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I think it's clear that doesn't apply to Asians in America. I'm asking if you think that the reason American Women don't statistically show a lot of love to Asian men is because they think that the men will be backwards. They can't have ALL READ MY POST in TPP, LOL..... so clearly what I said is not the cause. But do you think there's a feeling among American women that the young and stylish Asian men could be backwards? You don't get to reference my post about Asian men in Asia in answering thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 01:27 AM
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"Vengeful" and "Wounded" is a very very thin line. I'm saying that if anyone has got any gnawing sense that they lack power, when they do get power they are almost guaranteed to misuse it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 01:24 AM
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It's directly relevant in that it cuts to the heart of criticisms of both Red Pill and Feminism. Aren't we talking about power dynamics?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 01:21 AM
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Asian men in Asia are often backwards, but not the ones I've seen in America. If anything, Brain-Drain immigrants and their children are probably more cultured than most people here. How would American women not wanting to get hit have anything to do with their not wanting to date nice Asian men in the USA? Unless there's some suspicion that those guys are backwards too. I was curious if that's what you were implying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 08:20 PM
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Is the reason that a lot of American women give Asian guys less attention the idea that they might still be culturally backwards? I mean, it's possible but I would imagine that would seldom be the case with a professional man from a metropolitan area in the USA. And the young ones usually seem like sweethearts to me (granted, I'm not trying to date them).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 07:16 PM
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You're describing half the 34 year old women in Taiwan and Japan, BTW, except their n-count = 0, or maybe 1 in college. Or maybe that 1 they clung to for a few years in their 20s, maybe. Their careers are equal or better than nurses. Yes, regardless of what anyone answered, they would all marry those women (unless they don't like Asians, which is also a real thing). The reason for their unmarried status is social. Children take care of parents. So, non-negotiably always giving 300+ bucks a month…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 05:46 PM
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I think you just built the Red Pill from the ground up, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 05:25 PM
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the only people who are basing their conceptions of how male and female sexual nature are on their parents are people who never dated. AWALT is based on the collective experience and lore of "men" across time and culture WRT to the nature of women as sexual and relationship partners, not on incels moms "my position was that peopel do not base their beliefs regarding male and female sexual nature on their parents but on PEOPLE THEY DATE, unless they are incels" Okay, that's far from clear to me b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 04:30 PM
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<sigh> LOL, so you clearly don't read for understanding. N=lots of narcissists, and I prefer not to write in too many abstractions. I said this clearly. If you need "data" then say so. If you think I'm incorrect, then take a stand on that: "I don't believe there are many narcissists in our society, or that they have such a big effect." But instead of taking any position, you're just saying things designed to stop discussion or further thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 04:16 PM
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You are slinging around the word "only" -- what happens to the counterexamples? Also, do you think narcissism doesn't exist? Or do you think it's uncommon? Lets hear an opinion from you that is grounded in something more than an ad hominum, LOL. Or is this "debate group" just here to rear a microcultural echo-chamber for people who have interpreted their experiences all the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 03:49 PM
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No. I learned long ago that a lot of people are narcissists or have been wounded with narcissistic parents, and so I chose two to use as examples because it's better than just writing in abstractions. If you feel the need to, look up stats and data on numbers of narcissists.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 03:04 PM
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When I have been madly in sex-attraction with someone, it's always had a huge scent component. Mostly I have preferred girls, and the ones where the sex is heavy and great have always smelled really delicious. I have liked some men, and actually, the scent component is more a factor for me when I feel attracted to a male. Kind of like, I smell the guy before I even see him and involuntarily growl a little like an animal. It's rarer than when I'm attracted to women, and also different. I wonder i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 04:13 PM
