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Question for RedPillphysious/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 09:32 PM
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I think it's valid to be sad about height if you're significantly below average but if you're average, it's really not a big deal as it's made out to be here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 09:24 PM
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<image> found this in another sub lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:38 PM
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5'8, I actually didn't even know about people caring about height that much until the internet. Sometimes I would hear that people preferred their boyfriend being taller, but that's it. Never any of the 6' stuff. It does seem very culture based. I've been called tall (lol) by other Asian people since the average Asian height is way shorter
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:00 PM
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ayyy let's fucking go just moved into an apartment that came with a gym so i went for the first time. i usually only work out in my room but i felt great after
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:40 AM
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Yeah, nobody feels threatened by it - that's pretty much just incel revenge fantasy, or somebody confusing women feeling disgust/pity with feeling threatened. It seems like a win for everybody. Less lonely men + less harassed women. Technology sure is neat.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 12:06 PM
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Nah. There's nothing wrong with somebody with more experience, I just find it really important to be able to relate with my partner so it's not for me personally. Regarding men being insecure over it... I would say it's often true and it makes sense, but I don't think that really deserves ridicule? Kinda fucked to make fun of somebody's insecurities - it's not like they want or choose to feel that way
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 10:47 AM
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Is it that other sub that allows "all pills" or something
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:29 PM
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that's why you gotta let the weird kid borrow your pencil a few times, just in case 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:19 PM
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Real. Depression actually made me more of a leech and I hated it. Took a while but I cleaned my act up a lot so my partner doesn't have dead weight. I got no hate towards those living a stay at home life, it's just personally not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:16 PM
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Yeah now that you mention it, outside of maybe a few manosphere spaces, I've never already heard of somebody near my age wanting a stay at home wife specifically. They usually want to be a provider but not necessarily a sole provider
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:03 PM
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Yep, exactly. I don't think a lot of people catch on that the blue pill is satire and making fun of the pill thing in general. The idea of becoming "enlightened" and "pilled" from advice on the internet is silly to a lot of people, so the blue pill subreddit was made to make fun of the idea. Like, there's pretty much nobody that's anti-exercise or anti-eating clean lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:55 PM
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Yeah, Isekai manga is exactly the answer to your question and it's extremely blunt about it too. Japan is lonely as fuck so I think they're pretty popular too. The protagonist will look as generic as possible so the average reader can self insert. Their personality will pretty much just be meek nerd for the same reason. They will also somehow have a harem of women despite this, usually 1 of each cliche for the fans. 1 shy girl, 1 mean girl that secretly likes him, 1 ditzy girl with huge badonker…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:25 PM
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I agree. I'm Gen Z and most of my friends and myself are dating people we met in our social circles. I think a lot of people are too either too scared of getting rejected, afraid of resulting drama in the friend group, and/or can't read the social situation to see if it they like them back. It's risky, but that's the point. It takes nuance and varies per person. You're supposed to take calculated risks in life to make a lot of progress, but some people are so afraid of failure that they never su…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:53 AM
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And it's usually life simplified to only a small handful of stats... It's like being given a really complicated physics equation and being surprised that you can't just plug in 2 variables. If somebody is going to break down life to math, they could at least be good at it, y'know?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:06 AM
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Completely agree. I don't think they missed much anyway. I was in 2 relationships for 90% of high school and it really wasn't anything to be envious of. I mean sure it might've helped me mature but acting like it was like I was living some teenage dream is crazy. I can literally relive all of the positive parts of that as an adult, without all the negative stuff like having to deal with crazy & strict parents (worst part imo), no car, no money.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 01:36 AM
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she likes cute stuff like sanrio or kirby, plants, one piece i already got her a tiny plant pot and a plushie so those are a no go was going to get her this hoodie but it doesn't have pockets :[ <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:55 AM
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women pls wtf do i get my gf for christmas help
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:47 AM
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ngl i appreciate my life more every time i read these posts
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 06:49 AM
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see that actually makes sense. i am not boy smart
/r/ExRedPill15/12/23 05:15 PM
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ngl i thought hoe math was a joke made by and for women like girl dinner but i was horribly wrong
/r/ExRedPill15/12/23 01:32 AM
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this guy works part-time and lives with his parents and idgaf and chose him over more materially successful men just tell him his beliefs are completely right and you are leaving him because of "hypergamy" lmao
/r/ExRedPill13/12/23 07:49 AM
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I dunno what age you are or if you live in an area with only trad women but splitting costs is just the default thing over here. Nobody is forcing you to pay for other people if you don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:57 AM
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Am I weird for saying yes to all of those...? I feel like a decent girlfriend would help with all of those if she had a career and I didn't make way more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:06 AM
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I think this every day reading this sub. It's fair to be frustrated, sure, life ain't fair. But it seems odd to be mad at people for what they're attracted to as if they chose to be that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 10:27 AM
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"Body count" only ever came up for me in high school / college party games as a spicy question for fun I don't think I've ever heard anybody talk about it seriously outside of this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 01:26 PM
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All we know is that he had 3+ failed experiences (ex, OP, forum lady), he cheated on 1 of them, and 1 of them gave him herpes and/or a kid. There's nothing that suggests anything impressive. Even if the terrible qualities don't count, 3 dates is not that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:05 AM
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Huh? I never mentioned his age, or that he's an incel. I just said the OP is likely 30, and the dude is like the opposite of chad because he has so many conventionally undesirable traits. If a cheating single dad cop with genital herpes is chad then I don't even know what to say to that man lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:05 AM
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Wdym? OP is likely over 30 and this guy is the exact opposite of a chad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:48 AM
