phantorgasmic Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Why does everything revolving around relationships start and end with sex? Sex has only ever been a chore for me if it is with a man I have lost so much respect for that I now respect him less than I respect myself. To put it in terms of a relationship, if my partner does something that makes me lose respect in him to the point that I respect him less than I do myself, my attraction to him will slowly begin to waver, dwindle, and eventually deplete if he doesn’t change course. His physique could be exactly the same as it was when I still had the utmost respect for him …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/20 10:58 PM
0	Why does everything revolving around relationships start and end with sex? Sex doesn’t define a romantic relationship, though... Sex is a benefit of a romantic relationship, that can also be found in the appropriately named ‘friends with benefits’ scenario. Sex does not equate to love and love is not necessary in order for a person to enjoy sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/20 08:26 PM
1	Why does everything revolving around relationships start and end with sex? Because sex is what defines a romantic relationship. So what you’re saying is... the only benefit you get in a romantic (mono) relationship that you can’t get from a FWB dynamic is... pretty much just a higher(?)(and this is debatable) level of protection from STDs (due to there being only one partner if you’re lucky)? Really now...	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/20 08:17 PM
1	What is your definition of cheating? 25 year old female here. The line for (edit: emotional) cheating is officially crossed as soon as the amount of time, effort, and attention you put into a friendship with someone you are sexually and emotionally/intellectually attracted to is equal to or greater than the amount of time, effort, and attention you put into your own damn relationship with me. Example (it’s a bit of a sore subject, so excuse the rant): Don’t tell me you’re too busy to respond to a text while you’re at work, when you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/20 12:33 AM
19	Stay woke Yep!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/08/20 05:33 PM
21	Stay woke You. The number one priority.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/08/20 05:26 PM
87	Stay woke Men always look out for #1. Yep, so it’s only fair that us ladies do the same! 👏	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/08/20 05:04 PM
7	Thread on detecting lies and infidelity Oh my GOSH I am so happy you name dropped Derrick Jaxn, I have SO many videos of his saved in what is essentially my ‘validation playlist’ on YouTube! Derrick Jaxn, what’s happenin’!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/07/20 08:16 PM
3	IT'S HERE!! WE'VE LAUNCHED THEREALFEMALEDATINGSTRATEGY.COM WEBSITE! SIGN UP ASAP IN CASE WE'RE BANNED! YAY!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/06/20 01:36 PM
12	IT'S HERE!! WE'VE LAUNCHED THEREALFEMALEDATINGSTRATEGY.COM WEBSITE! SIGN UP ASAP IN CASE WE'RE BANNED! Same here, have been subbed for months and have commented a few times only to have my comment deleted and no flair added :( would love to join the site!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/06/20 01:06 PM
1	Most of the comments are telling her that it’s fine if her boyfriend does this She posted an update https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/fi5po7/update_my_boyfriend_talks_a_girl_about_really/ Definitely an emotional affair	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/03/20 12:36 AM
1	So many men have exes with BPD that it should be considered an epidemic at this point lmao shoutout to my ex. Run of the mill fuckboy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/02/20 10:15 PM