phobiac Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Why is it that if a man fell in love with his female friend, then it is believed that he just “wanted to get into her pants”? How did I forget that one of the most lauded signs of a mentally healthy and emotionally strong person is to prioritize yourself over all others, especially when it comes at their expense over something they can't control? That explains all the people we celebrate for their unrestrained selfish behavior. You've really turned my thinking around. If you only way you know how to handle your feelings is to cut someone off then that person is not the problem. Look within and figure out why you lack d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/25 01:06 PM
1	Why is it that if a man fell in love with his female friend, then it is believed that he just “wanted to get into her pants”? I truly feel for you that you don't know how to process rejection without running away. I know it is difficult. I've been through it. It's worth it if you actually care about someone, though. I hope you find that strength one day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/25 12:13 PM
4	Why is it that if a man fell in love with his female friend, then it is believed that he just “wanted to get into her pants”? I should be clear I am talking about real friends here. Social acquaintances where you each are friendly are not the same as friends. If you spend significant time knowing someone and claim to care about them, it is not an act of kindness to anyone but yourself to cut off connection because you can't process your own feelings. If you cut contact and the feelings subside then that's even worse. You lost a friend over fleeting feelings you couldn't manage. That is not the act of someone who is str…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/25 12:10 PM
-1	Why is it that if a man fell in love with his female friend, then it is believed that he just “wanted to get into her pants”? It is disrespectful to end what you claim is a friendship because you can't handle your own feelings of physical attraction. It shows your attraction is more important than your friendship. Cutting contact in that scenario is weak behavior and running away from your feelings instead of confronting and resolving them. You're tossing gender into this scenario and that doesn't make it any better or any more justified.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/25 11:58 AM
3	Why is it that if a man fell in love with his female friend, then it is believed that he just “wanted to get into her pants”? You're entirely misunderstanding the point being made. The expression of attraction is not the disrespectful act, it's the behavior after a rejection. If you spend years as a friend with someone and then end contact and friendship with them because you can't handle their rejection of your one sided physical attraction... that is disrespectful to the person you claim to have cared about as a friend. Reducing the relationship down to physical attraction and then taking rejection out on someone for…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/25 11:38 AM
–	A woman’s autonomy and freedom over who she lets put their sex organ inside her sex organ trumps men’s feelings and mental well being EVERY SINGLE TIME That is not how common law marriage works in any legal jurisdiction. A key component of common law marriages is both members of a couple publicly presenting themselves as married. Cohabitating is not the only factor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 06:04 PM
7	Gender neutral "Be Smart" rape prevention campaign does not exclude male victims! Ireland doing it right. This is partially because in English law, rape is defined as penetration with a penis.	/r/MensRights	08/12/13 07:00 AM
3	Why can't paternity tests just be a matter of law in hospitals when a baby is born. Reddit markup is weird sometimes, both of your options are option 1.	/r/MensRights	29/07/13 06:58 AM
1	Has there been any studies showing how many fatherless children are fatherless because of the mother's choices? I'd like to have something locked and loaded in preparation for the onslaught of "men-should-man-up" posts on Facebook tomorrow. I was understanding it as a case of the parent knowing about their child but not where the child actually is... Which I really hope isn't legal.	/r/MensRights	16/06/13 03:22 AM
35	Has there been any studies showing how many fatherless children are fatherless because of the mother's choices? I'd like to have something locked and loaded in preparation for the onslaught of "men-should-man-up" posts on Facebook tomorrow. On that note, you should report that to someone. The police, the family of the other parent, the parent even. Obviously don't do this if you know there is a good reason for them to be in hiding but if it's a clear case of kidnapping then you should.	/r/MensRights	15/06/13 07:58 PM
13	/b/ on feminism [Ex-post from /r/4chan] I'm more concerned for /b/'s reputation, what will the media say about this? It could lead to people thinking /b/ is a place where anons actually care about your opinions and agree with you.	/r/MensRights	28/11/12 12:51 AM
8	A guy with pictures of teenage girls and chicks in bikini on the wall of his desk, would be fired. The only half naked photo in there is of that guy who played the werewolf in the Twilight series. This is unprofessional but that picture isn't of someone underage.	/r/MensRights	13/07/12 05:07 PM