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Cop Single dad Cheater Little free time Genital herpes Has a bad enough reputation to be posted in a groupchat by another person Fellas, if this guy can get in at least 3 relationships, there's hope for 99% of you edit: I forgot what subreddit I was in, my condolences to the 1%
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:11 AM
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not the victorian era working class 💀 Yeah, I think a lot of them have been so unsuccessful at basic socialization that they form their own crazy mental gymnastics
/r/ExRedPill05/12/23 08:15 PM
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One guy will legit say the most batshit insane thing you've ever heard there, and then there's another guy in the daily discussion asking for spaghetti recipes. Shit's a fever dream
/r/ExRedPill05/12/23 10:20 AM
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she will beat you up and you will like it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:43 PM
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WhatsApp is a huge red flag and is used by catfish and scammers; they start off by sending nudes and they leave if you aren't biting by sending money / blackmail material. Usually scammers want you to message them off the main app that you met on so they can dodge bans. Source: Me and my friends liked messing with them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:38 PM
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DT? (pls don't be deez nuts or something)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:13 PM
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imagine if he stayed at step 1 and just complained on the internet about how it's over lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:10 PM
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You have to date somebody of the opposite sex in this sub of your choice. You can't force them to like you or do anything they don't want to do. You have to try your best to make the relationship work. If they genuinely really like you after 1 month, you get a morbillion dollars. How fucked (or not fucked at all 😔) are you? Edit: If you currently have a SO, they die when a nearby pie factory explodes. They become a force ghost and tell you to date other people. Edit 2: no you can't kill yourself…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:26 PM
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It would hurt in the short term of course, but I don't think that guy is in the wrong. Yeah, he fucked up by getting that far, but it would be even more fucked up to keep it going and stay with them out of pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:46 AM
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so uh do you think this guy hugs his mom
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:55 PM
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would you guys play an rpg with only characters from ppd i think grog would have a pretty solid strength stat bonus
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:24 PM
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Yeah, I don't think anybody can just lower their standards like that. Why would anybody wanted to be dated out of pity or because somebody lowered their standards? That sounds so depressing, I would much rather be alone
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 12:41 AM
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Also, TikTok & Instagram always have the shittiest comments pushed to the top because they get engagement, and a lot of users are literally children. Basing your life around what others think is sad already. Having your love life dictated by a bunch of edgy teenagers who don't even know you exist is even more depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:00 AM
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I really thought the answer was going to be "die alone" but then it turned out to just be normal stuff lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:29 AM
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yo what kind of barbie dolls did yall have 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:25 AM
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Yeah, I see almost all guys online rating themselves as average or above average... which doesn't add up at all. There should be about 40% that are below average yet you barely see anybody claiming this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:47 PM
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real ones would give their homies some coochie 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:22 AM
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goldmines like these are fr why i visit this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:06 PM
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Yeah I always found this complaint odd because 1) Being nice barely takes any effort because it's how good people act by default and 2) I guess kids can interpret that being nice gets girls due to stuff like Disney movies, but you should really know otherwise as an adult
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:39 PM
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chadsexual fucking killed me dude. we got a sexuality for being attracted to conventionally attractive people lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:32 AM
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yeah exactly somebody says "all men are psychopaths" -> probably an okay time to say not all men somebody goes to a forum for supporting women and they share how they got assaulted -> maaaybe not the best time bro
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:55 PM
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Snap is an okay sign IMO, it's structured in a way that's easy to be flirty. It's more socially acceptable to send random photos of them doing stuff = much higher chance of a decent conversation. IG is probably less so, since it's like the "main" one for a lot of young adults and less personal. *This is assuming you met IRL ofc - if they ask to use Snap/IG quickly when you guys are already messaging then yeah that's a sign of OF / scam stuff. I got a girl's number this morning at Trader Joe's Da…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:15 PM
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> get sponsored by a woman Okay, sounds easy enough... > woman manages the messages ...what? This has to be a publicity stunt or there's some info missing. No way would that succeed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:24 AM
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It's pretty fucked up, considering most of their audience are either... 1) young impressionable children (think about how many people have an edgy phase they regret) or 2) people not happy about something in society and want answers or the feeling that they aren't alone It really doesn't help that controversy gets views.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:06 AM
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I think they were responding to the same comment you were responding to, so you guys agree. now kiss.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:12 PM
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It's pretty nice. All the stuff people already pointed out like worse decision making, etc etc. Also, this sounds weird, but nobody has pointed it out: being horny during the day is suboptimal lol. Finding a private place -> having sex -> shower -> possibly nap or be tired afterward burns a lot of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:52 PM
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Yes, you have to go through trial and error to find out social cues, and knowing how far you can push a boundary before it turns creepy isn't simple a lot of the time. The unfortunate part is that people are expected to learn this by the time they're out of high school, but some do not. It might not necessarily be their fault - some people have trouble grasping nuance or didn't get the experience they needed before they're suddenly hit with the adult world. It's not the worst thing ever, though.…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 11:48 PM
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nice try fed but i know a social experiment when i see one. ain't no way people here are real. i'm gonna wake up any second now-
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 10:36 PM
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Male. Personally, I think it mainly stems from the fact that I'm really eccentric and being able to completely relate to another person is very difficult. For most of my life, I felt like I was surrounded by people who couldn't understand me. I can't describe how comforting it was to find somebody who does. I think neurodivergent people kinda know what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:50 PM
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Is it weird that a partner who's extremely similar is exactly what makes me happy? Initially, it seemed obvious to me that people would think the same, but it's less common than I expected. This sounds narcissistic but being with somebody who has the same beliefs, tastes, personality, mannerisms, hobbies, etc sounds awesome???
