philoerosophy Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	It's beautful Innit tho?	/r/ExRedPill	27/09/19 12:04 PM
1	How do you not tie yourself esteem with success with the opposite sex? Is living a happy life but finding yourself being rejected and single/virgin for years really worth it? ^ So much this ^	/r/ExRedPill	01/09/19 09:18 PM
1	How do you not tie yourself esteem with success with the opposite sex? Is living a happy life but finding yourself being rejected and single/virgin for years really worth it? This seems scattered and charged. A lot of this has been answered by myself and other posters. maxomai's reply is dead on and amazing advice. Check your mood -- it's clouding your judgment. Also seeing TRP stances here without the balancing act of seeing through TRP's resentment. You're identifying with it, letting it govern your rationale, and treating it as truth when it's not. You're (understandably) investing far too much in women's opinions of you. Even those "chads" you're alluding to have…	/r/ExRedPill	01/09/19 09:15 PM
1	How do you not tie yourself esteem with success with the opposite sex? Is living a happy life but finding yourself being rejected and single/virgin for years really worth it? "Not my most confident right now so it doesnt matter if she likes me or not, she'll just leave anyway" You answered your own question. Your attitude is the problem. Being a virgin isn't an "incurable disease." It's neither of those two descriptors, and attitude is the only thing stopping you from losing your virginity. You're "never happy with where you're at," so why should any female be happy with where you're at? As soon as my attitude and relationship with myself changed, my luck changed. If…	/r/ExRedPill	01/09/19 07:15 PM
2	How do you not tie yourself esteem with success with the opposite sex? Is living a happy life but finding yourself being rejected and single/virgin for years really worth it? As far as I can tell, they have a knack for it, especially as they mature psychologically, but I wouldn't say they all just know. Women often confuse being an asshole with confidence at a young age, just as men often confuse confidence with being an asshole. I've been on my own journey for over 10 years now, and it still feels incomplete. Your attitude reminds me a lot of my own in the past. It seems that the journey is never complete. It's simply a journey of growth that lasts a lifetime. Simpl…	/r/ExRedPill	01/09/19 06:02 PM
1	How do you not tie yourself esteem with success with the opposite sex? Is living a happy life but finding yourself being rejected and single/virgin for years really worth it? Pay attention to how you're phrasing all of this, the language you're choosing. Detach from your pain and try to view it from the outside through an objective lens. Keep in mind it's an existential topic, not a logical one. Act the part first routinely, and the mindset follows. Good short video for this: https://youtu.be/d0KSxcM70xY Also keep in mind that no one accomplishes this 100% of the time; most people don't come anywhere close. No one's perfect.	/r/ExRedPill	01/09/19 05:42 PM
2	How do you not tie yourself esteem with success with the opposite sex? Is living a happy life but finding yourself being rejected and single/virgin for years really worth it? Repeated goal setting, breaking them down into microtasks, and achievement with the intention of long-term lifestyle change into the pursuit of self-set goals. This isn't a temporary solution, it's a state of mind. It sounds like you've done no short amount of this, so also keep in mind meditation. I have a somewhat manic/depressive temperament myself and a past that doesn't help my mental control, so meditation has been a lifesaver for me. The ability to detach from those gripping emotions is a…	/r/ExRedPill	01/09/19 05:38 PM
2	How do you not tie yourself esteem with success with the opposite sex? Is living a happy life but finding yourself being rejected and single/virgin for years really worth it? All of this! Build yourself into a rock-solid, well-rounded edifice. Women love men who are constantly improving their own lives. Love is an action, and what better recipient than yourself?	/r/ExRedPill	01/09/19 11:09 AM
1	How do you not tie yourself esteem with success with the opposite sex? Is living a happy life but finding yourself being rejected and single/virgin for years really worth it? Really like this reply. Self-love and self-respect, independent of all other factors, are the core puzzle pieces that will radiate an individual energy outward that is universally attractive to women. Not to say there's people out there who attract all women, or even half of them, but women pick up on behavior the most readily for attraction, and nothing any one person (especially any one man) can do is more attractive than this advice. You'll be an unshakable badass.	/r/ExRedPill	01/09/19 11:06 AM
3	How do you not tie yourself esteem with success with the opposite sex? Is living a happy life but finding yourself being rejected and single/virgin for years really worth it? Seen some great comments on here but this one's a bit flawed honestly lol. First paragraph is great, but having been/still being a nerd myself, I can say from experience that cons and tournies almost always have 95%+ male demographics (that's being generous), and almost (see: usually all) every girl there is with her boyfriend. Transferring that intellectual interest into more academic/recreational hobbies friendly to women (philosophy club, psychology, craft beer/breweries, etc) and opening his…	/r/ExRedPill	01/09/19 11:00 AM
6	How can I start trusting again? This OP and this reply are exactly what I needed to hear personally, big thanks to you two. There's great value in refining the accuracy of one's perception of who is trustworthy, but it's also important to be reminded of the fact that that trust is the foundation of a relationship to begin with. The former is meant to enhance the latter, it seems. Red Pill Philosophy seems to only examine the former, and in more extreme cases, be aimed at denigrating the latter. A relationship without trust is …	/r/ExRedPill	26/03/19 02:54 AM