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Oh so you've been dating this girl since she was 16... Fuuuuck bro you're young. You're just about to get into the swing of your dating game. Focus on yourself. Build you body and finances.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 06:23 PM
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Iunno how old you guys are, but to me, that isn't a pink flag. 5 years of dating and this girl was still into the party scene? That's way beyond experimenting and enjoying your youthful years. That's into addicted to the yolo lifestyle that puts a girl into way too many opportunities to see that she could jump onto the next Chad over you.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 05:51 PM
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i want to go self improve to get girls and whatnot. No, I don't think you do yet. If you did you'd have sold the games and gaming platform and used that money to get a gym membership.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 02:23 AM
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I would argue that Asian girls get desired for over generalization of traits that are deemed desirable. Ie, being good housewives, being submissive etc. These are just as much stereotypes as being bad drivers or males being overly feminine (yet oddly enough oppressive of females). Only one set of stereotypes have been deemed desirable by the opposite sex and the other is seen as unattractive. Just to be clear, I'm not arguing that these certain characteristics are or are not attractive or unattr…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 02:11 AM
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YouTube everyone's a little bit racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 01:47 AM
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It's not fact that I have a particular odor or an accent. I have neither. Over generalizing statements like black people are criminals (just because more black people end up convicted) are the beginnings of racism imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 12:52 AM
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I fit your request to answer. I was fairly active in sports all my life but have only been lifting seriously for the last 2 years or so. I've noticed a bunch of differences, physically, emotionally and psychologically. Can I say for sure that lifting was the absolute stimulus? No. There are a lot of other factors that could be helping. But this is just what I've noticed: Females look at me much different. Even though I was kind of "fit" I didn't necessarily look fit. I do now, and I do notice th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/15 09:53 PM
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So does a man with many LTR's change your view slightly? I can see how it could just scream bad at relationships (as opposed to bad in bed).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 03:26 PM
2

You don't always have to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 03:08 PM
4

Many places have nearly the same tax benefits for common-law. Sans diamond ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 03:02 PM
9

