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phil_stein/r/askMRP25/10/20 11:41 PM
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Well, you'd expect your woman to continue to make an effort to look attractive, keep her figure, smell nice, etc. I'd view the game as the male version. You don't want her to get fat, smell bad, and look frumpy, she wants you to give her the feels - that's the trade off.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 02:11 AM
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This is so fucking autistic.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/22 05:13 AM
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Dude, she's obviously borderline. This falls into the "don't put your dick in crazy" category. It proves nothing about LTR's being hard.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/22 03:33 PM
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For what it's worth: My ex is a loving, devoted mother. But dramatic behaviour and constantly shifting ground makes it hard for kids to know what is real and leads to trust issues. She didn't abuse them in any way, but she lies, is logically incoherent, and there's always this sense that something bad is going to happen. I didn't think they noticed as kids, but turns out they did.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/22 04:16 PM
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Dynamic with my exwife was somewhat similar: Things were fine as long as I somehow navigated her 'perfectly' and went to shit fast if I didn't. No amount of frame worked because her issues WERE the frame and much bigger than I could ever be. Both my daughters are now in counselling to sort out how their mothers' issues have screwed them up. Women aren't a problem to solve. You can be more or less attractive through your actions, but this is about what you get out of her behaviour. I got off on e…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/22 03:41 PM
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OYS 4 Me: 50, 6'3, 221lbs, 25% BF; GF (I don't live with); 4 kids all 18+ Lifts: 5/3/1 AMRAP for the week: SQ 170lbs x 10, BP 130lbs x 12, DL skipped, OHP skipped Sidebar: I’ve read the entire sidebar over the years but due for a refresher. Have started rereading WISNIFG. Self/Spiritual (Goal: I feel at peace the majority of the time) Good week for this, maybe not at peace, but certainly engaged in my life. It was a hectic week with trying to finalize the purchase agreement for the business, plu…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/21 06:33 PM
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OYS 3 Me: 50, 6'3, 221lbs, 25% BF; GF (I don't live with); 4 kids all 18+ Lifts: 5/3/1 AMRAP for the week: SQ 185lbs x 10, BP 140lbs x 10, DL 240 lbs x 12, OHP 95 lbs x 11 Sidebar: I’ve read the entire sidebar over the years but due for a refresher. Have started rereading WISNIFG. Self/Spiritual (Goal: I feel at peace the majority of the time) Was majorly triggered by a fight with gf and withdrew for 3 or 4 days where I ignored her. We’ve sorted it out and it’s 100% my baggage coming to the surf…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/21 08:07 PM
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Yes, I've read the side bar though admittedly it's been some years for many of those books. And yes, that's a good point I will dig back into the basics.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/21 04:56 PM
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Thanks for the comment and you are right, there is some hole that I can't sort out how to patch up.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/21 01:28 AM
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OYS 2 Me: 50, 6'3, 221lbs, 25% BF; GF (I don't live with); 4 kids all 18+ Lifts: 5/3/1 AMRAP for the week: SQ 175lbs x 11, BP 135lbs x 11, DL 225 lbs x 14, OHP 90 lbs x 11 Self/Spiritual: Drank twice this week, once at a dinner part the other because I was feeling lonely and pissy at gf. When I was married we made some major change every two years or so, which I attributed to her being crazy. I realize now it was me. Unsettled and looking for distractions. This week I’ve been looking at houses o…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/21 03:07 PM
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Dude, this is the cost of having a cock. You suck it up. Men's burden is we wanna fuck, Women's burden is they are emotional wrecks.
/r/askTRP27/11/21 02:26 PM
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Yes, it's way too early. Don't be an idiot.
/r/askTRP27/11/21 02:23 PM
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It's a good insight, and life is really difficult, in that sense. Thank god there are things other than women to occupy oneself with. Men's weakness is that we are mission oriented, and somehow that mission gets focused on a woman. We deserve our suffering for that.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/21 06:45 AM
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Totally failing at sticking to my macros and calorie goals. So doubling down on tracking as of...right....now!
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/21 06:38 PM
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OYS 1 Me: 50, 6'3, 221lbs, 25% BF; GF (I don't live with); 4 kids all 18+ Lifts: 5/3/1 AMRAP for the week: SQ 160lbs x 12, BP 125lbs x 13, DL 215 lbs x 15, OHP 85 lbs x 11 Self/Spiritual: I’ve generally felt unsettled this past week. Unsettled and a bit foggy. Have stopped drinking for the most part, which was usually 3-5 drinks a day. Had one slip at GF’s and got a bit drunk, and was hung over the next day. Lesson learned and is motivating me to stay sober. Working on sitting with my feelings a…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/21 04:59 PM
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Great idea. I'm in. Mine will be a 7 week commitment because I'm going to Cabo first of week of January. Wendler 5/3/1 program 4 days/week - I can get in two cycles before my trip Low carb/high protein diet, restricted booze Lose min 7lbs in 7 weeks
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/21 10:59 PM
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I actually saved this to my desktop when you first posted it and reread it regularly. My fav bit is: "the logos of matriarchy is the logos of castration. When anything is sublimated to female logic it becomes stagnant, boring, rule bound and standardized."
