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Never ever throw a punch unless you absolutely have to. It’s really that simple. You handled it well.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 11:52 PM
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Go out first. Just like a woman shouldn’t meet a man at a private location for the first time, you shouldn’t meet a woman in a private location for the first time. For her, physical safety. For you, you don’t want a psycho with your address and inside your home. It ain’t perfect, but you can at least feel her out a little bit. I promise, it only takes one nut job with your address for you to switch up your tactics forever lmao.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 02:35 PM
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Adult Rec sports leagues, work, the gym, dog parks (if you have a dog). I don’t like to socialize at the gym and I don’t have a dog, but I’ve met plenty of people in rec leagues and at work. Just some other common answers that I know work. Generally a fair way to find friends with similar interests is by doing the same things you normally do. If you’re into art, take some painting classes or something.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 05:11 PM
5

So she did the polite thing and declined a call. Then put her phone away. And you decided she’s cheating on you. Jesus, some of you are disgustingly insecure.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 04:52 PM
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There’s a lot of women out there. There are not a lot of gyms out there. Just keep that in mind. I also thought I could be an exception to the golden rule of not shitting where you eat.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 07:09 PM
40

So you’re requesting guys dm you pics of their body, pics of their bank account, and screenshots of them sexting... and they’re not obliging? Weird.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 11:04 AM
39

Anyone who follows every rp principle to a T is going to die miserable, unhappy, and alone. This is because like almost everything in life, there are no absolutes. Most of the principles are guidelines, not rules. The more you follow them and act regarding them, the more you realize which work for you and which need to be tweaked. A lot of people post some really stupid questions here. Worst of all, if somebody else asked it, they’d view it clearly and know the answer because 99% of this crap is…
/r/askTRP03/03/21 04:38 PM
5

I treat the apps like the joke that they are. Not a single serious thing in there. I’m sure I could do slightly better if I put forth more effort, but I honestly just don’t like dating apps that much. They’re just the easiest thing to use rn. But I’m also a 6 foot, athletic, white male who works in the sports industry. I can put whatever the hell I want and I’ll get plenty of matches. Women are shallow. People are shallow.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 05:14 AM
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Hinge is a breeze. Can pretty easily get a couple dates a week. I get plenty of matches on tinder, but they don’t produce anything. Bumble is streaky. I went a few weeks with nothing, then got a dozen matches the other day when I hopped on. I honestly don’t remember the last time I closed on Tinder. That app is a game for boosting my ego at this point
/r/askTRP20/02/21 05:03 AM
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Basic red pill principle; no explanation. Good principle in life too. You’re never going to convince anyone they’re the bad guy, don’t waste your energy. Stop being such a child. Whatever happened happened, move on with your life. Don’t write her a goddamn diary entry, she doesn’t need to know she’s living rent free in your head.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 04:59 AM
1

You can go 2 routes in my opinion. Monk mode or keep ramming your head into a wall until it sticks. I don’t know which one is right for you. If you’ve been actively trying to apply the principles and failing, take a couple months on you. Lift, improve grades/career, read more material. Build your natural confidence. Everything is easier when you have non-faked confidence. That’s what I did, it worked. On the other hand, by doing this, you’re avoiding confronting the problem head on. Some would a…
/r/askTRP27/01/21 01:22 PM
2

During the early parts when we were in lockdown, yes. Now, not so much. Only had 1 woman say no because of Covid since September. I have been much more open to being screened during Covid though. I text more frequently when they’re trying to “get to know me.” If it makes them more comfortable meeting up with a random dude during a pandemic, so be it. I think you’ll have less luck if you’re just texting for logistics unless you’re a male model, where you’ll never have issues. Just my experience
/r/askTRP25/01/21 03:05 PM
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Jesus, some of y’all make this waaaay too complicated. Text your girlfriend if you want to. Don’t if you don’t want to. Your girlfriends not gonna break up with you because you asked how her day was lmao. If she does, you did a shit job vetting anyways. Literally, the number one thing you need to understand about texting no matter who it’s with, is that you’re not constantly answering within seconds. It shows you have nothing better to do than sit on your phone. As long as you actually do have o…
/r/askTRP18/01/21 03:59 PM
2

The “what if” of deformed and burn victims is a pointless game to play. Because yeah, they’re the exception. But it’s such a small minority of men. The 1/2 out of 10 are perfectly capable of landing a 7. They will just have to work harder than a 5. I’ve never seen an unsalvageably ugly dude in my life outside of the above exceptions. A 1 or 2 can get to a 4/5 with some serious effort.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 01:36 PM
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One of the easiest fixes; date other people. Until you’ve had the conversation about exclusivity, always assume they’re seeing other people and you should to. It’s harder to get caught up on any one person this way. Obviously, once you’ve past casual dating, that’s the end of that.
/r/seduction06/01/21 10:32 PM
2

