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/r/seduction26/02/18 05:19 PM
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Hey Todd, I'm going to be backpacking through Southeast Asia for the next few months. Do you have any tips for gaming while traveling? I'm in my early twenties and plan on staying in hostels with other people around the same age range.
/r/seduction06/12/17 10:10 PM
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Hey Todd, wondering what your thoughts are concerning the current political climate, #metoo, sexual harassment and how game ties into all that. I feel like so many of the stories we hear are about guys who never learned how to truly attract women so they felt they had to rely on their power to push past people's boundaries instead.
/r/seduction06/12/17 10:08 PM
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I totally believe it. I have a "homeless" (technically lives in his car as opposed to the street) friend who has no problem meeting girls and getting laid. To be fair he's not a drunk degenerate but even if he was I don't think it'd matter. Girls react to good game, confidence, and dominant masculine traits, not your paycheck or the size of your apartment. People here are going to try to dismiss it based on Homeless Joe's height, or race, or claim he's just playing a numbers game but to me those…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 04:06 AM
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EYE CONTACT.
/r/seduction13/07/17 02:27 AM
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RSD Madison has a girl's name yet he somehow pulls. Vadim from Honest Signalz is a straight pimp. Kong from Simple Pickup never let his ethnic name stop him from not giving a fuck.
/r/seduction10/07/17 01:58 AM
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I'm 22 and I approached a 16 year old girl yesterday. Guess what happened? NOTHING!. I asked her age within the first 30 seconds of conversation, and when she said it I wished her a nice day and moved on with my life.
/r/seduction06/07/17 01:40 AM
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Bro you're operating off several limiting beliefs just from this post alone. Tall, good looking, charismatic guy You can't change your height, but your looks are within your control. Fashion, fitness, and grooming will take you very far. Charisma is a social skill like any other. Learning to speak confidently and relate to other people is a skill that can be practiced and refined. I'm going to catch that creep thing What does that even mean? If you're a sexual male you're going to make some wome…
/r/seduction03/06/17 03:51 PM
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yep. basically did a standard daygame front stop (first 5 seconds of the video).
/r/seduction03/06/17 02:25 AM
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I don't run, but I saw a runner do a cold approach. There wasn't anything magical to it, he just turned around after he saw the girl, went up to her, and delivered his opener.
/r/seduction03/06/17 01:46 AM
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If you want the most efficient way to collect flaky numbers then sure it'll work.
/r/seduction02/06/17 05:23 PM
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Number 1 thing with creating tension is creating STRONG unwavering eye contact, followed by speaking with a deep, rapport-breaking voice (downtalk). Also are you trying for instadates or just talking to girls for 3 minutes and asking for their number? And lastly, how well do you present yourself with fashion, fitness, and grooming? If you're coming across as a scrub then no amount of verbal game or good eye contact will fix that. Either way, daygame is hard so props to you for going out and doin…
/r/seduction28/05/17 10:15 PM
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That's because a lot of the people who make these posts before they've even started are doing it from a place of seeking validation. Same as the "my first approach posts". You rarely see people who have already done a 30 day challenge writing about it on here, cause those with enough self direction to do it don't need internet brownie points. The desire comes from within. This isn't limited to seddit btw, I see similar things on /r/bjj and /r/nofap.
/r/seduction23/05/17 02:41 PM
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Great set with Sarah. 15:34 - DAT BOOTY DOE.
/r/seduction12/05/17 05:17 AM
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Ahh that's an interesting metaphor. I can actually identify with the meditation practice statement, because that's something I've struggled with personally. I'm curious if you think the internal mindset changes are long-term or if you regress to your original self in an LTR?
/r/seduction11/05/17 03:06 AM
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why?
/r/seduction11/05/17 01:39 AM
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He was with her before he got famous and rich. Also, it takes work to become famous and rich.
/r/seduction10/05/17 01:02 PM
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While you're thinking like this, other guys are working to overcome their shortcomings...
/r/seduction10/05/17 03:53 AM
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You don't need to verbally state your sexual intent. Just have a normal conversation and make strong eye contact.
/r/seduction07/05/17 02:43 AM
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Yeah dude I'm aware of that. Just wanted to understand what you meant by "get" the girl.
/r/seduction07/05/17 02:17 AM
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When you say "get" what do you mean? f-close or number close? Cause there's nobody on this planet that's fucking 20% of the girls they approach.
