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| 104 | WOC, what modified/additional rules do you have to avoid men with race/culture fetishes?-mention my skin tone out of context. (In context would be maybe something like talking about skin color and make up or if I’ve been outside and got a noticeable tan) - using the words spicy or fiery to describe someone - Even worse, the word Exotic - asking about or assuming I know how to Mexican food. I don’t like to cook at all, much less trying to figure out how to cook Mexican food because my family never taught me. There’s a few others, but that’s what comes to my mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 07:33 AM |
| 1 | workplace dynamicsI usually tell the guys to suck my dick. And if they act weird about it I double down and tell them is bigger than theirs. They usually get weirded out and stop directing their jokes at me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Mainstream "women's empowerment" is a lie.Pole dancing is growing in popularity because the pole community has grown due to social media and competition becoming more accessible. I’ve never “role played being a sex object” in any pole class and there is rarely any male gaze any of us are trying to cater too. It’s a lot of grunting, trying not to fall, getting super gross from the combination of chalk and sweat, and rubbing your skin raw in certain moves. My classes are super supportive and we build each other up and encourage each other… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 07:26 AM |
| 2 | Mainstream "women's empowerment" is a lie.I actually like the dance aspect of pole. I love making shapes with my body and experiencing both grace and power at the same time. It’s a creative outlet for me being able to express myself through movement and a challenge connecting all the moves just right so I have a beautiful piece of choreography. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 07:15 AM |
| 2 | Mainstream "women's empowerment" is a lie.I feel like that’s mostly true for beginners classes to draw people in with the “sexy side” of pole dancing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 07:11 AM |
| 4 | Mainstream "women's empowerment" is a lie.Pole fitness has actually been super empowering for me. I’ve learned to love my body for all the cool tricks I can do and I’ve learned how to be pretty and beautiful for myself. I’ve made a lot of really good friends through pole dancing that dragged me out of my pick-me stage and taught me how to be a better woman. It’s an environment with mostly women and the guys that do join class are very quickly humbled. I’m a stronger and more confident person for having done pole fitness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 07:08 AM |
| 19 | For the Military guys, marriage and kids means a bigger paycheck for them. It's not always about love.Any service member, regardless of gender receives a housing stipend to live away from the barracks when they are married or get promoted to a certain rank. There is also extra separation pay if you have to be away from your family and extra money for dependents. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/21 12:13 AM |
| 16 | The Every Single Gen-Z & Millenial Man Starter PackHow is a pre-nup bad tho? I’m for sure going to get one if I ever marry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 09:04 PM |
| 59 | The hypocrisy regarding WAPShe speaks two languages and she’s a self- made millionaire. She may be uneducated, but she’s not stupid. I may not agree with what she does, but I can’t say that she is stupid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 04:14 PM |
| 21 | The hypocrisy regarding WAPHave you seen the interview where they ask him about his opinion on WAP? He’s so hypocritical talking about “women need to keep that sacred part of themselves out of public view” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 04:04 PM |
| 56 | If he wanted to, he would.I mean, if it’s brunch it’s not too bad. Brunches are basically an excuse to day drink so it seems pretty standard to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 09:16 PM |
| 48 | Chinese dad makes beautiful dresses for daughter; the dad is adorable, the daughter is adorable, and the dresses are adorable! From the South China Morning Post YouTube channelLol. I was thinking the same thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 11:32 PM |
| 4 | Scrote tries to prove men are smarter than women, failsI will say, some of their earlier stuff is very “edge-lord, let’s say offensive things to be funny”, but they both have grow so much and I’m all about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 02:40 AM |
| 3 | How are any of you Christian ladies holding onto your faith?If it’s causing you so much stress, why are you so concerning with keeping your faith? Not trying to push you towards any one answer, but I think it’s worst reflecting on the question. Do you want to keep your faith because you had a genuine love for God? Or are you just afraid of hell? Or because that’s how you were raised? I think if you ask yourself about why you keep the faith, you could start figuring out how to solve your problem. It might be a going to a new church, reading some more theo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 02:22 AM |
| 10 | Scrote tries to prove men are smarter than women, failsI love Hannah so much. She and her business partner, Jake have the BEST chemistry and their reviews are hilarious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 01:57 AM |
| 2 | Never take a man at face valueIt’s fine to not like diamonds. Personally, I perfer opals or rubies. My dream ring ring would actually be a bit of fossilized amber. But to write off rings entirely is super suss. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 07:31 AM |
| 5 | Y'all hear that...??Everyone tells me my expectations are too high. I want him to be physically active (gym 3x a week minimum), have at least a bachelors degree (or be close to finishing), have a good job AND know how to budget and invest, have his own CLEAN place, be hygienic, eat healthily, have goals and hobbies, and be attractive. But you know what? I have all those things and more. So I don’t know why guys can’t meet the standards when I’ve already surpassed them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 07:16 AM |
| 123 | Ladies, how are you treating yourself this Valentine's day?Studying for my statistics test. Im at a 3.6 GPA and I’m determined to get it up to at least 3.75 by the end of this semester. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 08:28 AM |
