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Red Pill Theorypewpsprinkler/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 08:58 AM
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Women never get turned on by begging and crying It worked with his mom. LOL seriously, though. romantically he's just a crappy match and he is the stereotype of the geeky gamer Some people see an email from a Nigerian prince and think OMG WHAT AN OPPORTUNITY! The power of delusion is strong when someone wants to believe. Also, a lot of betas think that any woman willing to talk to them or be friends with them is an automatic sexual opportunity, because THEY won't generally befriend women unless …
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/17 01:37 AM
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You sound like a feminist. Where is all this hostility coming from? The topic in question here said "dating/marrying", so for starters, my being unmarried is completely irrelevant. Also, (1) I didn't give advice, (2) it wasn't beneficial to me, and (3) my comments are beneficial in the context of male/female friendships, since I show it is possible in certain situations. You just don't like what I have to say so you're attacking me personally. Typical feminist behavior. I glanced at your post hi…
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/17 01:04 AM
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She looks pretty unimpressive to me there, too. I'm not even pulling out the big guns. People have different tastes, though, and a person's SMV is more like an average.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 11:35 PM
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I don't agree with him, and he doesn't need you white knighting for him.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 11:30 PM
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I consider 7 to be about average once some obviously unattractive groups are excluded. 7 is basically just "doable". 7 is good enough to get tons of sexual attention from men, though, especially if the girl has a slim body and isn't flat-chested. Kristin Kreuk would be something like a 9+/10. I dont think beyonce is attractive at all.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 11:11 PM
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Hint - we value RMV, not only SMV. I never claimed that women only care about SMV, or said anything at all about SMV in the post you're replying to. Women as a rule care for SMV far more than they admit, unless they have been burned and come to associate high SMV with getting cheated on, but even then, they want high SMV just packaged differently.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 11:07 PM
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I'm not sure I'd have anything to talk about with, or in common with, blue pill women. They tend to think I'm mean and cynical anyway because I shit all over their fairytale dreams. I have successfully Redpilled a few women though, and it is very satisfying.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 10:36 PM
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Where I live, I bet that the 2nd woman would be considered to have a higher SMV on average. You are looking at them with a female perspective of beauty. Women tend to be harsher on ethnic features, too.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 10:34 PM
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The only measure I take is to mentally make the women off limits, just like I would for any other person in my life who I had good reasons to not want to have sex with, like a family member or co-worker. That only sounds like a high price to pay when you aren't already dealing with a surplus of sexual supply. Back when I had a lot of female friends, I never had a problem with access to sex. I had a steady relationship and/or FWBs. In that context, if I met an attractive red pilled woman who I co…
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 10:30 PM
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Men and women can't be friends is RP 101 No, it's not.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 10:21 PM
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If you can't figure it out on your own, you don't deserve to know, plus, you're a guy and you're trying to play gatekeeper.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 10:19 PM
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her face isn't bad in that pic 6-7/10, but from that pic her body would seem to be thick in the middle which would make her like 4-5/10 body maybe. Anything below a 7 isn't really on my radar anymore. lol examples of a 7/10: http://imgur.com/a/RR7Nl http://imgur.com/a/UOoun
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 07:19 PM
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Sadly, our society is run by blue pill feminists who brainwash people like him when they are young and growing up. He is really a victim. This is also driven by female behavior: SO MANY women purposely seek out and cultivate betas by constantly whining about how their alpha BFs or FWBs are such assholes, and how they would be so happy if they could only find a "nice guy". Dumbass guys take this at face value and logically conclude that the key to sexual success means being nice and orbiting unti…
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 07:12 PM
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Watch your step, you might slip and fall into her vagina.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 07:04 PM
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My female friends were the most red pilled people I ever met. Why do you think I'm comfortable on RPW? Those women would have called most guys I knew a bunch of beta faggots, and that's the NICE guys. The problem with the vast majority of alpha males I knew is that they were dogshit as friends. They had giant egos and very little sense of loyalty, so they would backstab each other at the drop of a hat, and they were VERY competitive with each other. I never got close to them, but I observed thei…
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 07:03 PM
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Your problem is that you have your single, very limited/skewed, personal experience, and then pull theories out of your ass as if you have cracked the code to all human behavior. You're wrong, and there is a lot you don't understand about human behavior. Stop trying to generalize your personal experience and project it onto everyone else.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 06:59 PM
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Exactly. I tried to be friends with women who were under a 7/10 sometimes and it didn't work. They would fall in love with me and start to act inappropriately, OR even worse, they would become bitter and resentful that I didn't deem them "good enough" for me. Either way, it was impossible to form a stable long term friendship. However, I wound up being able to be friends easily with "hot" women. Those women couldn't stand that pretty much every man they ever met was trying to fuck them, so when …
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 06:56 PM
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Broke down into tears and begged me to take his virginity. So fucking pathetic. Typical beta orbiter. They're a dime a dozen out there.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 06:46 PM
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You are correct in most cases, but rare exceptions exist: I have never been hard-up for sex. I can get sex easily enough that I don't pillage my friendships for it I value my female friendships and I wouldn't ruin that value with any hint of sexual interest, because yes ANY interest kills the trust in the friendship and ruins it For a successful male/female friendship there needs to be a very strong boundary/wall between her and sex in your mind. Basically, she has to be like a sister. In order …
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 06:44 PM
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Men can rarely have a strong emotional bond with another woman who isn't his mother/sister/daughter without become romantically attracted to her. Rarely doesn't mean never. But yes, female friendships are only truly possible for men when the man has decided that the woman is sexually incompatible for some reason. I've had female friends. Sometimes they were attractive enough, but there was some reason that I didn't see them as good sexual partners. In one case it was because I had dated the woma…
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 06:38 PM
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I didn't pick her, someone higher up in the replies picked her. KK had curves before she was famous. Maybe she exaggerated them afterward, but it isn't worth arguing over.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 12:58 AM
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Sigh, I don't care to argue about Kim Kardashian. There are tons of women out there who clearly have amazing genetics without any surgery. Here's just one example of a woman (Katee Owen) who managed to win the genetic lottery by having her body store tons of fat in her breasts, allowing her to sport a natural DD+ cup while the rest of her body is slim.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 12:15 AM
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Plastic surgeons cannot manually move your body fat around to wherever they want it like you suggest. Liposuction leaves noticeable plug scars. KK has none. Any fat injected into any part of your body is temporary. It gets absorbed by your body and disappears. This is why lip injections are temporary. So no, it is not practical or possible for KK's proportions to be because of plastic surgery. Why do the women here want to claim it is impossible just because they didn't get KK's luck?
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 10:28 PM
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You can't accomplish those results with plastic surgery. I've met women who were super skinny, but if they gained any weight it went straight to their belly, so even gaining 5 lbs would give them a noticeable gut. I've met other women who could gain 10 lbs and go up more than a full cup size, plus get a fat ass, while keeping a small waist. Fat distribution is mostly genetic and is the single biggest factor in how most women's bodies look. Tits are almost entirely made of fat, so those skinny gi…
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 11:17 AM
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That might be true of some men, just like how lots of men can't tell that breasts are implants when they obviously are. I've seen my exes on the scale enough times to know they weren't lying. Lots of women don't lie about their weight, actually. Why would they, unless they had issues and insecurities over it?
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 12:43 AM
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The "captain" in your name seemed male I guess, lol. For a female, I'm sure a lot of women would be jealous of your fashion model body type.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 07:44 PM
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If you care about SMV, your goal weight should be 115-125. Thanks for misrepresenting my comment by cutting off part of the sentence to delete the very important and relevant qualifier. Do you always resort to lies to try to win arguments, or is this a one-off for you?