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Evolution aside, which I personally don't believe in, It's rare to find someone who doesn't believe evolution in the wild. Mind if I ask why and what you do believe? Sure, I'll clarify. I don't believe in evolution through random processes. The best example I've seen is the human eyeball, basically rods and cones electrically responding to light and resetting using calcium maybe millions of times per second and self-repairing for 80 years. Even if I give you, say, a trillobyte or something to st…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 04:12 AM
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Evolution aside, which I personally don't believe in, we can have strengths and faults in DNA, right? Strength of Teeth, hair, musculature, body type, etc. I guess it's interesting because it's also impossible to measure accurately due to humans having so many intervening variables. My mom and Dad are Scotch Irish and Scottish. My dad's mom had all her teeth removed at like 55. He has brushed, flossed, and waterpicked like crazy his whole life, and lost a few teeth at 65. My mom barely brushes, …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 08:42 PM
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I don't believe in evolution either. But we definitely can have faults and strengths in DNA, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 08:30 PM
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I agree wholeheartedly that there are going to be a lot of effects and phenomenons playing into this. Memetics (I know how to want this because I've seen others wanting it) teaches people what to want as much as, perhaps more than, natural factors go into attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 05:54 PM
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But for a guy, seeing a somewhat chubby, balding, nerdy, or otherwise "lesser" guy with a girl that he considers "hot" is going to be taken as evidence. In other words, from an average guy's perspective, I think there's a lot of guys they don't even slightly admire, with girlfriends who are 5s, 6s, and 7s. It's extremely common. I remember the first time I saw it, with a girl who was a childhood friend of mine with a boy who was like a woodwind player in the middle school band, chubby, baby face…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 05:01 PM
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Was I talking about P/U? Is everything about P/U? Shouldn't you find a mystery-method lair forum or something? Have you ever just walked around college or a place dressed what is culturally considered better than everyone expects? People react differently, and mostly more positively. As to whether it matters that much or not, it depends on your intention. Just do the experiment I described, it's fun. But it made me pretty cynical.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 01:03 AM
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Yeah, I get that. I don't blame anyone, or to expect them to figure it out non-experientially. That doesn't change that it's TRUE. There's an old saying, "Money doesn't buy happiness, but everyone wants to figure that out on their own." And I sure as shit would like my 20s back to have accomplished all I could have done without bothering with relationships. Just like I'd like all the video game time back from my teens. Neither was worth it. Nobody ever lays in their deathbed saying, "I wish I'd …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 08:03 PM
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Is this similar to the experience I'm sure most of us have had, where you dress differently and EVERYONE TREATS YOU DIFFERENTLY? I used to do it in college for fun. Properly tailored suit day, everyone smiles at you. Torn jeans and sweater day and it happens less (although people 'in that club' interact). After observing that a handful of times, I was like, "Everyone is a moron." And sometimes I would cynically game that shit, if I was visiting a professor, or doing a job interview, or etc. Afte…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 06:22 PM
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Incels and "Fat Friends" probably never get to understand that relationships aren't that big of a deal. In a way, it's like video games. When I was in my early 20s, it hit me how much time I wasted through teenage years and first two years of college playing video games and I just got rid of them all and never looked back. The wasted time still stings a bit if I think about it. Likewise all the time and energy into relationships. I love my wife. A lot. I'm happy with her. But if being with her t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 06:04 PM
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"[...]or imagining oneself as a woman in sexual situations." How does someone separate "gets off while always imagining oneself as a woman" (which would include most Cis-female fantasies) and "gets off from imagining oneself as a woman?" TBH, I'm not an autogynophilic transgendered person, so I might be treading ungracefully through someone else's garden here, but why is there even a need to split this fine of a hair to define one's identity? How does this end up being important to anyone at all…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 08:10 PM
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So autogynophilia is where a transgendered person imagines being with men with a female body and being with women with a male body?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 06:20 PM
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I will grant that women have equal or perhaps more opportunities in terms of education in developed countries. But accepting this debate (or any debate) in terms presented by politicians and national media means that you're more likely to be falling for a CIA PsyOp than changing anything, ever. Otherwise, what would be the point of the PsyOp? Engineers get paid fine, as do I.T. people. Doctors and such are great, and get paid okay after dealing with absurd school debts and slavery for a few year…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 04:25 PM