| 114 | So-called "petty" deal breakersAs my grandma used to say, “if their teeth are that dirty and they can see them in a mirror, imagine how how dirty their ass is.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Trauma will keep you in a loop of your pastIn my case, it was because I’d never received healthy love that doesn’t come with terms and conditions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Trauma will keep you in a loop of your pastYes!! This shit is generational. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 02:54 AM |
| 2 | A man who doesn’t assault women should not be put on a pedestal. We don’t glorify treating women with the bare minimum of respect. This video shows a great level of self-awareness.I saw him perform this show live and let me tell you, I WAS NOT READY for the feels trip he took me on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 10:31 PM |
| 42 | What's the most misleading thing a man has said to you before he told you he wasn't interested?I sent him a picture of a puppy and then he talked about how great it would be to adopt a puppy together and even said “think about how much better our lives would be with a puppy 🥺” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 05:39 PM |
| 5 | R/LadyBoners has NO taste 🤢 what’s with the crusty old white men??I feel like on Reddit, it’s more about what women think is attainable and less about what’s the most physically attractive. I could be wrong, but that’s how I interpret it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 06:44 PM |
| 18 | Ugh I’m sick of dumb OLD profiles of broke menBisexual =/= rampant unprotected sex. If you have a problem with him being a man whore, just say that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 03:00 PM |
| 6 | I got an A in my graduate level accounting class so I decided to reward myself. Ft. my cat.Puns are life! I just wish I had caught the typo before I placed the order lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 06:26 AM |
| 1 | I got an A in my graduate level accounting class so I decided to reward myself. Ft. my cat.You got this! I believe in you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 06:24 AM |
| 2 | I got an A in my graduate level accounting class so I decided to reward myself. Ft. my cat.I don’t know how you do it! I’m only taking this because it’s required. I don’t know how I’d survive an account job. Hats off to you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 06:23 AM |
| 10 | I got an A in my graduate level accounting class so I decided to reward myself. Ft. my cat.She definitely thinks they were for her! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 01:40 AM |
| 21 | I got an A in my graduate level accounting class so I decided to reward myself. Ft. my cat.She’s a little demon most of the time, but when she calms down she’s so sweet and cuddly!! She’s still technically a kitten so I’m hoping she calms down a bit when she grows up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 10:54 PM |
| 4 | NSFW Girl being followed home at night and stalker tries to break inPretty sure it’s fake, but a good reminder that I need to buy some more pepper spray since I lost my old one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 05:28 AM |
| 15 | He says it’s a sign of disrespect towards him to not have lost the baby weight already- after giving birth to their 7th child. The audacity!Yes! I’m all for loving yourself but there the reality is that being overweight is not healthy! It doesn’t matter what you look like, but health is important. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 04:42 AM |
| 13 | He says it’s a sign of disrespect towards him to not have lost the baby weight already- after giving birth to their 7th child. The audacity!At 5ft 9in, 145 is about middle of the road, maybe a little bit on the thinner side. But not too skinny or at all unhealthy. While I agree with your sentiment, I think statements like “too thin” can veer into skinny shaming. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 04:40 AM |
| 3 | Words to live byThat’s what I said!! But then I couldn’t find any information on her PhD, what she specializes in, etc. Does any one have any sources? I’d love to learn more about her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 02:36 AM |
| 12 | Whoa... 🤯Yep. Between my mother being a huge pick me and her saying theses kinds of things, it’s no wonder I put up with so much shut from guys for so long. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 07:56 PM |
| 6 | Vogue promoting FWB and age gap relationships to a probably 90% female audience - yikes.Yeah, FWB benefits are sustainable. The longest relationships I’ve had so far were FWB. But that doesn’t make them valuable, or good for me. It’s like McDonald’s fries. They’ll last forever, but do you really to live off that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 07:34 PM |
| 6 | Regardless of how you feel about WAP, her outlook is awesomeI think what she does is for her and her own empowerment. Listen to her Suga and Tina Snow albums and I think it gives a better picture of her work. Very much an attitude of “I got mine and I really don’t care if you got yours” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 07:38 PM |
| 54 | Probably one of the most thoughtless gifts to be given, and absolutely rampant around the holiday season. No thank you! ✋Good for office parties or extra gifts for people that show up unexpectedly. Not for people you care about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 11:05 PM |
| 15 | Say it louder for the back, sis 👏I’m Latina and this was way too real for me as well :| | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 09:19 PM |
| 12 | A man "tried" making a birthday cake for his girlfriend. Pickmeishas in the notes going crazy over the "effort". 🙁Personally, I’m obsessed with dinosaurs. I have tons of books, figurines, and even a few tattoos that are dinosaur themed. So something dinosaur themed would be romantic for me. I actually really love the IDEA behind this cake even if I hate the end result. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 01:35 AM |
| 3 | I love when men say “you look like you don’t take yourself too seriously” /sHe’s prolly the type of guy who has no control over his own life so he makes up for it by trying to control his partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 07:10 AM |