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:18 PM
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It’s pretty hard to do this as an adult because most people have found their friend group in school/work by now, people have less time, people are scattered, the age range is pretty large now, etc. Definitely not impossible though, here’s some ideas: Hobby groups: tabletop rgs, book clubs, cooking class, etc. Generally the best since you have a common interest so it’s a not so “cold” approach anymore. Plus you can have fun regardless of not finding a match. Fitness: yoga, running, cycling, marti…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 05:10 AM
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omg u guys can be poly if u both chop off ur loose skin to make a 3rd person ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:39 PM
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That steep drop off at the end is kinda interesting. I'm guessing there's a point where people fear that they're a catfish / bot / sex worker or too hard to get. Imagine being so hot that people message you less lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:14 PM
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Whoops, meant to say early (1998)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:59 AM
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why am i crying in the club rn
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:17 AM
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lazy broke effeminate 3/9 ain't the worst, how's your bingo board lookin guys
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:56 AM
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a "well actually" contrarian attitude for the sake of arguing bruh there's so many of these on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:35 AM
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Most of them keep to themselves but in my experience, the ones that make it their personality are definitely some interesting characters. I was close friends with one and also ran into a few. Typically disgruntled over something unfortunately out of their control (not conventionally attractive, disabled, short, neurodivergent, bad luck with women, etc.) Unironically referring to people as beta/alpha/chad/based/etc. Most people around my age (late Gen Z) know what they mean but don't say it serio…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:45 PM
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tfw no government issued gf 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:31 AM
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For a relationship? Has to be a 10. I don't mean they have to have a high paying job or even be super passionate about something; I mean they have to have a similar personality to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:23 AM
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finally some good advice
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:19 PM
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If the intent of the experiment is to show that hot people can be really shitty and some people will want to fuck them: This is common sense. Everybody already learned that early on in life. If the intent of the experiment is to make a statement about an entire gender because of 8 people, then... lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:11 AM
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I never mentioned you. You are assuming I was assuming lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:47 AM
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It's fine to have preferences - it's generally just considered weird to say your preferences out loud unprompted, especially if you're naming what you don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:16 AM
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would u rather fight 100 duck sized horses or 1 horse sized duck
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:46 AM
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I might be missing something obvious since I just skimmed the article, and I can't tell which color is which on the graphs since I'm on mobile. It looks like they only have a sample size of ~130 and ~250 women over 2 studies. Every single one was a woman in university so they're way more likely to have high standards. So I don't think it's really doomed for us as it looks, but still kinda sad. Interesting stuff though. I wish we saw the faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:09 PM
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I think a lot of men here have their expectations very warped by social media and OLD. OLD has you competing with way more men and gives you way less chances to express yourself. Of course attractive people will dominate. There's often not much more to work with. Social media displays a highlight reel of people's lives, and usually the most social people will post the most. People are only going to post the highs in their life which makes being "normal" seem less attainable. People here also kee…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:38 PM
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on my friend/gf's posts yeah i'll leave something nice but genuinely i don't understand thirsting in the comments on a stranger's post. you gotta be lonely lonely edit: i assume you meant when women post pics of themselves on insta/twitter
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:54 PM
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imagine being at your wedding with your qt android fiance and right before they say "I do", they hit their token limit 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:18 PM
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Completely agree, a very large chunk of people around my age love at least 1 of DBZ/Naruto/One Piece/AoT/MHA/JJK, etc. It's not rare at all (anymore)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:02 PM
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"fuck it, we ball 💯" pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:38 AM
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Yep, def agree with that. I'm just saying it's easier than having multiple dates, y'know? The rush sounds exciting at first but it's going to get expensive and exhausting pretty quick
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:59 AM
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If you really only cared about getting laid, constantly dating is actually really suboptimal in terms of time and effort. Being with somebody who has a high libido is way more efficient. No need to jump through hoops courting them, getting to know them, etc, just wake up next to them every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:15 AM
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I mean you can take it up with the professionals or look into it, I didn't just come up with it myself lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:03 AM
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A lot of the times it's genetic. Easiest way to find out is to take meds and realize you were playing on hard mode the whole time
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:55 AM
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Depression and sleep apnea are some major common ones I would look into
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:48 AM
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I kinda agree with the overall message but this really depends on the rating scale. If you've been to truerateme, you know what I mean lol Anyway, I don't really think about competing in dating in general; it's not news and dwelling on it accomplishes nothing. I just go out there and serve
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 11:31 PM
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i deadass thought it was satire female delusion calculator and the slider starting on 6 ft lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 11:11 PM
