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in addition: most phones have a “notes” section !
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/21 07:25 AM
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I always do lots of fall baking. October and November are big baking times for me because i love all things fall flavors — cinnamon, clove, nutmeg, crisp apples, pumpkins, pecans, etc. I usually do pumpkin pasties (a la harry potter), pumpkin pie with a pecan crumble topping, apple crisp, candied pecans, cookies of a variety, etc. I also just love to cook in general, and the colder fall weather usually means i start to cook a lot more homemade breads, soups, stews, etc. I love apple picking and …
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/20 12:38 AM
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this is pretty much a sum of my thoughts on the matter as well. Couldn't have paraphrased it any better myself.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/20 02:03 AM
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Being graceful and feminine...It doesn't come naturally to me. When I was younger, my mother used to call my walking "like an elephant stomping around upstairs" so I've been known for heavy footfalls in the past. The one good thing I had going for me is that I've always had naturally straight posture when sitting or standing. Thank goodness. As for the walking around and carrying myself more feminine-like, couple things have helped with this: dressing better + being creative. I personally like t…
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/20 04:40 PM
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I would keep in touch, exchange letters and chat on the phone if you can, but I wouldn't 100% commit myself to someone I've never met in person before. I would use this time to focus on yourself, as you stated above, and keep your options open. Keep chatting with him, send him letters, cute care packages, etc but don't commit yourself fully to him (my opinion).
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/20 04:32 PM
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I’m glad to hear that. I was just making sure all of this was coming from a positive “let’s heal some past wounds” place rather than a negative “I’m feeling guilty or pressured by my husband” place, ya know? :)
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/20 11:27 PM
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Wife =/= slave or sex slave. He sounds very demanding. Do you get anything out of these three sex experiences per day? Do you orgasm? Does he help you feel good too or is it all for him? Instead of a lousy 10 min 3x a day (where I’m willing to bet he gets 99% of the pleasure and you don’t really enjoy it that much), why not have one really wonderful and enjoyable 30 min session at night, where you can both enjoy the experience and both orgasm/experience pleasure from each other??
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/20 07:07 PM
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most of my books recs have been previously mentioned but I will highly recommend The Five Love Languages!! Seriously life changing! also... the surrendered wife guide to care and feeding husbands fascinating womanhood
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/20 07:03 PM
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Does your husband know about your past and your reason for rejecting sex frequently? Please don’t feel pressured into doing something you aren’t comfortable with. Communication with your husband is important. But if sex makes you uncomfortable, don’t push yourself too hard just to please your husband. Your mental health is very important. Are you still talking to a therapist? If not, perhaps start going to one again and being this up?
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/20 07:02 PM
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I have nooooo idea if “firming creams” work but hey, might as well try it out, right? Chest exercises, on the other hand, should help. Bench and incline bench are great but ask your trainer for other suggestions as well.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/20 07:29 PM
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Milder? I’m not sure I know what you mean by that! I know working on chest exercises can help perk up the breasts. Things like bench press and incline bench press both work the muscles in the chest + upper chest. These are the muscles that hold your breasts so working on those would help perk them up a little bit. Maybe firming creams? But no idea if those work or not. In my case, a gain and then loss of nearly 100lb (by the time I reach my goal weight later this year!) will have resulted in bre…
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/20 06:59 PM
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‘the surrendered wife: a practical guide to finding intimacy, passion, and peace’ by laura doyle ‘fascinating womanhood’ by helen andelin ‘the proper care and feeding of husbands’ by dr. laura schlessinger ‘the proper care and feeding of marriage’ by dr. laura schlessinger my husband swears by ‘no more mr. nice guy’ by dr. robert glover several youtubers/bloggers helped get me into the RPW mindset: mrs midwest, girl in calico, the darling academy, fairyland cottage, etc not really on topic but I…
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/20 06:35 PM