/r/TheRedPill06/10/21 05:35 PM
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Why on you on this website? Isn't there a Christian men's jesus pill site somewhere that would be a better fit for your values? This is a website about sexual strategy and getting laid.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/21 07:41 PM
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You need to delineate between goals and actions to achieve your goal. The goal is a guiding light to align actions. That's it. Actions are the steps to get there. So if you going to the gym 5 days a week, gets you to your goal faster, then great. If it's done at the expense of other goals, it's counter productive to the whole. Personally, I do yearly goals for each of the following areas: Financial, personal, career, relationship, health, family. Each goal has some actions associated with them.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 06:09 PM
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Because it's a fucking retarded idea. 1. If see wants to see it, she can get on her knees and do it in person. 2. You don't want her to share you cock with her friends, mother, your friends, your mother, the internet, your boss, your coworkers, etc. 3. It's super weak. Men don't display themselves that way for women.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 10:30 PM
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Yes, it's a bad idea. Under no circumstance would I send a dick pic.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 03:22 PM
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This is the first post of yours that seems like you are posturing.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/21 03:50 AM
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I was a full BP emotional mess who desperately didn't want to lose the "love of my life" and I also had 4 young kids at home. The thought of blowing up my life without proof was untenable. I would do things much differently now.
/r/askMRP06/11/20 08:38 PM
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I went through this shit for months, suspicious, going nuts trying to get the truth, and eventually found proof by using a key logger on her computer. That kick started YEARS of stonewalling, lies, minimizing. It probably took 4 years to get to the truth. Now this was like 14 years ago, so not sure if a key logger is still viable. Regardless, cheating fucking sucks. Here's what I've learned: It is always worse than your worst-case scenario. I'd play out eleborate scenarios that saved my self-est…
/r/askMRP06/11/20 04:06 AM
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Great post and I can relate. I feel terrible shame around failure at times and my default is to both try hide or minimize so no one sees it and over-achieve. I think it comes out of this faulty belief that if I somehow get it right - whatever that means - I'll get the connection I want.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/20 01:43 PM
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I like that - "struggle and championship". That's a good insight, thanks.
/r/askMRP26/10/20 08:37 PM
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That's a good insight, I appreciate it. Maybe bored is more accurate.
/r/askMRP26/10/20 05:29 PM
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I appreciate the attempt at tough love. I didn't say "dumber" or "poorer", or anyway imply I'm BETTER than the guys I know, I'm just different. And it was the same when I young and poor. I was in a band for years and then my band mates got in my grill about capitalism, as if I was some fucking proxy for all their bad choices. I wish I liked hockey and cared how cars work, but that isn't my nature and I'm not going to pretend to be a guy I'm not. That said, in past I've been drawn to people that …
/r/askMRP26/10/20 05:27 PM
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Well if she is BPD, that's a big pull if you are wired to save, or came from a structural chaotic family situation. (I did, and it took me years to fully extract myself emotional from my ex-wife.) I personally found this article very helpful to piece together what it was about myself that was being fed by the relationship. I realized I got off on the instability because it felt normal to me, and the saving I was doing, was horribly dysfunctional. Once I understood it the spell was broken: http:/…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/20 03:38 AM
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The pangs you are feeling is regret for what could have been, not what was. I did the same thing and it took years to get past it. I still feel that way the odd time. The hard thing about being a man is that the harmony and acceptance we want from a woman is really an impossible request. They value strength and resolve, but package it in affection and emotional care. You only get what you want from a woman when you don't need it. It's okay to mourn, but understand you are mourning a fantasy.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/20 04:56 PM
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Good summary. I personally find it hot when my girl plays at being classically feminine. Last night she was joking, so you want me to be all girly and then made a big show of being a helpless, sexy little thing. I told her I liked it, and didn't give a shit whether she was pretending or not. It's a all game. Men pretend to be more in control and aloof then we are, women pretend to be more admiring and helpless then they really feel. It's fun if you are sufficiently divested.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/20 08:56 PM
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This seems like a good in theory answer, but loneliness wears on man. And as you get older it is a killer - that's why so many middle age guys are killing themselves or have drinking problems or are in shitty sex-less relationships. Maybe peak alpha is a stoic, going it alone motherfucker, but we are social animals and crave connection. I'm successful, own a business, make mid six-figures, my income is not tied to my time, I'm a good father (which is important to me), handle my shit, lot's of so…
/r/askTRP25/12/19 03:39 PM
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Kids are great. I have four. Love being a dad, it's worth the child support and the emotional shit I went through with exwife. You're probably not going to like this answer: Have kids with a woman who is a little less hot then you. Preferably a little conservative. Hot women are used to be pandered to, which you already know. And the hot-mess, self-center woman will make every effort to destroy you. There's tons of woman who are a little more plain, but smart and have had to develop charm and se…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 05:17 PM
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It's a sobering world view, but listen, it's fun having kids. And despite all the pain I felt at the time over my ex-wife various betrayals, it was positive in the end. I have four awesome/asshole kids I love dearly, and the pain lead to personal growth. So, take a woman for what she is, and don't discount the value of the children she can provide. If you are wired for it, being a dad is fucking fantastic.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/19 05:50 PM
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Applies to all my kids. Once they don't need my money, have at it. But I assume by that time, they'll have outgrown wanting one.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/19 05:51 AM
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I'm a pretty easy going and tolerant father, but I have an iron clad rule with my kids, no tattoo's or you are permanently cut off financially. It's a stupid, trendy and self-inflicted social wound and short term thinking. So far so good. I find tattoos hideous on women and it's an immediate demerit. Any employee I have with tattoos I consider a poor decision maker and would not trust with anything important.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/19 07:23 AM
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This is the most clear and succinct thinking I've read in some time. Great post.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/19 04:05 PM
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Read Rich Dad, Poor Dad and the Millionaire Next Door. Most of America's Millionaires are small business owners, who live below their means, drive older cars, don't flash needlessly and are generally practical. Start a business, stick with it, read a shit ton of books on marketing, small business, etc. I make high six figures and work maybe 25 hours a week. It wasn't quick, but it's pretty easy now.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 05:43 AM
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That's kooky but seems plausible. Thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/18 10:22 PM
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