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I think that any man is relationship material with the right person (right as in, the one he can truly vibe with). If we want to talk about emotional immaturity, that's an issue with both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 10:20 PM
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I've heard this theory that says that women deal with their emotions as soon as the breakup happens, and then get better in the long term; while men are "fine" on the short term and develop the pain of the break up later on. This could explain why it takes longer for men to get over the breakup: they don't take longer, they just delay the mourning. Of course this is only something I heard I don't even know if this is true
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 04:02 PM
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what does "sexual baggage" even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 09:01 AM
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Thank you!! I've had many one night stands but I've always been affectionate anyway with the person! Expecially when travelling, you go to a city, you met someone and then you never see him again but this doesn't mean I didn't actually feel a form of "love" for the guy!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 10:03 AM
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happy to hear that! <3
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 04:37 PM
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oh that's sad
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 02:32 PM
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what do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 02:04 PM
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I've had three important relationships. These three boys were all manipulative and controlling, and two of em were violent. I broke with the last one after, while my mom was sick, I had to show her my face with a black eye. That being said. I don't regret any of these relationships. First of all, even tho the guys were toxic, I still loved each one of them in a particular way. I will not just shut them down as "bad guys" and feel as a poor victim of the events. Second, after the black eye, I rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 02:03 PM
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It really looks to me like you are dividing the world into jerks and nice guys, I'm not at all simplifying your thought to make you look bad; also, I really have no interest in making you look bad at all, I just don't agree with you. "Nice men are actually jerks who are pretending to be nice", is this what you got from my little story? That's on you. Of course my anecdote is just a dumb personal history, it was just a way to express my thought, that is: that there is NO SUCH THING as nice guys a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 12:44 PM
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Oh, and also, just to be clear, as the average woman I am, I do not choose my sexual partner according to their looks: six packs mean nothing to me. I get turned on by smartasses. And those are pretty hard to find in my experience lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 11:23 AM
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I'm the average woman and I do not have comments validating me, except the ones from my best friends. I'm not ugly, I'm not hot. I'm average. I think the theory is biased, based upon the women YOU follow on IG who use it to show off their beauty, which of course calls for validations comments. (just to be clear, I do not judge such behaviour, good for em). I do follow tho lots of hot guys who ALSO show off their bodies to get validation. And they fucking get it :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 11:20 AM
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It's really funny that you actually believe men are only divided into nice guys and jerks. And women only have to choose between nice and jerks lmao. And just to be clear, I dated the so called "nice guy". He was the nice boyfriend after the toxic violent guy. Turns out it was an act: he really just enjoied being the nice guy, but deep down, oh man, so much shit you wouldn't imagine. The world isn't black and white, deal with it. If women don't chose you, don't get mad at them. I've been rejecte…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 11:16 AM
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