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RPW isn’t just for one type of woman. I know it can seem, at first glance, that most women on here are like 40-something mothers of two who attend church every Sunday and pray every night and vote conservative etc, but that isn’t the case for us all. I’m 25 and married. I wasn’t a virgin when I got married, I lived with my husband before we got engaged/married, and I’ve slept with a high number of people (and I have no shame in that either!) My husband and I are not having children (choosing not…
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/20 06:24 PM
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I’ve lost 80 lb and let me tell you, my breasts have seen better days. I’m only 25... I’m not sure if 5kg would result in noticeable sagging on your part, but it sounds like you’re young so it isn’t a result of age. Maybe you’re being your own worst critic, or maybe it’s a medical thing. I would advice a trip to the clinic to check before writing it off as weight loss fluctuation. My solution for my own pancakes? When I hit my final goal weight, I’m getting breast enhancement surgery ;) later th…
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/20 06:19 PM
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I think your bf handled the situation very tactfully. He didn’t punch the guy, he didn’t yell, he didn’t escalate the situation, and he didn’t ignore the situation either.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/20 06:15 PM
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I would love to see more open discussion of feminine wiles, coquetry, and little articles such as this :)
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/20 06:12 PM
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Yes? I don’t think height has anything to do with it tbh. The man’s urge to protect a woman is strong and doesn’t hinge on how tall or short she is.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/20 06:11 PM
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Yikes... Late 20s? 7 months? Sounds like he isn’t ready for the commitment that “the I love you talk” would bring. Whether it’s due to his past relationship or maybe he just isn’t thinking of you as a long-term relationship, idk what his reasons are but it sounds like he isn’t worth your time or energy. Don’t waste your time with this guy. He doesn’t sound red pill either.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/20 07:10 PM
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RPW means being more feminine, more selfless, more giving, softer, more loving, more appreciative of my husband, etc. Also RPW for me means following more traditional gender roles (if they work for your relationship, maybe they don’t for every marriage but traditional gender roles works well for mine!)
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/20 05:17 PM
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That’s such a cute idea! I tried it once myself but I think I used noodles that were too thick because they didn’t cook :(
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/20 06:45 AM
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My husband and I fell asleep together on the couch, watching a movie, on our first date. We woke up around 2am and, since he lived over a half an hour away at the time + he was super sleepy, we decided he would spend the night. In the same bed, since my couch was really more of a second hand love seat! It was totally fine. Do what’s comfortable for you :)
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/20 06:44 AM
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I have to second this point! A hug is a nice, quick way to break that contact barrier. He will gain some confidence, you will relax a little, and you’ll both have a good time. Little, non-sexual touches help relax and get you guys comfortable with each other. For example, when my now-husband and I went on our first date, we went to sushi. He had never used chopsticks. So I got to touch his hands and help him figure it out. Very cute, non-sexual, yet brought us closer!
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/20 06:41 AM
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I can see where you’re coming from. I feel like this might be because (correct me if I’m wrong) a majority of the voices on this subreddit are more-conservative, more-traditional, more-religious women who are mothers and don’t consider themselves to be feminists (or don’t like the idea of feminism at all). Obviously this isn’t a blanket statement for the whole population of this subreddit, but would it be amiss to say it feels like that describes a good chunk of the population on here? I, myself…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/20 06:35 AM
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Hopes, dreams, goals, etc... My husband and I do not plan on having children. We do not want children. Our dream is a blissfully quiet, toddler-tantrum free marriage filled with lots of traveling, lots of money, and adopting dogs and cats from the local animal shelter. Traveling the world with my husband. So many places. London, Scotland, Harry Potter land, Hogwarts castle of course too, Japan, basically all of Europe, maybe also Argentina and places in South America, Costa Rica, all around the …
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/20 08:11 PM
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It’s up to you and your husband. What do you want? What does he want? Sit down and really talk it through. Make a pros and cons list for goth side. My thoughts: If you wait, you might never go back. Life will always get in the way. And babies will get in the way. They can wait. Sounds like the school opportunity won’t last too much longer either.
