pick-up-on-this Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Why would a 4 reject a 8-9? LOL some shy women can get flirty as hell and not be attracted to the guy. If that girl was shy, it makes more sense that she doesn't know how to filter herself around creepy guys like OP, and they mistake it for IOI. When she gets better at socializing she wont give off these IOIs to every single dude.	/r/seduction	04/10/17 08:55 PM
0	Let's talk about how many approaches you need to be making in order to get good at this Cocaine without the cocaine	/r/seduction	04/10/17 08:49 PM
3	College Day Game If it is a larger school, who cares. You probably wont see many of them twice unless your route to class is the same. In that case next semester you will have different routes. 8 semesters in all, so 8 complete changes of those "regulars" you always see.	/r/seduction	04/10/17 08:24 PM
1	Picking up at hip-hop nightclubs or EDM nightclubs? Whatever you honestly feel more comfortable going to. Do you do MDMA? probably going to have a higher success rate at EDM	/r/seduction	04/10/17 08:21 PM
3	What drinks do you have for when girls come over? It depends on your read of the girl, does she like to party? Hard liquor. Does she like to read books and eat chocolate? Wine. Does she have any country/redneck clues? Lite beer. And finally if she's a hipster, craft beers. Disclaimer: pure speculation	/r/seduction	04/10/17 08:19 PM
1	Got a number today and it feel so much better than any tinder sex I ever had Cheers bro, this makes me feel good because I am so anti-tinder after my ex used it to cheat on me. I will never use tinder to get a girl.	/r/seduction	29/09/17 07:57 PM
2	I did it reddit.. and It was completely stupid how it worked out. So your username is NOT relevant? :(	/r/seduction	28/09/17 05:54 PM
3	Um, is it weird that I kinda miss having crushes/oneitis? What changed? Are you suffering from depression? I have severe depression right now and cant talk to any girls, zero, lost interest in all my hobbies too, im here to see if reading this sub gets me interested again, so far its not working. I have a psychiatrist appt. soon so we will see if they can chemically alter my reward systems in my brain. Sounds like a similar thing going on with you?	/r/seduction	28/09/17 05:42 PM
6	Um, is it weird that I kinda miss having crushes/oneitis? I guess you havent found the right girl? Lol crushes dont go away, even if you are in a relatipnship. You probably are going after girls who are not actually your type, if you really dont give a shit about them...	/r/seduction	28/09/17 05:35 PM
3	Criminology student, 22, who falsely accused a taxi driver of raping her after he refused to accept her kebab-soaked £10 note is JAILED for 16 months I'd buy it just like i bought charles ramsey's incredibly gripping tale "dead giveaway"	/r/PussyPassDenied	19/09/17 09:32 PM
126	Criminology student, 22, who falsely accused a taxi driver of raping her after he refused to accept her kebab-soaked £10 note is JAILED for 16 months Maybe she wanted to learn the gravity of jail time first hand! Nothing beats real life expirience	/r/PussyPassDenied	19/09/17 09:20 PM
1	No more click bait vids please Its hard to be mad at someone trying to find their hustle and make money on their own, but they should take note that basically no views are going to come from this subreddit, since this sub is kinda "in the know" and they would do better marketting to people who have never fucking heard of reddit or the game.	/r/seduction	19/09/17 02:36 PM
5	Where can I meet girls that are into hip hop? Literally all they play is hip hop	/r/seduction	19/09/17 02:28 PM
9	My height makes me feel insecure The secret is listen to rap music, a lot of the stars are short as fuck, lower intelligence than you, and they pull mad pussy. You should be motivated by this fact, someone dumber than you and shorter than you is picking up more women. It means you have what it takes. Just unlock that potential	/r/seduction	19/09/17 02:28 PM
3	Just lost my virginity at 25 Because he discovered weed is better in a lot of ways and he thinks he is superior to drinkers now. Ive been there, done that, but now i just say 'you do you' and not bring attention to the fact. Its always a losing battle getting into that argument.	/r/seduction	19/09/17 02:24 PM
1	What are your go to conversation starters when going up to a girl your meeting for the first time at school? I would ask what they are passionate about in life, might not be their major, not a lot of money in poetry or whatever...its more interesting than the school related topics they have been asked a bazillion times	/r/seduction	19/09/17 02:18 PM
2	Reason for so few FR's? In the last 5 years, tinder, snapchat, instagram, et al, have become super popular. The average self esteem of the mellineal has gone down ovee this time as well. Everyone is more insecure than they were 5 years ago, everyone was more direct, not afraid to approach, and just did it. There wasnt a lot of "inner game" to do like there is today where we have social media and the internet constantly fucking with our self esteem. My guess is no one posts FRs because we are even embarassed to post on …	/r/seduction	13/09/17 08:05 PM
1	Received a letter from "Past me", aged 22 when I first got into "game". Many people are consciously aware the good feelings wont last forever, but thats not the point. The point is to expirience that extreme adrenaline rush and excitement and novelty at least once in a while throughout their lives. It sucks to imagine a life of 'average' all the time.	/r/seduction	31/08/17 02:59 PM