Am I misunderstanding something? Just 5 messages a week? Not even 5 women messaging me first? Just 5 new women responding to a message per week makes one 99th percentile? That seems like an implausibly low bar
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 11:04 PM
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25, no social media. Has not been an issue at all for me. If anything, I think it helps. Everyone is more interested in what they don’t know than what they do. That said, they can google me and read a couple random news articles to vet/stalk me. So it balances out that they can’t see my whole life, but they can learn enough about me to feel like they know I’m not a murderer. Might help with the red flag thing.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 05:07 AM
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Lukewarm take; you’re better off moving in with just the other guy. Yknow what’s worse than dealing with this? Scrambling to replace her when she monkey branches away from your buddy midway through the lease. Me and my 2 friends ran into a similar issue. My buddy went to live with his (also first girl he slept with) GF of less than a year and we got our own place. Now he’s single and living with his parents again. Shockingly, the dude who is too scared to put his foot down and let’s his girl wal…
/r/askTRP02/12/20 11:32 PM
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Lol yup. Not just girls though, everybody’s addicted to fame. I’m definitely not famous but I have a locally high profile job, am friends with several local celebrities, and occasionally end up in local news. Like you said, it’s built in social proof. When people hear what I do, they want to talk to me, want to be friends with me... I do still have to close. But it attracts people like moths to a light. Not to mention, they WANT you to succeed in farming them, making it infinitely easier. I’ll a…
/r/askTRP07/11/20 07:50 PM
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You can play all the games you want. At the end of the day, looks make the games 500x easier. And not having looks is a pretty sad excuse at this point. Get in shape, learn how to style your hair, learn how to dress, fix your hygiene, get a nice cologne/perfume. Look at that, you went from a 3 to a 7. Literally just doing this will put you in the upper 25% of attractiveness for most people as long as you don’t have any deformities. As someone who did exactly this, I’ll tell you it makes not just…
/r/seduction15/10/20 01:46 AM
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I have had the same issue in the past. I think you have the right idea, keep gaming other girls. The best approach here is to play a numbers game. Eventually you’ll find another girl just as great in your mind. And then another. And another. Eventually, your subconscious will acknowledge that there are other girls just as “perfect” as your current. Or. All else fails. Imagine this current girl taking the absolute steamiest, most explosive, dump in the game. That’ll knock her right off the mental…
/r/askTRP12/10/20 12:44 PM
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I saw a picture of my ex 2 years after we dated. I remembered her looking way younger than her age (she was 31 when we dated). Maybe I misremembered, but she looked every bit of the 33 years old in the picture. I dated her when I was a fat depressed 22 year old though, so it’s possible I just ignored all the wrinkles and age spots because a girl was sleeping with me and I was dumb as shit. Idk if I’d say I was disgusted, but I certainly got a good chuckle out of it.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 10:43 PM
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I dated a neat freak germaphobe who got her car washed every single day. I plated a girl who lived in an apartment that looked like a hurricane had hit it daily. And I’ve seen everything in between. There’s been no correlation between organizedness and how crazy/not crazy they were. Those two were probably the nuttiest and they were in opposite ends of the spectrum. I’ll say, there’s a difference between dirty filthy and messy. I don’t like germs myself, so the crumbs and stains would be problem…
/r/askTRP06/10/20 12:14 AM
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You’ve done something. You were in clubs? On sports teams? Did volunteer work? Won n award? Use anything you can. If you’ve done none of that, you’ve definitely dug yourself a shit hole. Nothing you can’t work out of, but you’ll need to be even more aggressive about simply getting a job, no matter the line of work. Use anybody you know, ask friends or even Hs acquaintances to see if their jobs are hiring. Show up to minimum wage places and ask to speak to their manager and try and sweet talk you…
/r/askTRP21/09/20 03:46 PM
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Youve got the yips and You’ve thought about this too much. In all likelihood, you’re too rigid on your dates. Honestly, a lot of your theory seems good, but you gotta go with the flow. You’ve got this whole game plan, but you’ve gotta read the room. What’s working and getting her excited/engaged? What’s not? In my experience, TRP logic is really good, but needs to be adjusted based on you and your date. You sound like you’ve read it, memorized it, and are trying to answer essay questions by simp…
/r/askTRP21/09/20 03:13 PM
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Don’t lie, stretch the truth. Manager leaves you in charge when he’s takes a dump? Talk about how you have a position of leadership at work. Do some googling. You can make literally even the most minor tasks sound very valuable and directly translatable to the job you’re applying for. Customize your resume for each job. Most importantly, be able to back your bullshit up. Every embellishment needs to be explainable in an interview. That’s why I don’t recommend straight up lying (and a reference c…
/r/askTRP21/09/20 02:39 PM
1

Not even the blue pills would tell you to stay here lmao She’s literally actively hunting for her next dude, bragging about it, and you’re just chilling
/r/askTRP18/09/20 02:00 AM
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Never tel them to let you know if they change their mind. I’ve been corrected on that. It implies you care if they change their mind or even want them too.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 02:30 AM
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Your suggested reply feels snarky to me. I think 99.99% of the time, the best reply is no reply. You’re definitely right a snarky reply is the worst method. I take it one step further and usually don’t even read these emotional novels. I got that shit when I was blue, they all say the same thing. It’s them justifying whatever reason the break up occurred. I don’t really care about their opinion. Girls always want the last word, let them have it. Who cares? By answering, you’re validating whateve…
/r/askTRP17/09/20 02:29 AM
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Picture her taking the nastiest most explosive dump of all time. Because she takes those. Also read the sidebar, you clearly haven’t.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 12:40 AM
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Damn. Imagine reaching that hard. Consider that I want a dog... AND it has the added benefit of being a great way to meet people. Always enjoy when new people come in here and screech beta at everything they read. Fall back chief
/r/askTRP02/08/20 09:04 PM
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Pretty much. I usually don’t ask, I tell/recommend. “Im going to x at yz. Gonna be fun, you should come with.”
/r/askTRP02/08/20 06:29 AM
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Yeah, this is a shitty time to move. I think you have the right idea. Crush work, put in hustle on the side, and wait this out.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 06:16 AM
1

