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I remember it also. You're not losing your mind :)
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/21 05:17 AM
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I feel the same way. I've never felt insecure in a relationship before, but I regularly have to risk the urge to jump ship just to beat him to the punch before I get hurt. I feel vulnerable and afraid to open up, in fear that he may just change his mind about us. Right there with you <3
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/21 11:53 PM
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I see :) and totally agree! I guess the point I’m trying to make is that it’s not always an intentional or manipulative thing. Sometimes the relationship just naturally shifts in that direction, even if the one in “power” doesn’t intend to be selfish. But I agree that it should be mutual cherishing, and I think communication and intentional building is the way to combat that :)
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/20 04:05 AM
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The reality is, many relationships have a pursuer and a distancer. The dynamic may be only slightly skewed, so slight that you would never tell it apart from a completely equal relationship. I’ve talked about this extensively with my therapist, who related to me that most relationships have this dynamic to some degree, and the distancer inevitably has more power than the pursuer. It becomes pathological if the distancer is a sociopath or a narcissist, and unhealthy (at best) if the distancer has…
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/20 05:44 PM
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I think this was a misreading of the paragraph. It’s not about being at the mercy of someone because you enjoy sex with them; it’s about the fact that, if one individual desires sex more than another in a relationship, it leads one individual (the latter) having slightly more power than the other (the former). I’ve seen this play out multiple times in relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/20 05:35 PM
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