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Dam she found you on Facebook, woke up at 5am worked two jobs then drove 45 mins to see you, and you made her rock climb and then drive to the bar near your place.
/r/seduction26/04/19 07:56 PM
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Moderation is key, and less is more when it comes to self deprecation. It certainly has its place in attraction tho.
/r/seduction26/04/19 06:49 PM
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This person gets it. If you need something to say just try saying like "I think you are really attractive and I d like to get to know you more. Can I get your number so we can do something some time ect ect" do it in your own words of course but be honest Gotta put yourself out there bro and risk it all. Fortune favors the bold after all.
/r/seduction26/04/19 06:38 PM
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You are a joke go back to English 101
/r/seduction22/04/18 06:51 AM
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If you honesty can't read that and see how bias and judgemental that is, then it's not lazy as fuck it's you 're stupid as fuck
/r/seduction22/04/18 06:16 AM
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You are so stunning and brave
/r/seduction22/04/18 04:44 AM
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I think it is one of the best because it meets my goals. I don't think there is a best approach in seduction what matters is what fits you and your goals
/r/seduction21/04/18 06:32 PM
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Boy someone sounds bitter
/r/seduction21/04/18 06:28 PM
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Or buy a recorder and wear a shirt or jacket with inside pockets
/r/seduction21/04/18 11:10 AM
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Wear a helmet with a go pro attached to it
/r/seduction21/04/18 11:09 AM
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I m going to be harsh here please forgive me but that's kind of pathetic. You are a human being, you need to get out and experience life. I'm not saying this to be a dick, I'm saying it because it's the truth and I want to light a fire under your ass so you do something about it. That being said it's awesome at 20yrs old you have done some self reflection and identified your problem. That's really mature and a great place to start. Some guys don't realize there own problems to much older, such a…
/r/seduction21/04/18 03:41 AM
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The solution is to come from a mindset of learning I agree rejection should be embraced not feared, true pros understand this
/r/seduction21/04/18 12:28 AM
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Is this what girls say or do you truly believe you have no friends and no life?
/r/seduction21/04/18 12:14 AM
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I disagree, hooking up with someone almost takes no effort. Therefore social life has no real factor If he s saying he s being dumped he s obviously in relationships and social life totally matters 100% Also your 9s and 10s are different from my 9s and 10s so what does it even really mean?
/r/seduction21/04/18 12:13 AM
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But Bill Cosby said it was ok!
/r/seduction21/04/18 12:08 AM
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Once she's in bed with you tell her you are allergic to spandex.
/r/seduction21/04/18 12:02 AM
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If it doesn't hurt, it doesn't work. They love sinister shit. So Very true, it's crazy how well it works but after 7 years of game I realize that's not the path I want to go anymore. Enjoy being the rake tho, it is a hell of a good time!
/r/seduction20/04/18 11:34 PM
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Nice that's a really cool one, I didn't choose it tho because it's not me. Are you sure the coquette is you? I did the rake because I'm a natural womanizer or was at the time Would Warhol care about the thoughts of one girl? If you are going to do the coquette you need to lay it all on the line. If she follows you then great, if not then so be it. She's the one missing out. If you are worried about losing the girls attention then you may want to go a different route than the coquette
/r/seduction20/04/18 11:28 PM
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It wasn't so much anything I said, but it was a role I took on. I pretty much Daniel Day-Lewis the shit. I totally believed I was a rake and nobody was going to tell me otherwise. One of the major things I would do is analyze a girl and play on her weaknesses to make her believe she was missing something in her life that only I could give her with my desire. For instance, in college I seduced my college TA which is a big no no for her. Furthermore she had a bf which added to the challenge. First…
/r/seduction20/04/18 11:20 PM
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Have you tried reading Models by Mark mason, it's helped me on my self development
/r/seduction20/04/18 10:58 PM
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Yup I read it, sadly I lost the book. I need to buy a new one. But I will say I played the role of the rake and it worked really well. A little too well honestly it made the women I used it on bat shit crazy towards the end. I vaguely remember the coquette, which one was that again? Is that the one where he uses the Andy Warhol example?
/r/seduction20/04/18 01:17 AM
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Hahahha my man! Ok fine, you are right.
/r/seduction19/04/18 02:35 PM
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It's a Philly thing leave me alone bot!
