pickledmonkeybrains Archive

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2	Does continual rejection increase confidence or kill it? I've asked out cute guys and gotten rejected a couple times, but I always feel good about it because they say they felt flattered, ultimately it just feels good to get it off your chest. I do try to approach them a few times with casual conversations first though so I can see if there's a good vibe. I also want to point out that this girl doesn't know you...? so I don't understand why it made you question your achievements, she doesn't know your achievements. You shouldn't let the thoughts of ot…	/r/seduction	15/04/22 04:13 PM
5	Getting rejected for height I'm a very tall woman and I agree 👍 Shorter men tend to be more understanding of how ridiculous it is to base dating off of height. Dated lots of shorter guys and they never made me feel uncomfortable wearing heels or dressing up. A lot of tall guys feel emasculated if I look taller than them. My current partner of 3 years was also shorter than me when we first started dating, maybe I'm slouching too much now? I feel like im shrinking 🤣 Anyway tall girls are a good bet and I hope you have better…	/r/seduction	15/04/22 08:29 AM
3	Getting rejected for height Hi woman Here, I definitely think short men can be really successful getting dates. I personally am very tall and have dated quite a few shorter guys, it definitely has a lot to do with confidence but also charisma. This is obviously someone quite young and they are reaching out for advice but you wanna compete with a kid online. I've dated dudes who barely reach my shoulders, We love a short king but you sir ain't one.	/r/seduction	15/04/22 08:21 AM
2	Getting rejected for height I have the feeling your pretty young, kids in school usually just try and pick at your confidence. Height doesn't actually matter much in dating from my point of view I'm like 5'10? and dated guys who were 5'6 5'7 maybe shorter? One was like shoulder height 🤷 Even my current partner of 3 years was shorter than me when I first started dating him. I like to wear heels even though I'm tall, I end up being well over 6' In highschool and middle school a lot of people told me I was too tall and men wo…	/r/seduction	15/04/22 08:10 AM
1	This is the last post on Female Attraction you'll ever need Your very delusional, and you work so hard to spin the story in your favor. My argument is not that I'm different. 99% of women are unique individuals with personality, some of them are negative some are positive. You asked me a question about myself, I answered about myself and somehow you thought I was lumping the whole of the female population in with my answer When I corrected you that I'm not claiming all women make the same choices I do, then you spin it and say I believe I'm special You t…	/r/seduction	09/06/20 11:28 PM
0	This is the last post on Female Attraction you'll ever need 🤦‍♀️ you asked me about myself so I answered about myself. I mentioned my own situation to let others know they can find happiness and sexual attraction without money Also What I say is clearly what I do seeing as I've already accomplished caretaking, so clearly I'm able to do it again. Your not offering advice your throwing shit, and you still have nothing to show for it. This is your hobbie and its trash which makes me really sad for you. I simply stated not all women are sheep and they can li…	/r/seduction	09/06/20 07:25 PM
1	This is the last post on Female Attraction you'll ever need Fine don't listen to people who are women and therefore able to apply their knowledge on what the women around them want/what they want. Continue to listen to men who are unsuccessful in attracting women but claim to know the best way to go about it. You are still single and the only things you follow on here are seduction blogs. Clearly something's not working for you. I'm pretty sure you don't know shit about catching fish and the fact that you used it as an analogy to describe women is pretty…	/r/seduction	09/06/20 06:45 PM
1	This is the last post on Female Attraction you'll ever need I'm bisexual and in my twenties, figure it out buddy. Perhaps I know a little something about what women want. also Your not a very good fisherman if your not catching fish. I have dyslexia so good on you, im aware my spelling is bad but my points are still valid and it doesn't make me any less informed on the topic. I genuinely commented on this for those who might fall on the wrong path and start viewing women negatively or sacrifice the potential to actually form happy relationships. The subr…	/r/seduction	09/06/20 06:08 PM
0	This is the last post on Female Attraction you'll ever need Yet your still a lonely old guy ragging on the internet, I'd stay with my boyfriend if he was quadriplegic. Because unlike your 2d view of women I actually have life experience and emotions that I developed through hardships. I grew up taking care of my autistic brother and babysitting children with special needs, your the shallow one for assuming someone with such a disability would be unlovable. If my boyfriend was quadriplegic I pray to God that he wouldn't have a mindset like yours leading h…	/r/seduction	09/06/20 05:33 PM