Video games? Too busy pwning noobs to go on dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 02:59 AM
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I'm more red than blue and I can completely agree with Stereotypical Hot Girl. The only part I disagree with is just because they are not likely to do all the things listed, doesn't mean they are unable to. And when given the opportunity, people will take advantage of even their significant others if you let it happen. How do I believe I can avoid that? By always pushing myself to be the catch. When you are, in a woman's mind, the best thing to ever happen to her, she's not going to risk doing a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/15 10:08 PM
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My own friend is Justin Case... -_-; The girlfriend gets a bit flirty with him when I'm out of line lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/15 09:46 PM
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Please see the last line of the last post. I believe that people may have their own circumstances. They may have intellect and be hard workers, yet still not go to get a degree for personal reasons. It's not necessarily a waste, I'd say. It may be for the best, maybe they have to take care of a loved one or can't afford to pay the tuition. It's a shame, but I wouldn't consider it a waste because I put very little weight into a degree. I don't think thats true for most people. Normally if you hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/15 09:10 PM
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People will do what they can. If you let a women manipulate you, she will.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/15 09:00 PM
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When a man is dating a bitch, it's his own fault. He chooses to not wake the fuck up and see the signs. Men are told by mass media that this is how all women are. Women are told by mass media that your man shouldn't hit you. When a woman isn't responsive to dominance it doesn't mean anything to me. Remember, not everything that's said in TRP should be seen as "gospel". But because the most vocal people spout oddly specific things, the entire message must be discounted as misogyny. People are peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/15 07:26 PM
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Intelligence and hardwork are not synonymous with a degree. You can have intelligence and be hard working without a degree. You can also have a degree without any intelligence or hard work. You can also have a degree with only one. I personally don't find degrees to mean anything anymore. You can basically buy them now a days. And in my case, making the decision to go for a 2 year diploma at college over a 4 year degree at university was the best choice I made. If I had taken the 4 year degree, …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/15 07:07 PM
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Lol I really hate when people judge me based on the fact that I don't have a degree. I have a diploma. Once I say that on a date or during courtship, eyes gloss over, disinterest sets in. Really irks me since even though I "only" have a diploma I've been pulling over 6 figures since I was 25. And I have an office job that doesn't have me doing overtime. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/15 05:46 PM
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White knights who think that because they stand up for women need to be reminded that things are earned, not given.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/15 11:00 PM
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Why does it have to be proven true? It's a set of beliefs. It's religion. It's rules to live your life by and reasons why to live your life by them. Always improve yourself, because as a man, people only care about what you've done. Always improve yourself, because a woman seeks the best prize (as do all people, remember a lot of dudes are under the impression the woman should fall upon their lap).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/15 10:20 PM
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But who's name are the masses saying when they're having an orgasm? JESUS. He won in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/15 10:14 PM
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Your view is that because there is no scientific rigor, there is no reason why anyone should follow it? Religion, any sort of exclusion diet, there's a shit ton of things people shouldn't follow things according to your view. You also say in point #3 that TRP uses gross generalization. You also paint TRP with the same gross generalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/15 10:11 PM
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Do women use sex to control men sometimes? Yes. Do they have sex only to control men? No, I don't believe so. Women can want sex just because too. They are not immune to their biological urges.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/15 10:05 PM
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I do not believe it's in the basic character of most people to deny privileges. If someone gives me a cake, you know how much god damn will power it takes for me to say no? And then when they say, "come on, you're fit, you can afford the extra calories!" I'm like, FU! It's the same principle. When dudes are lining up to buy them drinks or cars for their pussies. It's going to take a hell of a lot of will power for them to deny themselves these things. If women were lining up to give me their pus…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/15 10:21 PM
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You must be growing tired of people telling you what AWALT is. In the end, understanding someone else's perspectives is hard work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/15 10:12 PM
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I see we agree almost completely, sir. Allow me to tip my non-existing fedora.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/15 10:06 PM
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I still get frustrated sometimes. Even though I know that's how I see the world (my perception is that people will always go for the easy way out that satisfies their needs). I should be over it by now, but it gets to me sometimes. But, on the other hand, men control commitment and we make women jump through hoops to get commitment out of us. So in the end, we're all guilty. Not sure if that's still the same in M-M relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/15 10:04 PM
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As a man, you should know (or maybe not) that approaching women is difficult. The anxiety you feel and the rejection looming creates a flight or fight response. We can only ponder why it happens when it's as simple as saying, "hi". But from my anecdotal experience, both men and women suffer from the same approach anxiety. Only those that are seasoned in social interaction become used to it. So there is very little incentive for women to do the approaching when men are more willing to do it. This…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/15 09:46 PM
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No. We can't blame women for this. It's on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/15 09:41 PM
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What makes a happy wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/15 09:32 PM
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1) No opinion here. 2) It's not perfect, and can be argued that it's not even an "error correction system". The take aways that I have gotten from TRP are, lift, improve yourself, and DGAF. This has led me to success. I took what I agreed with and rejected all the other stuff in there that I didn't agree with. 4) maybe, but it can stand to filter a lot (and I mean a lot) of crap in there. Cut out, mute out, delete comments from all the whiney little "twerps". Again, the overall message I get fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/15 09:00 PM
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Similarly, you could have a pot-shot at AWALT... But you have to know it's a "Tits or GTFO" type rule... And you also have to know that RP always disagrees about what the T in AWALT stands for... Then you could take a shot at AWALT if you beleive it means "all women are identical"... But, again, it doesn't. I think of it as that there is a female behaviour curve, and all women are on the female curve (not the male curve). There aren't unicorns as every woman is on the curve. I like to define AWA…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/15 08:06 PM
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I find the same thing with door holding especially. If you hold a door open for a woman, it's expected. There are no gratitude exchanged. Guys will at least acknowledge that I did something out of my way. But that's likely because it's regular. Built in.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/15 07:41 PM
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So by having a list of things that are proven to work and show success (dread game) and having users promoting it; the philosophy is hypocritical. I can't say I agree with that. By the same token, democracy is hypocritical strictly because the people that are voted in are hypocrites. I seems from your OP that you label the reactions of RPer's to certain things that women do as hypocritical, and I agree with you. These certain people are hypocritical. But I do not think it revolves around the RP …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/14 06:24 PM
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So you're assumption is that TRP is all about manipulation. That's your own opinion. A lot of people have their own opinions of TRP. There's a lot of stuff there, so it's understandable. The underlying idea of TRP though, is that all our lives we've been lied to about what attracts women and how we should treat them. Whether or not you want to accept reality and become "unplug" (Matrix references I don't even get), is accepting TRP. After accepting this basic principle; it's up to you on how you…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/14 05:36 PM
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How is the idea of TRP hypocritical? People are hypocritical. It doesn't matter what their standing is on TRP/TBP.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/14 05:22 PM
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I think people focus way too much on what certain people say, rather than the ideas that are expressed in TRP. What people don't seem to understand is (The way I see it), TRP is just stating things as they are. It provides evidence as to how things are here and there. What and how you take this news is up to each individual. Some people go full hate on once they realize that girls are not pure creatures. They lose their shit and post ridiculous things on TRP. Some people yawn and say, "nothing n…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/14 05:13 PM
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The more I talk to friends and the more posts on TRP I read, the more I think everyone has a different idea of what RP is and what BP is. To me, I like to stick to the strict idea of the Matrix reference. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Red_pill_and_blue_pill The first sentence defines it for me. Red Piller's embrace the truth, as TRP defines it. Ie. Women are not special people that deserve to be showered with gifts the way popular culture has tried to make us believe. Women (and men for that matt…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/14 05:54 PM
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RP ideas are brought together from real life examples, so of course you'll be able to find examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/14 05:48 PM
2