Thanks Ronny bigdick, I’ll keep that in mind.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 05:56 AM
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Tough rn because of the pandemic. I’m moving to a new city where I don’t know anyone for the first time in my life (I did the same for undergrad years ago, but I’d say that was different since school is designed to meet people easily). My one buddy who’s pretty redpilled has done this before. As per his advice, I’m getting a dog in the spring. Long discussion and obviously a big commitment, but it’s an excellent way to meet people. Dating apps aren’t the best way to meet girls, but it’s a perfec…
/r/askTRP02/08/20 05:51 AM
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I have found there’s a pretty fine line to toe in terms of giving them a taste of the blue pill they think they want vs being blue pill (which most don’t want anyways). Occasionally inviting them to do things other than sex is pretty effective in my experience. It breaks down their asd as they can pretend that you’re both working towards a relationship. Honestly, they don’t actually want the relationship to progress either most of the time. Just about creating the illusion that it can.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 05:46 PM
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Lol this is a pathetic read. You broke up with her, who cares if she cheated? You’re caught up on a girl you claim you couldn’t date even if you wanted to because of logistics? Private your dms and move on. She’s an attention seeker and you’re getting yourself off on giving her attention.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 04:45 PM
5

Everybody knows being healthy is beta af bro
/r/askTRP14/07/20 06:38 PM
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You seem like an insecure chode who’s trying too hard. I’d drop off online dating until you have something resembling self confidence. Imagine being so in your feels you need to shame people on fucking tinder lol
/r/askTRP13/07/20 07:14 PM
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You’re not in until you’re physically in. Girls talk a big game, they don’t back it up. Invite her over. See what happens. Worst case, there’s a couple billion other girls
/r/askTRP12/07/20 03:39 AM
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Yeah, say what you’re thinking as long as you’re not a moron. Overthinking is your enemy. Ignore that. You’re not in elementary school, that’s not how adults get attention.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 03:31 AM
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7 is really low for a girl coming out of college lmaooo. Girls have been yanking your chain if you think 7 is getting high. Double that and you start getting a basic idea of where some of them that are actually sitting.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 12:30 PM
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Ill give her the benefit of the doubt and say she genuinely forgot because her mind was preoccupied with her sick aunt or whatever. That said, I’d still next. I think it sets a bad reverent for yourself if you let that kind of stuff slide. Just say, “no thanks” to her recent invite and move on.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 02:08 PM
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Lol that’s tough. Save the messages as screenshots. Don’t answer her if she hits you up. As long as the poor bp doesn’t know where you live, I doubt this will really matter for you in a week.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 01:58 AM
1

I’m not, but I’m a borderline germaphobe. I have a friend who is still hooking up. And my best female friend took a break, but she got bored and is going back. The rest of my friends probably wouldn’t be whether there was rona or not
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 12:37 AM
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Yup. The rules are not 100% must follow every time. Always important to note, the higher your SMV, the less important any of these rules become. Halo effect is real. Even for guys.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 01:41 PM
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I’d say I have 7 close friends, 2 of whom are female. I’ve known all of them since we were 6-8 years old and were in our mid-20s. I think having known them that long is key in the platonic status. There are no romantic feelings. One has a boyfriend, the other is a serial dater. They’re happy to help me pick up girls, they’re the only girls who know my actual n count and I know theirs. They have definitely bad mouthed girls I’ve dated or brought around, but it’s not malicious. They’ll go to bat f…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 06:06 PM
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So basically, you want to know if anybody has discovered an untapped market for you to cut in to? Stop being lazy and do your own work. Search the sub for basic ideas or be innovative instead of asking others to do the innovation for you.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 12:53 PM
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I think it’s more directed about the dudes that feel the need to post 4 times in a day to ask if “I handled a shit test well and what do I text them back?” There’s a handful of people that try and use this sub as a damn ghost writer.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 05:16 PM
1

Were you in a lesbian relationship? That’s the only explanation for you acting like such a little girl lmao No need to bring her to watch you get a haircut. No need to dramatically move out after she gave you shit for 5 minutes. Your actions make you seem like you got your feelings hurt. You dropped frame hard
/r/askTRP26/06/20 03:50 PM
3

The only people who’s opinions I care about are mine and the person that signs my checks. I couldn’t give a fuck about what my ex or any of her friends think of me anymore. Let’s be honest, I did beg my ex to take me back. If I were her, I probably would think I was a little bitch. But that was over a year ago and I’m nothing like that anymore. She doesn’t know that and I don’t really care if she ever finds out.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 02:07 PM
3

Rite of passage to realize personal life and work should never mix. I take it a step further, I really don’t talk to anyone about who I date, who I sleep with, or who I text. A lesson learned over time. I’ve had friends cost me a plate, I’ve had coworkers try to get me in trouble, and I’ve had jealousy from every angle. So I just don’t tell anyone about my personal life. My friends have come to accept it, but work is the one where I absolutely do not ever talk about my personal life.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 02:41 AM
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You made the safe, probably correct play. Picking one could’ve broken the other plate. Maybe a big deal, maybe not. I don’t know your situation. But picking neither was a one night setback where neither plate breaks. Neither views the other as above them even if you do value one higher. Touchy subject having 2 plates together and knowing each other not something I’m personally comfortable with, so I doubt I’d have handled it any better.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 02:34 AM
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I’ve never understood why people share that. No matter whether you’re sleeping with 0 people or 15 people, it will literally never make you look better in the eyes of others. You’re not impressing anyone. Best to kebabs everyone guessing/assuming. Never confirm.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 05:28 PM
4