-2	This is the last post on Female Attraction you'll ever need People who are insecure with themselves like to put the blame on others, if your unhappy with yourself then change.	/r/seduction	09/06/20 04:26 PM
-2	This is the last post on Female Attraction you'll ever need Dude your hilarious, im pretty decent looking and my boyfriend is also hot, we both do fitness and weight training together, BUT I was attracted to him before he got fit, before he had money, and before he got into this subreddit. We are both employed with individual hobbies that allow us to grow healthy together rather than replacing our personalities with vapid bullshit for validation My boyfriend used to be really skinny and cute, now he's beefy and beautiful but id still love him regardless,…	/r/seduction	09/06/20 03:55 PM
6	This is the last post on Female Attraction you'll ever need This subreddit actually makes me feel so worried for young men, my bf took a lot of advice from here and it really fucked with him. I dont think he realizes it yet but it truly creates an unhealthy and unhappy boundary between men and women. The best times in our relationship are when he stops analyzing each of our behaviors, to actually just be present and enjoy our time together. The amount of times my bf makes it out as me being 'different from other girls' is pretty worrying, he thinks this …	/r/seduction	09/06/20 12:26 PM
7	The most important thing when texting a girl is you should utilize the phone as a tool to set a date not texting back and forth. If you text a girl back and fourth it kills the mystery and it kills the fun of getting to know each other in person. I actually hate when guys do this, it makes you feel as though your not maintaining their interests or that they only want to meet up in person. It makes it feel as though they see you as physically attractive but could care less about personality. Anytime a guy has asked me on a date without getting to know me first they have been rejected. Why would I want to sit across from a stranger who could be a potential creep? Feels kinda dangerous to me. Also dont go to the other extreme, if you text m…	/r/seduction	11/03/20 01:10 PM
1	So looks don’t matter, but why doesn’t it? Haha thank you! Sorry for the super late reply, I do get frustrated on here sometimes so I go a few months AFK. I guess the reason i respond to questions regardless of what the reply might be is that I genuinely need help too sometimes. I'm very socially inept in some regards, I do well when it comes to talking and making jokes but there are moments where I become confused with the way someone's interacting with me. I have a learning disability so I dont read sarcasm well and need clarification …	/r/seduction	08/03/20 11:31 PM
1	So looks don’t matter, but why doesn’t it? I think your response was what led you to the best result. if the girl was looking to hook up she would most likely have been sending a lot of pictures and asking questions/chatting about looks and things of a sexual nature. The fact that she enjoyed the conversation and continued on with it makes me believe she also was just looking to see where things go and potentially develop a relationship. I believe if you had just asked to hook up she probably would have declined. (Speaking from my experi…	/r/seduction	01/01/20 03:24 AM
1	So looks don’t matter, but why doesn’t it? Why do you wanna ask for my opinion if your gonna fight me on it 🤨 The girls who do that aren't looking for a relationship. I've legit dated some truly unattractive people in my time inside and out. So I try to pick very carefully now I asked out a few hot guys and they immediately want physical attention/wanna sneak behind their girlfriends backs, no thanks 😤 If you find a guy with looks AND personality then your set, but in most cases you go for the personality because that's what's going to m…	/r/seduction	31/12/19 01:26 PM
1	So looks don’t matter, but why doesn’t it? Wait so they both have good personalities?? Cuz the way the post made it seem like the attractive guy was bland? I mean I'm still gonna pick the one with the best personality 🤷‍♂️ I dont do hookups so whoever wants to be a solid respectful man has the better shot. (Also unattractive to me is someone who isn't clean and puts not effort into looking nice) I've dated guys short,tall,skinny,fat... I've dated some pretty cute girls but if the personality isn't there it's not worth the time.	/r/seduction	29/12/19 07:57 PM
1	So looks don’t matter, but why doesn’t it? If hes going to the club your most likely not there to talk much, also sense of humor depends on the group of ppl he may not be talking to the right crowd. Are both friends going out with the same goal in mind?? (To flirt and fuck?) If not it could also explain that one is having more luck with physical 'activity' 😏 It depends on the situation and who's involved. I usually go for someone nice who can make me laugh but I do have visual preferences as well, if the good looking guy clashes with my …	/r/seduction	29/12/19 05:44 PM