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Lol my thoughts exactly. I don't think that guy intended to be malicious, but you would have to be completely socially unaware to do this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 11:04 PM
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Yes, I agree they usually benefit from things that are easier in a relationship. Women support each other, which I genuinely think is great for them - I'm not the type to see one happy group of people and get bitter and turn it into a competition. So the natural solution is to do the same as men. A lot of men (rightfully so) complain that they don't get the same respect, but not many actually support other men. ex) I like leaving a positive comment when one of my guy friends posts on insta. Be t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 11:16 PM
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They would probably pull them even faster because kpop fans can be insanely rabid
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:38 PM
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Yes. It's a bonus ability that comes with being born as a woman, similar to how us asian people can secretly read minds so we can tell if you're having gay thoughts. They can read the 5g radio waves in the air to see if your vibe is off. You can combat this by wearing underarmor made of tinfoil to add an extra layer of defense for your virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:33 PM
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So if they go to the same school, or go to the same workplace, or are your FWB, or they're gay, or they have any attraction towards you, they aren't your friend? Damn... Regardless though, if you have any social hobbies, it's usually not too hard to have 1 friend of the opposite gender. Even back when I stayed inside and no-lifed LoL all day, there were a few women in some of the friend groups I would play with. The second women say they want to be friends they ghost This is probably anecdotal b…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:47 AM
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wdym?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:09 AM
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sometimes i pass by high schoolers on a tour to check out my uni and they legit look like babies, it's crazy probably a sign of me getting older
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:45 AM
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hella cute i always draw a little doodle of us on a card for my gf's bday / valentine's / christmas and change the theme based on the holiday
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:40 AM
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real keep ya chin up king 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:34 AM
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real almost exactly my thoughts, thanks for this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:36 AM
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This is very normal but for some reason this is the only sub I'm in where people would deny this. Like yeah, there's some people with high standards... then just don't date them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:55 AM
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If you include that phase where you're seeing somebody but you're not official and don't have a title? Then yeah, most people are going to go through that phase at least once or a few times. If you mean FWB then nah, that's pretty rare. If you means situationships plural at the same time, then that's even more rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:05 AM
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What woman class yall choosin? Personally, I'm a Necromancer kind of guy, but I might try out a Rogue or Sorceress build
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:56 AM
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IMO, it's usually very socially unaware people that take "all men are bad" literally and say "not all men" without reading the room. You know how "ACAB" goes over a lot of people's heads? You're not supposed to think literally all ~700,000 are bad; the point is to pressure the actual good ones to not be complacent about the status quo and to do something to reduce the amount of police assaulting others. Now replace police with men. Also, if somebody was raped or murdered, you would have to be co…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 09:00 AM
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me: i just don't see any harm in buying her gamer girl bathwater doctor: taze him again.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 07:08 PM
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you couldn't waterboard this information outta me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:57 PM
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Keep in mind that people are more likely to share negative experiences - they're less likely to tell you how great it is. Especially if you're single because that's kind of inconsiderate. Besides, facing adversity is often necessary for growth. The most emotionally mature people usually have a lot of experience making close bonds with people, not even necessarily a relationship. Personally, I would say I grew a lot after every serious relationship and situationship that I had.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:58 AM
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i ship it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:15 AM
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those big ass white coats go hard
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:14 AM
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Glad somebody said this. If it's that much effort, then don't hang out with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:48 AM
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Their rating system (in the community info sidebar thingy) is very different - almost everybody is between 4 and 6 since it's based on a bell curve. So a 7 would be the top 2.5%. Not saying I agree with any of that, just giving people a heads up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:43 AM
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Huh, TIL. I had no idea those colleges existed. The virus just seemed like bad luck; I'm guessing there's a good chance you would've had female friends if it didn't happen. I'm not sure what subject you're studying but there's also a good chance you're going to make more friends once you get into the workforce. Honestly, if there's no encouraged interaction with women at your job or with your hobbies, there's no need to force it. You don't really have to have a diverse set of friends. Sometimes …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:31 PM
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It's a red flag to want nice friends that don't want to have sex with you /s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:12 PM
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I think it's because we're in the bay + he's a cute little Asian boy. Probably goes for weebs or other really short Asian girls or something. Kind of like what passport bros do?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:14 PM
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There's somebody in one of my college orgs (basically a co-ed frat) who is known for going on casual dates as his hobby. He would update us on his life and it was pretty much a new girl every time I saw him. He has a pretty face IMO but also has autism (medium-ish) and is 5'0. We were playing some party game (Never Have I Ever) and when the "body count" topic came up, I think his answer was somewhere between 15-30. So yeah, not a death sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:16 AM
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the sequel to a 2011-2014 teenage science fiction novel that takes place in a dystopian society
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:05 AM
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Yes but it's usually a little more socially accepted than others. I don't think it's that uncommon for ADHD to be attractive, usually women. See: funny quirky guys, manic pixie girls, bubbly girls, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:01 AM