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 07:42 PM
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OP is not Kim Kardashian. KK is extraordinarily rare and lucky in how her body distributes fat. She is the exception, not the rule. KK is 120 now, not 135 I'm not suggesting anything for OP beyond the fact that 145 is still chubby.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 07:39 PM
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A woman needs to be VERY underweight to have it affect their health. Claiming that a woman at 5'6" who is 105-115 is unhealthy and "medically underweight" just because that is what a BMI calculator said is incredibly stupid. It is also bitter fatlogic sour grapes criticism of women with much higher SMV. Very very few women have enough muscle mass to look good at high weights. For every 1 woman who is 145 because she is ripped, there are probably about 100 who are just fat. I have never met a wom…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 07:32 PM
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It's weird because this is supposed to be RPW and people are supposed to take things like SMV seriously. Being perceived as "out of shape" or "flabby" is very damaging to a woman's SMV in a competitive area, and she could very easily be out of shape or flabby while being at a "healthy BMI". Like I said before, it is only the chronically overweight people who make a big issue of BMI, and they only embrace BMI because BMI standards are muuuuuuch more forgiving than social standards. The women I've…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 06:48 PM
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I'm 5'10" 120lbs and I don't appear underweight at all. Everyone is different. On a male that is very hard to believe. I don't know about "underweight" because that is mostly a fatlogic term, but "skinny as fuck" would certainly apply.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 06:40 PM
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curvy Kim Kardashian body She weighs 120 lbs and was 135 before she had kids, and that is for a woman with notoriously amazing fat distribution genetics where almost all of it is going to T&A, so Kim can hold a much higher amount of body fat than most women while retaining a high SMV.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 06:37 PM
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Yes, I saw them on a scale sometimes, and I saw them at a range of weights and noticed the differences between about 105 up to about 125. By 125, one of my exes at 5'6" had a noticeable gut, which she hated. I feel like they were lying, because 115 would put them just above medically underweight. I'm saying this in all honesty and with no intention to insult you: I never hear fit girls with attractive bodies talking about BMI and what is or is not "healthy". I only hear overweight people talking…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 06:30 PM
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I've had several GFs around 5'6" and they were all 105-125 lbs. So when OP is saying 145, that is still pretty chubby looking. If you care about SMV, your goal weight should be 115-125. If you don't care about SMV, then you aren't really following red pill strategy.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 11:31 AM
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Only buckets of fried chicken to my mouth. I'm so alpha I don't even need the aesthetics.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 10:06 AM
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You sound paranoid You are probably beta because you sound afraid Thanks for proving my point. You can't handle criticism without lashing out. I'm a beta? LOL. I'm more alpha than you could handle. Your bf/soon to be ex was clearly beta, and you broke him down to the point where he was an insecurely attached man-child. You are almost certainly responsible for how low he went, then instead of taking responsibility for the mess you made, you shat all over him in public and said he wasn't worthy of…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 02:35 AM
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Why wouldn't it be safe? Your vagina is full of bacteria. It is like Dagobah in there. Anal sex involves even more bacteria, but it is your own bacteria. It is more of a risk to the guy than to you. Technically you can eat your own shit and not get sick. You can always get UTIs, but that has to do more with your personal susceptibility to it, and there are things you can do to greatly lower the risk, like peeing after sex or taking a special antibiotic. Miss Hole Swap NEVER got a UTI or anything…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 02:30 AM
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I didn't edit anything. It is not about being mean. Brutal honesty can be conveyed with sickening sweetness and still tear down someone's self esteem.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 02:19 AM
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I really put my heart and soul into this relationship and did whatever I could to comfort him and make him feel good about things Your post said you were "painfully honest" and telling him things he didn't want to hear, which to me sounds like tearing down his self esteem and shrewing all over him.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/17 05:43 PM
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I don't think you are submissive enough to handle a real alpha. I think you want to be an alpha too, from how you talk, and you wouldn't be willing to truly follow a captain. The fact that you ended up in a relationship with a beta was not an accident. You purposely sought one out because it is the most stable relationship type for you, but then when things don't go your way, you use the guy as your punching bag and shit all over him. Like I said before, you've got problems.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/17 05:41 PM
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Attitude is everything. If you love sex and want to be good at it, you will be. I can't speak for all men, but among men who like sex, I can explain how we generally evaluate sex partners: Permissiveness: I've had women who refused to give me a blowjob, all the way to women who were happy to have me hole swap. The more open-minded you are and the more things you are willing to do, the more respect a guy will have for your sexual prowess. Skill: This mostly applies to blowjobs and riding when you…
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/17 05:16 AM
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maybe he likes taking a vacation there, but doesn't want to live there. guys will look at women that might be hot to them in that moment, but they wouldn't want to look at them every day.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/17 08:27 PM
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It's just like if a guy didn't like his woman having beta orbiters. Well it's female nature to want lots of male attention and validation isn't it? So by your logic men should just accept it because red pill. I don't think red pill means all women want beta orbiters, if anything, a red pill woman wouldn't want them at all, and having them would be a sign of bad character on the woman's part. We are allowed to have it be a deal breaker for us and if the men in our lives don't like it, they can le…
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/17 12:35 AM
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I'm not defending his submissive beta personality, but let's be honest here. Flip the genders, and have a woman lie to avoid getting yelled at by her domineering husband, and suddenly she is the victim and he is the villain. A lot of comments in this topic are pretty feminist sounding, instead of what Im used to hearing from red pill women. Maybe porn is just one of those things that some people just refuse to take the red pill route on, but it seems silly to me, because if you believe the rest …
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/17 08:53 PM
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There is literally an entire South Park episode devoted to this topic: Season 14 Episode 1: Sexual Healing The episode is about Tiger Woods cheating, and mocks all the shaming and lies that men do to placate women, when the truth is that men just like sex and like variety. The men go to extreme, increasingly ridiculous lengths to lie to keep the false narrative up for the women like OP (and some others posting here).
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 09:56 PM
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A lot of addicts will admit that their vice is bad. So now you are calling him an addict? You've actually just supported to idea that he might have a pornography addiction. No, you just decided to call him one for no good reason. You seem pretty convinced of all the details of their relationship, though Actually, I'm not the one calling the guy a porn addict. I'm just going off what OP has told us, so maybe you know something I don't. How to read between the lines. I'm going to agree to disagree…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 09:47 PM
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If OP is a black BBW and the boyfriend is looking at nothing but petite asian girls, then I think there might be an issue. That would indicate to me that OP is not really her BFs type, and that he "settled" for her. People who settle don't tend to stick around forever.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 09:33 PM
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he was in full agreement that pornography is harmful No, if he thought it was so bad, he wouldn't have been looking at it all the time. He placated her and told her what she wanted to hear so that she would get off his back. Just because she was shaming him and he went along with it, doesn't mean that he agreed with her. It could simply mean that he (1) thought it hurt her feelings and was willing to do or say anything to make her feel better, (2) thought that she would flip out and bring on wor…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 09:30 PM
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The world is full of betas, and there are plenty of women who are happy with them. Saying that they are "sissies who do not deserve love of any kind" is ridiculous and cruel. It is the kind of thing that a cartoon villain would say. I have male friends who are betas, in good relationships with happy girlfriends. OP's comment is basically saying that those men deserve to be treated like shit.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 09:18 PM
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Your statement was legit crazy. A normal person wouldn't try to defend it, they'd say "wow yeah, that was super extreme, did I really say that? I was just upset. I didn't mean it" not doubling down on it. That makes you come off as a person who takes extreme positions and then is too stubborn to admit they went too far.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 08:37 PM
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The guy is super insecure. You can never win with an insecure person by placating them. Insecurity is irrational and emotional by nature, and no matter what you do, they will always imagine some may you might have gotten around it.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 08:34 PM
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Men who impose on girl time are sissies who do not deserve love of any kind. LOL yeah you two deserve each other.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 08:29 PM
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No he doesn't. He was just telling her what she wanted to hear to get her off his back. He isn't red pill and neither is she. He is weak and she is controlling.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 08:13 PM
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Uhh, because he knew she would judge him and get all butthurt and start a fight over it, so he took the easy way out and AVOIDED conflict with her. The larger issue is why she feels the need to have an absolute mental monopoly on his libido, and to shame him and control him.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 08:11 PM
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Lies? come on, she forced him to lie to her. He knew she would judge him, so he dodged. It's on her being judgmental and controlling, not him. Him lying just shows he is too weak and conflict adverse to stand up to her. As far as "this amount of porn", this amount is only daily or every other day, which is perfectly normal for a guy who is bored.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 08:09 PM
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Sex is like cooking a fancy dinner. Jacking off is like grabbing a cookie. Sometimes you just want a cookie.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 08:07 PM
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OP isn't being red pill at all here, getting all insecure and taking it personally that a guy looks at porn. Men are not naturally monogamous. By nature, we want to have sex with every woman on earth who we find to be attractive. This is BASIC RED PILL philosophy, and it is correct. Just because he agreed to be in a LTR with you, doesn't mean that his body doesn't still want to fuck other women. Just because you give him sex when he wants it from you, doesn't mean you have drained his libido to …
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 08:02 PM
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Your face may be a 5-6, but if your body is a 9-10, you will never have a shortage of guys trying to get with you. In fact, those girls gets the MOST attention from men. My current GF is more of a 9+ face and 9+ body, and she rarely gets hit on, because most men assume she is out of their league or are intimidated by her. She is great in bed now, but she was never as eager to learn or get into it as a girl with a 7 face would have been. Hot face women tend to take a more negative view of sex as …