I like everything except the last line. Also sounds vengeful and petty. No need to go that far. Just say she's your room mate, nonchalantly.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 03:38 PM
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Yes, money matters. Enough to have a decent life, which is up to the opinion of each individual. The more money you make, the more individuals will see you as a financially suitable partner. Does not make or break your success. It only increases the pool I make enough to have a decent life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 05:16 PM
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It's likely true. However, I like to delve into why is it true. The stats could be like this (random spew-age): "Female lawyers take home on average $200K a year. Male lawyers take home on average $300K a year". A simple heading with a large pay gap that would be obvious to anyone. The issue here is what lies behind this headline. We don't delve into the details. If I may suggest: Maybe Male lawyers are more likely to not be swayed into more "ethical" branches of law. Perhaps Male lawyers are mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/14 10:30 PM
1

Most people will say it's common sense. But here's where I get called sexist: Two individuals have the same factory job. They carry multiple loaded boxes to and from. Both get paid $10/hr, but one does more work. Should the one that does more work (ie carry more boxes to and from) get paid more? Keeping in mind the one that is doing more work is male, while the other is female. There are some companies that pay by piece work. However, I feel not enough do. I'm not saying women can't do equal wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/14 10:16 PM
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1) If I was an employer and would go out of my way to ensure a female applicant did not get a job because she was female. To me, the best applicant gets the job. 2) Let's see.... Imagination time. Crazy dude goes up in a clock tower and shoots only random females. I wouldn't question the actions of any of the female victims. This is an extreme case. But I'm a very much open minded individual in the fact that I'd like to know both sides of the story before making swift judgment. You could have st…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/14 10:04 PM
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Is this single man Isaac Newton?
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 07:09 PM
1

AKA: Nail varnish isn't going to do anything, because my drink doesn't really have drugs in it. I just don't know my limits.... Just this girl. The rest totally are getting drugged.......
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 09:47 PM
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I agree that it's not as important. But googling those names you listed, I would not touch in my circumstances right now. Maybe if I hadn't had action in months my opinion might change. But getting constant sex from someone I find highly more attractive, I have no interest in women that large. No offence to you. I know there are people out there that find larger women attractive, I just don't believe that there is a vast majority. Unless the men on askmen be dying of thirst.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 02:58 AM
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Tell me about it, there was a thread on askmen a couple days ago for bodyfat % attractiveness for females... I couldn't believe the amount of men who actually posted they thought land whale BF% was "HOT". Thirsty nerds.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 10:10 PM
4

Legit logic for most women, apparently.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 02:16 PM
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I have a bunch of feminists on my facebook. They all link random feminist articles, this one included. They all also do jack shit for the women of the 3rd world. All the articles they link revolve around the feminist movement in the first world. Fighting for more rights for women in the first world. Because they believe the propaganda that women are still treated with less rights in the Western world than men. Show me a feminist that is actually truly concerned about the 3rd world and I'll show …
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 02:07 PM
2