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Oh hey, same here! AM, really confident and happy with my appearance but also kinda neurodivergent. I have OCD + ADHD and an autoimmune disorder that is most likely lupus, so I pretty much almost rolled a 1 when I was born. A lot of people on the internet don't believe me but I was surprisingly successful on Tinder, Hinge, and Bumble. I was only on there for 1-2 months but I had somewhere between 20-30 matches which was definitely enough for me, and 2 dates set up. In fact, it was pretty addicti…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:47 AM
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Yep but I kinda get it. Some people need to hear it, and it's more likely that those who are unsuccessful genuinely might not know what's wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:04 PM
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Completely agree. I like some of the self-improvement part of it and emphasis on being realistic, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:40 AM
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I'm so glad somebody is pointing this out because this was my exact reaction too. It's built up to be these crazy revelation yet most of it is common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:24 AM
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3/4 of my LTRs have been some form of ADHD or autistic it's not over bros
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:21 PM
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My bad, I probably shouldn't have said skill issue - that's pretty much just cheeky video game trash talk rotting my brain. I didn't expect an actual well thought out response addressing it. You're right; people aren't born hateful. Life will often kick the shit out of you for no good reason. People will mistreat you for things that are often out of your control, like your height, genes, etc. Sometimes you will try to make a move to stop the pain and you will fail. Is any of that your fault? A l…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:30 PM
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I agree that people should stop complaining, mainly because it's a self fulfilling prophecy. This isn't a gender specific thing. Constant complaining is not a desirable trait, especially if you're complaining about the same people you want attention from. Expressing these negative beliefs attracts others with the same beliefs, so you end up in an echochamber, and hating starts to make more and more sense as everybody validates your own opinion. As you are now a part of this group, you are even l…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:40 PM
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That's great to hear and I agree, having similar experiences. I'm really confident in my appearance but I have OCD. Early life sucked but as soon as I became an adult, life has been great. Some of my closest friends are also on the spectrum and they're really happy, smart, and surprisingly popular. Also, being physically attractive is almost objectively better than being unattractive, whereas being autistic is subjectively the same or even better in some scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:30 AM
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I respect saying that here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:53 PM
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Black eyes Black hair (is it bad to say asian preferred if i'm asian) Same height/shorter than me (5'8) Skinny I guess? Don't care. I'm makin fuckin bands so I have no issues if she's making no money. I also have no issues if she's making more than me because my ego isn't fragile See 5 It's whatever as long as it's not extremely high 0-20 would be preferred otherwise our values and experience probably clash. No shame to them if it's more, just my personal preference. Atheist / Agnostic They at l…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:48 PM
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yoooo we got ppd lore
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 04:45 PM
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Gotcha. Yeah, I would describe that as a man child for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:03 AM
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I agree with you but why DnD out of curiosity? Lots of man children that ruin it for everybody else?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:52 AM
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Agreed. Unrealistic standards being a problem nowadays is certain debatable but no way was it better back then. Peak boomer humor is often "I hate my spouse" and getting married just to get married was more normalized. Younger people recognizing that that's dumb is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:10 AM
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These two ruin the immersion of the PPD experience by reminding me that mentally stable people exist, so I'm gonna have to agree
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 12:34 AM
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<image> i'm sorry op but this picture is obligatory
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 12:06 AM
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now this is the kind of quality content i'm looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:22 AM
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bro are you roleplaying as the guy from the navy seal copypasta
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:33 AM
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Lol same, it would come up a few times in random high school party games (Never Have I Ever, etc) and then I never heard about it again IRL. Seeing it mentioned here is a throwback
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:53 PM
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Met my girlfriend through my best friend. Life is good :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:17 PM
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I would assume there's some sort of club, org, or co-ed. I'm at a commuter school but the Asian org was still packed af with 100+ people in the first meeting
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:11 PM
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maybe that example was a bit too much lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:48 PM
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Abusive? Definitely not. Manipulative? Only in the short term, before they found out who you really are. It's usually not sustainable. That's why your examples say these people complain about their ex. It might've been better for a little bit but it clearly didn't work out in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:04 PM
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I do agree with you that physical attraction is one of the most important things in a relationship. Attractiveness will make your SO tolerate everything more, even if just slightly or subconsciously. There's some problems attractiveness won't fix much, though. Communication: They will be more patient but it's not suddenly going to teach you how to communicate like a mature adult if you've never learned how to. Availability: They might put in time to see you more but it's not going to make you an…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:43 PM
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IMO university is a major privilege for meeting everybody, not just women. I'm very happy with the amount of friends I have but if you exclude college, I would be so fucked because that's like 95% of the people I want to talk to. I wouldn't have a gf and my only friends would be from high school that I would occasionally play video games with. Outside of that, pretty much just OLD for me. Like you said, I would only try something in my friend group / coworkers if they were like, marriage materia…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:59 PM