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That sounds like a really interesting type of human sexuality, which I've never heard of. Does it have a name or internet category I can look up? It has always been my understanding that the majority of transgendered women would prefer to have a female body. From the cringe-worthy attempts to argue that she's a normal, average female, with a normal female sexuality, I get that the woman in the OP's video would give everything just to be a regular girl, whatever that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 04:13 PM
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If it gets to the point of Body Dysphoria in your hypothetical male, then what you're saying isn't absurd at all. And it would be similar. I'm suggesting, though, that having a radical double mastectomy is more likely to induce serious body dysphoria that spills into sexuality than just being a skinny-fat I.T. consultant as opposed to Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 04:00 PM
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I see that about straight men, too. No one really knows all the possibilities of human sexuality, but people like to create all kinds of social limits on consensual behavior.... Is it true most women wouldn't date a man whose been with a trans woman? I don't know, I've been with men occasionally, and the women I've known have found it ranging from indifferent to totally hot. Here's an interesting question, how do you help people find it less threatening? Imagine you have got a Lesbian who got at…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 05:56 PM
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Most likely, you're going to pick someone with some deep traits similar to your parents, whether you realize it or not. In my case, I didn't even see it until I was almost 40 and had a 5 year old niece. I watched my parents interact and lets just say, their "shit" is exactly what I have "had to deal with" in partners and even people I've worked with in business arrangements. There's some deep commonalities, despite huge apparent differences. It's pretty simple psychology. But yeah, I hid it from…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 05:33 PM
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I was WAAAAAAY more seriously inlove and bonding at 18 than 31. I mean, my high school sweetheart, just let me get married and go work in the salt mine to support us and I would have signed on the line. LOL, YMMV, but I don't think this is that different from many people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 05:29 PM
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If I don't have to be bothered by the woman, and she doesn't place demands on my time and energy outside of fuck time, A. Basically I get a good roommate arrangement with an intellectual and etc equal and as a bonus I have sometimes FWB with my hot-as-Angelina-in-Gia roomie. I will most likely be "cheating" on her from time to time, though, if this is IRL -- whether she "demands" I'm exclusive to her or not. Although if the sex is very frequent, maybe not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 05:21 PM
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Well, through this whole thread I've basically been saying that the only reason any Ciswoman gives two shits to parse it all out is because their own identity is threatened. Straight Cis-men get REAL threatened when they find out "ewww, I got sucked off by a man." LESBIANS are absolutely the TOUGHEST about this, "I'm NOT ATTRACTED TO TRANS-WOMEN" despite, maybe you didn't know once, and you were. Now you gotta preach about how you aren't. "Lesbians only like REAL WOMEN, Trans is men stealing "ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 04:18 AM
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There's a line between "mental illness" and "mental trait." I guess that line is how functional you think the person is. In a lot of cultures, transgender people have a particular role that they are said to be ideally suited for (native Americans made them psychopomps, the priests of Cybele in greece were sacred prostitutes along with XX women, on the Indian subcontinent, they are considered powerful conduits of spirituality). But in a culture where everything that doesn't generate money for som…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 04:12 AM
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What is arousing to women is being the object of intense erotic desire. That definitely seems to be true in this culture. But desire is usually memetic. What would a child know to want if there were no ads depicting other children enjoying something, or if there was no other child squealing while touching the 'it' toy? And then the kid gets the toy and find it ain't all that. "If you want to know the limitations of any thing, desire it." What would a "feral woman" want? (Save it, I've read the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 04:07 AM
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I just don't like the idea of a transwoman speaking for women. Should another woman speak for you though, either? If so, we can surely find an (XX) woman will just overwrite everything you said here, for whatever reasons she believes to be important. Or is it by majority vote? What happens if a generation comes along who majority agree with transgender people? Basically, I'll bet you just want it to be the club of women who will say SOMETHING that confirms your sense of identity. The only proble…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 04:02 AM