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/17 05:22 PM
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You personally value him lower, and you should, but I am talking about SMV, not other kinds of value. High SMV = power = options, and that means lower consequences to cheating (getting a replacement is easier) and many more temptations/opportunities.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/17 02:46 AM
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This is RPW, not TRP. It is a different forum with a different demographic, different values and different goals. You seem to have forgotten that. I believe there is a sidebar guide for male posters which spells it out. I am well aware of what the rules are and what RPW is, you clearly have a problem with being Red Pill. You have a very blue pill attitude overall. In civilised societies, infidelity is considered morally wrong and cruel. So is lying. Spare me the melodrama. The world is not as bl…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/17 01:37 AM
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Women usually react positively or negatively to attempts to flirt by how high the SMV of the guy saying it is. "thank you hunny" from Adam Levine or Channing Tatum is going to get a blush, while the same exact words from a creepy uncle type will be met with rage or disgust. I'm willing to bet that this guy, in his phone call with you, did not demonstrate a high SMV. It doesn't matter that you didn't see him, you probably made assumptions based on how he sounded/spoke etc.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/17 12:42 AM
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This guy isn't a liar and a cheat because he's so attractive. He's a liar and a cheat because he's a liar and a cheat. Oh please, you act like the two have no correlation whatsoever. Guys who are hot and good in bed are not as likely to be Mister Monogamy because they have a lot more opportunities. Monogamy for them is a major sacrifice. The only reason he can't stop himself is because he has no backbone, conscience, empathy or sense of personal responsibility. No, you are wrong. The guy just lo…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/17 12:33 AM
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Plus, the cause of it is clearly OPs hedonistic gluttony and complete lack of impulse control. Of course everyone would love to pig out and jack off all day. People don't do that because they don't want to be fat and want to do something productive with their day.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/17 04:14 PM
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my life was probably nothing like anyones life. Of course it was. You thinking youre such a snowflake makes you into a huge cliche. my childhood was a tragedy. i was a loner and i still am. i spent my time playing video games and building imaginary friends in my head. my life was pretty much in my head and my toys were my friends. I never went to camp and i don't remember one good story from my childhood. You realize you're describing most of Reddit, right? You think Reddit is where the cool kid…
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/17 04:10 PM
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If you want to improve, then you are not one of them, and shouldn't be bothering with them
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/17 03:59 PM
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No offense, but what did you expect? He didn't dip his feet in the swimming pool to check the water last time around, he went full on Anthony Wiener Carlos Danger mode. Of COURSE he was going to do it again. It isn't your fault, it is just that this guy isn't monogamous. He is hot enough to consistently seduce women, and he can't help his desire to get out there and do it. It gives him satisfaction and a sense of accomplishment, and boosts his ego, to get all these women clamoring for his dick. …
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/17 03:55 PM
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lol honestly, if you could take the heat, if you posted candid pics I'm sure I could explain how to improve your SMV.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/17 12:48 AM
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The SMV scale isn't useless. People's tastes may vary, but you have an aggregate/average that shows 1 woman is overall more desired than another. There might be a guy out there who like smelly fat hairy women. He may or may not be the legendary bigfoot in disguise, but rest assured there is only 1 of him, and millions of men who like slim women in good shape with T&A, and attractive faces.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/17 12:33 AM
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The single most decisive factor under the law in most cases is "sympathy". Whoever is more sympathetic, wins. It doesn't matter if it's a jury or a judge. It is actually pretty rare to get a judge who is professional enough to take his or her own bias out of the equation.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/17 09:23 PM
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I'm happy you think justice works well for good people. The justice system is a mess, and judges make bad decisions all the time. Unfortunately if a judge thinks you are "bad" and the other side is "good", they will often twist the law to make sure you lose even though you are clearly right. I had a client - the guy oozed sleaze but he was 100% right and should have won - lose to someone who was even worse, just because the judge didn't like him.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/17 08:47 PM
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I always had that idea that I could have become a very successful and heartless bitch lawyer and win many cases for bad people. Being a bad person or a bitch doesn't make a person a successful lawyer, and bad people usually lose their cases, especially if they have "heartless bitch" lawyers. source: am lawyer I was disgusted at myself last night. In your mind, you aren't the aggressor, you are just defending yourself. So you don't see it as "bad". To fix it, you just need to slow everything down…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/17 08:03 PM
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Who said it was "all the time" ? I (don't really) appreciate your comment but I hope it made you feel better about yourself Perfect example! You got triggered and felt attacked. You TRIED to mitigate your response, but your response still came out bitchy. That's exactly the approach from you that grates on people. You cherry picked something I said, took it out of context, and then delivered a bitchy backhand over it. This is you trying to be better? lol "all the time" can mean "on a frequent ba…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/17 05:39 PM
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I doubt that your example was a representative example. It sounds like a very weak example that you picked because it doesn't make you look too bad. If this is all there was to you being a bitch, he wouldn't have hit his breaking point. The fact that he worded his comment is such a ridiculously polite way makes me think he is afraid of you. You get triggered easily because you are hyper-defensive, which is the core of your problem. You take everything personally and lash out at anyone who so muc…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/17 05:37 PM
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Being a bitch is not a diagnosis for BPD. I don't think this girl has BPD. I don't think a BPD would react to breaking her boyfriend and him threatening abandonment in this way, really. It's POSSIBLE, but not likely. There are a lot of defining characteristics of BPD, none of which leaked into her post. Sometimes a bitch is just a bitch. She said her mom put up with it. It is like when a child has doormat parents: the child becomes a little terror because he is used to walking all over everyone …
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/17 05:28 PM
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This sounds borderline emotionally abusive on your part There is nothing borderline about it, she openly admits that she is emotionally abusive.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/17 05:25 PM
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I really value this relationship and I want to spend my life with this man (yes, he is awesome). Real talk: then why do you treat him like shit all the time? Your man's problem is that he is like a sponge and absorbs your shit too much, instead of putting you in your place when you get out of line. You like this, because it lets you be your horrible self (let's be honest here) but a sponge can only hold so much until it is full. Your man hit that point and had a breakdown. If you were dating me,…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/17 05:17 PM
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In 2015, there were 73.51 million women aged 16 and over in the labor force, representing 46.8% of the total labor force. Of the 16.9 million people who experienced unemployment in 2015, 13.8 million also worked at some time during the year. Among those who worked and experienced some unemployment during 2015, 26.0 percent were unemployed 15 to 26 weeks, and 23.0 percent were unemployed 27 weeks or longer. In 2015, 19.0 percent worked part year and were unemployed 1 to 4 weeks. At any given time…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/17 09:50 AM
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I live on the west coast in the big city. Most of the population of the US is in big cities, small towns. Small towns aren't as competitive as the big cities, but all the good jobs and the big money are here not there. Women who put family first aren't going to have the same earning potential or opportunities as the women who put career first. Maybe people can be happy in your town, but I wouldn't be happy there, nor would almost everyone I know here.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/17 04:19 PM
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Some women either don't want babies at all, or would be perfectly happy with 1 or 2 in their 30s. It is absolutely too late for success. You have to compete in the workplace. You can't just expect to disappear for years and not fall behind.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/17 03:57 PM
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This is exactly right. OKcupid published stats showing then men keep hitting on 18 year olds all the way up to age 45 or so, and the only reason they slow it down then (they don't stop, the volume just starts to drop) is that theyre so deep into creeper territory by then. Most men would gladly date as young as the law allows, but they lie like rugs and claim to only desire women close their own age. It is SUUUUUUCH BULLSHIT and its soooo fake. They only do it because they are afraid of social di…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/17 07:24 PM
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The fact that you get so riled up emotionally about this, appears that you might consider therapy. Are you still at it? I'm not riled up or upset. I spotted some serious bullshitting, called you out on it, and now I'm done. I'm satisfied that you are more or less a sociopath, and I have nothing more to say to you.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/17 04:21 PM
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So it seems clear to me, but I could be wrong, that you experienced abuse yourself and all that kind of lying and deceit and manipulation and so certain things that I did may trigger you to assume that I'm "just like" that person that abused you. Grroooooooooooooaaaaaaaaannnnnnnnnnnn, sorry to disappoint you, but I'm just a normal male adult who has enough empathy and enough of a conscience to not purposely hurt my girlfriend just to bend her to my will. For fucks sake, man. I caught you and cal…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/17 03:10 PM
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It is not manipulative to simply be open and honest. That's not what you said/did. You said you purposely cultivated relationships with other women and then showed them off to your wife in order to manipulate her and make her feel insecure. Then you danced for joy and came in here to RPW and expected cheers and high fives for your success. Then you not only discarded those "friendships" since they had served their purpose, you patted yourself on the back about how you were such a nice and loyal …
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/17 02:41 PM
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I didn't know what loneliness was or felt like until recently. This is called "playing the victim" and it is one of the most common and successful manipulations used by abusers. And also my daughter too (22 years old) is after me to spend time and showing affection to me unlike ever before. Your daughter was probably aware of the abuse and distanced herself from you in solidarity with her mother. She has misread her mother's desperation towards you as a green light that you are "better", but she…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/17 02:29 PM
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Abusers don't go to a few years of therapy and then just magically become super nice non-abusive people, as your posts are great at demonstrating. Your writing style is sickeningly sweet and fake-innocent because you are being manipulative and dishonest in a very crude way, and it makes me cringe. If I had to guess, you only went to therapy because your abusive tactics weren't working, and you were forced to change strategies. You didn't "see the light" and become a good person. Your lack of emp…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/17 02:15 PM
