phileo Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Approach in clubs to keep her excited		phileo	/r/seduction	19/10/14 10:24 AM

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27	Tinder hookups according to this tinder chick I've been seeing, uhh what? Do you have this written in your profile? Because I've had like 30 dates on tinder and none of them were ready to hook up on the first date. Most of them also have NO ONS put on their profiles. I think Tinder is used more as a hookup app in the US than in Germany. Here it's mostly for finding potential partners... at least in my city.	/r/seduction	18/11/18 03:12 PM
2	Please help guys. I don't know what's wrong with me. Welcome to the club. ;)	/r/seduction	09/11/18 08:45 AM
11	Please help guys. I don't know what's wrong with me. Don't compare yourself with your sister. Women have it infinitely easier to get a boyfriend. Don't compare, period! Instead, approach a woman with the expectancy to get rejected. It takes away some of the pressure.	/r/seduction	08/11/18 02:41 PM
3	So the good looking guy in my friend group is a virgin but the obnoxious one who pees on cars gets laid all the time? It shows that extraversion wins in our society. I don't really like extraverted people since they are so exhausting. Seems like women like it, though.	/r/seduction	25/10/18 02:58 PM
2	One of my funniest tinder experiences. Same here and I concur.	/r/seduction	21/10/18 08:49 PM
6	Just a reminder guys: Don’t ghost on women you had sex with I believe in decency. If you can't be decent to other people, our society will eventually degrade and nobody wants that. Minimum effort can go a long way. You seem like you have very little empathy and that's ok but it's not good for society if everyone behaves like that.	/r/seduction	06/08/18 03:54 PM
1	I've lost the desire to socialize. How do I fix that? I'm in a similar situation. It's not that big of a deal, though. Just reflect if you are unhappy about this situation. If your situation is causing you pain, you should seek out a therapist (or someone to talk to). If you are ok with your situation (like I am) why change anything? For an introvert it is normal to avoid people, since they can easily drain you.	/r/seduction	29/07/18 04:16 PM
1	How do you get rid of negative thoughts? Take perspective. Consider how well you are actually doing compared to people like in Venezuela. Look back at what you have already accomplished that you can be proud of. If that doesn't help, take a dose of DMT. :)	/r/seduction	09/07/18 11:16 PM
5	Is it not normal / detrimental that I never 'chase' women? I envy you for that. I always need to 'call a girl out' on how shes fucking up by not getting back to me. Like you said, it's no use. It usually makes things even (much) worse. Well, I learned my lesson last time.	/r/seduction	05/07/18 11:01 PM
19	Is it not normal / detrimental that I never 'chase' women? Yeah this shit is killing me. Starting to doubt yourself if you wrote/said the wrong thing when the woman is not responding. Fucking hate cat and mouse games.	/r/seduction	05/07/18 10:57 PM
2	Shows interest then goes completely cold. Shit test? This pretty much happened to me last week. (I'm male btw) Can you tell me why a woman would do that? Anyways, after 4 days of no answer I overreacted and told her that ghosting is a shame (which it is) but I was too harsh. She pretty much told me to f*ck off. As for your situation: From a man's perspective, he either isn't really interested after all or he has some other girls going on and can't decide who to invest in. He could also try to appear super busy but overcompensates (I doubt that). I…	/r/seduction	25/06/18 05:43 PM
6	[FR] "I don't want to bother her" or "she's out of my league". How many times have you said this to yourself and not approached her? A story this weekend opened my eyes to why that's bullshit and I'll never use that excuse again. probably married and divorced by now	/r/seduction	29/05/18 09:38 PM
3	Finding a women has to be the hardest thing in the world. For every guy that banged 100 girls, there are 100 guys who got nothing. I blame those lucky bastards! ;-)	/r/seduction	15/03/18 04:57 PM
3	The most common mistake I see here In this current environment? Good luck with all the sexual harassment charges lol.	/r/seduction	02/03/18 02:57 PM
3	Girl Stops Make Out - What Did I Do Wrong? Pretty much the same happened to me 2 weeks ago. Girls are just weird sometimes. The problem is, it still stings and it keeps you thinking/doubting.	/r/seduction	25/01/18 07:56 PM
3	Sex is not the prize you think it is. I agree and life by that rule. Don't need no women to be happy. However, being rejected over and over again by women just sucks. My dick needs to have a good time, too. You know?	/r/seduction	17/01/18 03:45 PM
7	A guy lived with all women for a week and tweeted all of his observations about them So what are those chicken filets that you cannot eat?	/r/seduction	22/12/17 10:43 AM
3	If you have a gut feeling someone is into you, is that usually the case. Depends on your gut. Mine is telling me lies all the time. cryinginthecorner :')	/r/seduction	09/12/17 11:51 AM
6	Why is it that I keep meeting girls that aren’t as reciprocal as I am? "... but never ask a girl what she want's she never knows." Isn't that like the saddest thing in the world? A person who doesn't know what to want in life. Everyone should have something they want in life.	/r/seduction	05/12/17 09:15 PM
1	What do you consider as a quality woman? Pretty, smart and no big psychological issues.	/r/seduction	26/10/17 02:54 PM
11	I don't know how to flirt Yes, but it's easier said than done. This requires high lingual skill and creativity so it's not pretty simple (try flirting in a second language and you know what I mean). Not everyone has that and it takes lots of practice.	/r/seduction	31/08/17 04:03 PM
1	What hobbies attract the most girls? I just don't get why women are so into dancing? What's so special about it? I'm unfortunately very disinterested in dancing. Don't really see the point of it. Yoga is a good hobby, though. But I find it hard to talk to girls there, since the atmosphere is not ideal for hitting on them.	/r/seduction	07/06/17 09:55 AM
8	Lost virginity, whole new person all the sudden? I feel you bro. Life can be really hard. I guess you probably have a chemical imbalance which causes depressive thoughts. It's hard to find the right medication, but don't give up, yet. There is still so much good stuff in life, worth living. I recommend dimethyltriptamine (DMT), which can help a lot with depression. Watch the documentary on Netflix (The spirit molecule) and decide if it something you want to try. Suicide is not the answer. People WILL miss you!	/r/seduction	13/05/17 10:05 AM
-2	[FR] 25 years in field: Pickup in a plane with the girl next to me this is incredible! I just couldn't have the balls to try something like that. I would immediately imagine if things went wrong how awkward it would be to sit the next 1 or 2 hours next to her after being rejected. If it went all wrong it could even consider this sexual harassment and sue you. Anyways, I guess I'm looking at it this way because I just don't like being talked to during a flight. So I immediately assume the same for other people.	/r/seduction	21/04/16 05:29 PM
8	No One Wants To Shoot The Puppy - Be A Man! yes what the hell?	/r/seduction	30/09/14 03:49 PM
11	Everyone has their own special way of flirting whats yours? sounds legit	/r/seduction	15/08/14 10:17 PM
6	Tip/Semi FR: Learn to embrace and even enjoy randomness. Sounds like a really great experience. Good for you! I find it really hard to crack the "shield" since I´m not a big talker and I give up as soon as I feel like it not flowing, but it´s nice to hear you had success. Any recommendations to crack said "shield"?	/r/seduction	03/09/13 03:58 PM
3	I interviewed a group of 10 girls about their dating/sexual history and preferences... Here's some of what I learned. Sometimes, I wish I was a pretty lady. I would be such a sluuuuut :D	/r/seduction	16/08/13 04:07 PM