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You're definitely right about that. I think it's because they're trying to justify an identity, and they've developed all kinds of armoring in support of it. Everyone's identity, though, seems intrinsic to them, and they build defenses against having it removed. The Buddhist Koan: "If I chopped off your right hand, would you still be you? What if I chopped off both your arms and legs?" I think you can extend it, "If you'd have had a different pet as a child, would you still be you? Different par…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 03:56 AM
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Here's a question that could shed some light on this. I honestly have no idea about it, just guesses. Does a morbidly obese person (like a 700lb person) sometimes imagine having a fitter body when having a sexual fantasy? If so, are they then "eroticizing" not being fat, or is it just not even possible to even imagine what comes naturally to their healthy sexuality without modifying the body image somehow? I know I shouldn't argue by analogy, but at least in terms of simple physical limitations …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 03:51 AM
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But if they get aroused during a sexual fantasy about say, Andrew Skaarsgaard, and IN THAT FANTASY, she preferred to have the tits she wanted, then you're splitting a fine curly little hair. If she finds it upsetting or bothersome in any way to accurately represent her double radical mastectomized chest while in the fantasy with Skaarsgaard, then that curly little hair gets so thin, it basically disappears. Now she has body dysphoria, like a trans-person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 03:44 AM
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I sense that some subclass of transwomen WOULDN'T "think about it" (any more than you do, tacitly) except that the "I" in the body happens to not be the same as the "I" in the mind. Correct, we are talking about autogynephilic trans women. So, for those "non-autogynophilic" trans-people who would not have thought of it anymore than you, if the "I" in the body had lined up with the "I" in the mind, how would you make that distinction? In other words, imagine you believed there could be such a thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 03:37 AM
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In other words, the accident that your sense of "I" agrees with your body may have nothing to do with how someone whose sense of "I" disagrees might feel, and what that means as to whether their sexuality is legitimate or not. I’m not sure what this means, but I’m not at all trying to suggest their sexuality isn’t legitimate. It’s just not “what normal (cis) female sexuality looks like.” This isn't a huge leap. If you're present in your sexual fantasies, then there's a definite sense of what tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 03:23 AM
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Hah, nice. Well, as soon as they live here for a generation or so, they would speak and think like Westerners. Lol thats nonsense. BTW: I was CYOA virtue-signaling when I said that. I believe it takes a bit longer than a generation. I think the thought-police have got me spooked these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 01:58 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/High-context_and_low-context_cultures Or, in Chinese, no one ever JUST SAYS ANYTHING DIRECTLY. I lived in a Mandarin-speaking country for ten years. It's the hardest part to get used to. It's amazing after dealing with it to see that in English our sentences stand as whole meanings unto themselves. In Mandarin, often the very precisely nuanced ways of specifying something that you can absolutely nail in English DON'T EVEN EXIST -- there are rarely as many ways to sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 01:51 AM
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OTOH, sissy porn is clearly a fetish, LOL. OTOH, maybe there's a lot of xenoestrogen in the environment and it fucks with people's minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 01:47 AM
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I sense that some subclass of transwomen WOULDN'T "think about it" (any more than you do, tacitly) except that the "I" in the body happens to not be the same as the "I" in the mind. Some subset of Cis women feel totally freaked out if you have to remove their breasts in a radical mastectomy to save them from cancer. They would prefer to see themselves with breasts, and if that isn't there, it's an incongruity with personal identity. If they imagine having big wonderful breasts that their boyfrie…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 01:46 AM
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Hah, nice. Are we that deeply committed to virtue-signaling on Reddit nowadays? As soon as they live here for a generation or so, they would speak and think like Westerners. Likewise, if an American were to live there all their life, among parents who also spoke and thought that way, s/he would think the same. How about "AH-CCPALT?" (All High-Context Culture People Are Like That?)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 01:28 AM