4	I lost all of my confidence in talking to girls. How do I regain it? You gotta act like the main character in a movie! They talk to themselves, sing to themselves, do interesting things by themselves, that is the kind of world a girl wants to jump into. You dont give a fuck about anything but the main plot line, which you get to decide, do you go after girls? A successful career? In a feel good movie, the main character wont be focusing on how much debt he is under, how shitty his last few relationships were, boring negative stuff the audience doesnt care about. …	/r/seduction	30/08/17 03:16 PM
10	Eye contact with women I pass Dont wait for eye contact bro, just approach! The girls are usually as scared or more scared of the opposite sex than you are, so many wont give eye contact out for free. You could be waiting forever! I was recently out and the only girl who gave me eye contact was this girl holding a dudes hand, for some reason she just locked these seductive eyes with me as they passed. It killed me! Why cant a single girl eye fuck me? Lesson of the day, say hi anyway.	/r/seduction	30/08/17 03:04 PM
1	Has anybody had success enticing females with poetry? Are you a poetry nerd? I wouldnt whip out poetry on a random girl unless you found her at the library reading a poetry book. Its an art form that not a large % of girls these days appreciate. Some obviously would go nuts, you just have to find the right girl, and it may only be you unlock the ability to read her poetry after forming a deeper connection such as a relationship.	/r/seduction	29/08/17 03:46 PM
1	This whole attitude of "not giving a fuck to get laid" is kind of a copout... The thing is most guys can get laid on their own, they dont need help from techniques or pick up lines, just being themselves is enough to get them a decent amount of women throughout their lives. The inner game I consider funadamentals rather than the end all be all. Once you have the fundamentals down, you can get more advanced and start tweaking everything about your style, but you need that base level of confidence and base level of mental stamina. This sub has gotten way more popular and as…	/r/seduction	29/08/17 03:33 PM
2	How would you respond if your GF made out with another girl during a game without asking if you're cool with it. Teens are notorious for making impulsive, selfish decisions without thinking of the consequences. I've even told a girl she needs to tell me right away if she ever cheats on me, its a health concern...well she still cheated and hid it from me for over a month and we had sex in between. Fuck serious relationships until everyone is grown up. Seriously.	/r/seduction	15/08/17 07:23 PM
5	Being too logical, emotionless and having unpopular opinions all the time Its totally okay to have an unpopular opinion on everything. That is YOUR CHOICE. But it is the choice of every other human to listen to one thing you say and go "...okay i need to get away from this guy". That is their choice. You want them to choose to like you? You have to be likeable. There is a lot of work that has to be done, lile everyone else says, stop caring so much. Dude. Like why do you give so many fucks? None of that shit is important in the grand scheme of things. You should just …	/r/seduction	15/08/17 07:16 PM
1	Do any of you just ditch online dating altogether? I used to pick up girls on them all the time (~3 years ago) but now it feels like pulling teeth So whats the next big thing? I was unfortunately in a relatipnship when tinder came out aaaaand now tinder sucks! Lucky me!	/r/seduction	15/08/17 03:38 PM
7	College Sex \| Gaining Experience Just say Hi to every single girl (double meaning) that you find attractive. Dont do what I did and date one person the whole time and miss out.	/r/seduction	11/08/17 06:47 PM
1	Attractive guy with no game My texting and in person game sucks. Thats...the only two kinds of game dude! Lol, just stop thinking so much. These girls clearly want you to come and talk to them. Chances are they will be nervous and awkward as fuck, all you have to do is stand there and be LESS AWKWARD. Shouldnt be hard if you are attractive and getting the looks you mention.	/r/seduction	11/08/17 04:21 PM
1	What do you women think of men who don't drink, don't do drugs, but still go out and don't have a problem with socializing in a bar/club/party scene I'll nurse one beer the entire night but thats about it. Beer makes me feel like shit after the one hour of "haha im so drunk!" feelings go away.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/17 02:29 PM
1	How would you approach a girl that you've been close friends out with for a long time? This sums up my one expirience of making a friend into a girlfriend. I literally didnt have to do anything, I started getting interested in girls at like 18 years old and she saw it. We went on vacation together and she got jealous whenever I would talk to another girl. We've been friends for like 7 years, I never thought of her in a sexual way except way back in middle school when I was an awkward fuck around everyone. Get really drunk one night and shes asking if she can kiss me! I didnt make …	/r/seduction	11/08/17 01:54 PM