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I think I understand humans better than you do. You are patting yourself on the back thinking that you invented dread game, and are trying to sell your use of dread game to RPW as if it were a morally upright and perfectly ethical and awesome thing to do. Feel free to read up on it: http://www.yourtango.com/2017298930/why-playing-dread-game-doesnt-work-relationships What you are doing is a bad, selfish thing. She is only acting like she is happy for now because fear is forcing her to tell you wh…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/17 02:03 PM
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I got therapy and totally changed for few years of time being kind and different person. Based on my understanding of the limits of therapy, and the content of your posts, I don't believe you. To where wife and I become close confidants and intimate friends where we both share all our more private secrets. Good and bad. You forgot the part where you felt so distant and lonely that you had to manipulate her and prey on her insecurity, exploiting her fear to get your needs met. The more I read fro…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/17 01:54 PM
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Red pill doesn't mean barefoot in the kitchen popping out babies. Some men really like ambitious successful women and are very attracted to them. Don't you think Claire Underwood is red pill? Don't you think Lara Axelrod is red pill? Being a badass is perfectly consistent with red pill. Badass women don't usually believe in unicorns and fairy tales like the blue pillers do.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/17 01:09 PM
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I agree with this. Your mom is exploiting you. You sound like Fiona from the tv show Shameless (except that girl manages to have drama with men every episode despite her work) taking care of her siblings wile her deadbeat dad gets drunk. Either your mom needs to get a job, or your family needs to sell the house and move into a smaller living space to adjust to the fact that they are poor instead of ruining the 20 year old daughter's future. My advice would be for you to sign up for community col…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/17 01:05 PM
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my desire for friendships with other women and girls was driven by loneliness from not getting the affection and admiration that I needed from my wife She was still hurting from years of my -- I'm very sad to say abuse. Oh mannnnnn LOL. This poor woman. Timeline: Abusive OP scars wife. Wife withdraws emotionally because she is scarred by emotional abuse. OP is like hey, "I haven't abused you LATELY, why u no be sweet to me?" OP sociopathically ignores responsibility for the damage he caused, and…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/17 12:48 PM
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I feel like you want validation from women that you're doing the right thing. You hit the nail on the head. Deep down, he knows there is something wrong with what he is doing, so he is trying to silence that guilt by carefully selecting a forum where he thinks he will get validation (RPW) and by dressing up what he is doing in this disgustingly saccharine sweet infantile writing style that screams faux innocence and naivete. I'm sure if she posted on here she would probably have a few comments h…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/17 12:41 PM
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LOL. tl;dr for OP's post: use dread game on your wife and purposely tweak her insecurities to make her feel inadequate and desperate so that she will fuck you. Sounds like true love, lol. Seriously, though. OP, you are dressing up cruelty with a bunch of flowery bullshit language. What you are actually doing is cold hearted manipulation. It is not healthy, and it won't provide positive lasting results. You used "dread game", which threatened abandonment. Your wife's fear of abandonment triggered…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/17 12:33 PM
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There is no wall. The "wall" is simply an exaggeration of the fact that an average woman's SMV declines relative to the average man's SMV in her dating pool with age: an 18 year old woman can date men of any age, and her SMV gets higher and higher the older she is willing to go. a 40 year old woman generally only dates men older than she is, like 40-50, meaning her dating pool is far smaller than a younger woman's pool, plus the men in her pool are willing to date down, so that 45-year-old man's…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/17 12:12 PM
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This guy looks like he's in the Taliban. Seriously, what the fuck is with these beards? I thought you linked a beheading video. shiet. I couldn't watch the whole video, so I will work from the tl;dr posted here in the comments: goes on and on about how women would be happier if they just stuck to the three things he thinks they're good for--homemaking, reproducing, raising children. Oh, so he IS in the Taliban. I kid. I kid. SOME women should focus on these things if it is what they want in life…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/17 11:55 AM
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I think antariusz totally misread the situation. I do NOT think OP has significantly improved her SMV. I think she thinks she has held up her end simply because she "tried", and yet she expects her SO to honor all of his promises. Her SO, on the other hand, probably saw her pigging out one day and was like "fuck this, if she can do that, I'm gonna drink!" and so he did. These mutual "you aren't good enough for me" new years resolutions don't work. People are lazy. Getting married is like a licen…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/17 11:40 AM
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Why did you marry someone ten years older than you with an alcohol dependence? To be blunt (as always): because she is overweight and her low SMV dictated her choice.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/17 11:33 AM
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from what I have read, people rarely change much past their late 20s, even if they want to. People change when they have a good reason to change. Age doesn't matter. Getting married kills motivation to change. One of the major reasons to change is fear of abandonment. "I'm worried he will leave me for a thinner woman" drives weight loss. Marrying that person reduces motivation to lose weight. I have been working on improving myself; changing habits, updating my appearance, and so on. I have stum…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/17 11:31 AM
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Alrighty Every time my wife's anxiety or depression gets out of hand. I have to juggle being a provider, a dad, a businessman, a cook, a laundry person, a house cleaner with the caring and patience of 3 husbands... https://www.reddit.com/user/loneliness-inc?count=50&after=t1_ddelqej My wife suffers from clinical depression and anxiety, many things are put on hold while I support her financially, emotionally and in other ways. https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/5q6qdj/i_26_f_am_hitti…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 12:47 PM
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This is bullshit. You didn't just look up RPW, you've been here before. I didn't say I looked it up for the first time so nice try with that nonsense. You also didn't explain why you disagree. You went on a rant/personal attack. Yes I did, quite thoroughly. You just FELT attacked by my criticism. I still don't see what your issue is with "cheers". I asked a question, which you don't want to answer, and keep trying to turn into an argument. If you don't want to explain it, fine. Sex, relationship…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/17 04:18 PM
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I didn't like your post, so I criticized it. Welcome to the internet. I was not "worked up". I just looked up RPW and started to read your post and was like "wow, this is terrible" so I wrote why. I have an allergic reaction to pretentiousness, and I think that's what struck me about your post: how utterly and completely pretentious and lacking in self awareness that it was. You posted it on RPW because you knew you were preaching to the choir here, and you were seeking validation. My issue with…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/17 01:33 PM
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This comes across as some hard core mansplaining. I mean come on man, tl;dr much? Plus the tone of your post is like you're talking down to a child. Nobody here needs to have a paragraph being told what sex and intimacy are. You took a very simply, straightforward topic and issue, and acted like it was this epic drama worthy of a movie trilogy. Women, on average, have higher emotional needs than physical, and the opposite is true for men. Simple. All you're talking about is when the relationship…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/17 11:36 AM
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I would never let my girlfriend behave that way. You don't sound like a crazy jealous insecure person. Her behavior is absolutely inappropriate, and yes, it is emotional cheating and will inevitably lead to fucking. It sounds like she is bored and looking for something new. Well, if that's the case, then she needs to choose between an open relationship or knock her shit off. I agree with u/[deleted]. I disagree with u/mabden. I think "building a case" is weak beta male shit. You don't need to pr…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/17 11:33 AM
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Statutory Rape is a strict liability crime for a reason. That reason is to make the cases super easy to prove in order to rig the game against defendants and save prosecutors time. If knowledge of age was an element of the offense, a lot of these cases would lose, because it would be very hard to prove.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 02:39 AM
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I dont think a guy who fucks 12 year olds would be bragging about it on the internet, even if you live in China. The age of consent is 14 there, and Chinese prison and the Chinese legal system would have any foreigner scared to death. A high school english teacher is not going to be able to afford to bribe his way out, either.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 02:35 AM
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Even in California, it is a shitty defense. You are guilty until proven innocent, and tons of jurors are going to say it was not "reasonable" for you to rely on the word of a "child" (even though you didn't know). There are a lot of adults out there who think that older males have an obligation to ask for and check ID before they fuck someone. Of course what is REALLY going on here is that those jurors, who tend to be soccer moms and their enabling beta males, think that anyone who would fuck a …
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 02:32 AM
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In California, mistake of age did not used to be a defense at all until it was added by a court case decades ago. At that point, it became a defense where the burden is on the defendant to prove it, and on top of that, the case required that the mistake of age be "reasonable" which is one of those meaningless words that means whatever the jury wants it to mean, and in practice this means that the jury will call it unreasonable if they don't like you. Guess what: juries don't like plate spinning …
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 02:27 AM
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SMV is only an issue when a woman wants a higher SMV than she has to offer herself, particularly when she falls into the whole "alpha widow" trap and refuses to "settle", so she has to push her SMV as far as it can go in the hopes of finding a high SMV man willing to commit to her. For women with a good head on their shoulders and realistic expectations, they don't really have to worry about their SMV.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 12:47 PM
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Overall, I just feel like I can do better than him. No you don't. Deep down, you don't. If you did, you would have left already. You're not a nice person who is staying because you can't bear to hurt him. You stay because the idea of being single again scares the shit out of you, and you are afraid that now at age 29 your SMV might have declined and you might end up not being able to find a "Captain" at all. These deep rooted insecurities and fears, together with the laziness knowing you will ha…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 02:58 AM
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No it is not. It is against the rules to talk about plate strategy. Learn to read. Almost all the shit you post on here is against the rules. You are a blue pill feminist and you are transparently trying to drive me off the sub. Why are you here? If you keep this bullshit stalking of my posts up, I'm going to start reporting your posts. Then we can see which one of us follows the rules.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 02:51 AM
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Are you serious? The divorce rate. Can you google? Apparently the divorce rate for women who marry BEFORE 18 is 48%. So more than half of those women ended up winning the game right from the start. Obviously women under 18 getting married raises a lot of issues that aren't there once you turn 18. I suspect women 18-21 getting married have a divorce rate a bit lower than 48%.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 02:49 AM
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Read RPW. Yes, high value men do often spin plates. If you think the act of plate spinning makes a man low value, then that is just feminist bullshit that RPW don't follow. Spinning plates is good/valuable experience for men, and makes them better in relationships later. It doesn't make a guy a cheater. RPW aren't losing for loser betas who will readily commit, they want strong dominant males. You might not want that because you are too feminist to get along with a dominant male, but then why ar…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 02:40 AM