Leave hobbies, hobbies. Personally, nothing turned me off of a hobby faster than being required to do it. Better off finding work that’s going to get you money, which you can use to buy everything except time.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 02:07 PM
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You've got 5 other chicks, sounds like she has 0 leverage. You're not cheating, you owe her literally nothing and she has nothing to argue. Don't cancel on her, do cancel on her. The fuck does it matter? You don't have to pretend to have abundance, you do. So do literally whatever you want. I'd probably just ignore her and wait for her to crawl back with an offer to make up for her behavior. Or she doesn't an dit really doesn't matter
/r/askTRP11/06/20 01:52 PM
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I don’t. Just had a girl flake a few weeks ago. I just left it as is and moved on. Never texted her back, never expected to hear from her. No biggie. She texted me last weekend trying to hang out again. She scheduled it. No flake this time. They either come back or they don’t. Doesn’t matter to you.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 10:02 PM
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There’s perfectly valid reasons to not go and ask LTRs to not go. Hell im a germaphobe, I haven’t left for anything other than running/going to the store in months thanks to COVID. Doesn’t matter what people are protesting, I’m not gonna be there during a pandemic. Disagreeing with their beliefs seems like you probably should’ve found a different girlfriend. I’m not really into LTR’s, but I know I couldn’t be with a chick that long who was that incapable of thinking for herself and relied on me …
/r/askTRP04/06/20 09:53 PM
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Red pills a toolbox, so take away from it whatever you want. But to me, that logic is when you’ve crossed the line into mgtow/neckbeard logic. Nothing screams fragile ego like feeling the need to eradicate beliefs in an LTR that don’t match yours. If you’re that passionate about a topic, vet better. I think it’s perfectly acceptable to draw the line if she’s just going for social media clout, but otherwise, you seem like an insecure neckbeard who’s way too worried about what other people think. …
/r/askTRP04/06/20 06:18 PM
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I’ll preface by saying I’m pretty heavily in support of the whole BLM movement. But it goes deeper than just this Floyd situation; it has become systematic. The protests aren’t really about Floyd, he was just the straw that broke the camels back. Not to mention, until they’re actually imprisoned, most protesters believe (probably correctly) that they’ll get off relatively well. I’ll also add that I don’t think the protests will end up changing anything, even though I support the protests (and th…
/r/askTRP04/06/20 03:11 PM
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I think the key is recognizing why she’s doing it. If she actually believes in the movement and wants to go, you’re a dick for trying to stop her. If she’s just doing it to farm social media popularity like a lot of white people are, then that’s a red flag to me. Either way, seems like a shit LTR since neither of you seem to have any respect for the others’ opinions.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 02:22 PM
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So don’t spin plates? Imo, Number one principle from red pill is do whatever makes YOU happy. Seems simple to me. I definitely go through phases where I genuinely don’t feel like spinning plates. So I just don’t for a while.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 03:08 AM
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I don’t really know. At some point, she was just kind of a footnote. My motivation stopped being proving her wrong for leaving me and just about being better. So I guess when that happened, I was totally over it. Every situation is unique, a part of me was over that relationship way before it ended.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 12:18 AM
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I didn’t get cheated on, but I got left for another dude, by a girl that I didn’t even like by that point. I’d just stayed with her because I put her on a pedestal, she was out of my league in my mind. I took the next several months on myself just like you’re planning on doing. It helped me a lot. I honestly think it helped more than chasing a bunch of girls ever would at the beginning. Breakups are one hell of a preworkout. I went from obese to in shape to cut. I quit my job and got my masters.…
/r/askTRP02/06/20 09:43 PM
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Being a chad. Idk, going to the bars during non pandemic gets me better than online crap. But whatever the reliable way to do it is, I haven’t nailed it down.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 11:00 AM
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Lol it’s not high at all. It’s not 2 out of 10 matches. That’s 2/10 numbers. Consider that of the 66 matches I got since February, I got 6 numbers. So it’s really 3/66. I wouldn’t call that exceptional. And technically, it’s an undershoot. I got 3 lays out of the last 6 numbers I got. I just know that’s not an accuarate representation overall, I just had a lucky streak. I do not get a number from most chicks I message. But I think if I do get a number, it turns into something 20% of the time.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 10:56 AM
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Lol exactly. Girls have an unholy amount of options on Tinder. For every 10 numbers I get off tinder, maybe 2 turn into sex. At best. I’m sure I could be better at closing, but I ask once and that’s it. They don’t typically come back if they flake/say maybe. I’m not about to pine after a Tinder hoe. It’s super easy to get numbers, but it’s unreliable if you’re looking for regular, new sex.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 01:48 AM
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And Drake with the reformed blue pill savior lyric “I used to save hoes with a mask and a cape Now I'm like, "Nah, love, I'm good, go away"
/r/askTRP21/05/20 05:51 PM
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Dated a 32/33 year old for several months. It was ok. Before I got involved with red pill, but if I had been it never would’ve happened. Despite the adage, crazy did not equal amazing sex. She had a pretty low n count, but between all the great things I’d heard about older chicks and crazy chicks, I was underwhelmed. I’m sure there’s great sex available with older women, but is it worth it? Up to you.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 09:14 PM
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Personal experience: depends on how attractive you are. You can get away with a lot more based on how high your smv is. If I tried the shit I do now back when I was fat, it wouldn’t do anything. It works exceptionally well if a girl is attracted to you though. They crave your attention. Grass is always greener, people want what they can’t have. Dangle the carrot and give them just enough attention to leave them wanting more. Has worked really well for me. Depending on their status in my life, I …
/r/askTRP04/05/20 02:02 PM
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Blame the orbiters, betas, and simps who put mediocre girls on a pedestal. Unfortunately, a bunch of my friends pathetically grovel at the feet of average looking girls because the girls give them attention with 0 intention. Builds up their egos.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 04:29 AM
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I have never been more appalled than when I went to a coworkers party and had to explain this to people. No idea how we got on the topic, but some dude said that precumming was only for virgins and that once you got good at sex it didn’t happen anymore. That was after they’d all agreed precum couldn’t get you pregnant. The conversation ended when they still didn’t believe me after I showed them on google that you could get pregnant from precum. It should be noted, I was 10 years younger than my …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 01:45 PM
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Peanut butter. Make your protein shakes with a ton of peanut butter, a little ice cream, a banana, and your protein powder. Could even have it a few times a day. That’ll get your calorie count up with mostly healthy fats and proteins. Could skip the ice cream, but honestly sounds like you need the calories.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 01:15 PM
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Maybe you’ll delete this reply too. Really shows how little you care that you keep coming back and deleting replies to my comment so you can write something new. Were you fighting back tears when you changed your reply from, “I care about how they think, I even said I wasn’t going to reply” to this totally alpha reply? Read the sidebar, you’re clearly in your feels that you got called out about your feelings for this girl. Move on.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 01:08 PM
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I mean he’s right. If you didn’t care, you’d have read the text, laughed and went back to your business. Instead you felt like you needed to contemplate the deeper meaning. Because you want it to be more than her seeking attention.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 01:38 PM
1