/r/seduction19/04/18 01:59 PM
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In my personal experience it's destructive, I suppose I should of worded better perhaps you gentlemen are better men than me. But I loved the chase, the thrill, the power you get, having a group of guys stare at you and wonder what does he have that I don't?. It's fucking awesome especially when you put time and effort into your game. I practiced pua and seduction for about 7 years. The stuff works, pair it with a resentment of being rejected and ignored by women in HS and you are pouring gasoli…
/r/seduction19/04/18 01:48 PM
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You objectify women, been there done that it's a destructive path to take. Edit: This is my opinion of course.
/r/seduction19/04/18 10:13 AM
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It's not you, sounds like she had a bad break up. That's a lot of baggage to deal with plus you guys work together, honestly I would stay away. But if you insist, you just got to ride it out. Be careful you aren't a rebound guy here.
/r/seduction18/04/18 10:06 AM
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Kiss my ass
/r/seduction17/04/18 04:58 PM
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The second she mentioned that you were old you should of said " Yea I know, I don't normally do cradle robbing but for you I 'll make an exception." It's direct yet a playful and you are flipping the table on her by teasing her of being young. Usually the response will tell you if your wasting your time or not. Or you could just try dick pics bro, dick pics always work.
/r/seduction17/04/18 03:07 PM
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Thanks I try, it helps I'm kinda in the same boat as you. After a while all the quick bangs get old and aren't really satisfying, although I did gain some good stories from some of my one night stands lol. But now I'm trying to do a relationship and see how that is, I never really had too many of them. Getting back to the point, it's pretty normal to worry about fucking up. I don't think you can get rid of it but if you think logically, you can keep that shit in check. When you are in a relation…
/r/seduction14/04/18 08:14 PM
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What's your game? Do you do like routines and shit? It maybe that your personality doesn't match your game. In other words you pick up a girl with game rather than naturally just being yourself. Which is fine if you want a quick bang, it's purely short term. But if you want a relationship you are increasing the timeline to long term. That changes things. After awhile your game receeds because you can't keep running the same shit on the same girl, she 'll catch on. And it's exhausting to discover…
/r/seduction14/04/18 06:26 PM
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Step 1 wear trench coat... Lol I mean I'm pretty sure he means strong silent type but you never know with the internet
/r/seduction05/04/18 01:43 PM
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The gym is not the only option, I use to hate the gym actually. Some other options are to play basketball, racquet ball, try Brazilian jujitsu or something that you may like that can be considered a workout too. The key is an hour of active activity.
/r/seduction05/04/18 01:52 AM
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Get a few beers in me and I only approach 300.... pounders
/r/seduction05/04/18 01:48 AM
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Why do you want to be a silent strong stranger? You do realize the tone that gives off right? Especially in this day and age
/r/seduction05/04/18 01:21 AM
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Choose the method you like, there's not a set in stone answer. Although some people will try and tell you otherwise which is bs, it's just like math 2+2=4 but so does 1+3, 2.5+1.5, etc etc What s important is you choose a method you like because you relate more to it, that way it comes off more naturally rather than artificial. I have done both, being mysterious works well but after doing it for a bit I get tired of playing the mysterious game. It just doesn't feel like myself. I like Mark Mason…
/r/seduction05/04/18 01:11 AM
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*where we stand And why is this a sign emotionally immaturity? You are making yourself very open at the risk of being humiliated, how you react matters of course. But if you get rejected and are able to move on with ease then that is emotional maturity. And nonsense even the most experienced man will meet a woman who will turn him into a little boy.
/r/seduction04/04/18 09:54 PM
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True. But in regards to this case, it's only been a month of seeing each other. And he s already worried she's blowing him off cause she's busy with school. I'm wondering if he's just overreacting.
/r/seduction04/04/18 09:45 PM
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I like this response, you hit the nail on the head. However I think this forum should be able to help men fix being clingy and improve their social intelligence. Rather than say screw it nothing can be done so avoid that situation . This forum should be able to correct these problems or at least get men started in the right direction. A man who is able to curb is clinginess and has a good social intelligence is highly seductive after all.
/r/seduction04/04/18 09:31 PM
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Then if you know your worth then you shouldn't be insecure and be able to put yourself out there and ask where we stand. Nor should you be narcissistic and expect someone to come to you.
/r/seduction04/04/18 08:49 PM
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Or she 'll think your a player and won't put up with your shit and walk away. Or she 'll step her game up and never trust you while constantly be on your back about the possibility of cheating. If your looking for a heathly normal relationship I don't think this is the way to go. Now if she's just a friend with benefit type deal, then by all means I agree with ya there.