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How would you know? You're neither high value nor a man. What qualifies you to give such an expert opinion? You don't know what high value is at all. High value men almost always want to spin plates. I spun plates. You can't spin plates in social circles and work events, unless you are a complete idiot who wants tons of drama and a horrible reputation. You need to keep your plates away from your professional associates and inner social circle unless and until you are ready to take the girl serio…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 02:24 AM
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Haven't you ever heard of "the awkward phase"? It's a real thing that happens to teens. It's not about skills, just a certain look to someone that differentiates them from a child to an adult. It's hard to explain. You just know it when you see it. That's not a real thing... Maybe a girl looks weird because she hasn't figured out proper use of makeup, or she is experimenting with fashion and getting it wrong, but there is no such thing as an awkward phase for everyone. And they didn't win the ga…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 01:54 AM
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"not broke" is a very low bar. you do not understand the concept of value at all, if you think that having motivation + a little money = value. high value men are not going to stoop to a sad desperation move like paying for dance classes in the hopes of finding dates. online gets all types, high and low value alike.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 01:42 AM
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You need to read the sidebar and understand what the red pill means. You obviously are not a RPW. Why are you even on this sub? I happen to get along well with RPW because the things I say don't rile them up. I don't shock them. I can talk about harsh truths and realities here that RPW can handle, but women like you can't. You are unloading all this outrage on me because I will not agree with you that, in the eyes of the overall male gender, younger women are lower SMV. That is a stupid, ignoran…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 01:18 AM
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The issue we are having here is that you, Flower, are an actual RPW and u/Goodfortune20 is not. She is a typical insecure feminist type who is in hard core rejection of red pill realities.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 01:14 AM
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Let's say you "peaked" at 25 because you were "awkward" before then, but by 25 you finally had confidence, knew how to dress and use makeup, knew how to kiss, give a good blowjob, and all the rest of things that I guess you think awkward girls can't do. Thing is, had you figured things out at an earlier age and not been "awkward", your SMV would have been higher at 18 than at 25. Your awkwardness limitation had nothing to do with genetics. The fact that you maintained your youthful appearance at…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 01:09 AM
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Online is a lot more honest than real life, since then men are not worried about social retaliation or damage to their reputations. The takeaway is that all that bullshit men say to your face in "real life" is a lie, and their actions online prove it.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 04:59 PM
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No, sorry I didn't conform to your pet theory that men can't tell age at all, as if going off of one pic means anything anyway. I don't think you know why men don't hit on you. You can't read their minds. They aren't going to tell you honestly if you ask. Oh goodness... the ... I don't even... you think that "high quality men" are ubiquitous except in a "shitty area" which means what... a poor area? And as for creepy attention, she got it in person some, but moreso online. People are more honest…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 04:39 PM
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Photos are not a fair representation thanks to all the tricks people use, plus all the filters and photoshop out there. From the pic I'd say 25-30 somewhere probably, but since you already gave that example of a young looking actress you know in her 30s, that's probably her. One of my friends in her late 20s, looked under 18 and got loooots of creepy attention from men because of it.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 04:17 PM
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I think dance classes are a bad way to meet men. They attract low value desperate men who are transparently trying to meet women by taking advantage of the ratio being in their favor. Online dating isn't ideal, but it is easy and better than nothing. The truth is that socializing and putting yourself out there is a pain in the ass, and online dating lets you shortcut around that. Plus as a woman, you'll be spoiled for choice, just don't let it go to your head. The fact that you were a plate mean…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 04:13 PM
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No RPW would ever be an alpha widow, because taking the red pill by definition means you couldn't be one. Alpha widows are stupid women who don't understand that fucking higher SMV guys means absolutely nothing. They think it means they are high value and somehow special, and they fail to understand that being a plate for an alpha makes them no better than a free hooker. RPW know better. They know doling out free pussy to alphas who have no interest in a LTR is a loser's bet. That's pretty much …
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 04:08 PM
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actually you can, that's the point. you CAN plastic surgery your way out of many, if not most, physical/aesthetic flaws.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 03:48 PM
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I don't think people think about it that deeply, except in one case in china where a rich guy sued his wife when it turned out she had tons of plastic surgery and popped out some ugly kids. https://sociorocketnewsen.files.wordpress.com/2012/05/plastic-surgery-2.jpg?w=580&h=393
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 03:30 PM
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I don't have an issue with any of it, I am simply pointing out why older women lose sexual power relative to men as they age: it is mostly basic supply and demand. Not all 35 year old women will date a 45 year old man, but plenty do, and all those that do are competing with that 45 year old woman, so it puts her in a difficult competitive situation where she has to compete with women age 18-45 while he only competes with a much smaller group of older men. A hot 35 year old woman will be able to …
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 03:27 PM
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this isn't r/relationships - you should just leave. I dont know why you bother posting in RPW if you aren't red pill yourself and can't face harsh truths about how the world works.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 03:16 PM
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I agree with eyes in a big way. Asians have that down to a science. Hair works too. The rest... not so much.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 02:55 AM
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There are lots of awkward people in their 30s, too. If your point is that teenagers are inherently awkward and therefore at a disadvantage against older women, then you are wrong. I don't happen to agree with the premium older men place on young women - the younger the better - but it is a fact, it exists, and the only thing stopping it at 18 is the law and massive societal pressure. There is a reason that pornography is strongly focused on 18 year old women, and it isn't because the primary pay…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 02:17 AM
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There is a social stigma against surgery, like "oh you should just be happy with how God made you" or some bullshit like that. The winners of the genetic lottery reinforce this nonsense since it keeps them on top, and plenty of those on the losing side who want to live in denial latch onto the idea that they are not flawed, it is actually a corrupt and evil society imposing wrong standards of beauty on them, etc. Too much makeup is a bad thing, and it can't fix big issues like a giant hook nose …
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 01:57 AM
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If they want to fix their ugliness, they would either work harder to make more money, or prioritize and save. The key issue is lack of prioritization. If it is important enough, you make it happen. People are not really against surgery for "moral" reasons. Plenty of people refuse to consider it, but it is not a matter of morality. A woman who is a 5-6 and fools the guy had better have used her opportunity to impress him with her other value beyond looks. If that is lacking, then of course he wil…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 01:41 AM
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True, but if you throw in proper use of makeup and clothing, you could solve a decent amount of the remaining ugly, and the bulk of what remains could be addressed with targeted cosmetic surgery. Surgery won't make you a 10, but it can curb some of those glaring defects enough to get the average up to a 7 for almost everyone.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 01:20 AM
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I've dated women in their 40s when I was in my 20s. They were not butter faces. Just having some wrinkles around the eyes does not make a woman a butterface. Age by itself is not ugly at all at least through your 40s and sometimes even into 50s. You are absolutely right that being bangable is not good enough. Thing is, being bangable gets your foot in the door. It gets you male interest and dates. As long as you aren't hideous to the point where I would be embarrassed to be seen in public with y…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 01:11 AM
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The problem is that for 99% of the women you see out in the world, you know nothing about them beyond their looks. Looks matter more than anything, because unless that woman's looks are enough to get you motivated to try to get to know her better, none of her other traits even matter. I disagree with the OPs premise that uncurable ugly exists. While jaw dropping beauty may be out of reach, 99% of women out there could reach a "good enough" 7/10 or so. For the vast majority of those "uglies", it …
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 12:53 AM
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Okcupid did some great research on this. Breakeven is around 26, and after that age, men start to gain comparative sexual advantage over women of the same age, and this gap widens slowly over time. By the way, there is no "peak" at 22-24. The "peak" is at age 18, and that's only because ages 14-17 are illegal. If you could marry 14 year olds, then 14 would be the peak. Proof? Look at all of human history up until the last 100 years or so. Right now, 18 year old women enjoy a MASSIVE sexual advan…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 12:44 AM
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The good men are in the same place where the vast majority of good women are: in relationships already. I deserve People deserve nothing, and are entitled to nothing. The dating world is a fierce and brutal cutthroat competition, and the losers are people who (1) fail to put in the effort to raise their own value high enough to attract their desired quality of mate, and/or (2) fail to put in the effort to roll those dice enough times by getting out and meeting potential partners. I've had female…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 12:25 AM
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You're a sheep. You can't think for yourself. You can't even use language in a remotely original fashion. It is your fault for acting like a cliche average frustrated chump. Not my fault that you are so unoriginal and reek of bitterness and losing. Firstly, you're not an alpha male. If you were, you wouldn't be on RP in the first place. So let's get that 100% clear now. Oh really? What about alphaness makes it incompatible with posting on RPW? Secondly...if your boyfriend tells you to get a boob…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/16 09:33 PM
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That's certainly true, it's just a question of whether you're willing to do that to raise your SMV. But I think if you have personal reasons you don't want to raise your own SMV in a certain way, that's on you. I completely agree.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/16 09:26 PM
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It isn't your place to play gatekeeper, and besides, those little insults like "you're not even smart enough" show that you are the real troll. A quick review of your post history shows that you are a male beta who almost exclusively posts in purplepill. Keep your lame attempt at white knighting feminist bullshit over there where it belongs.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/16 09:04 PM