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How so? I mean, plenty of people have some kind of identity that they're invested in, and they're fighting for that to be "recognized" whether it's "real woman" or "virtuous person" or "intelligent person" or whatever. Facebook is mostly just a huge jerkoff place for signalling identities. And as for the first part, AWALW? All those types of women I named above DO EXIST. Re: AWALW, Lets put it this way, the difference between "High Context" and "Low Context" society and language affects how neur…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 01:14 AM
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I'm saying AWALW? There IS NO coherent "T," and if you make one, just AHALT. Am I wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 12:54 AM
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"How women think about sex." Which ones? The Christian girls who get turned on when it's extra "bad?" Or the Christian girls who stay "pure" in their mind about it? Or the college girls who are on their ninth in the serial monogamy (with twice as many flings, but they don't count) and are liberal and sex positive and want to try things with their hipster boyfriend? Or that girl, fifteen years later who is kind of "over it" and just wants to come and go to sleep and wants her BF to do the same th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 12:45 AM
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All that said, in the next few years I'll probably try some HGH, maybe some T as well. Some of my older friends say it makes their mind really work better, and they appreciate the decreased recovery times. Like everything, the poison is only in the dosage. But I'm holding off as long as I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 08:00 PM
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I've wondered -- I sometimes think that's a big piece of it. The other thing, though, is I think the muscle develops and hardens over time. Now, my own reference, which I'm about to describe, is for a reasonably strong "skinny" body type. I've been sinewy (veins bulged from muscles underneath) for much of my life, but like 6'1" and 180-185, dipping as low as 167 after an accident and ensuing mass loss. In my own example, I'm not a workout guy, but I have regularly ridden a bike 40 miles or so wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 07:58 PM
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Limpness could be a strategy for avoiding the experience. It could be the main way she learned to "fight" it, paradoxically.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 07:09 PM
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Now you're comparing the "barrel chested strongman" vs the metrosexual gym rat with pretty tits. Of course the former is Way TF stronger. But then, humans are complicated. I've seen a really really hot buddy of my little sister bag guys who smoked the same brand of ciggies as her dad. Basically, just a healthy electra complex going on. And the metrosexual gym rat is waaaaay more fashionable than the strongman. I even watched a strongman competition one time and they were lugging kegs full of bee…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 07:05 PM
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No, brute strength. Strong like a horse or something. When we would roll on the ground with Jiu Jitsu or hit in Muai Thai Class, just the brute level of crush that a strong 45 year old can output can KICK THE FUCK out of a strong 25 year old. If you are healthy, and male, and building muscle, barring some accident you will be stronger at 50 than at 25. The 25 year old can run further and faster in a marathon, though. And the 50 year old will consume a lot more advils in general. But he's stronge…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 06:59 PM
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The desire to be desired by someone whom one perceives as powerful clearly gives the object of desire some of the powerful person's power. Most people's sexuality is then a power game -- might as well go the whole way and add some handcuffs and leather (or virtue-signalling vegan pleather, as another social power play). Obviously all this is fine, except to the extent people want to hide it from themselves, which is one of the main reasons people get messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 03:48 PM
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That's real. As a bisexual man, whose been with a few bi women, being topped by a man versus being topped by a woman is different for both sexes. If a woman is topping a woman, she's seldom totally incapable of doing anything unless there's serious ropes or handcuffs or something. If a woman is being topped by a man, if he wants to make her helpless, she's already there. If a man is topping me, then depending on size and strength, I might be physically overpowered. My boyfriend for a short time …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 03:36 PM
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There are a lot of possibilities there: 1) He likes the girl and enjoys her having an orgasm, the sex is great because there's love or at least a whole lot of "like" and the personal boundaries start breaking down. (Cue mushy mushroomy talk about we're all one, but most of the time people only notice when they're in love, etc, etc.. or Rumi Poems about how most people only ever surrender themselves in sex). 2) His ego is getting stroked by being "such a man." Chad says, "I was doing so amazingly…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 03:24 PM
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Limpness is a kind of armoring against the experience, just as much as being rigid. If she's a starfish, it's just as armored as if she's a tense rock of ice. Speaking from a Reichian/Body Therapy perspective, that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 03:17 PM
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