phlegmatic-clam Archive

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1	Fun hypothetical, here are some options you can choose from to fix dating I was clear at the end that men need to be physically attractive if they want to be lusted after, even once they are married, but I suppose you don't believe anything a woman says until you come to the same conclusion yourself? You also seem to be in the thrall of pseudoscience about "biological instincts" for polygyny -- this is nonsense btw. Take a look at the scientific literature about penile shape and testicular size among the primate groups and you'll find out pretty quick that human femal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/24 02:48 AM
1	Fun hypothetical, here are some options you can choose from to fix dating There are always going to be people attracted to masochistic and antisocial personalities. Those people have their own unaddressed mental health issues and it's best to give them a wide berth, not wonder why they are not attracted to you. You should be grateful they are not or it's a big sign that you need fix something about yourself. Being nice and respectful is just the cover charge for dating. The fact that so many women give this as advice to men is probably more telling of how little they …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/24 05:28 AM
1	Fun hypothetical, here are some options you can choose from to fix dating Hmmm... it's true that women only want to date men who are desirable because they are "naturally" doing the right things. Would you want to date someone who was faking their personality? We do want men who are genuinely nice and respectful and not faking that -- why would anyone want to be with someone who wasn't nice and respectful? Why would women think it was a good idea to keep most men in a barely-tolerable state so they can compete for a handful of "naturally desirable" men? We want you AL…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/24 06:21 PM
1	Fun hypothetical, here are some options you can choose from to fix dating I agree with the first part, that women don't want men who are just playacting at being the kind of guy they are attracted to. But I don't agree with the idea that women prefer that most men remain unattractive because he might otherwise get poached by another woman. That's like preferring to drive an unreliable old beater instead of a shiny new car under warranty because the latter is more likely to get stolen. That's terrible deal! I'd much rather go into a dealership and have a reasonable sel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/24 07:10 AM
1	Fun hypothetical, here are some options you can choose from to fix dating I'm not actually sure what you're saying. Yes, of course women don't want men to pretend to be something they are not, and of course women don't want to be manipulated. No one does. And of course women don't want to teach men how to better manipulate women because a) that's a shitty thing to do to other women and b) it makes it harder for all women when men are good at it. And yes, that's why we hate RP/PUA mass-disseminating toxic manipulation techniques targeted specifically against women. We …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/24 06:47 PM
1	Fun hypothetical, here are some options you can choose from to fix dating I have a degree in reproductive physiology and I work in healthcare in this field. Also I'm a woman, and I can tell you that's not how it works. I get a "hormone surge" multiple times a month based on biology -- no man in the world is going to affect a woman's hormones more than nature already does, and that's a really telling conceit if men actually believe that they have that kind of impact on our physiology. Women experience massive variance in hormone levels all the time. Even the hormones e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/24 12:45 AM
1	Fun hypothetical, here are some options you can choose from to fix dating That way lies the slippery slope to pedophilia -- a better solution is for men to be more attentive and considerate in their relationships (not just in bed, but in myriad other ways, just like women behave in relationships) so that women have no reason to be unhappy. I don't know why men refuse to grasp the most basic advice for how to be successful in relationships: you see how women treat the people they love -- doing whatever they can to make their lives as easy and comfortable as possible --…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/24 01:40 AM
1	Fun hypothetical, here are some options you can choose from to fix dating Agreed. If everyone focused on self-development rather than seeking external validation from sex or relationships, there would be a lot less conflict and anxiety all around. Women want men like this, not men who are so thirsty for female attention that it gives us second-hand embarrassment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/24 09:19 PM
3	Fun hypothetical, here are some options you can choose from to fix dating The fact that you think this way just goes to show that you believe women exist to provide sexual service to men rather than have their own lives and motivations for sex and relationships. Choosing this option actually shows that a majority of women are willing to work for something of value like sex and relationships, rather than believe they are entitled to it, and are willing to accept the consequences if they don't make the cut. If you think it's a tragedy to be single or celibate, you need …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/24 09:14 PM
1	Fun hypothetical, here are some options you can choose from to fix dating Yes, people with less experience have worse judgement about the value and quality of things. That's why men who are bad in bed love women with low body counts lol 🤡	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/24 09:04 PM
1	Fun hypothetical, here are some options you can choose from to fix dating How about 7: men adjust their behaviour and appearance to be more attractive to women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/24 09:02 PM