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All surgery involves some risk, but implants are a very, very low risk surgery, and you can lower the risk even more be carefully selecting a good doctor and following all the proper care afterwards. The men who hate fake tits are a very loud, but very small, minority. Mostly men who like fake tits will lie to women who don't have them and claim to not like them in order to pander to the woman, and then go home and fap to porn stars with big fake tits later that night. My bf, for instance, likes…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/16 08:32 PM
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I'm glad you could see through his BS. Healthy skepticism is important to dating.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/16 06:06 PM
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This woman really loved dick he says from first-hand experience seriously, though, she had vaginal orgasms, which she could have often, and needed a dick of substantial size to trigger. she had a very strong sex drive (probably because she got to have so many orgasms with the right guy) so a small dick was a total deal-breaker for her. Before you call her mean, consider that this guy knew he was carrying a deal-breaker in his pants and yet did everything in his power to get her into him for like…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/16 05:48 PM
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The micropenis theory is one of the more likely (and entertaining) possibilities, but what it really comes down to is that he was hiding something from you which he believed would cause you to reject him if you knew. This could be a lot of things related to sex, including him having an STD, for example.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/16 05:20 PM
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OP is very hooked and very desperate. If a girl opened up to me and showed me how desperate and into me she was, then at least I would give her a chance to fix the issues. I could say "okay, well if you really want to make this work, I need you to be willing to do things my way in bed." If this makes a woman scoff, then fuck it, bye. Another thing that is very real, but will piss off women is pointing out that they need to lose weight or get fake tits to be more attractive. It doesn't matter if …
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/16 03:33 PM
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I knew a girl who had a very similar experience. She grabbed the guy and pulled his pants down thinking she could suck some sense into him. Saw the penis. Got up and walked out.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/16 01:45 PM
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My biggest fear is him leaving.. He knows it, too, which is why he feels free to take advantage. He does NOT fear you leaving. (is it petty of me to not want to pay for him all the time?). Yes, it is. Incredibly petty. Seriously? When a person says stupid shit like this, it comes off as incredibly manipulative to me. Like "oh, am I wrong to not want him to shove beer bottles up my ass?" No sane person needs to ask that. You don't either. You are just trying to manipulate people into a certain ki…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/16 04:43 AM
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I have never met an alpha guy who was embarrassed or ashamed about finishing in 2 minutes. I HAVE met alphas who laughed about it. It just makes them seem MORE selfish and alpha to get off and neglect the girl's pleasure, and if she keeps wanting more, it gives them more of an ego boost. You can tell a lot in 2 minutes. You can tell the girl's attitude. You can tell her hangups/limits (like not letting you do things). You can tell if she is a cold fish. You can tell if she is a closet sex freak …
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/16 03:12 AM
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I wouldn't equate speed with quality. While it CAN be true that hotness can bring on a fast orgasm, it isn't necessarily true. Plus whenever this happens to me with a woman I like, I pull out and stop for a minute to ensure I can go as long as I like. It is just as likely that he was not interested, and so switched to masturbation mode mentally and purposely just wanted to get off quick so he could leave. Sexual chemistry is huge, which is why I think people need to have sex as soon as they are …
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/16 01:33 AM
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I would caution against that logic. A guy is not going to invest 6 weeks just to get laid once then run away. A guy dropping a girl after sex is common. Women tend to think that it was the guy's plan all along. This might be true in some cases, but it is uncommon. The far more likely reasons are: the woman is a lot less attractive naked than in clothes (scars, stretch marks, areola/breast shape, breasts smaller than advertised, and the list goes on) the sex was bad. maybe she was a cold fish, or…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/16 12:29 AM
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Just wait until you see me put on my robe and wizard hat.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 09:48 PM
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Think of it like a personal trainer for your mind. You don't hire a personal trainer to tell you how amazing you look. Sometimes you need truths that aren't sugar coated like mommy used to make.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 05:52 PM
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I don't think truth bombs kill free-spiritedness, their main targets are bullshit and delusion. The whole point of red pill is to drop common socially-reinforced delusions about gender and relationships, and embrace the truth even though the reality is not a fairy tale.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 04:43 PM
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I'm not a very polite person on the internets. I'm the guy who goes in the back door dry. my name is pewp sprinkler. I sprinkle pewp on people's posts. TRP is more about hard core truth so it fits here. other subs would ban my ass over all the butthurt my truth bombs would cause.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 04:01 PM
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I hope it works out for you. Try not to send mixed signals: it makes our heads explode. He is clearly into you, by the way. All you need to do is show openness and let it happen.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 03:59 PM
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Plus, as a guy, I can tell you that I would smell the weakness and conflict on you. I'd know you wanted it, deep down, and so I'd purposely try to draw that out of you to seduce you. (or young me before my LTR, hah) Think of how delicious the ego boost is for a guy when a woman is willing to violate all her principles and give in to your seduction. That only makes the conquest that much more satisfying. Plus, if you are sexually inexperienced, there is a good chance that once you finally give in…
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 03:57 PM
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Why do you think I posted a question? For you to say "go ahead, sleep with him, you deserve it?" It is possible that you were looking for that kind of reinforcement. I'm asking for advice on how to ward it off because I'm not sure how to go about warding off someone to whom I'm actually attracted. The same as how you ward off someone to whom you are not attracted. Why would it be any different? How does that make any logical sense? Here, let me show you: A waiter approaches a person who doesn't …
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 03:50 PM
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Your post makes me sad. Okay, you have to accept that being "normal" is not in the cards for you, at least not for now. Your BF is "normal" and wants you to be "normal". You try, fail, and end up in a cycle of feeling shitty and negatively reinforced. You two are not compatible. You are trying to fit a square peg through a round hole. It is over. There is no fixing it. Here is what you should do: admit that you have things that set you apart from "normal" and don't live in denial of them. Admit …
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 03:44 PM
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Unless it happened a long time ago, it is not too late to simply say you'd like to see the exhibit. You can drop it casually like "oh one of my friends mentioned it today, and I remembered you wanted to see it" etc
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 03:36 PM
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But if he were unattractive I'd absolutely still want to learn under him. He's really that good. The point is that you wouldn't need a reddit thread in that case. You would have shut him down immediately. The whole point of this is that, deep down, you really don't want to shut this guy down. You aren't looking for genuine advice.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 03:17 PM
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It's not rocket surgery. You didn't need to send him nudes. All you had to say was "actually, I'd love to go see that exhibit" That is not masculine aggression. I have a penis and even I know that. Learn to woman.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 03:12 PM
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Stereotypical female over-thinking. All you did was mindfuck yourself into not doing something you wanted. Alpha males feel "fear" of not getting what we want all the time, and it motivates us to put in the effort. You rejected him. Then you wrote a ton of words trying to convince yourself that it is really his fault. You even went way over the deep end and accused him of "too socially inept to read my cues", even though the cue you gave him was a rejection, so actually he would be socially inep…
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 03:09 PM
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The most hilarious thing about your post is the total lack of self awareness it takes to not realize a very simple truth: if this guy was ugly, you wouldn't need a reddit thread to know how to ward him off. You would have figured that out for yourself in about 2 seconds. You want to fuck him, bad, and that is why you keep on about how he is a "brilliant" teacher, uh huuuuh. You can learn music anywhere. THIS guy is no mozart, what sets him apart is that he is "really good-looking, funny and smar…
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 02:49 PM
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No, you need to give up on finding a strong, nice, attractive man who is also funny, and just find a funny man.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 01:22 AM
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Incentives. Stop using sticks and start using carrots.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 01:20 AM
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I have an amazing hot GF that would be the envy of all those TRP guys. I can tell you this: "dread" is really insecurity, and it needs to be managed. If it gets too high, she would make my life a living hell with jealousy and clinginess. If it gets too low, she will be an arrogant bitch. Solution? I need to be a loving affectionate boyfriend, while also being honest and showing interest in other women without pushing it too far. This is my natural state, so no effort really. If I just go too far…
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 01:19 AM
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you are clearly very bad at internet arguing. I suggest you apply your bookishness and go read up on the subject.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/16 12:38 PM
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I think rationally for a living. I could logic you into a pretzel. You just seem to have forgotten that this is a sub about women, and such things have no place here. My post wasn't an appeal to emotion, by the way. If you are going to play the "name that fallacy" game at least learn your ABCs. Honestly, as soon as I saw you claim that autism is somehow quintessentially male, I lost interest. What a silly, bad belief. The context of this discussion and this forum is masculinity in a social conte…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/16 05:24 PM
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You sound very much like a guy who isn't highly successful with women.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/16 09:43 AM
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a good man, a moral man, a competent man, a wise man, a well-read man, a cunning man, a strong man, a perceptive man, a consistent man, a reliable man. Good men get laid. Those who are less than them, they don't. Bro, put down the romance novels and go outside.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 06:33 PM
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He said "validation" of masculinity, not expression of it. Also, Nikola Tesla was not at all a particularly masculine man, so I don't know who would be picking him except other non-masculine geeks. Getting women is a core struggle that nearly all men deal with. We can all relate to it. Generally speaking, having sex doesn't keep you alive in some life or death scenario, it doesn't make you stronger or smarter, and it doesn't create or advance a civilization. Except you are forgetting that men do…
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 06:31 PM
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I love sex because it not only feels good, it feels better than anything else I've ever experienced in life. The feeling of having high quality sex with an attractive women triggers the following: It fulfills my need for accomplishment. It makes me literally high thanks to build-up and orgasm It satisfies the hunger/lust craving I have for it It boosts my ego when I "seduce" a new partner, and impress her sexually, particularly when, after the fact, she expresses cravings for me It satisfies my …
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 06:23 PM
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What happened in your experience?
