pickledwatermelon1 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Why aren’t men who abandon their families charged with child neglect? What logic exactly? I explained what I went through as a mother. I didn't really give much logic. It sucked. I had good and bad times. I'm still learning. And right now I am happy being single and experiencing the good in life. I don't sit here and sulk about what guys have done or what I went through. I have found that focusing on myself and what's I did is far more important than what relationships and my father did. Forgiveness, (domt mean to sound all sappy) but forgiving and moving forward …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/18 05:48 PM
6	Why aren’t men who abandon their families charged with child neglect? Thought this was a neutral community?Not one where a bunch of dick heads go to put down women who have had bad experiences? Maybe it bothers people that I actually learned and decided to grow from past experiences? I never said all men are shitty. I've been with some shitty ones. Go debate the dude who thinks all single mothers are shit because his mother is one and she chose a bad guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/18 05:10 PM
5	Why aren’t men who abandon their families charged with child neglect? You understand someone who hates because he feels sorry for himself?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/18 04:52 PM
4	Why aren’t men who abandon their families charged with child neglect? He dosnt sound much better or like he overcame the statistic. Based on stats, most children don't do well in a single home environment. This would be the same for a mother that left also. Does that mean that a child is doomed? Nope. I grew up with my parents married and my father was still an asshole. Assholes are everywhere. It's how a person deals, copes and learns from it. Accept the shitty people and become a better person. His logic is a bit flawed. It's the woman that suck because the men …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/18 04:30 PM
7	Why aren’t men who abandon their families charged with child neglect? You hate single mothers because of your own mother. I am not your mother. I said I teach my son about learning, not that "I don't need no man" (implying that I'm a black mother with no education). I didn't say I was going to be a single mother for the rest of my life. Your making assumptions because I overcame relationships that sucked. I know a lot of people that are married and have very unhealthy relationships. That stay and teach their children horrible things. My parents were married and I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/18 02:05 PM
6	Why aren’t men who abandon their families charged with child neglect? Lack of love from my own father as a child (my parents were married). This created low self esteem and a little girl who just wanted attention from anyone, even unhealthy guys. I felt that's all I deserved. It's taken me 29 years to figure it out though and overcome this. Knowing and educating yourself isn't enough. I knew this issues at 17. What it takes to recognizing your morals and values and what men don't align with them. If you put your values on the back burner to be with some deadbeat, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/18 01:34 PM
9	Why aren’t men who abandon their families charged with child neglect? Definitely not the best way to speak to someone when you want to get your opinion across. Everyone makes mistakes, life is hard. You are entitled to your opinion but I won't be taking criticism from someone who labels me as a bad mom from the little they have read. Also, that was your mother's choice for leaving and you sound bitter because of it. Maybe she was doing what she thought was best for both of you. I kicked my sons father out because he was an alcoholic. Then I never heard from him ag…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/18 01:18 PM
8	Why aren’t men who abandon their families charged with child neglect? It's much easier without an unhealthy man around, yes. And the ones that leave are usually selfish and immature. I've been in unhealthy relationships and it impacts how I raised my child. It dosnt seem fair that they can just leave, yet life is not fair. Force someone to take accountability and be apart in the child's life and the child will probably suffer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/18 04:11 AM
13	Why aren’t men who abandon their families charged with child neglect? Raising a child alone can be miserable and it impacts the child more than anything. They grow up in a home where the mother is doing everything and it's very hard to live on one income in today's world. Then the single mother has to figure everything out while creating a safe and happy environment for the child. But if the mother is determined, motivated, has values then she might overcome it all. Maybe she has some horribly weak moments, but in the end it's much easier without the man around. A…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/18 04:02 AM
7	Why aren’t men who abandon their families charged with child neglect? So because the woman has chosen unwisely the men should not be charged with neglect for leaving? Some men are great manipulators	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/18 03:55 AM