We’re quarantined. She wants attention. It’s not complicated. Happens all the time. The fact that you’re this pressed about the text is off putting. If you’re really reading into it that much, block her.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 01:36 PM
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What the hell is this? Other than embarrassing to read? This isn’t a red pill question and I’m not sure you’ve ever read any sidebar materials. Delete this and start reading.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 02:13 PM
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Lol I didn’t even have to read past the title. Leave her. That’s a dumb fucking reason and I don’t really care what her justification is.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 12:57 PM
3

You’re assuming people aren’t fucking idiots, and that’s your mistake. That May projection is assuming full social distancing, which absolutely isn’t happening, at least not where I’m at despite the government mandates. I’m still predicting early July. By then, most of these dukbfucks will have had somebody they care about die and actually start listening to the health professionals. Hope you’re right, but seems like a long shot.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 02:25 AM
5

No need. There are almost no absolutes in life. There are plenty of situations where living with a girl is good.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 01:50 PM
7

I know what you’re talking about. Made my skin crawl to see 22 year olds who were landing teaching jobs and basically, they had met their career peak. They won’t climb any higher up. If you like teaching, consider moving into administration. It’s by no means the same, but it’s at least in the same field. I’m not as familiar with European education systems as I probably should be, so I don’t know what that entails. In America, it’s as simple as getting a masters degree in administration. I was a …
/r/askTRP02/04/20 11:46 AM
14

Lol was just talking about this yesterday. The attention thirst is real. There’s about a half dozen girls from my classes who text me daily. Never slept with any of them, or tried to. I don’t sleep with classmates/coworkers. We rarely talked outside of class before, although I was flirty with them in class for sure. They ask me about something related to school and then try to transition into just talking. They’ve gotten bolder too, one told me she probably won’t be able to find a job at the end…
/r/askTRP30/03/20 03:05 PM
4

I grew up on social media, for twitter in middle school when it was just starting. I don’t have anything other than LinkedIn (new to that) and Reddit now. LinkedIn is for the networking crap you mentioned as fearing missing. I just quit last year, and I’m going to be honest... the difference is negligible. There are benefits to having it in some ways, but those are outweighed by the benefits of not having it. It’s a toxic mess, 99% of the people who have it just have it to show other people how …
/r/askTRP23/03/20 02:11 PM
24

My friends disgust me. Not sure who’s worse, the fat slob who tries to nice guy his way into fucking every girl I fuck after I’m done with them. Or The one who’s so disgustingly whipped he can’t even go downstairs without his girlfriends permission. At least this ones getting fucked. I think the worst part is knowing that I used to be exactly the same as them. Trying to nice guy my way into a relationship. Moving soon and just about done with these two, I need some red pill friends when I move.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 02:51 AM
4

I find it best if I just don’t think about it. It’s cringy, pathetic, and downright sad. I’m absolutely horrified by my behavior with my most recent ex LTR. Super grateful for my relationship with her, because that prissy bitch behavior I put on full display really made me reconsider my entire life. I was a fat, depressed loser while I dated her. The day after we officially broke up, I found the red pill. The fact that I asked her to reconsider breaking up with me and give me one more chance (af…
/r/askTRP22/03/20 02:47 AM
2

If you come out of this at the same place you were going into it, that’s a huge loss on your part. You have unlimited time; if your argument is you can’t be alone and make progress, you’re low key stupid. You’re a college kid, I can guarantee there are dozens of useful things you can do right now, and in fact, you should be as productive as ever considering socializing is completely removed. You are not the ultimate alpha chad who needs no improvement. So stop crying and feeling sorry for yourse…
/r/askTRP21/03/20 03:26 AM
3

Still going to the gym, but just my complex’s small gym instead of a real gym. I’ll probably stop doing that and start doing workouts at home before too long. Being extraordinarily careful with germs while there and taking more steps to stay healthy when I get back. It’s the only time I’m leaving my apartment for now. Using this time to get ahead on school work, read, and do anything else I can at home. I’m not eating anything I didn’t prepare myself. I can’t afford to get sick and miss 2 weeks …
/r/askTRP13/03/20 07:38 PM
5

My best friends girlfriend hasn’t cheated afaik, but does walk all over him. He’s not allowed to do anything, constantly has to call her etc. He’s new to relationships and doesn’t understand how bad this one is. I explained it once, said my spiel and that was that. He listened and ignored it, nothing I can do about it. He knows I’m anti-relationship so I think he just discarded it even though he genuinely values my opinion for the most part. Still my best friend since we were 8, gonna be there w…
/r/askTRP01/03/20 04:16 AM
3