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 06:10 PM
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Obviously if you half-ass it and don't mean it, it is not going to yield much in the way of results. This girl said she REALLY likes a guy though and desperately wants him to be attached to her, so I'm pretty sure she would mean it. There is a saying "don't look a gift horse in the mouth". You could also say "don't go sniffing for manipulation when offered blow jobs". If a guy cries about trust and tanks a relationship because you try to look as hot as possible and put effort into being good in …
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 05:59 PM
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Your BF is unhappy in his IT job. Pretty typical stuff. He would love to run off and join the circus (his friends tshirt company) if it paid better, AGAIN pretty typical stuff. At no point did he show a lack of sense. Then you tried to lecture him like a shrew about basic economics with a selfish bent because of your risk aversion. Of course it pissed him off, for the reasons I have already explained. Nothing in your post showed that he "doesn't believe in himself". He is stuck in a shitty situa…
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/16 06:22 PM
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It depends on the man, and it depends on the phase of the relationship. Most men will take a hot starfish if they want the ego boost of having a trophy girlfriend. The more a man is into sex, though, the more he will prefer a woman who is good in bed even if she is simply attractive instead of super hot. Also, as time goes on, pure looks tends to wear off. You get used to the woman's looks and they don't have as powerful of an effect anymore. This is where skill and chemistry for sex pull ahead …
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/16 04:20 PM
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nowhere did I state that I believe my intelligence adds to my attractiveness to men in anyway. I didn't say you did. See? Disagreeable already. LOL And yes I want him to be "smart enough". How can I be with someone who I can't understand at all? You make it seem like that's an illogical desire. Not at all, you just have to balance it out. You have to bring a little more to the table than the guy does in other ways to "buy" the trait you want.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/16 03:21 PM
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You are right, it depends on the girl. For asian girls, eyelashes are pretty much mandatory.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/16 03:18 PM
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It is a matter of motivation. You have a 3.5 year LTR. You don't really NEED to invest the effort to be your man's perfect fantasy girl anymore. Simply wearing the clothes he likes, being sexual, and taking care of your looks, will put you head and shoulders above most other women. Being interesting and fun are just a bonus.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/16 02:36 PM
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Women tend to hide their intelligence, not men. You are right on this one, daezy357. Not all men will be in-your-face about it, but they won't play dumb. They MIGHT do that a little if they think the woman is dumb in order to avoid talking over her head constantly, but that's about it.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/16 02:31 PM
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Ahh yes, there are some areas where a particular characteristic is much more attractive on a man than a woman: Being tall (huuuuge one) Being intelligent Making a lot of money Women have the bad habit of not accepting the inequality of value for these characteristics, and feel that their high score in one of these areas entitles them to men of similar or higher score. Nope. You are a smart woman, or at least you think you are. Men might say they care a lot about this, but they don't value this n…
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/16 02:27 PM
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this girl gets it.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/16 02:15 PM
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hahah, chemistry is complicated for women - not for men. If you are hot + good in bed, you instantly get massive value with the vast majority of men. We are simple creatures. We have straightforward needs. For many men, a woman who takes sex to the next level is like a drug. She can be literal poison in other ways, yet you still crave her on a deep biochemical level that you can't shake. Cooking and cleaning are just conveniences. Anyone can do them. Being the best sex of a man's life is irrepla…
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/16 02:14 PM
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u/hazelnutbasket is insecure and wants the balance of insecurity to shift in her favor by having the guy be more insecure than she is (oneitis). I only felt this way once in my life, and only because a girl I dated became very arrogant and started to make me insecure in regard to her specifically. I responded by looking for clingy girls after that, and you know what? It got old fast. So yeah, you don't want oneitis. It just replaces one problem with a different problem. Besides, what you really …
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/16 02:09 PM
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He was seeking emotional support from you, and you utterly failed to provide it. If anything, you just dropped your market value into the gutter in his eyes. You also proved to him that you place financial security over his dreams/goals/ambitions, which is another strike. You're on thin ice. If your sex life with him starts to lag, it is a safe bet he will start to look elsewhere.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/16 01:46 PM
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It isn't really a derail since it is a big part of her post and she already said she wants to do research too.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/16 07:49 AM
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I have an extremely high sex drive, I just suppress it. fixed. Why would a guy ever want to suppress his sex drive? That is like going on a hunger strike. You don't know what your sex drive is truly like yet. You are very repressed so maybe your body fights back. Obviously a guy stranded in the desert is going to say I'M A VERY THIRSTY PERSON but he might not drink much at all once his body recovers. You will probably be pretty sexual for a while once a guy finally "unlocks" you, but that might …
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/16 07:27 AM
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hahahah, he is a guy and he is dominant, what do you expect? seriously, just because you indicate that you are not comfortable, you think he should shut his whole libido down? come on, get real. if you want control, don't date a dominant. oh and I couldn't even count the number of women who came over to my place with a no sex condition, then we ended up having sex anyway. guys see that as just typical slut defense talk. we are not going to take it seriously. it lets you girls say "oooohh myy, on…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 07:31 PM
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After reading your edit, I don't think you addressed the root problem. You need to confess your attraction to him as being tied to his being ALPHA and HIGH VALUE. His romantic gushing, particularly to excess, is a DLV. Also, your problem is not that you won't "open up", it is that he is making big assumptions about what you SHOULD like, and he is wrong. He thinks that, as a woman, the way he is behaving now should be your dream come true. You need to set him straight. Also, the deeper, darker re…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 05:48 PM
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but what happens if all the signs are positive and the guy turns out to be a dud? Shit happens. Sometimes you are wrong. Sometimes you get fooled. Learn and move on. Don't let it get to you or make you bitter. I met a man online that I thought was a very good match for me. We communicated daily for several days before we finally met up, and he was a good mix of "alpha" and "beta" qualities. After the second date, he asked to "come upstairs," and when I said no, he immediately backed off- clearly…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 05:25 PM
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You need to understand that by making yourself sexually unavailable, you eliminate the vast majority of men as potential husbands/boyfriends. You should examine those "religious" reasons and be sure. The Bible does not say anything about sex before marriage. I've done the research. The idea that sex before marriage is anti-Christian is a SOCIAL rule imposed by parents who wanted to keep their daughters legs closed as long as possible, which the churches in America promote, even though it had not…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 05:10 PM
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There is no excuse for emotional abuse. People do not get a pass on being shitty just because they had problems in their life. Actually, my opinion on the subject after meeting many of these people, is that they are actually just shitty people. Period. They use the tragic past thing as a defense mechanism when they get called on it, or as a tool to manipulate their victims into enduring the suffering they inflict. Chasing is the polite, diplomatic word. He treats you like you are sub-human, and …
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 04:24 PM
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I'm just wondering what it means for both of you to be very red pill, when the guy waited patiently AND committed BEFORE he bedded you. On TRP for men, he would get called out as a super beta cuck for that. That is like a checklist of everything they tell guys NOT to do over there. As for your post: he clearly lost interest in you. Why did he lose interest? You will never know. You asked, and he didn't want to tell. You can stress and analyze and wonder what the true answer is, but you'll just m…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 12:44 PM
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Early on he was infatuated and had needs he wanted you to satisfy. Then one of two things happened: He got his needs satisfied, and no longer invests the mental/emotional energy being so nice and diplomatic, so his natural self is coming out. Turns out his natural self is not as cool as his "I really want her to like me" self. Basically this is the "he just isn't trying hard anymore." Something that happened between the two of you turned him off, or made him lose interest, or he met someone else…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 12:36 PM
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I don't think you can speak for all women. I've known women who gossiped about their sex lives, and ones who considered that to be TMI. It really depends on the personalities involved. Talking about how a guy made them cum in 10 seconds is high on the TMI scale, so that is why I said "big sluts". Also, I absolutely consider girls to be in the "big sluts" category if they are willing to share dick. Almost all the girls I know would NOT fuck the same guy their friends fucked. It is well known that…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 06:30 PM
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Don't bring marriage into this. I said nothing about marriage. You can have LTRs without getting married. Changing LTR to marriage is a straw man argument. Girlfriends should not be able to destroy your life, or really do anything more than any soft harem member could, unless you are stupid and giving them the ammunition to do so.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 01:23 PM
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enforced/rigid monogamy is the antithesis of it. Where does the enforcement come from? You can cheat all you want, and the worst that can happen is that you lose the LTR. Taking cheating off the table completely is incredibly beta. That doesn't mean alphas always have to cheat, it just means it is our choice not to cheat. We weigh the costs/benefits and choose what we want. I don't cheat on my current girlfriend because she let me train her into being my perfect sex partner, and she brings me so…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 11:43 AM
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good job refuting a point I didn't make. LTRs are not inherently alpha. LTRs are also not inherently beta. The latter statement is the one a lot of people on this sub have trouble with. Feel free to peruse the other comments in this topic for examples.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 10:55 AM
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I did not shit on anyone's relationship, beta. I called out all the betas like you who like to shit on LTRs. And no, I said women who let you fuck other girls are lower quality, which is a fact. Self respecting women who don't have mental issues won't do it.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 04:00 PM
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Oh yeah, I am SO SURE that those girls "get off" on their bfs fucking other girls. Sounds like bullshit to me. You are such a pathetic troll.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 03:56 PM
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I didn't delete my post, a fucking mod must have done it. What a fucking circle jerk.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 03:54 PM
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A real alpha would just be honest about it like a man Alphas lie, cheat, and steal sometimes. Being Alpha is not being part of some fucking church group. Whether you cheat and lie, or are honest and want "permission", it does not matter for being Alpha. That garbage you are spewing is the same bullshit indoctrination that breeds betas and "nice guys" creating the whole blue pill problem in the first place. Both alphas and betas cheat. The difference is what happens when you get caught. If you cr…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 03:00 PM