/r/RedPillWives03/02/20 09:16 PM
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This. You can’t have it both ways. If you’re working full time + taking care of the house and baby full time + you’re exhausted = you probably need your husband to take on some of the house work and baby responsibility. This would be step away from traditional gender roles, since it would require husband to pick up some slack with housework (cooking, cleaning, etc) Or, you could step away from work so you can handle your house work and raising the baby. You could step down to part time so you ha…
/r/RedPillWives03/02/20 09:14 PM
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Yeah, it’s probably time to “have the commitment talk”.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/20 08:43 PM
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My husband and I became “exclusive” within a week and a half of dating. So, like, 4-5 dates? We knew we didn’t want to date anyone else.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/20 08:30 PM
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Let him do it! It sounds like a great opportunity. Can you go with him??
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/20 08:29 PM
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It makes me very glad to hear that
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/20 02:45 AM
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Sooooo far from you! Oregon USA!
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/20 11:43 PM
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I’ve always been curious about meeting friends through meetup.com! I’m glad to hear you’ve had positive experiences :)
/r/RedPillWives02/02/20 07:38 PM
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I am so sorry to hear that :(
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/20 05:31 PM
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Oh my goodness, we are actually close! I totally understand that issue with Portland too. I don’t consider myself to be too liberal or too conservative, but Portland is VERY liberal. I consider myself to be a feminist, but Portland is VERY feminist. Powell’s had an anti-Red Pill boycott when an author was going to do a book signing there, I guess. Not too long ago...this last summer, perhaps. If you would like, we could PM and chat!
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/20 07:00 AM
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Perhaps (mods correct me if this is a no-no) I could make a post about it. And people who are comfortable doing so can say where they are from (ex: I’m from Portland). Maybe people will be in similar locations! If so, they can PM each other if they want to meet up. I know planning the meet ups in a public post is against the rules, but maybe this route would work? Comments with locations if you’re comfortable doing so + PM for meet ups if you want.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/20 06:53 AM
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That sounds wonderful!
/r/RedPillWives02/02/20 06:47 AM
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As a history major, I applaud you!!
/r/RedPillWives02/02/20 06:47 AM
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Gotta respect the mods and all they do, though!
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/20 06:46 AM
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I see it as an act of service to my husband. Not my favorite thing to do but he appreciates it so much. And I love him more than I hate cleaning. :) A cleaning chart might help. I like lists to keep me focused. Podcasts or music help. Make it more fun! I like audio books!
/r/RedPillWives02/02/20 05:55 AM
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I feel like, if your husband had ill-intentions, he wouldn’t have told you about all these times. He would sneak around about it. The fact that he’s telling you about it rather than sneaking behind your back should be seen as a good sign.
/r/RedPillWives02/02/20 05:52 AM
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Oh boy... I usually tip toe around the whole RPW thing since most of my friends/family are pretty opposite in their values. And they don’t need to know all the details of my marriage anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/20 05:34 AM
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I’m sure it would be a really fantastic way to meet like-minded ladies, but I just happen to not be a religious person myself. Thank you though :)
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/20 05:32 AM
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I would love this idea! It would obviously depend on if people are comfortable saying which city they’re located in. (I’m in Portland Oregon myself). If it was a popular enough idea, I could make that initial post on main page to get the back rolling! :)
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/20 05:31 AM
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Hey! Also non-religious, also work in public school education :) hello across the internet but wouldn’t it be cool to find people IRL too? 😂
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/20 04:43 AM
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Aw, so close yet so far! I’m in Portland!
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/20 04:42 AM
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I’m so sorry to hear that. I’m in a similar boat. Haven’t tried to “find friends irl” groups yet but I’ll give that a shot, thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/20 04:41 AM
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That’s so cute! What a cute idea, I will look into that. I’m fairly young and I guess I was worried about being significantly younger than the rest of the women in those types of groups. But I’m sure they would have so much to teach me! Finding a group of age-similar peers, however, might be harder...