/r/seduction07/05/17 01:41 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ewcYLsowOSo - first 5 seconds
/r/seduction04/05/17 02:18 AM
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Dude I think it's awesome that you have balls and are approaching consistently. But your vibe seems off in a lot of interactions and it seems like you're purposefully being weird and shooting yourself in the foot with girls that could potentially be into you for the sake of social freedom (or whatever). Also, kinda tangential but as a fellow black guy I've found that the Yad stop/Front stop leads to a disproportionate amount of blowouts and autorejections (at least as compared to my white wings)…
/r/seduction03/05/17 10:25 PM
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Ahh I live in New York so there are gay men pretty much everywhere lol. ... that's just my personality. When I'm out doing shit during the day, I want people to fuck off and let me get my shit done. Honestly this lines up perfectly with my experience approaching women. A lot of guys on the internet think very attractive women will be less receptive to cold approach and less attractive women will be more receptive, but it seems to boil down entirely to that particular girls personality. I've appr…
/r/seduction02/05/17 04:46 PM
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Do you ever get cold approached during daytime environments? I'm not a big fan of drinking so I don't like to go out to bars and try to meet hot girls, but I do daygame quite a lot. Do you think you get approached by men more often than an above-average woman of typical attractiveness gets approached by men? Cause it's kind of a stereotype that gay men are pretty aggressive lol. Also I'm a straight guy and while I don't get cold approached by men a lot, I will absolutely agree with you that the …
/r/seduction02/05/17 04:08 PM
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I see lots of cold approaches (maybe ~10 per month) in NYC. Especially around the Union Square area (obviously) but on the subway and as I'm walking down the street as well. You can usually tell by the intense eye contact between the guy and the girl. I'm even sure I saw a guy approach a tourist mom+daughter group in the Oculus near the World Trade Center just a few days ago. If you open your eyes and try to be aware, you'll notice it. That being said most guys do not ever do cold approaches (ju…
/r/seduction29/04/17 03:47 AM
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Did you do a search. It seems like there are varied opinions - https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/search?q=rsd+bootcamp&restrict_sr=on&sort=relevance&t=all
/r/seduction17/04/17 12:41 PM
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If you don't want to drink, then don't drink. Your friends will probably tease you a bit, but who gives a fuck? You're presumably a grown ass man who can make his own decisions. And your wallet and liver will thank you for it.
/r/seduction11/04/17 07:18 PM
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Also, don't rely so much on nofap. I wank 3 times a day and pull just fine. Everyone's different bro, some men just have lower libidos than others. Nothing wrong with nofap as long as you're not walking around thinking it'll give you superpowers lol.
/r/seduction10/04/17 02:36 AM
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Great response, thanks dude. Honestly I tried lessons at one studio near my office last summer, but it was mostly people in their 30s and 40s and since I'm 22 I didn't really think I'd fit in there. I've been taking hip-hop classes since the beginning of this year instead (because i genuinely do love all types of dance lol), but I'll check out your suggestions.
/r/seduction01/04/17 05:00 AM
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I'm in NYC. Do you have any suggestions for salsa lessons? There's actually a lot of studios here but I don't how how to tell which ones are good and which ones aren't.
/r/seduction01/04/17 03:13 AM
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Yes, it's so garbage. And it's always the same 5-10 shitty companies doing it. The last good content on here from a good pickup company was by Austen from HonestSignalz, and he literally just wrote 2 text posts that weren't thinly veiled advertisements for his youtube channel. The standard is literally that low haha
/r/seduction31/03/17 10:57 AM
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I feel like I must be a retard cause I can cold approach girls on the street and get them to come on dates with me, but I have no idea how to talk to the cute girls in my yoga and hip-hop dance classes. Like I've been doing both (once a week each) since the beginning of the year and I haven't made any friends from yoga, and I've met 2 solid bros from hip-hop. No girls though.
/r/seduction31/03/17 01:28 AM
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Glad to see I'm not the only fan of the Mackdaddy on this sub. I was so bummed when he stopped making new content and deleted a bunch of his old footage. Dude has been as influential to my development as Mark Manson and Shogo Garcia (another great guy who preaches truth/authenticity as the core of seduction) .
/r/seduction28/03/17 11:36 PM
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Look at her actions, not her words. The fact you're making this post means you probably already know what the answer is.
/r/seduction23/03/17 02:21 PM
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Stop jerking off at all
/r/seduction21/02/17 04:30 AM
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In the book he also talks extensively (for like pretty much the first 100 pages and then all of the section on honest action) about your understanding your emotional needs and how that's likely the root cause of your dating problems. Addressing that stuff will help.
/r/seduction24/01/17 05:29 AM
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I'm looking into Therapy currently, but I really don't like the Idea of having to go through it for possibly years until I can finally start having a sexual life. Lol OP you're rationalizing HARDCORE. You don't need to go to therapy for years to get results. And yes, you'll have to do that work yourself, but you're 26 and still haven't done it yet sooo..... All those years are going to pass anyway, do you want to be 30 and in this current situation?
/r/seduction24/01/17 05:24 AM
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I've seen a lot of girls at the gym who are smiley and stuff then make a horrified look once the guys walk away. If you're going to see life through this perspective then you might as well never take any risks. And I'm curious what you consider to be "a lot of girls". 2? 20?