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I'm basing this on a sample of hundreds of women I have personal knowledge of. It is not just a social taboo. It is a simple matter of self respect. I have successfully convinced a few women to let me fuck other women, and it was more trouble than it was worth. It created more problems than it solved. If you think there are good, high quality women out there who will be 100% okay with you fucking other women, with no consequences, then you believe in unicorns. If these women exist AT ALL, then t…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 02:44 PM
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It gets old. Fucking your #100 has nowhere near the value of fucking #10. The payoff from the revolving door of pussy plateaus after a while, and then declines. Fucking a few fresh girls a year is still nice, but investing shitloads of time and effort to grind through new pussy on a weekly basis starts to feel pointless and becomes a real fucking drain. Like I said, diminishing returns.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 02:28 PM
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The truth is that alphas in LTRs are VERY RARE Almost every alpha in existence ends up in a LTR eventually. Perma-bachelor alphas are very rare.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 02:18 PM
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And if she doesn't let you fuck around, you already have some chains around Alphas do not ask for or need permission. They choose what they want, and they live with the consequences.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 02:12 PM
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Both of these vary widely from person to person and if they are both aligned positively to the idea, they can be talked into it or will even suggest it. No, they really don't. Nearly all women don't want their boyfriends/husbands fucking other women. The few women I have known who claimed to be okay with it, actually were not okay with it deep down but accepted it for fear of losing the relationship, or they had issues like BPD which gave them some very unconventional views. At any rate, if you …
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 02:03 PM
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You're right, you are an obvious troll. Cheating is for insecure betas. lol
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 11:50 AM
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High quality women with self respect will not let you fuck other women. I did not say "if you don't want a LTR is because you are beta". I said that if you hate on LTRs and think anyone in a LTR is a slave, like you do, THEN you are beta. to have a high-quality woman accept an open-LTR, YOU MUST BE MUCH MORE DOMINANT AND ALPHA THAN FOR A LTR. By definition, any girl in that situation is not high quality. As someone with a lot of experience, I can say that the only women who will let you fuck aro…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 11:32 AM
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If I wanted to fuck another girl, I could just cheat. Pretty much every alpha I know cheats if and when he thinks it is worth it to do so. A lot of betas on here, like you, think cheating is not an option or something. That is a very slave mentality.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 11:28 AM
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Pretty much. Obviously everyone has, or should have, times where they are single and playing the field. Some people on this sub act like you are a blue pill beta cuck if you ever enter into a LTR for any reason, and they act like LTRs are always about exploiting men. What really gets me about it is that people with this view that LTRs are poison come across like total poser overcompensating alpha wannabes. They don't understand how LTRs can be alpha because THEIR LTRs aren't.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 11:23 AM
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I am not enslaved to my girlfriend. If anything, she is enslaved to me. You are exactly the kind of beta that my post was talking about.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 10:06 AM
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The quality of woman you can get to agree to be in a half-open LTR (because let's be honest, you're not going to be ok with her fucking around on you) is far lower than the quality of woman who will accept a monogamous LTR. I have been in both kinds. Normal women will never agree to an open relationship unless they have mental issues, or they are far lower quality and desperate to keep you. Even then, these relationships are not stable and always come with drama. I would prefer to get the far hi…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 09:49 AM
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On average, for most women, this is true. It happens for various reasons, but the core reason is that the woman didn't like sex that much to begin with, so once she gets past the artificial infatuation phase, she goes back to her usual prudish self. Other times the girl might be sexual but the guy drops the ball. The moral of this story is that, if you really like sex and want to keep having it long term, you need to find a girl who likes sex a lot regardless of relationship. This comes with som…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 08:39 AM
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only big sluts who run in packs, honestly. that is maybe like 10-15% of girls out there.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 07:11 AM
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try to fuck the best quality possible that will actually fuck you back. If the best you can get within 1-2 weeks of effort is a 5, then you need top fuck 5s and work your way up from there. If you can get 5s with a little effort, you should not be fucking less than a 5. You need to have standards, you need to establish what your honest value is, and then you need to build that value and work up from there. Part of building value is experience. Experience comes from actual fucking and success, no…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 06:02 AM
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This is obviously a total troll post. There is no real human being who would take this seriously. This sounds like a how to guide for doing a wedding proposal that someone tried to adapt to TRP.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 05:08 PM
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When I threated my BPD ex with abandonment, her reaction was more like to break down, play the victim, try to get sympathy. If one tack wasn't working, she would try another. This woman took a very hard-line bullying approach, and especially with the ultimatum part, it seems out of character. She certainly did a lot of shitty behavior, but like I said, shitty behavior is common to a lot of kinds of crazy. Like having a fever or a cough can mean a lot of different possible illnesses. I agree ther…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 04:07 PM
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Honestly I dont see what you highlighted there as BPD. I get that sometimes people who get burned by BPDs see them as the epitome of all evil, and see every evil thing women do as being a symptom of BPD. I've had bad experiences with them, so I get it. Being BPD is a very particular kind of crazy. It focuses on splitting, fear of abandonment, self-harm, impulsiveness, unstable extreme emotions, playing the victim, and a kind of mood-shifting behavior. Not all of them have all these things or to …
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 03:48 PM
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This is called the Karpman drama triangle. It is super common for women who are trying to play perpetual victim. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Karpman_drama_triangle
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 03:31 PM
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tl;dr She is using you to recover her self-esteem. Once she has it, she will dump your ass for someone she sees as higher value, or cheat on you and treat you like garbage. She could just be a manipulative POS who likes to play the victim. Her ex gets to play the role of the villain and you the rescuer. You can't be the rescuer forever. Eventually it will grow stale and she will shift you into the villain role and go out to look for a new rescuer. Grats! Anyone, and I mean anyone, who stays in w…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 03:30 PM
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The murders were clearly in response to his filing for divorce. So she lacked self control and acted impulsively. I wouldn't rule out BPD completely, but this could be a lot of other kinds of crazy. BPD's do not have a monopoly on this kind of behavior, and I've never known BPD to be associated with open violence, it is more like passive aggression, playing the victim, turning people against you, and so on.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 03:16 PM
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Women know exactly what orbiters are, and they actively cultivate them. Women rationalize this in their minds in various ways, but in the end, they want guilt-free free shit/help without having to do anything in return. There is nothing natural about it, though. Women who do this are manipulative pieces of shit who don't care about using/exploiting people. All the good women I've met/known would never do this.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 03:06 PM
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She wasn't being nice. She was punishing and manipulating him into subservience and silence. If she was a nice girl, she would have never let him waste his life chasing her for that long to begin with.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 03:03 PM
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What really happened here is that "D" was annoyed with NB1 and NB1 violated the sacred rule that shall not be broken by confronting "D" on how she was playing him. You see, these relationships with "orbiters" thrive on delusion. The beta needs to maintain the delusion that his crush will someday fuck him if only he keeps trying, while the crush needs him to keep on believing that in order to keep extracting free shit from him without any guilt. If the beta confronts the crush, it ruins the delus…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 03:01 PM
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Women who make false rape accusations should face at least 2 years in prison, if not the full sentence that the rapist would have received. False rape accusations are very common, and are a weapon that crazy women use. Crazy women who do this might seem rare, but actual rape is rare too, so these false accusations are very significant when compared to honest reported rapes. Ironically, the feminist propaganda that protects these false accusers undermines real rape allegations, since no one reall…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 02:47 PM
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Just wondering, how do we know this chick was BPD? BPDs normally harm themselves when they act out, vs murdering other people. Crazy comes in many forms, BPD is only one flavor.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 02:41 PM
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Everything you wrote applies to your original post 1000%. Your total lack of self awareness should go onto your "things I need to change about myself" list. Maybe being a blatant hypocrite and accusing others of what you are doing yourself is some PUA technique you read somewhere, but it just makes you look delusional.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 04:13 PM
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Do you have a point? Finding a woman who has the qualities you want, and getting her to share those qualities with you on your terms, is the endgame of interaction with women. It has nothing to do with soulmates, beta. As a man who, unlike you, HAS fucked dozens of women, and who has never been cheated on, you seem to be missing the fact that men who have sworn off the blue pill still eventually end up in LTRs, just not the kind of LTRs your mind can conceive of yet. Best of luck getting there, …
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 04:02 PM
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Look in a mirror. "You're still beta and blue pill as fuck." That's you. You are also incredibly fucking insecure, which is typical for a beta. Nothing in my post evidenced belief in "the one". Meanwhile your entire fucking post is a love letter to the blue pill, crying over all the supposed benefits it gave you. What a load of horse shit.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 03:48 PM
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OP, let me translate that shit: Law 1: I don't know how to be my own person inside of a relationship because my personality is too fucking weak. You know what kind of person loses themselves in a relationship? People pleasing betas. Law 2: I pine for the olden days where I enjoyed the delusion. No one who has seen the truth can look at that delusional bullshit with anything but contempt. Law 3: I am a pussy who won't cheat, so I let myself go in a relationship the same way chicks do. Lots of guy…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 03:33 PM
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This whole thing is written from the perspective of a beta who walks into relationships where he hands the power over to the woman and (shocker) gets cheated on once she gets bored. You are having trouble coping with a severe emotional blow, and you're intellectualizing the shit out of it because you're an uber nerd and you are trying to solve for X without doing the one thing that matters: changing yourself to not be such a fucking desperate dependent beta. Here are my rules: Stay single and da…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 03:10 PM
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