pgoc111971 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Can't pass past the 1st date One thing you might want to look up on YouTube and Google is ‘handsome man game’. I know many of the conventional principles that are taught don’t necessarily work with top level looks men and often they have the direct opposite effect.	/r/seduction	14/06/24 02:00 PM
5	What does it mean when she says this? Why are you taking her out to dinner if you don’t even know if she’s truly single or not?	/r/seduction	10/06/24 04:40 PM
2	Will a guy expect sex if I invite him to a movie at my house? Obviously it’s completely your right to move at your own pace and only do what’s comfortable for you but I have to ask, if you’ve already been on several dates with him what is it that’s keeping you from even thinking about being intimate with him?	/r/seduction	30/05/24 08:24 PM
3	she responds but does not initiate My suggestion to you in the future is to be more decisive and proactive in setting up dates. And coffee on a first date and then a hike on a second date don’t give you any opportunity to create physical intimacy and seduction. You can sometimes get away with doing just a friendly ‘get to know you’ first date but come second date it needs to be something like drinks in a dimly lit lounge or wine bar where you can get a little dressed up, sit next to each other and physically connect. I still thin…	/r/seduction	06/05/24 12:05 AM
2	she responds but does not initiate When she texted you after your first date she was blatantly hinting and hoping you’d ask her out again. Did you do that or just keep texting and not setup another date? If you didn’t ask her out again she likely lost interest and moved on	/r/seduction	05/05/24 10:16 PM
1	Trying to figure out why I'm so good on dates but terrible during approaches I deal with very similar phenomenon and the best I can figure out, it’s my approval seeking tendencies that go back to my early years. If I’m on a date with a woman who I met from OLD I subconsciously can relax a little bit because she’s “accepted me” enough to give me her attention for at least a reasonable amount of time and I can be more of myself. When it comes to cold approaching, all of my approval seeking insecurities come bubbling up to the surface and I feel very anxious and uncomfortab…	/r/seduction	25/04/24 02:59 PM
50	A woman that you built rapport with, is attracted to you, but messed it up will always give you a second chance I think the key part of OP’s point is you had to have been out with her on at least a few dates or more. In my experience even if I do almost everything perfectly on a first date, if I even so much as slightly bobble something I’m out. No second date regardless of if I text her or not or wait any length of time. Second dates are by far the most difficult thing to achieve with a woman, especially one from a dating app.	/r/seduction	22/04/24 12:52 AM
52	These are the main four things we like men to do when asking us out. I agree with all of these and I also add in a step 0 so to speak to gauge interest. If I’m chatting with a woman on a dating app I’ll casually say ‘this is fun/I like our banter/you seem cool, we should meet for a drink sometime. If she agrees I jump right into the steps you listed.	/r/seduction	20/04/24 03:39 PM
2	Get zero or negative interest in real life but a ton of interest online - what is going on and how can I change it? And I’m sure you always get questions from these online women like ‘how are you still single?!’ I always want to answer with ‘follow me around on an average day and I’ll show you’ 😂	/r/seduction	27/01/24 10:42 PM
1	Get zero or negative interest in real life but a ton of interest online - what is going on and how can I change it? You just described my situation word for word. Women from online tell me I’m attractive and imply that I probably get a lot of interest everywhere I go but in person I feel invisible. I first thought that maybe my photos are way better than how I look in person but online women will tell me I look exactly like my photos and often even better than them. It’s such a mystery to me 🤷🏻‍♂️	/r/seduction	27/01/24 10:08 PM
5	Girl called me Nice It sounds like you handled the comfort aspect really well. If you see her again you might want to add a more sexual man/woman energy to the date but of course always be calibrated to her body language and energy.	/r/seduction	27/01/24 08:32 PM
1	I think I am going to die alone because I am ugly What??? You must be trolling here as you’re a really good looking guy (no homo lol). My one suggestion if you’re self conscious of your jaw is to grow a short beard. Even a few days stubble will do wonders to fill in and define your jawline and give you less of a baby face. I would recommend focusing on your inner self image or even consider therapy with a good therapist	/r/seduction	20/12/23 08:48 PM