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/20 02:52 AM
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I totally relate to this lol! I'm a frequent shopper on AliExpress and Wish app :) Things take forever to get here. I feel like I'm constantly getting little packages in the mail. It's like Christmas every week at my house! But I really don't think hiding it would be a good idea. If he is concerned about money, just explain that everything you're ordering is so cheap. If he is concerned about more stuff in the home, talk to him about it and explain how badly you like these little things. If he i…
/r/RedPillWives02/02/20 12:40 AM
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I love that! This is a great mindset change! I feel like being introduced to RPW + reading The Submissive Wife + reading Fascinating Womanhood really helped me make a very similar mindshift change. I am more self less, gentle, and kind. I want to support my husband and I want to make his life easier because I love him and care about him. Chores I used to hate doing (or nag my husband over and over to do), I now do willingly and happily and frequently because I do it as an act of love and service…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/20 06:43 PM
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That sounds wonderful!
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/20 04:32 PM
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I’ll check it out thank you! :) I’m the type who would nag a higher price tag for a quality piece I’ll wear over and over.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/20 04:16 AM
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This reply was so helpful thank you very much :)
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/20 04:15 AM
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That’s great! I think they key here is tone. It sounds like you and your husband are congratulating each other, while OP’s sister/husband sound almost passive aggressive about it.
/r/RedPillWives30/01/20 10:18 PM
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Im sorry to hear about your sister. On one hand, she made the bed and has to lie in it. Traveling instead of saving or finding careers, forcing into babies and suburbia white picket fence life too quickly, etc. but still, she shouldn’t be miserable. That’s not fair. I’m on mobile so I’m just going to make a couple points that really stuck out to me. Maybe they can help?? “She tried doing some of her husband’s tasks the other day and bought it up to him and he made a snide remark” — I have found …
/r/RedPillWives30/01/20 07:13 PM
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Omg OP which specific parts of the book did you start to incorporate into your life? I just started reading it myself, only just started so I’m not far into the book yet, but I can already see the value and lessons in this book. You’re right that some of it is dated, but it has some really strong lessons tucked away in there!
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/20 07:01 PM
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I’m going to hijack this comment to plug Dave Ramsey’s Total Money Makeover. It’s amazing for paying off debt and handling your finances. Can’t recommend it enough. (Husband and I paid off $50k of student loans + credit card debt in a year and a half with a combined salary of $75k-80/year).
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/20 06:59 PM
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I’m so happy to hear they have great selections and sales. I’m even more happy to hear they cater to you shortie gals as well as my fellow giant gals lol
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/20 06:53 PM
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Money is separate until marriage. Legally, your money and assets are separate until you are legally bound in a marriage recognized by the state. After marriage, combine the finances (and everything else. What’s mine is yours etc etc). My husband and I personally follow the Dave Ramsey method of money management. We are working our way though the baby step process of the Total Money Makeover. We are very excited by this process and I highly recommend it to anyone who wishes to pay off debts and h…
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/20 06:51 PM
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What is it about nursing that you love enough that you decided to choose it for your career? Is nursing your passion, or did you choose it for other reasons? Perhaps pick a less demanding career, if you me reasoning for choosing nursing isn’t very strong. If you want kids, realize that they are basically a full time job. Nursing is very demanding and children are also very demanding. I imagine you would be very stressed with handing the responsibility or both. I know I couldn’t handle both!!