So your rules of winning are exactly what TRP preaches. I would say the most common post here is some kind of suggestion of "Go lift". Because it's obviously the easiest thing you can do with the biggest impact. Second rule you have is basically, "be aloof" which, after "Go lift" and "AFBB" is the 3rd most commonly said thing on this subreddit... IMO.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 09:10 PM
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/r/gainit is where you want to go. You don't eat like a monster. If you did you'd have no troubles bulking up.
/r/askTRP26/05/14 06:24 PM
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OR. While she's at work/school/sleeping. Toss the bed out along with all her trash out of YOUR house. Because let's be honest, it's most likely your house.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 09:16 PM
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The mistake the boyfriend made was to volunteer going to a hotel. Now the girl knows she can milk him in the break up. He should have told her she has 3 hours to get her trash out of the house.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 07:23 PM
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She doesn't care whether or not they stay together; if she did, she wouldn't have banged this other guy in her own home.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 05:50 PM
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Respect to the girlfriend for not hamstering away and actually taking responsibility. Most girls you hear about would immediately point the finger at the man for "being away all the time" or "not loving me enough". She straight up says, it's for her ego. Basically she got the attention she wanted from her co-worker.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 05:19 PM
2

Losing weight is a possible way for a woman to get out of the friendzone.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 05:39 PM
6

From what I've heard, the White men that are successful in Korea are ones that are getting what many locals believe to be "leftovers".
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 07:37 PM
0

I agree. It shouldn't matter what race you are. I'm 99% sure that all minorities believe/know they are at a disadvantage. Whether you're a white in Korea or an Indian in America, minorities have a disadvantage compared to the majority. But everyone should know this and improving yourself in what you can change should be the only thing that matters.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 02:40 PM
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I do not see the anti-feminists views of your sister. On the contrary they seem quite feminist to me. Just not as activist as the feminists we're used to seeing. But that's just from one line.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 06:17 PM
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Really? I don't feel bad for him at all. Like OP said, there are red flags all over the place. It was his fault just as much as her fault. It takes two to get married.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 05:40 PM
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Because it wasn't the female that posted it. No white knight possibility when there's no "Princess" to rescue! Also they are upvoted only because there's no mention of "TRP".
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 02:08 PM
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Kind is not nice. Not everyone is saying you have to be an asshole, but I think everyone would agree that you shouldn't be a doormat.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 07:48 PM
0

This was exactly what I was thinking.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 03:11 PM
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You broke my sarcasm-o-meter. I demand a new one to replace it.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 10:26 PM
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Don't get it twisted. I am in favour of owning firearms, I'm just not on the side of it being considered a constitutional right. And as for your point on there being better places to fight this, I wholeheartedly agree with you. My post above was strictly to get an understanding of how pro-firearm people think. And it seems like you guys have your own fair side of the argument, but I digress. Whether or not you want your firearms or not, it's not the issue at hand here. The issue here is that thi…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 05:49 PM
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This is the only correct answer IMO for the Red Pill. Accepting the Red Pill means you accept how we view the world. What we do about it is stop blaming society, girls and the world; and just turn our efforts to being awesome instead. To me, game and seduction is about coming off as confident, high value and all that. Accepting this Red Pill life is about embodiment of those things. Instead of acting/looking confident, BE confident. How? By doing what /u/RedRunes outlined. Keep your crib clean, …
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 05:06 PM
1

I'm glad I'm not in High School anymore.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 04:57 PM
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Is owning a gun in America that big of a deal, that by losing that right you feel that your LIFE is screwed up? I can see why you guys would be upset since it's a constitutional right. But I'm of the belief that it shouldn't exactly be one. But that's my own political beliefs.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 04:22 PM
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This makes sense to me.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 02:17 PM
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Because it wasn't the female posting about it, crying to reddit. If it was, the community would defend her and berate the husband for leaving. Why should anyone try to defend the woman that isn't there? There's no chance for that sweet sweet pussah.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 01:43 AM
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The fact that she attempted to cover it up begs the question: did she cheat with multiple people? It would be awfully stupid to just carry on and pretend a child whose skin would clearly have pigments that her husband didn't could be passed off as his; but if she cheated with multiple men, perhaps she assumed she was pregnant by another who wouldn't have starkly different pigment genetics from her husband... This guy gets it. "Let's roll the odds because I slept with X amount of dark skinned fel…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 09:25 PM
2

