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This is a very beta question. Good job so far but you still have some beta mentalities as shown in your story. The answer of "should I have done that" is ALWAYS yes if you want to. Asking strangers on the internet on if you should do something is beta. Good luck on improving your game, you're on the right track.
/r/seduction24/02/14 02:50 PM
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I was in a similar place a while ago. Make a list of Long Term goals (10 year). Then from that list make a list of Mid Term Goals (1-5 years), and then make a list of Short term goals (1 year). Your 1 year goals should align with your 1-5 year goals which should align with your 10 year goals. The next step is to allocate your free-time to doing your daily goals. Once they are done, you have free-time. Treat Improving Yourself as a job, not something you do in your free-time. You don't have free-…
/r/seduction09/06/13 05:42 AM
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You can't gain confidence with women until you gain confidence in yourself. Have you read all the inner game and FAQ guides? Also check out this post of mine from last week: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1cesfz/what_a_lot_of_beginners_dont_seem_to_understand_i/ We can't help you get your inner game back. You need to do that yourself. Check out RSD Tyler's 4day seminar The Blueprint De-Choded. It's on piratebay
/r/seduction23/04/13 06:25 AM
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Don't ask her if she wants to do something. Be assertive. Tell her you're going to get together. Example from my life: I met a woman in line for Starbucks. We had a conversation about movies as the Oscars were approaching. Toward the end of the interaction I said, "That's it, I've decided, you're going to be my +1 at the film festival downtown next week". Simple as that. There's no "Hey so do you maybe wanna go to this film festival? TAKE WHAT YOU WANT FROM LIFE!!! I can't stress that enough^ . …
/r/seduction23/04/13 06:08 AM
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I disagree with this article entirely. The author is suggesting that in order to date beautiful women, men must acquire superficial things (muscles, money, etc). This is untrue. Health and a comfortable lifestyle is important, but not because women like it. They're important because you like it. Social proof is something that is attractive to women, but it is by no means the be all end all of attraction. Yes, it's true that a fat ugly guy like Jonah Hill may have an easier time hooking up with t…
/r/seduction23/04/13 05:51 AM
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I have been to Lollapalooza in Chicago 5 times. One thing I've learned is that you are going for the music and to have an amazing time. This is what I do Plan my schedule of who I MUST see, and when. Show up a few hours early to the must see events, the vibe at the front of the crowd is much more electric than at the back, creating instant bonds between everyone a part of it. During the shows, dance, sing, grab women and twirl them around, jump around, etc Establish a "group" for every show you …
/r/seduction21/04/13 10:46 PM
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Depends on who you ask. I don't like them, so for me, If I have one it's a result of being lazy and makes me feel shitty. If you like it, great, wear it proudly
/r/seduction16/04/13 07:41 PM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/qd0gf/list_of_iama_mpua_interview_series/
/r/seduction16/04/13 04:45 AM
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trollolol wp sir
/r/seduction16/04/13 04:45 AM
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Woooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
/r/seduction16/04/13 04:30 AM
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Nice comment, great book.
/r/seduction16/04/13 04:30 AM
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I've always used the kiss to exit. I'm not to concerned with what she might think of it. I like kissing so I do it. I kiss her, say goodnight, or have a great day, and leave.
/r/seduction16/04/13 04:18 AM
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Sasha did an AMA, check it out. If you're not morally opposed to torrenting, you can find a lot of material via piratebay
/r/seduction16/04/13 04:15 AM
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I said this in response to another comment. It's counter-intuitive but one of the most attractive things to a woman is a man who is focused on himself. Take some time and get your life on track to where you want it to go, trust me, wherever that is, women will be waiting for you there. Good luck
/r/seduction16/04/13 04:05 AM
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There are self-help subreddits. /r/seduction is a place for us to share our experiences with women. Strategies and what not. My point is, if your inner game isn't tight there isn't much point in learning the strategies because women will see through them. You won't have much success.
/r/seduction16/04/13 04:00 AM
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Love the metaphysical post. Thanks for sharing.
/r/seduction16/04/13 03:56 AM
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Very relevant and important point, thank you for your input
/r/seduction16/04/13 03:55 AM
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The only answer I have for you is to really think about what it is that you feel inadequate about. What is causing you to feel that way? Is it something that you think you lack? Is it something you wish you had?
/r/seduction16/04/13 03:54 AM
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Very well said.
/r/seduction16/04/13 03:52 AM
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Thank you, I hope it can help some people.
/r/seduction16/04/13 03:50 AM
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I was talking to a VP of a company the other day and he told me something very interesting. Out of 30 resumes you send out, you can expect 1 phone call/interview Out of 6 interviews you can expect 1 job offer This means that it takes roughly 180 resumes sent out to get 1 job. How many resumes have you sent out?
/r/seduction16/04/13 03:50 AM
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It's a counter-intuitive concept. Focusing on yourself is SO MUCH more attractive to women than focusing on them. Trust me, work on you, become that awesome guy both know you can be. The women will flock. Good luck.
/r/seduction16/04/13 03:47 AM
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I don't subscribe to the concept of net positive/negative. Women very rarely will not like a guy because "he has a funny mustache". All that matters is how you wear it. If you're happy, confident, and know that you have high value, a woman will be attracted to you, she isn't going to turn you down because you have a funny stache or strange tie. This is a generalization, some women will turn you down for it, but that % is very small.