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Nah, but IMO the numbers aren't as bad as a lot of people say it is here. I would guess that roughly like ~95% of people can find somebody they can be happy with. If you see yourself as a part of that small % that can't find anybody, you will ironically have a higher chance of being right, because it will often show.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:12 AM
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Yeah if anybody is incorporating dating advice from PPD into their life then that's not a good look lol. It's fun to read at times but I remember that some people unironically do believe some of the shit here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:57 AM
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Isn't that assuming you have an unlimited amount of guys lined up 24/7 and absolutely nothing goes wrong though? Like nobody argues, gets violent, ditches, stalls, etc, just pays immediately and leaves and then the next customer immediately shows up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:26 AM
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I'm not "chad" but I don't really find it annoying. The thing is, men (usually) don't have to worry about women harassing, raping, or killing you. So I'm not going to compare my experience to a woman's.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:25 AM
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Usually no, because On average, even considering STDs, drugs cause significantly more overall harm than sex Drug buyers are often manipulated or pushed into a corner where they feel like they need drugs because drug withdrawal can be hell, but you pretty much never need to have sex with a prostitute People aren't interchangeable with objects
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:15 AM
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Prostitutes make roughly $27k a year. Not something to really be envious of. Even then, they should be mad at the men creating the demand in the first place, not at the women providing the service to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:49 AM
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I pretty much agree with everything here, but being bitter towards sex workers for making easy money is irrational because the vast majority make less than $145 per month. The top 1% take home about 33% of the money made on the entire website combined. So 99% of women cannot just "fall back" on sex work, you'll make almost nothing and you have to deal with the social stigma, with the chance of your next door neighbor or your relatives or your children's bullies finding out. Most guys don't know …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:45 AM
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Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:08 AM
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I'm just over here thinking about how butchered the English language is gonna get. Imagine the amount of new dumbass TRP terminology. It already sounds like a bunch of nerds roleplaying, except they're trying to fight virginity instead of dragons
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:26 PM
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I must say it again: a single trip to Walmart will give you a reality check on what the average person looks like.... and also remind you that 70% of people in America are overweight
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 01:09 PM
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Yes, there are some women that like dirtbags or have unreasonably high standards, but I feel like the most common reason they're with assholes is because they didn't know they were like that at first, they have low self esteem, or are just being manipulated. Most people in abusive or toxic relationships didn't start out that way, it's usually a gradual decline. A lot of people hide their worst traits, you don't discover them until you live with them, or they even straight up lie. A friend of min…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 12:58 PM
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Requirements: Must be a woman (optional)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:56 AM
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So I'm not crazy that all of these women all look totally fine to me right? I can see all of them being considered attractive, hooking up, and getting in happy relationships. They look like completely normal people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:28 AM
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...i thought she was the prettiest
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:12 AM
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> complaining about having too many options the men ain't gonna like this one OP
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:46 AM
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No. I'm not desperate. I wouldn't settle for somebody I personally find to be mid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:06 AM
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my man throwin hands with everybody
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:53 AM
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I think there's just too many conclusions drawn from people here that just include their limited personal anecdotes. A lot of them are easily disproven or proven to be outliers by looking at statistics. Hell, sometimes even by just by going to your local Walmart and looking around for an hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:29 AM
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That would honestly be better than many of them. A lot of the time they only show their face, and badly (awful angle + selfies at arm's lengths distort your face badly)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:06 AM
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Nice post. Some actual good, new advice from somebody with valuable and rare experience. Some nice talking points: OLD apps can be good, start in reverse (niche dating apps take priority) If you are Christian, large churches try to match you surprisingly well Traveling abroad is great. You have people that romanticize westerners, sort of like reverse weebs lol. Don't be a dick obviously when traveling. Plus, if these women wanted traditional controlling masculine men who are old fashioned, they …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:04 AM
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One of my friends was swiping on Tinder in front of me to show me what it was like and I was appalled at the men's photos. So many were in the dark, at a double chin angle, all photos in their bedroom, way too close, not smiling, a shirtless mirror selfie, only one photo, etc. Even the stereotypical ones like holding a fish were considered great.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 12:54 AM
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Didn't kill myself (difficulty: impossible) Had an emo phase but at least I never wore a fedora or a trench coat A few completely avoidable scares but did not get anybody pregnant thankfully Actually got in a worthwhile relationship I'm gonna disagree with others and say I should've taken those drugs with my high school friends, it was literally just weed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:51 PM
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same and life is fucking awesome now 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:39 PM
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Pretty much. If you're attractive and nice then you're going to have 0 issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:36 PM
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You're correct. The same link shows that ~36% of Asian women married a different race. Narrow it down even more to only include white men and the number drops drastically. There should probably be more use of actual statistics here instead of just arguing over personal anecdotes.