/r/seduction04/04/18 08:34 PM
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Why is not a guys responsibility to make his intentions known? A relationship is a two way street making one sided before it even gets started is a terrible way to go. I don't see the downside to a guy putting himself out there, rather than waiting for her to make the first move.
/r/seduction04/04/18 08:30 PM
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Yea so when the girl wants to have a relationship and finds out he s been seeing other girls then what?
/r/seduction04/04/18 07:14 PM
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Hanging 3 times, having sex and sleeping over is not a bad month. You need to invest more in yourself and less in her. Otherwise you 'll be sabotaging yourself by appearing desperate, some people are just busy after all.
/r/seduction04/04/18 07:12 PM
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Either case is possible. You know women are human too, right? They want to get laid too sometimes. Also college is kind of a free for all, when you get out in the real world it's not as crazy unless you are in a beach town or some sort of vacation spot
/r/seduction01/04/18 10:07 PM
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I started out with reading the mystery method myself, and the game has changed a lot. I personally think for the better, routines are just that routines. If you read the mystery method and then a woman you are trying to pick up read it as well, she 'll know everything you are doing and then what do you fall back on? Another routine? But then she knows your fake and will most likely dismiss you. I think that's why you hear a lot about "inner game" (which is a stupid term in my opinion it's just s…
/r/seduction28/03/18 10:21 AM
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Yes you are mentally fucked, all the routines and pick up lines in the world aren't gonna do shit untill you fix it. You need to work on self development before embracing anymore game/seduction. Be honest with yourself figure out what is going on in your thought process. Pressure? Narcissism? Neediness? Those are the things that will sabotage even the most flawless game. Also don't go the escort route, that's not seduction. That's giving up and wasting your money on nothing but a quick high.
/r/seduction26/03/18 02:11 AM
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Lol yup that was me. Yea man pretty much thats life. It took me 7 years to realize the mistakes I made. I'm not proud of myself for it but I wouldn't change anything. I learned some powerful lessons. Hopefully you can recognize them sooner than I did, from the sound of things your figuring it out quicker than me already. So that's good. Finally still make sure you have some fun, and have some stories to tell. Some of the stuff I still can't believe i did and laugh my ass off everytime I think of…
/r/seduction16/03/18 01:11 AM
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Show up to their front door and drop your pants! XD
/r/seduction15/03/18 02:12 PM
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Starting at 18, I've followed my lust had sex with nearly 100 different women. From my experience it's not really worth it, it's just a quick high that can turn into a bad habit. I ended up becoming addicted to satisfying my lust and went from wanting to have sex with women to, needing to (it could be I was seeking self validation). I damaged a lot of relationships, risked friendships, and developed a toxic narcissism. I didn't realize any of this till now, and I am trying to fix and improve mys…
/r/seduction15/03/18 02:10 PM
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Factorials and seduction?! This is great
/r/seduction15/03/18 01:06 PM
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My buddy looks like someone from to catch a predator, seriously he was even balding at 18! And yet he has a hot girlfriend. His social skills are incredible, he has confidence like he s tom cruise or something it's crazy. But I think his major selling point is that he is always fun, and he doesn't give a dam what anyone thinks. He is just a guy that loves to have fun even if it makes him look weird. My point is it happens.
/r/seduction15/03/18 01:05 PM
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^ this is the man the world needs
/r/seduction15/03/18 12:48 PM
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Don't talk to girls on Craigslist
/r/seduction13/03/18 02:42 AM
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Roman Catholic? Those are the coldest and manipulative heathens around I would know I had 12 years of Catholic school. But honestly why does what she said bother You?
/r/seduction13/03/18 02:40 AM
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Have fun, if she wants it shouldn't be too hard. Just make sure you got somewhere to go. A few drinks and an invite back to your place never hurts. Don't beat around the bush, be assertive yet respectful. What do you have planned?
/r/seduction02/03/18 11:07 PM
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Yes. Rock, Paper, Scissors has prepared me for this
/r/seduction21/02/18 01:55 AM
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You need to change your mindset and re-think your values for a woman to something more practical. The constant pursuit of perfection will leave you unhappy in the long run. I recommend you checking out chapter 4 of Mark Masons the subtle art of not giving a f*ck. It'll point you in the right direction. And no I don't think you need a therapist.