1	If a girl goes out of her way to look at you... Ironically next week the sun will be aligned with the moon while I'm on vacation looking for girls to say hi to lol.	/r/seduction	11/08/17 01:36 PM
3	Developing God Tier Eye Contact \| The real reason why you can't maintain strong eye contact with a women Friends and family were influenced by their friends and other family, who were influenced by their peers and tv and friends...etc. on and on for infinity. So you could say 'society' as a catch all term.	/r/seduction	11/08/17 01:34 PM
1	Not able to internalize progress Have you tried just "Hi"? That line usually gets a response, so its not an insta-reject. From the russian spy example, it sounds like that particular girl had no idea how to respond right away, and then you dumped another line on her while she was in speechless mode, to which it was too awkward and she had to eject. Maybe talk less? Listen more, try to get the girl to talk, they love talking about themselves! KISS - keep it simple, stupid! :)	/r/seduction	09/08/17 09:27 PM
5	Not able to internalize progress This might be a different response than the rest of this sub would give you, but it seems like these issues are really weighing you down to the point where it might be stupid to focus on gaming girls. I think you should honestly start with just male friends, and hang out with friends, go do stuff with friends, and dont worry about girls for a solid 3 to 6 months. Like for real. This is an inner game problem but its above reddits pay grade. You would find it 100x easier to get laid by a girl who …	/r/seduction	09/08/17 09:16 PM
1	Not able to internalize progress I just saw the top level comment mentioned audio recording and spreadsheets as well haha.. But yeah if its rejection in the first 5 seconds it has to be something about the approach itself. Body language, pre approach eye contact, do you see these girls and wait a while or do you approach within 5 seconds of seeing them? Maybe its a higher level problem, are you even at the right location to pick up girls in the first place? Is it the right time of day? Maybe they think you are trying to sell th…	/r/seduction	09/08/17 09:05 PM
1	Not able to internalize progress Are you doing it like a scientist? You gotta control some of the variables, and adjust some, and observe the results. Is the problem observing yourself? Literally get a tape recorder and document your interactions on a spreadsheet with all the elements laid out in whatever way. Look for patterns and trends, analyze your data.	/r/seduction	09/08/17 08:51 PM
8	Eight years after finding this community, I no longer need 'seduction.' Here are the most basic things experience has taught me. I like the netflix comparison for another reason, I used to like action movies, with unrealistic explosions and shit like that, now I only watch intellectually stimulating movies with less special effects and more drama and dialogue. Girls can be the same, so if you are dating someone, she may not like your type of movie anymore, and grow out of you. Likewise a girl that wasnt interested in you last year, now wants you and only you. It changes over tine and peoples types arent static.	/r/seduction	08/08/17 09:20 PM
3	I have no urge to "game?" You can always go to the doctors and check if you are having any nutritional, hormonal, physical problems, just like you can go to a therapist for a "check up from the neck up" just to make sure your brain isnt playing tricks on you, and that is actually your personality. If you dont want to do any of that horseshit, just lift weights. It is the fastest/most efficient way to make your brain and body more healthy. But mostly brain, seriously.	/r/seduction	08/08/17 08:57 PM
3	I have no urge to "game?" Enjoy it while you can, seriously. You get a lot less free time when you are focused on girls, whether a girlfriend or socializing to eventually get girls. The fact that you dont have an itch to go after girls right now is a gift. I had that gift up until I was like 19, then I suddenly needed girls. Somehow I procrastinated myself into a bachelors degree and a good job because of the ~10 years of sacrifce self teaching myself everything I need to know to have a good career in compurers. If I did…	/r/seduction	08/08/17 05:47 PM
3	I have no urge to "game?" You clearly havent had your heart broken hard enough or have any sexual related trauma in your past. Congrats you are normal! Its not a bad thing to be closer to the center of the bell curve.	/r/seduction	08/08/17 03:53 PM
5	Can liking game and sex be an actual hobby ? I think people are more drawn to game if they have women-related trauma or sex life related trauma, but then once you actually get into game, it becomes less about the past, and more abour the present/future, allowing you to really easily grow as a person in ways you never initially set out to do. You may enjoy it like an actual "game" at this point because its less about getting your dick wet, and more about challenging yourself and competing with yourself (no one else)	/r/seduction	08/08/17 03:39 PM
1	What do you think of my ex boyfriend's strategy to meet and date younger women? Sounds like someone regrets not dating in college and is chasing the past. I'll be honest I've thought of doing it, sans the lying about my age part, jesus I'm only 25 I just left college, and my girl just left me...after dating me THROUGHOUT ALL OF COLLEGE.	/r/seduction	08/08/17 03:25 PM