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 06:09 PM
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Go out and approach. There's nothing wrong with re-reading the book (I have, several times), but when you talk to women in real life, you'll quickly realize your specific sticking points. Then you can start to actually apply the text to your dating life, instead of trying to juggle 20 different concepts in your head. Also, consider reading through the Postmasculine archives or watching some of his talks on Youtube. Mark Manson goes into more detail on the blog about some of the concepts that are…
/r/seduction29/11/16 06:30 AM
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I have a friend in his mid 30s that has a LOT of success with direct daygame. You don't have to go to nightclubs to meet women.
/r/seduction29/11/16 02:48 AM
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I also have this issue. I've been pushing myself to not care and I've noticed that strangers don't actually give a fuck about you approaching someone (or even if they care they lose interest after about 3 seconds), but I have this major fear that someone from my job (I have a white collar office job) might see me cold approaching and I'll develop a reputation as "that guy". Trust me, this doesn't keep me from approaching women, but it is like a constant nagging worry in my head. I don't want Cou…
/r/seduction06/10/16 10:44 AM
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There's a very easy way to find out (hint: you go up to them and say hi).
/r/seduction19/09/16 06:34 AM
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Everyday. I live/work in NYC and pretty much everytime I leave my apartment I see the most beautiful woman I've ever seen in my life.
/r/seduction18/09/16 10:36 PM
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He's like 21, I don't think there's anything wrong with him cursing so much.
/r/seduction14/09/16 04:44 AM
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This article is pretty much saying men shouldn't engage in direct daygame. Wish it wasn't just getting downvoted and people would discuss. What's the general thought on this by seddit? Obviously we've all approached women in public who are VERY responsive and there have been other women who were VERY unresponsive. How do you strike that balance of being bold without being creepy?
/r/seduction05/09/16 08:10 PM
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I don't want to sound dismissive, but this is a silly question. The 1-10 scale is an arbitrary metric that tries to standardize something that's ultimately very subjective.
/r/seduction04/08/16 02:29 AM
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On a tangential note, thanks for introducing me to the Utah Saints.
/r/seduction05/03/13 03:58 AM
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Yeah I definitely will. I'm always up for new shit.
/r/seduction30/11/12 04:35 PM
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What if I don't know how to skate?
/r/seduction30/11/12 05:32 AM
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GODLY
/r/seduction05/10/12 02:37 PM
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You didn't get much response but this was a solid FR. Keep on doing work ;)
/r/seduction04/10/12 08:46 PM
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Make sure to post the article anyway!
/r/seduction25/09/12 03:55 AM
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that's good, but i think what tim is saying is never do it again and it won't be an issue then. and i mean you shouldn't have to smoke to feel cool, that's some high school shit.
/r/seduction24/09/12 02:55 AM
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dude this got me pumped. and reminded me i really need to be going to the gym. are you asian btw?
/r/seduction24/09/12 02:53 AM
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Yeah he seems a bit creepy to me too. I mean even the whole peacocking thing (crazy hair) is a bit off-putting, but I guess it works for him. I really think if you want to watch good daygame videos by guys who seem normal/relatable and use humor instead of just being way out there, the simple pickup videos are the best.
/r/seduction03/09/12 05:23 AM
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If he's going around rapin' then we already know his affiliation.
/r/seduction28/08/12 04:46 AM
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Do you mean the afro-punk festival? I was supposed to go with a girl tomorrow but she texted me saying something came up. Do you think it's still worth it to go?
/r/seduction26/08/12 06:11 AM
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There's an ocean of pussy out there. On to the next ;)
/r/seduction22/08/12 11:30 PM
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What did you wind up doing?
/r/seduction22/08/12 06:33 PM
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No obviously not. The goal was to get her number to set up a date, but I felt asking for it too early and out of nowhere might come across as creepy. Trust me I don't want to spend my time talking to her through a screen because that's never actually worked for me.
/r/seduction20/08/12 03:13 AM
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Someone below suggested going out for coffee and then taking a walk. Do you think this is a good idea for "take her out"
/r/seduction20/08/12 03:01 AM
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Oh I get what you're saying. But at the same time I don't want to be too aggressive, I'm very inexperienced with all of this.
/r/seduction20/08/12 03:00 AM
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I don't know why you got downvoted but this seems like great advice. Although I have to ask if getting coffee/taking a walk wouldn't be a bit boring?
/r/seduction20/08/12 02:22 AM
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That does seem a bit over the top but I get the point youre trying to make. I'll set up a meetup with her and probably do something like this afterwards, but the general consensus is to call not text.
/r/seduction20/08/12 02:21 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/seduction20/08/12 02:19 AM
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Oh sorry dude I thought the transcript made it count.
/r/seduction19/08/12 07:47 PM
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That video is quality! Anyone who's tempted to skip it, don't! The hilarity of it alone is more than worth the 6 minutes.
/r/seduction19/08/12 01:33 AM
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Congratulations bro. Keep working on it, you don't become a master without taking the little steps.
/r/seduction26/10/11 03:34 AM
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Why can't he be?
/r/seduction24/10/11 03:55 AM
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