physics_in_paris Archive

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1	I don't know how to deal with girls not treating me like a regular person Then I guess best solution would be to first become happier, since you are obviously not ready for dating. If the rest gets in order, your dating will do too.	/r/seduction	04/05/17 07:21 PM
1	I don't know how to deal with girls not treating me like a regular person So is the problem that you can not smile for long enough so that girls can approach you?	/r/seduction	04/05/17 05:42 PM
2	Story: A realisation about failure I totally understand you. Still this is something I believe you will manage. For what it's worth, everyone putting themselves out there, who are rather shy, can be considered somewhat brave. It's something new and scary to most people (including me a few years earlier), and it takes some time before you finally get the realization that it's not bad to go for what you want, and try your best! Still you shouldn't put that pressure on you. Usually the more relaxed you get with women, the more natur…	/r/seduction	04/05/17 05:39 PM
3	I don't know how to deal with girls not treating me like a regular person I guess you can start by finding a friend, preferably a female, and just engage in conversation with her. Remind yourself to smile at appropriate times. Smiling is key to come off as a guy who is fun to talk to. Also try to make eye contact, but not too intense and/or for a long time. Like just check out the region of her face around her eyes for a bit, look into her eyes really quick, and then move on. Sometimes this can be all it takes. Had a similar problem before, fixed it mainly through the…	/r/seduction	04/05/17 05:15 PM
2	Could/should I have made a move?? I guess here it is mostly due to the factor of distance. If the distance is very great it is just logical that smaller factors fall into greater importance since there is just naturally more work needed to establish a relationship. So I guess it's just due to a cost and use relationship.	/r/seduction	16/10/16 09:48 AM
1	Could/should I have made a move?? Well said my friend!	/r/seduction	15/10/16 08:33 PM
1	Could/should I have made a move?? No, there still could be some cases in which she doesn't want to. Gotta respect a no when it comes. A try couldn't hurt though :)	/r/seduction	15/10/16 08:23 PM
2	Could/should I have made a move?? Hope this helps!	/r/seduction	15/10/16 02:27 PM
4	Could/should I have made a move?? I guess signals were pretty clear here that she wanted more and quicker. Shouldn't have forced yourself to fall asleep and just should have gone with the flow I guess. You being a 'gentleman' here was the right thing to do though, you respected her. Thing is, not all women want to take it as slow as you do, and if she gives the signals and you are OK with it, maybe sometimes it is worth going with the 'trouble' of going a step further. In the end you still have to feel comfortable with the way y…	/r/seduction	15/10/16 02:27 PM