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/20 06:41 PM
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I looked last night and some of their stuff is soooo cute! Between the college girl party dresses and the wedding guest dresses, there seems to be a small section in the middle for casual woman dresses. Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/20 05:29 PM
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Off the top of my head... Things to look for in a man: - working to improve himself (financially, intellectually, his body, maybe he’s working out and working on his fitness, etc) - communication - sense of humor - wants to protect you - wants to spend time with you and make new experiences with you - dresses nice, styles his hair and takes pride in his appearance - for RPW, someone who is open to more traditional gender roles, perhaps someone open to you bring a housewife or stay at home mom in…
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/20 05:21 PM
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I would communicate with him. Tell him what you wrote in the post. Tell him you want a leader and a captain. Tell him your concerns and provide examples. Be direct, but not rude. Straight-forward, but kind. After your conversation, if your husband seems open and willing to help himself, point him to the book No More Mr. Nice Guy. My husband read this book. he really liked it and thought it had a lot of good points. Edit: I asked my husband what he learned from No More Mr Nice Guy book and he sai…
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/20 05:15 PM
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I think the “looking too formal” thing is a mental barrier I need to work through. Not that I look like a bum normally lol lol I tend to wear nice, high waisted jeans with flattering wrap tops that show off my figure. But I love dresses and I would love to wear them more. Maybe wrap dresses... Wearing tights under shorter dresses is a great idea, thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/20 05:07 PM
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I love the idea of a tall section! I’ll have to check it out, thank you! :) I think dresses tend to be “too casual” or “working in an office” or “going to a wedding”. Too casual is usually teeny-bopper or college girl, but office dresses are too formal for every day. I am looking for things in the middle. I tend to like fit and flare or a-line dresses to show off my waist (I’m an hour glass figure figure). Midi length, knee length, or above the knee. But not mini length or maxi full length. Low …
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/20 05:02 PM
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Thank you! I will check them out right now!! :)
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/20 01:08 AM
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I am so beyond excited for you! My husband and I are in a very similar situation actually, or at least we hope to be soon! We live in an area with a high cost of living. My husband makes pretty good money and I am currently working as well. We are saving up all our money for a house. We plan on moving across the country to a completely new state! We did a LOT of research before choosing the city that’s perfect for us. The houses are a fraction of the cost as they are in our current city. You get…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/20 08:04 PM
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I am worried about this for a couple reasons. The first reason being that you sound like just a regular person with a social media. You don't sound like a blogger like Mrs. Midwest or The Darling Academy, who have a more elevated platform and a blog. It sounds like you're just a woman who hashtags and posts in social media. Why would she contact you rather than someone "bigger" like Mrs. Midwest or TDA? The second reason Im worried is: I think it would be really easy for someone to bend your wor…
/r/RedPillWives28/01/20 06:04 PM
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Me too! I thought I was the only one. We have a cute little community over here in Reddit though. Happy to find like minded ladies.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/20 02:08 AM
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Honestly, I found RPW about a year ago. My marriage/relationship was good before, but not great. We fought. I nagged him and complained a lot. He was obviously frustrated. On our way to a dead bedroom too, if we kept that up. I’m talking every other week type of thing, and it was only going to get worse with time I bet. Then I found RPW and my outlook on life, femininity, marriage, and gender roles completely changed. Now? Husband and I rarely fight. I literally can’t remember the last time we h…
/r/RedPillWives27/01/20 09:34 PM
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I was in the same boat. It took a lot of soul searching and thinking before I realized "maybe I don't want kids?" It's okay to not want kids. Children are messy, loud, and expensive. Tantrums are annoying. Diapers are expensive. Kids are very cute, sometimes, but also very annoying sometimes. Some people love kids. They would sacrifice anything for their kids. And that's fantastic. If people want kids, they should have them! But I realized I didn't want them. I wanted other things more. I wanted…
/r/RedPillWives27/01/20 09:19 PM
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My husband did nearly this exact same thing to me. I was freshly 23 and we had only been married for a few months. Husband was 25. So we were young and freshly married at the time. We had always talked about kids, but I realized later that I was the one talking during those discussions. He never seemed too interested. I figured this was because we were young and just married. Still didn't have a house, etc. Then my husband sits me down and says he doesnt want kids. I think I had always seen myse…
/r/RedPillWives27/01/20 09:12 PM
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Ugh she's so glam and gorgeous <3
