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the r/theredpill (TRP) are not at all anything like what actual red pill is This. TRP sub (which is a PUA circle jerk) does not represent redpilled men.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/21 08:14 PM
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Exactly this. He gave a proper RP'd reaction to your indiscretion.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/21 12:41 AM
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Here is Google's cached copy: https://webcache.googleusercontent.com/search?q=cache:t2c_h4nWMDgJ:https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWives/comments/4h6f36/a_comprehensive_guide_to_vetting_men/+&cd=1&hl=en&ct=clnk&gl=ca
/r/RedPillWives12/03/21 07:16 PM
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Is he depressed? Try and let go of your anger over the situation and make safe space for him around this topic. Nothing is a bigger boner killer than stress/pressure to perform. This.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/21 10:52 PM
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This is a fantastic explanation.
/r/RPChristians05/03/21 04:56 AM
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My take on this would be that men don't really know how to deal with women who fight. For men, fighting is easy. It's a show of strength/dominance. It may lead to one backing down simply through threat or it may escalate to a physical altercation. Even in the latter scenario, men can (I stress 'can' as it's certainly not a rule) afterwards have a beer with the person they just fought with. It's a show of dominance that always has one solution that's universally agreed up between men: physical al…
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/21 04:02 AM
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Seems to be another case of: Answer these poorly constructed questions so that the information can be used by the collector as it best fits their narrative.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/21 08:45 PM
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Have you considered approaching him about some part-time work, even if in an unrelated field? If he's spending weeks at home between shifts, this could be an opportunity for him to learn a secondary skill while also bringing in a bit of extra income and hopefully some satisfaction in both getting out of the house and pulling some more weight financially.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/21 04:56 AM
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This post is spot on. And to add to this: Emotional bonding and sexual bonding sometimes conflict in men's heads. I've seen it with friends and myself, once I get comfortable and feel in love and settled, I stop thinking of the partner as someone I want to bone and instead someone that I want to protect and shelter from such worldly, ghastly things as sex. /s If there are conflicts, such as the female partner is having troubles (other than lack of sex), it may be hard for the guy to get out of t…
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/21 01:24 AM
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I can attest to this type of insecurity weighing heavily on a relationship, resulting in less attraction to the insecure partner over time. It starts off with worry or concern for your partner's insecurity. Perhaps you've not done enough to address their concerns so you try any number of things; show them your phone, attempt to reassure them, ask how you can help. Maybe they even tell you that they recognize it's all in their own head. Eventually though, it becomes a chore to deal with. There's …
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/21 02:25 PM
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You should be able to recognize the advances of men. Because you lack this ability, I wonder if your boyfriend is now concerned that you will not react appropriately when he's not around? By inappropriate I don't mean that you cheat on him but that you will not reject advances. I agree with the other person that you should be making it clear to any man that you are in a relationship by rejecting any advances, no matter how subtle, whether your boyfriend is present or not. Your boyfriend should p…
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/21 04:22 PM
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You can 'what if' yourself into your 40s. People who are not bankers and without six-figure salaries have kids all the time. If money is your idea of the ultimate problem solver, you may want to reconsider what makes a healthy home and family. Your last point is a perfect example of what OP is talking about. The point behind this sub is supposed to be helping women recognize and attract a partner who can and will provide for them and their family. The fact that you casually end off your post wit…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/21 02:35 PM
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The host is obnoxious but here's a short interview with the author: https://youtube.com/watch?v=Lt9qK4lJVBU
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/21 06:00 AM
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Exactly this. And it would do both genders a lot of good to have this understanding you mention. For the woman: fighting the urge to expect sharing and combating the associated negative feelings when denied. For the man: accepting the woman's natural being (desire to have feelings shared) and reassuring her (as hard as it may be in the stressful periods) that it has nothing to do with her. (This of course assumes the issues are external to the relationship.) With this fundamental understanding, …
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/21 12:24 AM
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Following this, it's also important for us to remember that it's natural for a woman to want men to share. Afterall this is a reciprocal behavior she engages in with her friends. When men share with their partner it's interpreted or processed differently. The desire for the input is the same (whether is from her friends or her man) but the resulting output is very different. She's relying on you in different ways than she does with her friends. Her friends are not providers and they are not her …
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/21 07:40 PM
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Well put.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/21 08:48 AM
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Good set of rules for establishing effective communication. For point 1, I've found that there are many times where I'm receiving a message very differently from its intent. The reasoning is often, "well, it's (this or that) implied." Although I don't believe there's any intent in purposefully hiding relevant information, there's too much ambiguity or simply not enough information to come to the intended message. And thanks to point 2, the situation is hopefully diffused, often by asking for cla…
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/19 11:24 AM
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I'm not going to look for supporting documentation but I remember when I started driving around 20 years ago, my old man told me that the fight against discriminatory insurance rates had already been taken to the supreme court and lost.
/r/MensRights30/04/18 11:38 PM
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