I lift because I like watching the scale change and looking in the mirror. As someone who used to be a fatty and make all sorts of excuses, it’s addicting to have so much control over my weight. I can make it go up when I want and down when I want. I go to school and work because I like winning and meeting powerful people. In 2 weeks I’ll be meeting a bunch of sports team presidents and execs. Dope. I fucking loved competing in sports as a kid and the fact that I still get to do it, from a busin…
/r/askTRP24/01/20 11:40 PM
2

I got a job in sports and entertainment. People are shallow, as soon as they hear I work in those fields and occasionally meet celebrities, I instantly become the most interesting person in the room. Doesn’t matter that my job is just like every other office job. Just in the sports sector. I firmly believe my job and stories were far more interesting when I was a teacher.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 06:27 PM
2

You need to block her on everything. I have a nasty case of oneitis for an ex as well. Despite everything I’ve changed since we broke up, despite having a plethora of other girls available, despite knowing what a toxic person she is... I know I’d still get back with her in a heartbeat given the opportunity. You need to eliminate the potential for her in your life. Almost a year after we broke up, this ex sent me an iPhone shared album request called “please answer,” from her work email (which I …
/r/askTRP20/01/20 01:56 AM
17

Literally google it. There’s a subreddit dedicated to learning how to code. Use it. Ask questions there to people who likely know a shit ton about it. Coding is by far the most valuable thing you can do in this time.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 12:42 AM
30

I get in and get out. I have occasionally talked to people, but only rarely. Typically it’s people I know from class or if I’m waiting for a bench/court. Some people consider the gym a social place for sure, I don’t. I’m there to work.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 04:07 AM
1

I pick and choose certain parts of TRP that I want to apply to my life. I don’t agree with every single thing that’s posted on here or every part of the theory. Doesn’t mean it’s wrong, I just don’t apply it to my life. I believe it generally gets a lot of things right. Video games are one thing I do indulge in, frequently, that TRP doesn’t necessarily approve of. It doesn’t interfere with my work, school, or lifting. It does interfere with certain aspects of my social life. I could be going out…
/r/askTRP22/12/19 01:05 AM
1

Think it depends what you’re doing. I recently went to the bars by myself for the first time, it was way more enjoyable than I’d expected. There are definitely things that I personally think are weird to do alone and wouldn’t do this for. However, there are definitely people in here who will not give a fuck about that either.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 01:43 AM
1

Pull the trigger. Don’t twiddle your thumbs. She ok’d it. Not really a lot of pressure.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 01:42 AM
1

Have you met her before or spoken to her before? She has natural trust in you since she has mutual friends. Tell her who you are, I’m assuming she knows this is happening, so should be simple. Then, I’d probably just tell her you’re going to xyz this weekend and tell her she should come.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 12:19 AM
7

I’m 6 foot almost exactly. You wouldn’t believe how many girls don’t even know what 6 foot looks like. Two of the girls I was recently seeing guessed my height to be sub 5’10 when it was brought up. They all claim they want 6 foot, but in real life, they don’t care and don’t know.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 12:00 AM
4

Jesus, don’t go around smelling like body odor. Wear deodorant 100% if the time. Cologne is optional, I wear it when I go on dates or over to girls’ houses.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 05:21 AM
-1

I got the same message after I gave my number. It’s weird, very unusual. I texted her, if it doesn’t work, I’ve got other girls to talk too. No biggie.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 04:34 AM
1

If you want to maintain contact, do it. Don’t turn into her diary and you’re fine. I personally wouldn’t be talking daily or anything, I respond to texts with girls usually before I go to bed at night unless there’s something pressing.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 04:03 AM
2

Are they reading and reacting though? One of the girls I’m talking too now was responding instantly when we first started talking. I usually respond to texts with random girls at night, so once a day. Maybe if I have free time during the day. She has slowed to responding after a few hours. Should I be speeding up my response time or should I continue doing what I’m doing? Seems like a hassle to respond instantly and frequently.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 09:07 PM
9

Interviews are my specialty. I’ve gotten an offer at every job I’ve interviewed for. Have questions ready. Not generic bullshit, questions that show you did your research. You should know a good deal about the company. You should be interviewing them too. You should know what they’re going to ask. Interviews are almost all identical at their core. When they inevitably ask for a weakness, give them an honest one. Don’t do that crap where you try to disguise a strength as a weakness. Even the most…
/r/askTRP15/12/19 08:57 PM
3

I’ve done it before. Recently, it’s because some better opportunity comes up. That was not the case before. It was because I was a scared bitch. So instead of taking any risks, I’d cancel and play video games. Youre 17, there’s a 99% chance that no better opportunity is coming up that’s preventing you from sex that night. You’re cancelling because you’re scared. Stop doing that. Also lift.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 12:50 AM
1

While it will be awkward tension which Id like to avoid, I also don’t really want to give her what she wants here. She wants me to accept her apology. Just because I’m not particularly upset about it (I was peeved that night) doesn’t mean she deserves the forgiveness she’s seeking imo.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 11:50 PM
15

That’s what I thought. Based off what my friends have told me, she wants to fuck again and wants validated. Since I don’t want to fuck, I don’t need to validate her feelings. That was my logic.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 10:40 PM
21

Do whatever sounds fun. I like getting food (no fancy dinners for a first date ever though), I like getting drinks, I like playing games like top golf and shit like that. Literally just do whatever you want to do.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 01:02 AM
12

I dated a 31 year old for a little under a year when I was 23. If they’re going after a 23 year old, they know exactly what they’re doing. They want sex. No 30 year old is dating a kid barely out of college because she’s looking for something serious. If she is, she’s delusional. Escalate. She wants a man, not a timid boy who’s scared to make a move. Also, I wouldn’t LTR a 30 year old chick, which is partly what it sounds like you’re trying to move to.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 12:59 AM
8