/r/RedPillWives27/01/20 08:58 PM
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:) completely agree. Some information, opening my eyes, perspective change and attitude change on my part, and my marriage literally has never been better or more harmonious
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/20 08:20 PM
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What a wonderful life you two have together. I also love spending time with my husband even if we arent doing an activity together. He will play a video game, I will be on my laptop or read a book. Nearby each other but not talking. Just being together. It's heaven.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/20 08:19 PM
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You're welcome and good luck. Post again if you need more help. Update us too please with your self-love progress.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/20 08:18 PM
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Lol not sure I agree with that part myself, but my husband also never has a reason to keep information from me either. He tells me if he's going out with friends and if he plans on staying out late. I don't sit up and wait for him, I trust he will come home around when he said he would.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/20 08:17 PM
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That must have been frustrating. Just because I cook, clean, do laundry, etc for my husband doesn't mean im some sort of slave wife. He does a lot for me, as i do things for him. I cook, clean, dishes, laundry, folding and washing, make the bed, take care of the cats, grocery shop, run errands, etc. But he does a lot for me too. He's the primary breadwinner. He handles most of the finances, taxes, car maintenance , etc. We support each other, but my roles just happen to be more "women in the kit…
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/20 08:14 PM
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Healthy relationships aren't based on how often you have sex, if you do anal or not, if you spend money on yourself for haircuts or not, etc etc. It's about mutual respect and love going both ways from husband to you and you to husband. It's about working together. It's about helping your husband as his crew so he can be the captain and lead the ship safely. Work on yourself first. It sounds like you could really benefit from some therapy. Don't worry about husband or his infidelity yet. Focus o…
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/20 08:10 PM
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I feel like RP relationships work because there is respect going both ways. I do the things I do for my husband (cook, clean, grocery shop, laundry, etc etc) not because I am submitting to him as a weak woman, but because I’m strong and I respect him and I love him. I make his life a little easier, by having meals cooked and lunches prepped and laundry folded, etc. He responds to my behavior by giving me the same love and respect. He protects me. He handles most of the finances. He brings home m…
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/20 04:58 PM
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I would post this as a separate post, so others can see and comment on it! Short answer to your question: I think it’s important that you and your husband share similar values in regards to this. If you really want to be a homemaker and he’s completely against it, someone is going to have to bend their wishes to meet the other one. Unless you do part time work and part time homemaker so you and husband compromise (meet each other halfway). Maybe part-time work/part-time homemaker? So you still h…
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/20 06:34 AM
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Sounds like you have a wonderful life and you’re really in sync with your husband!
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/20 06:32 AM
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I simply ADORE Mrs Midwest. I will have to look up The Darling Academy, thank you for the recommendation. We dream for a slower, calmer life. We are really grinding so we can move across the country and buy a house, but after that I plan on going down to part time work so I can focus more on being a housewife. We are both very excited.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/20 04:43 AM
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I can't wait to be a homemaker, either part-time or ideally full-time. Husband is excited too. I'll be able to do so much more around the house and really take the burden off my husband's shoulders. I would love to hear those resources you found, if possible? :)
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/20 04:29 AM
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I'm always a little gay ;) lol lol For real though, planning ahead + meal prep sundays have saved my life. I meal prep all of my husband's lunches + my lunches + snacks + pre-cut all the veggies on sunday. Makes it way easier to cook during the week. Most of my prep work is already done. And I never have to worry about lunches the night before. I ask my husband what he wants for dinner. If he isn't picky, I choose because I'm doing the cooking and I know what's in the fridge/freezer/pantry best.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/20 04:27 AM
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Honestly, I found RPW about a year ago. My marriage/relationship was good before, but not great. We fought. I nagged him and complained a lot. He was obviously frustrated. On our way to a dead bedroom too, if we kept that up. I’m talking every other week type of thing, and it was only going to get worse with time I bet. Then I found RPW and my outlook on life, femininity, marriage, and gender roles completely changed. Now? Husband and I rarely fight. I literally can’t remember the last time we h…
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/20 03:54 AM
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You’ll get there together someday, I’m sure of it!
