with my daughter and I don't want to own it so…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/20 08:33 PM
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If this is a boundary you have, enforce it. Honesty is boundary I expect not to be crossed given our history. You're incongruent here. Either it bothers you, or it doesn't. You didn't address the lying as a problem, but acted angrily. I can see the incongruence and felt it at the time. We were all being Jovial up to that point in the evening and I didn't want to blow it up with loss of frame or temper. So I withdrew my affection and attention the rest of the evening. I didn't feel like it was in…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/20 03:20 AM
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Thanks for the input. I need to clarify, my current reading is the Daily Stoic and MMSLP with RS YT Summary. I have read NMMNG x2; Rational Male x2; WISNIFG x2 since summer of 2019. My focus has been on the the RP 101 fundamentals that will help ME with frame, my own mental point of origin, and outcome independence. I will be the first to own that my first readings were an exercise. It was the 2nd readings, the OYS comments, and book summaries from Rian Stone as well as his cooking series on YT …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/20 09:06 PM
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OYS#4 Stats: Age: 43; Married 8yrs, Together 10yrs, Wife 39, two kids 4 and 6 Reading: NMMNG, WISNIFG, Rational male, MMSLP, TWOTSM, Book of Pook, Currently reading Practical Female Psychology; The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck; Currently reading The Daily Stoic and Rian Stone YT MMSLP refresher. Fitness: 198lbs, 5 11", BF 17% (caliper) BP 275, DL 406, squat 275, OP 205. I lift 5 -6 days per week, Intermittent fast M-F and fuck it up on the weekends. Feeling Strong. Been experimenting with the…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/20 02:53 PM
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What are you going to do to push yourself out of your comfort zone and fail at something? What are you going to try that is going to make you nervous and anxious and want to quit before you start? This was a good week, but after a couple rule 9's it's clear you live in your wife's frame, and that doesn't change after a week or two. How will you continue to be uncomfortable in your daily life and gain the confidence and respect in yourself you need? I know this is a long game of life and self awa…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/20 08:47 PM
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OYS#3 Stats: Age: 43; Married 8yrs, Together 10yrs, Wife 39, two kids 4 and 6 Reading: NMMNG, WISNIFG, Rational male, MMSLP, TWOTSM, Book of Pook, Currently reading Practical Female Psychology; The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck; The Daily Stoic Fitness: 198lbs, 5 11", BF 18% (caliper) BP 275, DL 406, squat 275 (shitty hip mobility= shit form=weak squat),OP 205. I lift 5 -6 days per week, Intermittent fast M-F and fuck it up on the weekends. Feeling Strong. Completed two 48 hr fasts during my R…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/20 01:57 PM
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I appreciate you calling it as you see it.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/20 05:34 PM
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It is what it is. I'll Embrace the truth. I'll be better for it. This truth doesn't change my mission. I really knew this a long time ago if I'm honest with myself. At least now I can use the rules of the game to my advantage. Thanks for the feedback.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/20 09:48 PM
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Absolutely, on the fogging. I typically don't just sit there like an autist. ILYBINILWY is in the back of my head. My marriage is not my mission.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/20 07:43 PM
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OYS #2 Previous OYS: OYS1 Stats: Age: 43; Married 8yrs, Together 10yrs, Wife 39, two kids 4 and 6 Reading: NMMNG, WISNIFG, Rational male, MMSLP, TWOTSM, Book of Pook, Currently reading Practical Female Psychology The following resonated with me “Love the woman for who and what she really is, not for what you wish her to be or what society says she should be.”- Practical Female Psychology Fitness: 198lbs, 5 11", BF 18% (caliper) BP 275, DL 406, squat 275 (shitty hip mobility= shit form=weak squat…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/20 12:57 PM
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Thanks for the feed back. |This is simply a derivation of ILYBINILWY |You're gonna want to read this Yes, I have read HOA's Post twice before and again after your comment. The first time, I lied to myself. Now, I know what the truth is. I've been told it was a "bad time for her" a "period in her life that she is ashamed of but doesn't define her", and "she can't be in a relationship where she is not trusted" . I don't trust her. Why should I? I owe her nothing. The relationship is a mess I need …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/20 01:40 PM
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OYS#1 Stats: Age: 43; Married 8yrs, Together 10yrs, Wife 39, two kids 4 and 6 Reading: NMMNG, WISNIFG, Rational male, MMSLP, TWOTSM, Book of Pook Fitness: 200lbs, 5 11", BF 18% (caliper) BP 275, DL 406, squat 275 (shitty hip mobility= shit form=weak squat),OP 205. I lift 5 -6 days per week, Intermittent fast M-F and fuck it up on the weekends. Background: Classic Beta story. Raised by a single mom and pedestalized every girl I have ever been with. Married my HS sweetheart, divorced after 7 yrs d…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/20 03:42 PM
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