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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	She wants a divorce after 40 years Absolutely. People can change, and people won't always uphold their vows.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/10/24 06:39 PM
2	She wants a divorce after 40 years Vows are simple, life is complex. Wouldn't expect you to understand. (On a sidenote, vows mean something to me. I've always upheld my vows. Does not mean that there are situations where divorce is the right choice for someone).	/r/Divorce_Men	02/10/24 05:13 AM
2	She wants a divorce after 40 years Where did I say you were responsible for her happiness? There are tons of situations where the dynamic is just flawed, or where people are cruel to their partners. Look beyond yourself.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/10/24 07:52 PM
1	She wants a divorce after 40 years Bored, or depressed and miserable? Ideally life should be good.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/10/24 07:11 AM
0	She wants a divorce after 40 years No one can know that beforehand. Life isn't that simple. They also married at 20(!), their brains weren't even fully developed.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/09/24 06:10 PM
-4	She wants a divorce after 40 years How is she hostile? You shouldn't have to stay with someone you have fallen out of love with - she has done so for 10 years, all kudos to her for giving it an effort for so long (as long as she was honest about it those years). People change, and that's ok. The only thing that looks iffy to me is the financial agreement. Since she's the one wanting to leave, imo she shouldn't get such a lucrative deal.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/09/24 05:16 PM
-1	She wants a divorce after 40 years I was obviously talking about in general, since you referred to marital vows as something holy that should never be broken. I'm saying they can be, and sometimes that's for the better.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/09/24 05:14 PM
-2	She wants a divorce after 40 years It is for many. Many people marry way too young. I know several people whose lives got better after getting a divorce.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/09/24 04:10 PM
-7	She wants a divorce after 40 years So if a person cheats on you consistently, is hell to live with, hurts your children, and things are beyond bad you should still stay with them?	/r/Divorce_Men	30/09/24 04:10 PM
-6	She wants a divorce after 40 years So you should stay with someone no matter what? Getting a divorce is perfectly fine in this situation, like OP says there hasn't been any feelings the last 10 years, and their kids are grownups.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/09/24 03:51 PM
2	cousin fucker Of course it is, but in some religious sects in smaller cities it is known to happen.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/09/24 08:02 PM
1	36M, how is dating I had no problem at all getting dates as a father. Tons of girls found it attractive even.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/09/24 05:16 AM
1	Adultery It's true though. I kissed another girl whilst married a decade ago, felt insanely bad about it and regretted it instantly. Told my wife back then about it when I got home, and have never done anything like it again.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/09/24 06:16 AM