I’m scheduling one now, I’m leaning coffee shop. I don’t like coffee, but I’ll make do. You could invite her over, but a lot of girls don’t feel comfortable coming over until they’ve met you out and about.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 12:53 AM
2

I was 22, she was 31. 8 months or so. It was honestly my own fault for being such a bitch for so long. I tried to break up with her 3 separate times but she kept telling me she’d fix it and I’d cave because I was a blue pilled child. But that’s why I wasn’t super upset, I didn’t want to be there haha. Should’ve known she was going to be crazy when 2 months in she admitted she lied about being 28. Super hot 30 year olds don’t date socially inept fatties like I was unless they’ve got some crazy st…
/r/askTRP08/12/19 05:26 AM
4

Kind of. I had fun and the ending is what led me to fix my life. So overall, a net positive. But also, I kind of left my last job because she went after me at work because I wasn’t “upset enough” that she broke up with me. She talked shit on me and caused a variety of issues. She made the last 2 months I worked there miserable to try and spite me. I was likely leaving anyways, so no big deal. I would not recommend it if you value your job at all though. It can take a really shitty turn.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 05:05 AM
1

Lol imagine thinking girls aren’t attracted to fit bodies. You see a lot of fatties and skinny wankers leaving the bars with hotties? Of course not. Unless they’re fucking loaded or insanely smooth, they’re not pulling shit. Meanwhile, any socially inept moron with a six pack will stumble ass backwards into pussy at least once in a while by pure virtue of being attractive. Having a good body makes the game a whole lot easier.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 04:05 AM
1

Lol not unless you really want to. That snap didn’t require a response and she’s doing something. Maybe you should find something to do instead of worrying why she didn’t answer you. Text her to set something up the next time you want to hang out. If she ghosts you then or says she can’t, then you soft next. No reason to do it now.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 05:47 AM
19

I said it on here the other day, unless you are in the upper 5% of male attractiveness, dating apps are one of the worst things that have happened to guys. I use them, but if you’re relying on them as your only way to meet girls you’re going to be incredibly fucking disappointed. Girls use them for validation and endorphins.... and holy shit is it easy for them. All these dudes losing confidence because they can’t even match with 4s on Tinder. But if they went outside and showed some balls, they…
/r/askTRP05/12/19 05:35 AM
26

You’re really not exaggerating that much. I blame dating apps and social media entirely. Lowered guys’ self esteem. I was the exact same way 8 months ago. The 2 guys I hang out with most are that way now. One gets walked all over by his girlfriend. The other is desperately trying to hook up with my old fwb because she gives him attention, trying to get to me. Watched them both get beat down for months by dating apps and they spend half their days drooling on Instagram. Any girl that gives them t…
/r/askTRP05/12/19 05:20 AM
1

Short answer: no Long answer: not your problem
/r/askTRP04/12/19 03:38 AM
5

Dating apps are a joke. I get maybe a match or two per week on each app. I’m pretty picky to be fair, but it’s laughable how rarely I get one. I did reset my bumble once and I got 50 some likes in the next two days. But only about 5 weren’t ugly af or fat. I’ve gotten 6 or 7 dates in the past 5 months off dating apps. I could’ve gotten another 4 or 5, but scheduling and me forgetting to reach out have missed on those. I can be pretty socially inept, but I’m decently attractive at this point. I’v…
/r/askTRP04/12/19 03:07 AM
1

I’ve honestly made the mistake before. I’m not saying that’s what happened, but it’s possible. I’m not a typical texter, I’ve gone 3-4 days without responding to a question just because I genuinely forget and I’m busy. I type something out, get interrupted, think I hit send. 6 hours later I realize I never hit send. 24 hours is a long time to not realize unless I truly don’t care about the person I’m texting. I’ve also read a text on my watch and I think of a response and just tell myself I’ll s…
/r/askTRP03/12/19 05:07 PM
33

Lmao she realized she fucked up. You’re probably better off without her, leave her on read. The girl I was with the last few weeks was grinding on another dude at the bar. So I left her ass there, no explanation. She’s been hitting up my friends trying to hang out with us. She begged my roommate to let her pick us up to take us to the airport. She wanted to drive over an hour out of her way... to drive us 15 minutes to the airport. Hoes do hoe shit and then when you hold frame, they want you eve…
/r/askTRP29/11/19 02:46 AM
4

We always preach not being an orbiter on here, but is it harmful to have orbiters? I don’t see why it would be.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 04:15 PM
25

Practice dude. Same as everything else in life. I used to be shy and nervous af. I literally got red and the sweats doing presentations. Took a year where I constantly put myself out there. College cohort (we had all classes together) with 19 girls and me, the only guy. Raised my hand for everything. Any time there was a volunteer needed, I volunteered. No matter how nervous it made me, if you immediately raise hand without thinking... it works. At some point, it goes from being stressful to you…
/r/seduction21/11/19 05:56 PM
7

Random quirky shit isn’t funny after middle school. So the first step to being liked is to drop that. If you lift and do well in school, you clearly have some discipline, fucking apply it here. You’re better off being silent then saying that dumb shit trying to be funny. If you insist on being funny as your personality trait, observational humor is your best bet currently. Listen to some stand up and learn how to tell stories in a funny way as well. You can command a crowd at a party if you’re a…
/r/askTRP20/11/19 03:53 PM
5

I doubt it, you seem like a pretty dedicated orbiter.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 02:35 PM
6