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/23 03:45 PM
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Yeah this isn't a gender thing, it's more like a... being a decent human being thing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 09:28 AM
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They're usually the loudest too lol
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 11:48 PM
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Is the average participant here bitter? Yes, definitely. It's not exactly a reach to say that people that are more likely to come here have trouble with dating, and that obviously has correlation with being bitter towards women. A good chunk of people here don't really care though. I've personally haven't had dating issues often and never anything against women, but this place is still interesting regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:35 PM
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...I forgot the obvious solution of working on yourself because it's considered heresy here by a lot of people. Working out, learning social skills, maturing emotionally and mentally, even getting surgery are all valid. Besides that, pretty much what I said before: men & women with too high standards either have to learn to be happy with lowering them or accept being alone. The world isn't fair and dating isn't an exception. IMO most people don't have to settle though, and even those that do can…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:44 AM
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I agree with what you're getting at. If a women's standards are too high then that should be a them problem, not a man's problem. So what's the issue? Why would men be upset with the same women they want to hook up with or date? The problem to these upset men is that if there's too many women with higher standards than they "should" have, then it becomes a man's problem, because nobody will sleep with or be in a relationship with them. The demand exceeds the supply basically; except obviously pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:07 AM
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$20 is $20
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:48 AM
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Ideally yes but that's not easy to find for most people
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:47 AM
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Mb you're right, edited. I still stand by what settling is though. If their standards are so high that they're impossible for them to achieve, that's a them problem. You can learn to lower them to be realistic, or be content with an unfulfilling relationship, or die alone. There's your options.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:43 AM
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Alright OP, I appreciate you sharing the opinion from somebody that's more qualified than the usual random poster that gets no bitches, but ain't nobody got time for an hour long video. So, as a lazy college student who can't even watch a 15 minute ted talk, I did what I usually do with those: I took the transcript, fed it into chatgptsplitter.com to avoid the character limit, and then asked for a summary. "ChatGPT, can you post a ~1 paragraph summary and then 8 possible hot takes from the video…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:32 AM
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IMO if you think your partner isn't a 10/10 for you but you're genuinely happy and believe that you got the best match you could realistically get in your lifetime, then that's fine. You can both live long happy lives and I don't think I would really consider that as "settling". If you "settled" as in you think you can realistically get a better partner in your lifetime but at least you aren't alone, then that's bad. That sounds like coping and is probably a ticking time bomb to the issues you t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:01 AM
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90% of married couples marry in their own race. If you're not the same ethnicity as your tastes then yeah, you're going to have to appeal to a niche. That's not a white person unique thing. I'm in an Asian dominated area in the US and most Asian people are with other Asians, to nobody's surprise.
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 02:16 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/redditmoment/comments/15naq9d/redditors_when_women_have_rights/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1 Literally nobody agreed with him out of 140+ comments, even the most incels of incels would band together to roast this dude
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 12:12 AM
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Same, shit was like watching a car crash, can't help but look
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 12:06 AM
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Literally everybody with all different beliefs put aside their differences to call that guy a dumbass Like there were 140+ comments and nobody agreed
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 12:05 AM
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I personally have no interest in it, but that sounds pretty fun. Thanks OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:21 AM
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I feel like this can all be boiled down to saying that you can cut corners in life if you disregard your morals, which isn't dating specific. You could lie and cut corners to take shortcuts if you really wanted to and sometimes you won't get punished for it. I'm sure everybody can agree with that. The thing is, that kind of fake life sounds absolutely miserable to most people. Nobody would know the real you so you would be even lonelier, you're under constant pressure in every social situation t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:51 PM
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Dude, I have no idea where this one started. Male models? Rappers? I dunno. But once somebody pointed it out, I realized that there's a few frat dudes that always do it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:24 PM
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Yeah I was out at a restaurant today and heard some pale middle schooler say finna and it hurt me a little bit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:54 PM
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Yes but this sub is probably one of the last places you want to say this, lol.