/r/seduction16/04/13 03:44 AM
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Solid video, thank you for the link.
/r/seduction16/04/13 03:39 AM
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This may be true. My point was, I don't like myself with a beard, but I kept one because I was too lazy to shave, I didn't care. I didn't grow it for the chicks, and I didn't shave it for them either. It was all for me, and I couldn't be happier.
/r/seduction16/04/13 03:37 AM
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Thank you sir. I hope this will help someone out there.
/r/seduction16/04/13 03:36 AM
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Very valid point!
/r/seduction16/04/13 03:34 AM
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Thank you for your feedback. I've made a list of the things that I want in life and expanded it. Here's my list in no particular order. Financial Freedom Knowledge/Wisdom Health Now within each topic I get more specific with sub-lists by asking myself questions. 1. Financial Freedom Questions: What type of work do I want to do? Do I need more schooling to get into that field? What income level am I aspiring to reach? Answers: Strategic Planning and/or Project Management Yes, Business Administrat…
/r/seduction16/04/13 03:29 AM
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Any of these^ Anything will work if you're assertive enough in communicating it. "Hey, you wait! You have something on your face!" Most women will stop. I would suggest stop exchanging the "typical hi how are you". Be creative, be funny, be unique. If you act like the rest you'll get treated like the rest.
/r/seduction15/04/13 08:13 PM
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No. It's simple. If you want to approach a woman during the day, approach the woman. Walk up and say Hi, I'm on my way to x but you caught my eye, I think you're cute, what's your name" or something along those lines. It's not complicated. If you're afraid to talk to a woman it's because your inner game isn't where it should be. I just wrote a thread about it.
/r/seduction15/04/13 08:08 PM
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Work on inner game first
/r/seduction15/04/13 07:13 PM
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You get offended easily, I wasn't condescending you.
/r/MensRights02/04/13 12:38 AM
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That's my point. You want to feel justified, and you need to prove/show something to HER in order to feel justified. Once you "show her" or "get justice" at her expense, you'll feel better. Do you honestly not see that this mindset gives away your power as a person? How you feel is dependent on "showing/proving" something to someone else. The alpha mentality is showing/proving something to yourself, and that's it. It doesn't matter if she doesn't realize you're awesome, or whether she see's you'…
/r/MensRights01/04/13 08:25 PM
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You said you were waiting for her call so you could tell her you grew balls. That's trying to prove something to someone. For some reason it is important to you that she knows you have balls. That's a validation seeking mindset my friend.
/r/MensRights29/03/13 05:38 AM
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"I'm looking forward to her calls just so I can tell her..." " I asked my girlfriend to not treat me like her lap-dog" (Someone is treating you bad and you ASK them to stop instead of telling them?) ^ This is your problem right here. You have the mindset of trying to prove something to her. You are trying to show her. That is a weak, beta, mindset, and that is what she means when she says "be a man". She means to say "be alpha". The mindset should be "I am/have X, I know it I don't need to prove…
/r/MensRights28/03/13 10:05 PM
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You seem like a nice guy and have good intentions, but you lose credibility when you showcase logic like "He's also been in his current relationship for six years, so he knows what's up" I know a lot of AFCs who are married and have been for decades. Length of current relationship doesn't mean much in knowing "what's up" with dating.
/r/seduction13/03/13 01:19 AM
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Great advice here. The thing to remember is that the titles that we put on things mean absolutely nothing at the core. A woman is attracted to a self-assured, confident, man. You may care for her more, and invest yourself in her, that is completely natural when a relationship grows. However, once you start to lose your self-assurance and confidence she will notice. It doesn't matter that you're her boyfriend now, if you lose your sense of self, and are afraid of "losing" her, something will go o…
/r/seduction13/03/13 01:12 AM
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My point is that WORRYING about how you're perceived by others is beta. You were saying NOT to go as something YOU think is cool, rather go as something you think THEY will think is sexy. You're advocating dressing to what they may like, not what you think is cool, and that's beta imo. I'm not saying looking nice doesn't help, but you should dress up in something that YOU like, that YOU enjoy. It's validation seeking to dress up for someone else other than you. Or do do anything for someone else…
/r/seduction27/10/12 08:07 PM
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Have you read the FAQ on text-game?
/r/seduction27/10/12 07:21 PM
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I disagree with this entire post. It doesn't matter what costume you are in, women care about how you act, how comfortable you are, how confident you are. Women fantasize about alpha-males, and alphas are alphas REGARDLESS of clothing/costume. If you go out trying to dress up as something you think girls are going to fantasize about you are in the mentality of, "I'm trying to get laid, I'm trying to impress her" That is a beta mentality. You're trying to qualify yourself to her via your costume.…
/r/seduction27/10/12 07:09 PM
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This is a beta question. Worrying about what people are going to ask you is a weak mentality and showcases weak inner-game. Remember, you are awesome no mater where you are or what you're wearing. Everyone likes you because you're awesome and it doesn't matter that you go to a costume party in no costume. If you're worrying about what you're going to say to people that means that you care what they think of you, that you are SEEKING THEIR APPROVAL, which is a low-value mindset. Just go to the pa…
/r/seduction27/10/12 06:58 PM
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Nice. Baby steps my friend. The material you learn here will help you change your life if you keep building upward.
/r/seduction27/10/12 06:46 PM
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