No, OP played this perfect. By leaving and not escalating, he’s shown he has abundance. He doesn’t need sex here, he has other important things going on that are more pressing than trying to get laid (total bullshit in this situation). Even though he has nothing actually, she thinks he does. He’s flipped it. Now instead of him having to escalate and convince her to have sex, she has to convince him to stay and have sex.
/r/seduction16/11/19 08:01 AM
12

It’s really not considered a very good one. If you’re dead set on a compliment (a solid start), compliment them on something they control; Their hairstyle, outfit, jewelry, glasses, etc. For best results, don’t just give a generic, “you’re pretty.” It’s low effort and they can tell.
/r/seduction14/11/19 02:04 PM
3

Don’t fucking meet up with her. Did the same thing a while back. My beta ass tried to break up with her 3 times, but she kept dragging me back. Insisted it would be fixed, and I dreamed of a perfect relationship and falling in love. So I always caved and went back to the most miserable fucking relationship ever. Finally she dumped me, 24 hours after she convinced me to give her another chance. I discovered red pill just like you. Started lifting. Deleted every social media. Changed my entire lif…
/r/askTRP11/11/19 04:55 AM
3

I typically don’t think so. Someone usually wants to fuck someone. So it ends poorly 90% of the time or more. I had a lot of girls I used to consider friends, but then I realized this rule was almost always true. So I have girls I occasionally do shit with in a large group. I have almost 0 I would ever do anything with 1 on 1. They’re part of a group of friends, they’re not my friends. And I’m sure somebody in the group wants to fuck everyone else. It’s a cluster fuck. I have two exceptions to t…
/r/askTRP11/11/19 04:39 AM
3

I’d do neither of your options. Both seem submissive to me. Second option is particularly soft. I’d go out to a different bar and game if that’s what you want to do that night. She has shown you she doesn’t value you at all by not returning your text. Don’t give her value.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 08:03 PM
4

Lol literally had to leave my last job because I shat where I ate. So nah, I don’t sleep with coworkers, classmates, or anyone else I’m obligated to see on a daily basis. There’s plenty of other chicks out there. It’s a good rule to follow
/r/askTRP02/11/19 02:33 AM
9

Holy shit. This is brilliant advice, it’s the first I’ve seen that I honestly think may help me stop being a timid little fuck. I don’t know if something clicked or if it’s the first I’ve seen I’m confident I can do, but this seems perfect to try. All those times people ask what the group wants to do, or where we want to eat, or what bar.... instead of saying idc, I’ll say something. Maybe this was stupidly obvious, but I can actually do this.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 03:52 AM
3

Don’t date coworkers. We all think we’re the exception until we’re not. The office lied to you. I tried against all better judgement. You don’t understand, you spend 8 hours with this person... 5 days a week. Then more time after work. Plus the texting and the phone calls. Plus the weekend. It’s not healthy, you start to drive each other insane. By the end, I was looking for any excuse to not be around. Sneaking out of work. She went psychotic. Following my third breakup attempt, she dumped me 2…
/r/seduction19/08/19 03:27 AM
15

I like dinner dates for me, it’s a solid excuse to go to a new place to eat and I like food. Especially since I started cutting months ago, I’m always looking for excuses to go to nice restaurants and cheat for a meal. And I’m done with LTRs for the foreseeable future. Expensive, time consuming, bullshit. Decided I didn’t want another one a while back. So if I don’t take randoms on dinner dates, no dinner dates for me. I’ll stick to the walk in a park for now though, using the above format.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 02:27 AM
12

How do you do this when asking to dinner or a walk? I went on a date with a girl today and she seemed interested in going for a walk at this one specific place near us she mentioned. I guess I could say that I’m going to the park, she should come? But asking for dinner? I don’t think I can say “I’m going to xyz, you should meet me there.” Or is this tip mostly for first dates?
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 01:37 AM
86

It’s almost comical the differences. I also lost 45 lbs in the past 4 months or so. I get hit on by girls frequently, I’ve been getting double meat chipotle for free from a cashier that’s got a crush on me, I activated my dating apps to see what would happen and got 4 dates on the first week from girls who wouldn’t have even looked at me before. What a joke, but I can’t blame them. I have no room to talk, I’m just as superficial, especially regarding weight. Just wish I could thank my psychotic …
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 12:47 AM
3

Yup. I didn’t follow this advice and ended up in a long term shitty and toxic relationship with someone who walked all over me. Constantly “discussing” bullshit like this. Don’t acknowledge it, she knows she’s avoiding conflict and being an ass while doing it. You pointing it out won’t fix anything. It’ll just give her more confidence to continue doing it. I wisened up, stopped contacting her and only spoke about work related things or to exchange hellos at work. Much better off now.
/r/seduction14/07/19 05:52 AM
3

Just had this happen to me. It's brutal, but it is satisfying to see them lose their minds when you leave. ​ She met almost every red flag, so i broke up with her... then we got back and she broke up with me... all within 24 hours. ​ So then I more or less ghosted her (only partly as we work together). She has completely lost her mind, she's furious and din't realize she was losing me as a friend as well. She's done some bathshit stuff at this point, mainly involving lying to people about me and…
/r/seduction31/05/19 01:43 AM
1

Don’t shit where you eat. Don’t date your friends/coworkers/dorm mates , it doesn’t work out 99% of the time. Odds are you’re not the exception. Then there are two paths. One: you lose the friend for good and in this case, potentially get cast out of the social group. Two: she thinks you’re weird as shit/everything is insanely awkward. If you do date her, then break up and stay friends/part of the same group.... do you really want to watch her flirt with other dudes, hear about her getting smash…
/r/seduction25/05/19 05:35 AM
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