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3	Do you believe in soulmates? I do not believe in soulmates, as the illusion of this metaphor creates oneitis a notion that can be detrimental to women and men alike in relationships. Killing the idea of a soulmate does not devalue the importance of your love for your partner, but instead I believe it increases it. One of the most special things about a relationship is choice. This is the understanding that you could have chosen any number of men and been happy but chose your partner. The idea of a soulmate alludes to fate t…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/02/17 09:51 PM
1	Question about how to STFU I'm a big proponent over intentionality. I have gotten in the habit of always (not just when talking to my husband) pausing to consider the "why" for my future actions. I next consider if the action will actually achieve my "why" or intention. You would be surprised how many times you will come to the conclusion that what you are about to do actually works against your intention. This is especially true when a good marriage is your goal.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/11/16 11:02 PM
1	CMV: Most men (especially red pillers) do not deserve a good woman. You make a lot of assumptions and fall into the trap of simplifying everyone who follows redpill into the same group of behaviors. This rarely holds true for any group, as things are not black and white. I choose my partner based on wanting a relationship with him, and the belief that he is a good man. I choose to be led by him because I choose a partner who makes solid decisions that emphasizes both of our wellbeing and respects my opinion. I'm not sure why you feel self improvement through rea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/16 09:06 PM
1	CMV: Most men (especially red pillers) do not deserve a good woman. It's not about deserve or fairness, it's about whatever meets your needs. There was a time I looked at my perfectly appropriate loving husband, and felt guilty for being bored. All that his nice guy attitude got was a feeling of guilt for not wanting him. Redpill wife/husband keeps both parties satisfied, not equal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/16 04:40 AM
1	Think of the 2 or 3 most red pill people who know. Think of the 2 or 3 most blue pill poeple you know. Who is more successful with ladies? Simplify red pill.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/16 04:31 AM
2	Thanksgiving Megathread! I wish my husband and I were coming to your Thanksgiving! It sounds like you did a great job as a hostess leveraging your guests strengths. The hot cider sounds so wonderful, almost as awesome as your attitude about the holidays!	/r/RedPillWives	20/11/16 04:29 AM
4	I'm getting lazy, please help with some advice It sounds like your relationship definitely benefits from your domestic instincts and talents. One thing that struck me about your post is that you used the word "managed" regarding your household, and strikes me as possibly the reason you are overwhelmed. Have you read the Surrendered Wife by Laura Doyle yet? She directly addresses the concept of budget. If you are managing your home, it could be making it difficult for your soon to be husband (congrats by the way) to be leading. It could be he…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/11/16 05:03 AM

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