phillsimpson Archive

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1	Financial Preparation You're going to have to declare any assets and if you get caught hiding it won't be pretty... If you think you might be responsible for future gains/taxes then perhaps selling while you're in the married tax bracket could be beneficial. But maybe worth speaking to a pro on that.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/01/25 03:30 PM
1	First Lawyer Meeting Anything showing ownership of assets prior to the marriage, anything showing something was a gift, if you think 50/50 custody will be hard then anything showing you are actively involved.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/01/25 03:26 PM
1	Feeling sad, so I try to remember the bad times, which were the real times One thing I did in the years that it went downhill was emailed myself little notes when she did something crazy etc.. I actually haven't really needed to.go.look at them, but if I ever felt like I missed her I planned to just go review those emails to remind myself of the reality.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/05/24 09:04 PM
5	Mother's day I think of it as a bit of a kid holiday also. So I drag them to target and have them pick a couple of basic things and they give them to her. But we have a good working relationship. Then I remind them to give them to her. Minimal effort.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/05/24 02:20 AM
5	Thanks One thing that helped me was making a new email account and over the year or two prior to divorce sending myself an email each time she acted crazy/unreasonable..useful for those moments post-divorce where you might stray close to a regret.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/01/24 02:31 AM
1	Home refinance question How far into your current loan? While rates are tough right now, personally I'm considering for the same reason to refi at current bad rates (don't buy down) and then plan to refinance when rates drop and financial history situation improves.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/02/23 03:59 PM
10	Ex FIL harasses me in parking lot during drop off. Buy a dashcam and make sure it's recording the handoff?	/r/Divorce_Men	01/10/22 03:46 PM
4	Wife Just Told Me She's Filing For Divorce Soon — Seeking Advice I'd start recording those conversations if possible. Courts are looking for parents to be well balanced and if she's making those statements it's good to have the evidence at least for the lawyers to bargain with.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/08/21 04:19 AM