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| 1 | Out-of-District Judge Fucked UsHey mate, checking back in with you today to make sure you were ok. Breath and keep a clear kind. If you panic, they’ll get you for sure. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/20 05:33 PM |
| 3 | Out-of-District Judge Fucked UsI’m not an expert in this, but yours son’s ability to voice his opinions in court may be tied to his age and not his intelligence. But again, I know little to nothing about that. Keep your head up mate. Your son will thank you for it as he continues to mature through life. Your strength and guidance that you are showing him now, through this tough time, will show him how he should act when faced with adversity. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/10/20 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Out-of-District Judge Fucked UsI can completely understand the feeling of powerlessness. I do a lot of meditation which helps somewhat. That’s great that your son wanted to see someone on his own accord. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/10/20 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Out-of-District Judge Fucked UsI am so sorry to hear about the hell you’re going through. I wish I had advice that was meaningful here to help, but I don’t. All I can say is to make sure your child has the professional support he needs during this time. Don’t settle for anything less than the best care for him. Find him a therapist and/or psychiatrist to be in his corner and help him. It may be good for you to find a social worker to speak with also. This has to be so fucking rough on both of you. Keep posting for support whe… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/10/20 02:42 PM |
| 3 | Wife's definitely going to divorce me after quarantineHey mate, hang in there. Post here as much as you need, we can help support you. Im glad to hear that you are in counseling. I think everyone should take advantage of it. I encourage you to talk all of your feelings out, even if it is just posting your thoughts. Especially during this difficult year, everybody is on edge because things are different than they used to be. Nobody can really get away from each other. From the sound of it, you did not do anything to deserve being treated this way by… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/09/20 06:46 PM |
| 3 | 1st weekend away from kids and STBXW will not return texts and turned off the kids phonesFirst, I hear you and can totally feel where you are coming from. This part sucks giraffe cock, with a side helping of bull semen. However, if you ever feel like they are in danger call the police. However, don’t do it just because your feeling are hurt or you miss them. Second, I would advise you NOT to get into it with your wife first thing when you get them back because you will blow your top and make shit harder for yourself. Call your lawyer and give them the specifics and what you want to … | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/20 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Wife planning affair? What do I do?This is a tough spot mate and I don’t envy your position. I certainly understand the anger, frustration, sense of betrayal, and confusion about uprooting your family. You will have and discomfort if you stay, and pain and discomfort if one of you leaves. First, and most importantly, your kids want to see two happy parents. However, that’s doesn’t mean the parents have to be together. Trust me when I say that it is in my everyone’s interest to not live in a house filled with bitterness, anger, an… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/20 04:19 AM |
| 4 | Best ways to support a friend going thru divorceA simple text is 100 fine. “Got time to catch up later” Or, bust his balls. “Hey big sexy. Whatcha wearing?” “I was going to call you but then I realized I hated your voice.” “Just heard that all men with small dicks will be taken out and shot. I can hide you in my basement, but I won’t lie for you when they come.” | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/03/20 08:36 PM |
| 3 | Best ways to support a friend going thru divorceMy advice, be as you always were with him. He won’t want to be handled with kid gloves. However, acknowledge what is going on in his life and remind him how much you love him and are there for him. Check in a few times a week to say hi, text is fine. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/03/20 08:30 PM |
| 5 | How do you still afford food after divorce? BC CanadaI agree, it completely sucks. However, your sanity, peace of mind, mental health will improve after a divorce from a bad marriage. The benefit will outweigh the cost of financial difficulty. Overtime, you will find a way to manage inside of the system that has been created as a result of the divorce. (Including ways to maneuver around financially while still adhering to court order) | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/20 03:26 PM |
| 4 | disgusted/angry/hurtI don’t have any magic words to make you feel better other than to say that “I’m sorry....and you’re right, it’s sucks.” I wished there was a way that the anger and frustration would just turn off like a light switch, but there isn’t. In hindsight, I would have rushed a bit more to the legal phase so someone could work out an arrangement, I’d abide to it and count down the days until it was over. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/01/20 06:51 PM |
| 10 | So I’ve been doing good but today...Not specific to just divorce, but here is a routine that I use when I have the “horrible feeling in the pit of my stomach”. Recognize that this is a feeling and it will pass. Close your eyes and take 20 breaths. When you breathe, slowly inhale until your lungs are full. Focus on the sensation of the air going through your nose and filling up your lungs. Hold your breath for a quick 3 seconds Slowly exhale through your nose. When you do, focus on the air going through your body and out. Repeat 19… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/01/20 09:10 PM |
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