/r/seduction27/01/18 04:25 AM
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Well I have a some action on tinder, however tinder just doesn't feel that natural to me so I don't really try. And no my standards at bars are high, unless I'm really really drunk which happens sometimes lol. But I also have picked up plenty of women during school work and just normal places. Well you certainly better your chances by working out so consider trying it, it doesn't hurt And if you want to see how far you can go now, focus on your face and style then. Just keep trying find out what…
/r/seduction08/01/18 04:51 AM
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Go against the grind? Be that one guy that stands out by calling them out on there bullshit generic profile. Some women do like to be challenged. But do it in a way that is funny, sarcastic, and polite. Don't be a dick. If intelligence is one of the things you believe is a great quality that you bring to the table, a witty comment will help show it off.
/r/seduction08/01/18 04:10 AM
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Don't forget to wear a really expensive watch in your dick pic
/r/seduction08/01/18 04:01 AM
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I hate tinder, I always strike out on there. And I'm the type of guy who can go to the bar any night and take a girl home. I think part of tinder as with any social media is presentation. You need like some of the best pictures of yourself, and they need to show off your looks and features. Now if your looking for sex, obviously don't put a picture up with you and your mom hanging out. That 'll attract the exact opposite of the type of girl you want. A picture of you lifting weights, playing spo…
/r/seduction08/01/18 03:56 AM
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I agree with SO_medic Having three dates and then her calling it off is not being dumped. That kind of mindset isn't realistic, and may be causing you to come off too strong. The fact that she's says you are too nice for her kind of supports my theory. Try dialing it back some when go out on a date with a girl. Be a little more reserved with yourself, and see how that works. It's all trial and error my friend, Good luck!
/r/seduction08/01/18 03:33 AM
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Just talk to everyone you meet. Make it a goal to talk to at least let's say 10 different women a day and people you already know don't count. Doesn't need to be a long winded discussion, small talk is perfectly fine. Also you don't have to be a talkative person, some of the best conversations are done by great listeners. You just need to know the right things to say to keep the conversation going. Most people love talking about themselves.
/r/seduction08/01/18 03:21 AM
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Yea I wouldn't sweat it, if she really doesn't want to talk to you because you gave her a compliment then she sucks anyway.
/r/seduction06/01/18 06:52 PM
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Yea what's the problem here? Chicks get hungry bro. Does she still talk to you?
/r/seduction06/01/18 05:58 PM
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Sounds like you are just under pressure from seeing your friends. As someone who has been single most his life, I have experienced this myself. It's annoying but sooner or later either you 'll find someone or you 'll realize being single is a hell of a lot better (this is the route I went for a shit ton of reasons). Finally you shouldn't settle, no one says you need to have experience before college that's more for the guy to worry about. You don't want your first time to be shitty, you lessen y…
/r/seduction06/01/18 04:05 AM
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Nothing is more seductive than a dick pic just make sure you were a nice watch. Seriously though why Snapchat??
/r/seduction20/02/15 12:49 AM
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There's more to life than gaming nothing wrong with wanting to get drunk and smoke, just don't make it a habit. The way I learned true confidence is studying some male role models, for me its Bruce lee, Tom Cruise ( even tho he is a goof ball sometimes), and Leo Dicaprio to name a few. It also helped me to get involved with some team sports and do some weight lifting but that isn't too necessary. Everyone has AA, usually how I get over that is think I could die tomorrow for all I know so I alway…
/r/seduction13/02/15 02:44 PM
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I wouldn't do it because a girl that just turned 18 is pretty freaking annoying in my opinion. However if your comfortable with it go for it, once shes 18 its all fair game. Besides you'd prob treat her better than most 18 year old guys that would most likely fuck up her brain so much that she would turn lesbian. Side note: Just make sure you let her know that you aren't looking for anything serious, she still could be immature and living on that looking for prince charming stuff.
/r/seduction05/02/15 07:24 AM
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DUDE YOU LIVE ON A COLLEGE CAMPUS, you want to talk difficult try dating a bunch of girls and then you can't take them back to your place because you live with your parents. it should be pretty freaking easy. Look into what your school offers, if your school doesn't suck they should offer some free events. Also just hanging out some where nice is all you really need if you are a good talker. Also look into the possibility of getting a part time job if is never a bad idea to go out and make some …
/r/seduction05/02/15 07:04 AM
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you are dragging it out to long need to close or back out to show you aren't desperate, or you cannot create the interest to keep it going. Don't ask lame questions like what do you do or what is your name or you might as well just whip your cock out at least you'll go out bold as opposed to just getting the cold shoulder.
/r/seduction05/02/15 06:53 AM
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Fail until you succeed the amount of time this takes will depend on your ability to analyze and troubleshoot your methods.
/r/seduction05/02/15 06:42 AM
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