phixlet Archive

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9	What about "Alpha fucks, Beta Buxx" is wrong? Well, to open your thoughts up slightly, here are some logical fallacies that show up in that theory: no group is a monolith - so you will not find that all women want the same things, just like not all men want the same things. Some women want children, others do not. Some women want sex, others do not, others could take it or leave it. Some women aren’t interested in romance. For those women who are interested in romance and in men, not all of them find the same things physically attractive AN…	/r/ExRedPill	14/06/20 02:22 AM
4	Someone please help me... I don’t wanna be “incel” anymore You’ve gotten a lot of good advice already, so I’ll chime in with something a little different. I’m not going to address your beliefs one by one, because I think they maybe more a manifestation of other fears than beliefs in and of themselves (I don’t know you, though, so I could be wrong!). Humans are a collaborative species. We work best as a group, with some 1:1 relationships, and some group dynamics. Part of why I think you’re so miserable is that you view all of the potential people you cou…	/r/ExRedPill	04/05/20 07:36 PM
2	How do I stop thinking like an incel? Sure! I’ll sort by genre, as I’m not sure what you like to read. SciFi: A Memory Called Empire by Arkady Martine Anything by Connie Willis or Ursula K Le Guin The Sparrow by Mary Doria Russell Downbelow Station and Cyteen by CJ Cherryh Parable of the Sower and Kindred by Octavia Butler The Calculating Stars by Mary Robinette Kowal Ancillary Justice by Ann Leckie China Mountain Zhang by Maureen McHugh Fantasy: The Fifth Season by NK Jemisin City of Brass by SA Chakraborty Who Fears Death and Bint…	/r/ExRedPill	17/04/20 02:33 PM
21	How do I stop thinking like an incel? One thing I don’t see mentioned here is to start consuming media created by women - books written by women, comics written and drawn by women, visual art made by women. It’s not a simple, quick fix, but it starts to show you a much broader perspective and all sorts of things you never anticipated. Yes, you may be rolling your eyes at a lot of it at the start, but simply looking through someone else’s eyes and seeing all of the facets of life you never noticed can help broaden your perspective.	/r/ExRedPill	16/04/20 03:15 AM
9	Young male teetering on the brink of inceldom/blackpill. Relationship/gender subs like /r/purplepilldebate and /r/trp are depressing but I can't help but feel like they're right. Please convince me otherwise. Exactly, it tells you that everything you're afraid of about yourself and the world is true, and that only one group or person has the answer to keep The Worst from happening. Your whole life becomes so centered on keeping that one thing from happening that, before you know it, everything else you valued is gone...and the "solution" hasn't even worked. It really sucks, and I think we see it in so many different areas, with so many different masks. The solution has a lot of different guises, but …	/r/ExRedPill	11/03/20 03:55 PM
23	Young male teetering on the brink of inceldom/blackpill. Relationship/gender subs like /r/purplepilldebate and /r/trp are depressing but I can't help but feel like they're right. Please convince me otherwise. Your experience sounds a lot like my teenaged years and young adulthood. Like you, I found myself sinking into forums and communities where I was never enough. The users built up intricate lists of rules about how to get into a relationship, how to keep a relationship. Sometimes those rules were contradictory, but I never seemed to see that at the time. At the base of it was the belief that there were constant tests, that relationships were an arena where anything short of perfection would ensur…	/r/ExRedPill	11/03/20 01:17 PM
15	Confusion about the 'traditional' family. Interestingly, the idea of the woman as the primary caretaker is quite recent, dating from the industrial revolution. Before that, aside from during infancy, men participated in childcare to a large degree because they were training their children to follow in a family trade. Things were largely separated by gender, but which duties those were varied between cultures. It was only when men began working in factories specifically that they weren’t able to bring their sons with them, at which point…	/r/ExRedPill	07/03/20 03:44 PM
3	Women caused the fall of Rome......? It was very inconsiderate of them. (One might even call it downright rude.)	/r/ExRedPill	03/03/20 02:52 AM
25	Women caused the fall of Rome......? Additionally, if you read Memory and Mediterranean, Braudel explains how varying patterns in silt deposits (and, this, crop yields) allowed various empires to rise, and then later hastened their downfall by adding famine to the mix. But, yes, there are several historians who believe decadence leads to the downfall of civilizations, and this, combined with a certain brand of thinking that decadence is inherently feminine, fuels a delightful series of misogynistic leaps.	/r/ExRedPill	02/03/20 01:44 PM
6	RedPill has made me depressed. A chaotic post When seeing disparities, ask yourself WHY. Why are women filing for divorce more often? You suggest that it’s because men are more invested in marriage. Many women would tell you that it’s because marriage tends to bring out many gender norms that are beneficial to men and harmful to women. This dichotomy should lead to questions - and it should lead to questions that don’t have the very near, precise answers provided by the Red Pill. The truth is that humans aren’t simple. No demographic, not m…	/r/ExRedPill	16/12/19 05:17 AM
5	Thanks to this community, I'm going on my first date after spitting out the Pill! Congrats! I hope you two have a great time :)	/r/ExRedPill	16/11/19 02:06 AM
1	Advice for people that just escaped? Of course! Sorry for the lag. What’s up?	/r/ExRedPill	07/11/19 02:35 PM
3	Advice for people that just escaped? It sounds like you’re pretty introverted, like me, so one thing I’d advise that’s introvert-friendly is taking in media you wouldn’t have touched with a ten-foot pool while being a red piller. If you enjoy SciFi, I suggest CJ Cherryh, Ursula K Le Guin, Connie Willis, and Anne Leckie. For fantasy, Naomi Novik, Robin Hobb, NK Jamison, Lois McMaster Bujold, Diana Wynne Jones, and Octavia Butler. Make it a point to read books by women, and women of color especially. The subtleties of perspective, th…	/r/ExRedPill	04/11/19 09:48 PM
3	Advice for people that just escaped? This is going to sound ridiculous, but it actually worked for me, so I’m passing along the tip. The aim is not to wind up at parties every weekend (...Urgh), it’s time be able to love your best life, interacting with the people you need to interact with, without constant worry. Basically, I gamified social interactions. Saying hello to someone was one point, giving a compliment was 3 points, etc. The rules changed over time, but I was always getting points and then “spending” them on things like…	/r/ExRedPill	04/11/19 09:42 PM