Divorce rates.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 07:44 PM
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That last part is half way where I'm going here. It's easy to blame women for turning men into Orbiters, but then we're not taking responsibilities for our own actions. Women can get orbiters simply by putting their picture on facebook, dudes like them, facebook message them, ask for their phone numbers, etc. As a HUMAN BEING, when someone asks your phone number who may be cool, you give it to them. That's how women act, and don't try to tell me if a cute girl asked for your number, you wouldn't…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 07:20 PM
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Attention is easy. It can come from any gender of any age group and a woman can like it. Attention can be obtained through a compliment, a look, or a facebook like. This is a very over simplistic view on something much more complex. Women don't have to do anything to obtain beta orbiters, it just happens. The important part of what I'm saying is that it can happen whether the women wants it to or not. Yet butt hurt men feel the need to hate on them for this? Men have to work to spin plates, they…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 07:03 PM
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Since when were sex and attention the same thing? I can give attention to a falling 2x4 coming at me from 40 feet in the air. I will probably not give the same 2x4 sex. You guys are seeing this as if the two things are completely replaceable in this context. I do not believe they are.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 06:49 PM
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They are similar. They are not the same thing. Different motives and different actions taken. You might have more of an argument when I can just exist and women will be sleeping with me without me saying a word. Just for a shot of having a relationship with me. Even then the actions taken are different. Saying two different actions are the same is something that gives this subreddit a bad name.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 06:42 PM
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How the hell is this "exactly the same". In one instance, you are having sex with your plates. In the other instance, a woman is not having sex with her obiters. However, I would agree with you that it's kind of a double standard to say that a woman is demonized for having orbiters and a man isn't for spinning plates. Spin plates because it's what you WANT to do and only to women that are okay with that type of relationship. NOT because of some sick hatred against women that kept you in orbiter …
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 04:29 PM
2

But who cares, because their boys. Society says they actually want any and all type of sexual experiences. Surprised this is even news. /s Double standards makes this unimportant in western society and will never be more than a quick glimpse on this reddit.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 01:49 PM
3

You ask her out twice, and twice she shows disinterest. Move on, she's not interested in seeing you.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 06:15 PM
5

Next her.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 06:08 PM
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Do whatever the fuck you want. You don't have to seek validation from an online community.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 01:38 PM
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I'd have to agree with this the most. There are those types of women that sit there and stare at the menu saying they want the pork or the beef or the chicken. When I hear that I give a soft sigh and say, "you want the chicken." Her: "okay, I want the chicken."
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 02:20 PM
4

I go to have some fun conversations and drink some relatively cheap beer.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 01:50 PM
4

Sometimes, unicorns can exist. But 99% of the time, she's not a unicorn when you think she is.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 01:49 PM
0

Glycemic index values are not science-science. It's based upon faulty research. To say a carb is digested, on an empty stomach, at a certain rate, while eating only this one food, in an unexercised, obese, individual, while fasted; spikes your insulin (which then does what? Makes you fat according to another study based upon more faulty research?)... Too many factors that are not relevant to real life circumstance and the fitness industry takes this pseudo science and promotes it as fact. I'm no…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 08:27 PM
0

You can lose fat on McDonald's and soda if you really tried. This sugar and simple carb crap is broscience and will not make it impossible or even improbable to lose fat. It makes it a lot harder though because you will have to deal with hunger a lot.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 06:30 PM
2

My anecdotal experience tells me that girls don't often like to think logically. Not saying that they can't, just that they don't enjoy doing it day to day. STEM is very logic based.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 01:19 AM
5

What a chump.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 10:58 PM
4

It's weird isn't it? When girls ask me what's important to me, and I straight up tell them looks. She has to be hot. They understand it and say they feel the same way. Wonder why that is.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 06:21 PM
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People seriously think that attractiveness isn't a factor? It is the main factor, for both sexs. These women arguing with you have never heard of women doing the exact same thing? "only attracted to guys 6 foot or taller"? Come on... Hypocrisy. Gotta love it.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 08:40 AM
4

From what I gathered in my short stays there, men in Japan and Korea also take care of their physical appearance as well. Especially their faces and clothing.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 07:16 PM
3

Both countries also rarely drive compared to North America, rarely over eat caloric dense foods and do not frequently sit around the couch watching sports.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 06:58 PM
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As opposed to his life?
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 07:43 PM
1

Cinderella was good looking, knew how to clean and wasn't a slut.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 03:05 AM
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