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/20 03:22 AM
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thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/20 03:21 AM
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I am currently working full time! I just happen to get home before my husband (his commute is longer than mine!) so I have time to shop, cook, clean, and clean myself up a little in the 90 min between when I get home and he gets home.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/20 03:20 AM
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yes, he's lucky but i'm even luckier to have him. thank you so much for silver :) you're so kind
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/20 02:02 AM
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Sunday is a cooking day for me, as I meal prep all of my husband's lunches + a few dinner items for the week. Here's what I made today! - Husband's lunches for 5 days. Chicken breast seasoned with garlic and herbs, sauteed vegetables, and quinoa. 5 containers all packed and stored in the fridge for easy grab-and-go in the mornings. - Deli slice roll ups for snacks or my lunches during the week. Turkey deli slices + thin sliced swiss cheese = roll up like taquitos and store in a container for eas…
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/20 02:00 AM
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You've talked about being a SAHM or working part-time once you have kids. ​ Why only a SAHM? Why not be a housewife, or work part time and be a house wife the other part time?
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/20 12:00 AM
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Thank you so much! :)
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/20 08:53 PM
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Perfect, thank you! I’ll take a look
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/20 08:50 PM
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Ah! thanks for catching that! I'll read this pdf and hunt for the one by Helen Andelin in the meantime. thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/20 07:04 AM
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spending an hour or two in a coffee shop. especially in the morning when the shop is quiet and the lights are lower. i can read or browse reddit for an hour with a cup of coffee and some soft music in the background. heaven. my skincare routine. it used to be a chore, but now i love the routine of it all. also, my skin has never been better. shower days when I do the "full routine" aka pre-wash hair mask, shampoo, conditioner, body wash, body scrub, shave, foot scrub, body oil when I get out of …
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/20 07:02 AM
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secrets of fascinating womanhood! this seems to the pdf of the book OP mentioned
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/20 06:56 AM
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ooh yes please! any more feminine books recs, ladies? :)
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/20 06:54 AM
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any chance you have that pdf link? otherwise I'll go internet hunting for it myself :) I would love to read it! Sounds right up my alley!
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/20 06:28 AM
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I finally don't have to wear foundation anymore...how is this even possible? I used to be the girl who caked on makeup because my skin was so bad. I used to wear makeup to the gym because I was so self-conscious. Now, I don't even wear foundation? What! ​ Nighttime skincare routine: Remove makeup with Clinique take the day off makeup removing balm + rinse face to wash off product and makeup Cleanse with Youth to the People Superfood cleanser + rinse face to wash off product Pat skin dry with cle…
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/20 06:22 AM
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My local library doesn't carry this book, darn it. Would love a summary? What lessons have you learned from this book? Congrats on the little victories too! :)
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/20 06:04 AM
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I’ve been having a lot of chicken recipes lately, since boneless/skinless breasts were on sale and I bought a big container. Last night, I did a pesto chicken breast. It was my first time trying this recipe and it was amazing! :) Here’s the recipe! I mixed a nice, store-bought pesto with a block of cream cheese until smooth. I butterflied the chicken breasts and seasoned with salt and pepper on both sides. Then I placed the chicken in a glass baking dish and spread the pesto cream cheese mixture…
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/20 05:24 PM
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What a cute idea! I love the idea of banana bread, but the first thing that came to my mind was a nice square of an extra-indulgent brownie.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/20 05:18 PM
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Forgot to mention that I wear cheeky little panties under this. Husband loves the cheeky!
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/19 10:56 PM
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VS sleep shirt I recently ran into the loungewear issue myself. I sleep naked, so I don’t really own pajamas. But I wanted something I could wear when I lounge in bed. I wanted it to be cute and soft. I ended up finding a light gray long sleep shirt from VS. I love it and my husband thinks it’s very cute. I wear it with knee high socks if I’m feeling a little chilly. My husband thinks it’s very cute and he especially loves when I pair it with knee high soft knit socks.