6	The media is having a field day with this guy for hitting a woman. Is it just me or not only does the woman in white have nothing to do with the situation but she attacks him first right? Isn't he simply defending himself here?? The woman in white is acting in defense of the woman in red that he threw something at, it looks like water to me. He acted physically aggressive first and is entirely at fault from what I can see.	/r/MensRights	07/06/12 09:32 PM
15	Man Destroys House after Wife Asks Him for Divorce. Police arrested and charged man for damaging his own property. This is just as petty as a woman destroying things in response to a relationship ending, something I've seen this subreddit call out more than once. Blindly supporting destructive behaviour just because the destructive party is male is hypocritical. edit: Complaints of women getting off on charges when they've destroyed things are reasonable, when I posted this the top comment was saying I applaud this man's scorched earth tactics.	/r/MensRights	31/05/12 02:43 PM
7	Male Privilege. As a matter of fact, many female dominated industries are a complete drain on GDP. Can you cite a source on this? I'm curious. Your previous statement We need guys in college because face it, who's gonna build, maintain, service, troubleshoot...well, pretty much everything you see. seems to imply this is just sexist thinking. Women are perfectly capable of doing all those things, but if you have actual numbers showing that they aren't choosing such jobs then I'd love to see them.	/r/MensRights	24/05/12 01:32 AM
4	I guess now she gets what it's like to be a man. Why does the end goal of a relationship have to be a child? You call such a relationship vampiric (and I assume you mean vampiric to the world and society), but ignore that contributions to the world can be made that are not children.	/r/MensRights	24/12/11 10:56 PM
1	My mother owes my dad $28,000 in child support. The courts don't care. What can my dad do to collect it? I approve of this sort of thing.	/r/MensRights	25/07/10 10:07 PM
2	My mother owes my dad $28,000 in child support. The courts don't care. What can my dad do to collect it? <3	/r/MensRights	25/07/10 10:07 PM
1	My mother owes my dad $28,000 in child support. The courts don't care. What can my dad do to collect it? Aww geeze, I'm still getting them. It's okay though, it happens.	/r/MensRights	25/07/10 10:01 AM
5	My mother owes my dad $28,000 in child support. The courts don't care. What can my dad do to collect it? You're welcome, sorry for my slighty snarky reply and slight against your honor. I wish you luck. It sucks to be the guy looking to get child support, I know through my father and some friends what that's like. :( Have an upvote back!	/r/MensRights	25/07/10 09:56 AM
8	My mother owes my dad $28,000 in child support. The courts don't care. What can my dad do to collect it? Hmm... someone did. And someone else did too! I love how they are downvoting but not giving any other sort of advice. Oh well. I'm not at all familiar with Arizona laws, but here is an online resource for Arizona law. edit: And here's some relevant law. I don't see what option you have here other than a court case, in which you'll either have to represent yourself or get a good lawyer. A lawyer still seems like your best bet here.	/r/MensRights	25/07/10 09:51 AM
18	My mother owes my dad $28,000 in child support. The courts don't care. What can my dad do to collect it? In all seriousness, at least say the state where this is happening in. I'm sure someone can give some sort of advice. I'd still go the lawyer route, but your downvote indicates you have reasons not to.	/r/MensRights	25/07/10 09:46 AM
43	My mother owes my dad $28,000 in child support. The courts don't care. What can my dad do to collect it? Hire a lawyer, the internet isn't a very good one.	/r/MensRights	25/07/10 09:40 AM
10	Also for the first time, the percentage of men who hold that view is greater than the percentage of women who do I fail to see how that leads to thinking being attracted to the same gender is wrong in any way. Who is harmed by someone being gay? Who has a right infringed by someone being gay? Who is in any way hindered or held back from living their life how they choose by someone else being gay? edit: By the way, happy reddit birthday!	/r/MensRights	06/06/10 05:07 AM
5	Help me. No. Just hear me. Please. Make sure to change them to something she will not guess. Split off as much of your life as you can from her now, while she doesn't have the chance to cut you off from it. Be sure to clear your saved usernames and passwords on your computer if it is a shared computer. If it isn't, put a decent password on it. A lot of us are doomed to make the mistakes our parents did, even when we attempt to avoid it. :/ I wish you the best of luck in this.	/r/MensRights	17/03/10 02:34 AM
6	Help me. No. Just hear me. Please. I see from your comments that she has apparently left. Despite this I'd like to give you what advice I can. First and foremost, do NOT delete this thread. For any reason. If your wife knows the kind of passwords you would use, change them on everything you can think of including this account. If/when you end up pursuing legal action against her, even if it is just a divorce, this thread is evidence just like a suicide note would be evidence. I don't know if you were planning to delete this, but …	/r/MensRights	17/03/10 12:09 AM