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 01:37 PM
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Same here, also been called that a few times but never sent anything like that. It's not like a hard (ha) requirement to qualify to be a fuckboy lol, just a thing that some of them do sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:08 PM
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It's meaning isn't strict - it originally used to mean a prisoner who was a gay prostitute. Some years ago I agree that it meant what you said, nowadays younger people use it interchangeably with calling somebody a dbag
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:52 PM
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There's more but that's usually the biggest (or smallest, ha) thing that gives them away in DMs
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:12 PM
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This is not rare at all and people do this all the time. At this co-ed party, one of my girl friends was passing their phone around showing the insanely dumb shit that guys would say in DMs and we would all laugh at it lol. Most of them deserved it for doing shit like sending an unsolicited dick pic or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:04 PM
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Maybe in 2016 but the word is definitely used interchangeably with "looks like a douchebag" now. I hear it all the time at uni and it's literally never been said to paint somebody in a positive light. There's a whole stereotype around it. Wearing too much cologne, wearing Nike and Supreme, sunglasses, rubbing your hands together, doing that dumbass squint and eyebrow raise or biting your bottom lip in selfies, asking for snap, unironically saying stuff like "bet, on god bro, u up?" etc etc. I kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:50 AM
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shorter than a commercial for me 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:56 AM
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I do think there's a few unfortunate people that might have to settle with somebody they don't find attractive or risk being alone forever, but I think that's really rare. They would have to be some combination of really unattractive, uncharismatic, or unlucky. And once one considers themselves to be one of those people, their odds get worse. I think most everybody can be happy with somebody they at least find attractive, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:18 AM
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Isn't that just settling though? I get lowering your standards for quick flings, but I can't see that working out for a relationship. Imagine thinking your SO is just mid or decent, that sounds depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:49 AM
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Congrats, I'm glad to hear that. I'm very happy with my GF who's a 10/10 to me and might get married, might not. Had dating issues for a few months after my first breakup, but otherwise no issues and I'm not bitter. This place is supposed to be neutral, right? Even if it isn't, you don't want just 1 type of person in here to just have it be an echochamber.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:46 AM
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This is pretty uplifting to know for men who aren't happy with their height. I hope yours goes well!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:10 AM
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If you lower your standards for a longer term relationship, wouldn't that mean you wouldn't find your partner that attractive? I can't imagine seeing my SO like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:07 AM
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Glad you said this, I feel like people are acting like their personal anecdote is absolute and and has to be correct. In reality, there's shitty people everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:03 AM
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Dating requirements: Must be a woman (optional)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:33 AM
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18 y/os seem like children to a grumpy 24 y/o like me already, I can't imagine wanting to be in a relationship with a much larger age gap. Imagine planning your 401k while your gf wasn't even alive for 9/11 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 05:54 AM
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Nah. You have to remember that not everybody is chronically online and has heaps of knowledge of a specific controversial ideology. There's a lot of good discussion here from all sorts of views. Do you want to chime in?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:21 PM
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Damn, have you ever thought about how much lore there is here? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:42 AM
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This would be really helpful. I've searched a lot places and it's hard to find a concrete definition, especially regarding it's original meaning and not how it's been warped over the years.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:58 AM
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Yeah, a lot of the most sensitive opinions often come from a place of trauma. Ex) A lot of men I've see are frustrated with women due to being constantly put down and becoming cripplingly lonely over the years and a lot of women are afraid of men due to being assaulted in the past. I try and keep that in mind whenever I read such extreme views. I often wonder what happened to whoever posted them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:56 AM
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Well not really, matter fact I don't think I've even come close to meeting people that I've described. Dude, I was thinking exactly the same, which I why I posted this. I'm going to uni and I would go out a lot but I really did not find almost any people that fit the common RP stereotypes out of all of the friends that i made. Seriously, I keep seeing RP as meaning Role Players in my head, because these weird labels genuinely feeling like LARPing. Obviously biased of course since I might've subc…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:05 AM
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I see - did it just kind of change in meaning to the general populace when it became mainstream or something? I feel like I may agree with the original message but a lot of people got demotivated by it and took it in a worse way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:47 AM
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That kinda reminds me of how people idolize the people in movies that you really weren't seriously meant to
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:40 AM
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Agreed. I think a lot of people who have been into it for a while forget how bizarre it all looks from an outsider's pov who is "normal". It's hard to find data that isn't misleading or biased, but I agree that it's actually pretty intriguing like you said. Thanks for your input!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:35 AM
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That's great that it wasn't the case for you. I feel like you dodged a bullet with those type of people you described; those don't sound like the type of company you would want in the long term. same FnF stats in 30,000k+ posts So uh, I'm guessing this isn't about Fast n Furious, Friday Night Funkin, or Five Nights at Freddie's
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:29 AM
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Would you like to tell us?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:20 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:19 AM
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Interesting take on it, thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:19 AM
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I'm listening. What do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:18 AM
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uh what? that's a new one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:17 AM
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I actually googled around and nobody could provide a solid definition, but the general modern consensus was the same. No really, if you try Googling it and pretend you don't know exactly what to find, you get all sorts of results. Adding "4chan" or "Reddit" didn't help much. Urban Dictionary doesn't have one. I even looked in this sub with the search bar, again, nothing concrete. Ironically, it took me a bit but I realized why your username looks familiar. I found one your posts when I was looki…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:16 AM
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