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/19 10:51 PM
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I have a very similar issue with RBF... and I think you touched on the main problem in your post: confidence. I have a RBF. My mom told me at a pretty young age that I do. People used to think I was always angry. In middle school, a boy said I “look mean”. And my eyebrows grow in straight across, which makes me look even more serious, bitchy, angry, or mean. I am able to counteract this in two easy ways: makeup/styling my features + carrying myself with confidence. A lot of my RBF was in my stra…
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/19 12:11 AM
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I can’t recommend this enough: love languages. Crash course in case you don’t know what this is...basically, people give and receive love/affection in different ways. Loving words, acts of service, gift giving, etc. There’s a book called the 5 Love Languages that has a lot of useful information, but there is also a helpful free quiz online. Take the quiz and find out your love languages. Then ask your man to do so too. It will give you insight into how your man prefers to receive love from you. …
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/19 06:58 AM
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I think what kills Valentines Day is the overhanging pressure placed on men to buy all these presents and jump through all these hoops for their women, and then the pressure isn’t equally placed on women to do the same for their men. The pressure of V-Day is placed on the men by society, commercials, advertisements, etc but also by their partners. All the advertisements and commercials telling the man “buy this diamond bracelet for your wife or she won’t think you love her” or “buy this huge bou…
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/19 10:27 PM
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I can sort of understand what you’re feeling. My husband is the type of person who withdraws when he is very upset. He isn’t a talkative person normally and he isn’t one to voice his emotions either. He is very introspective, serious, stoic, etc. He is a man of few words, essentially. But that also means that the words he says are of high value (important enough to say for him) and it’s extra special when he voices his emotions out loud (because it doesn’t happen too often). That being said, I a…
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/19 05:52 PM
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Weight loss. This is key. You can tone all you want but it won’t be as nice if you’re covered in a layer of fat. Toning through exercise. I love the Strong Curves plan. It’s a book but there is a reddit group too. It focuses on women toning and gaining muscle in their booty and legs! It includes exercises for booty, inner/outer thighs, quads, legs, lower back, etc. Gotta work hard for that 🍑
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/19 06:00 PM
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I feel like part of the “personal hygiene” thing is basic stuff you would expect — brush your teeth, shower so you don’t smell like BO, change your clothes so you aren’t ragged and dirty, etc. This part seems obvious mostly because it is obvious. People should be generally clean and upkept. I think personal hygiene mostly means having a clean, tidy, upkept appearance. It shows pride in your appearance, cleanliness, attention to detail, and helps boost your attractiveness. Things like keeping you…
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/19 05:21 PM
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I personally loved the konmari method, but I won’t push anything on you that isn’t your cup of tea. That being said, there are a lot of similar methods for decluttering that might vibe better with you. Maybe look at your wardrobe and see any places you have duplicates you could pair down. For example, do you have some similar pieces and don’t need all the copies? I used to have 3-4 of a very similar shirt in basically the same color when I only realistically needed one. Things like little black …
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/19 04:01 AM
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This is such a good point, thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/19 03:16 PM
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Here’s a list to help generate some ideas! I’m a teacher myself so I’m kind of in the same boat of finding school lunches that don’t need heating up + can be kept at room temp for a little bit. hummus and veggies (use the single serve hummus containers for portion control) deli slices (low sodium) + deli cheese (low fat if possible) = little roll ups salad w/ lots of veggies beans + corn + peppers + veggies = cowboy caviar type of dish that can be eaten at room temp fruit salad or just a nice pi…
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/19 03:36 AM
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He broke a promise even though he knew how important this issue was to you. Then he lied about it, deleted the evidence, and covered it up. What else could he be lying about? It’s hard to trust someone who lies. Forget him and work on yourself. Be the kind of woman that no man would ever dream of cheating on at a party or breaking a promise to. Thank you, next ...
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/19 03:20 AM
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I think if you are soft-spoken, your words will hold more impact. Quality vs quantity. Instead of saying a lot of nonsense, you will start to say fewer words but of more importance. People will listen when you speak because it’s important enough for you to say something. Being soft-spoken doesn’t mean you can’t ever speak or voice your options.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/19 03:18 PM
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