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One of the most important things to internalize. I spent so much time feeling angry about a girl that dumped me after a short relationship, as if she was mine and I deserved her forever. I used to think about her every single minute, thinking how much I hated her and what could have been if we were still together. Needless to say, I was suffering a lot over this very small setback. Then I realized: this girl doesn't own me shit. I was being very immature for suffering so fucking much about a sin…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 01:02 AM
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You are absolutely right. After you pass a couple of her shit tests, you can feel she letting her guard down. That's the perfect moment to escalate physically and to use a more insinuating language.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 12:53 AM
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Like OP said, women alone will never bring you true happiness, but not having any women in your life for a long period of time can make you miserable, even when other things are going well. We are animals and biologically need to have sex and some sort of validation of the opposite sex after all.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 11:00 PM
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Prostitution is legal here in my country. There are so many men in my social circle that have sex almost exclusively with hookers that you wouldn't belive. Some of these men are ripped and make good money. You start to give up on gaming some entitled 6s when you can have some dirt sex with 9s without any bullshit just opening your wallet. The only problem is that it's really addictive and you end up wasting tons of money if you don't control yourself.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 10:03 PM
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This sub definitely needs more FRs like this one and commentaries like yours. I prefer to read detailed FRs about real life experiences (even failures) and the feedback in the comments then those "How Cold Showers And No Fap Will Change Your Life" kind of posts that are becoming so common here recently.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 09:30 PM
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Holy shit, look how so many guys have been in the same situation. Yeah, 3 months ago I was facing that too. Good relationship and then, suddenly, she changed after a fucking trip. This is what I like so much about TRP: it's one of the few places where men can go and talk freely about their own experiences without the risk of being labeled a misogynist or some shit.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 10:58 PM
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That is the same girl who sat on Jason Momoa's lap during an interview some time ago: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tANotIynTIw (around 0:40 in the video)
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 12:36 AM
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Perfect. We're not protagonists in a meaningful history like the movies. We're just some impulsive animals looking for sex with the best partner available.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 02:00 PM
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It still amazes me how precise TRP's model is. Some months ago I was in a situation similar to the one OP described, but the girl behaved precisely the way you said in response to my weakness. First the implicit hypergamous traits, then they become explicit and finally she ghosted me. Women are really predictable creatures once you understand TRP.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 01:16 AM
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closure is bullshit Perfect. You know what is worst? She'll probably not give you any closure at all. Last time I tried to text a girl back for closure, she tried to avoid conflict at all costs and never really answered what went wrong.Lesson learned: avoid using straight talk with women. They just don't work that way. You will never hear their thoughts from their mouths, but from their actions and subtle signals.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 12:01 AM
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I think experience is very important too. One can read here or elsewhere that he shouldn't text his ex or try to get back together, but it's a natural impulse that is hard to control the first times. You always think "No, it was a misunderstanding, she liked me so much, it's impossible that our love faded so quickly. I bet she is as willing to get back as I am, but she is scared to talk to me!" If you are inexperienced and find yourself thinking like this about your ex, I really suggest that you…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 10:33 PM
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I didn't want to accept what you guys were talking about. It's so hard to accept, isn't it? The Matrix analogy is spot on: you've been indoctrinated your whole life to believe that you will find the perfect girl one day and she will love you unconditionally and you will be happy together till the day you die. Love trumps all and you should just be yourself. It looks so perfect, why life wouldn't be this way? Then you begin to live following this dream. I did it as well... I found the perfect gir…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 12:13 AM
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If you think about it, it's interesting that at the same time that the core concepts of Christianity are somewhat BP and can make men be afraid of behaving like an alpha, they can also make women behave better, making them afraid of behaving like sluts. Unfortunately, modern women solipsism make them incapable of taking any religion seriously. How can you convince someone to avoid easily obtainable sexual pleasure, to take responsability for the home and the family, to be loyal to someone else w…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 04:13 PM
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I agree with you actually. There are many Catholic ideas that I admire and some girls I know who take religion seriously are far better than the average woman. I think that a Christian society would be a lot better than this shit leftist world we live in. That said, I think Christianity isn't RP, simply because it doesn't really aim to make men alpha. Their objective is to fill the heads of people with fear and guilty, making both men and women behave better sometimes, yes, but I don't think it …
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 03:54 PM
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People here like to say that Christianity is RP just because leftists hate and try to suppress it, but religion and leftism share many principles to control the masses: the promise of a perfect world, unconditional love, guilty and passivity towards life. RP doesn't share any of those principles...
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 11:50 AM
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The funny thing is that she will probably treat you better if she knows you have other options.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 03:57 PM
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Absolutely. There is no shame in going through this shit and becoming a better man after. Most of my successful friends have a similar story. Actually, girls should be ashamed of this kind of behaviour, but society condone it and there is nothing we can do, so better to keep our eyes open and learn how to play the game.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 06:45 PM
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This was the trigger that opened my eyes to how women can be immoral and that there are no unicorns. I was in a relationship with a girl that apparently was everything I was looking for. She was really beautiful, smart, innocent-looking and a little shy. Her family was solid, good people. In the beginning of our relationship, everything looked perfect. We kissed passionately and laughed a lot together. We really connected and she was really into me. Or so I thought... One day she said she was go…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 05:56 PM
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