| 7 | Warning from a woman in the military.While it’s horrible that it happens, rate of sexual assault in the military is around the same as the rate of sexual assault on college campuses (both around 25%). The common denominator seems to be age- 18-24 year old women are at the highest risk. (Source: https://www.rainn.org/statistics/campus-sexual-violence) The 18-24 year range happens to be the age of a lot of service members. I’m not saying joining the military isn’t a risk, but for some women it does work out. I was able to pay for my … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 01:56 AM |
| 5 | Warning from a woman in the military.Same. I’ve been harassed and assaulted more in the civilian world than I ever have been in the army. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 08:07 AM |
| 8 | “Don’t wank with your right and point with your left.” A word.Of course not! Pole dancing is my life and I’d never let anyone take it from me. My mom also hated it- she talked about how great a mom she was since she “let” me pole dance. Even tho I was 18 when I started and always paid my own studio fees 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 05:04 AM |
| 9 | “Don’t wank with your right and point with your left.” A word.It’s all good. I don’t talk to him anymore (for other reasons) so I get to live a life free of his bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 05:02 AM |
| 23 | Rant on movie [Think like a man]Isn’t this that movie that was made by confirmed misogynist Steve Harvey? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 12:46 AM |
| 90 | “Don’t wank with your right and point with your left.” A word.So I see you’ve met my dad. He used to always push me into exercising- taking me to the gym with him, going on runs, signing me up for sports. While I didn’t hate it, it was never really my thing. But then I got into pole fitness and I loved it. I would spend every day at the studio and started lifting to cross train. I was super excited and I thought my dad who was all about fitness would be impressed with how strong I was getting. I was showing him a video of me nailing a new move and he said,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 09:17 PM |
| 32 | Women asks if she should kick her 21 yr old daughter out because her 52 yr old husband cant cOnTroL hImSeLf🤢🤢🤢I wonder where the daughter learned to date such toxic people.... For reals tho- this is why it’s so important to have high standards for your partner. Not only for yourself, but to model healthy dynamics for your children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 05:22 AM |
| 7 | Ariana Grande’s New Song “positions” 😬I love Snow!!! I first heard about her on the Hamilton Mixtape. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Ariana Grande’s New Song “positions” 😬Angel Haze has some really good stuff. I think in all the songs I’ve listened too only one has been about a man. She has a lot of stuff about overcoming trauma being being true to one’s self. I really like her album Dirty Gold. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 12:30 AM |
| 13 | Ariana Grande’s New Song “positions” 😬You gotta listen to what they aren’t putting out on the radio. I recommend Young MA, Snow tha Product, Angel Haze, and Princess Nokia. All great female rappers!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 12:22 AM |
| 15 | Why do LVM get so mad when they see a woman being loved properly?I’m not a fan of how she felt the need to put down other women for posting bikini pics and then turned around and did the exact same thing. I think their relationship is cute, but she doesn’t needs to shame other women to feel better about herself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 06:47 AM |
| 16 | It’s the colorism, misogyny, ageism,and blatant disrespect for me. Black men are taking a full on L for this one.Ah yes, the Ancient Greeks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 06:27 AM |
| 33 | This. I felt this was since i was 13 and got exposed to hardcore porn. People told me that i will change my mind when i grow up. But now i'm 21 and still feel this way, even worse now after my encounters with men and all the misogynyAnother bisexual here. It’s not about dominance at all for me, but rather I like to focus on my partners pleasure- hear them moan, feel them tense up or squirm, watch how their hands move. Yeah I can give pleasure with penetrative sex when I’m with a guy, but I can’t really focus on it like I like to | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 04:43 PM |
| 13 | It’s a trapIdk. My back pain iterates me in the morning sometimes, but I would very much like to keep my back. My cat however..... sometimes when she wakes me up to demands cuddles at 5 am, I very much consider throwing back the dumpster she was found in lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 10:06 PM |
| 8 | Ladies, let’s talk about money! Whether you're single, dating, or married, all women need to be financially literate. Here are my tips to help protect yourself and to increase your financial security at all stages of your life.No, but a lot of times spouses will make financial decisions together that can affect both people credit scores. Like let’s say y’all get a joint credit card and they have a good payment history on that card. Their good payment history will positively affect your score. But let’s say your spouse misses a payment- since it’s a joint a account, the late payment goes on your credit score as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 01:51 AM |
| 9 | Please RUN when a guy says he has mostly female friends. He doesn't have mostly female friends. He has mostly PICKMEISHA friends!!Yes and no. My work bestie is a guy who happens to have a female friends because every doesn’t like dealing with fragile masculinity and all the dick measuring contests that come with it. We’re military so it happens a lot. Outside of work he hangs out with a lot of women from his church. I will admit we use the word “female” quite a bit, but that’s kinda a result of being in the military. Technically it should be “female soldier” but it get shortened to female more often than not. I do think th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 06:45 AM |
| 40 | Good men hold other men accountable. End of story.Daniel Sloss. He has two stand up specials on Netflix, and this special is on HBO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 09:58 PM |
| 55 | Good men hold other men accountable. End of story.Well I went to see him as a birthday gift to myself with my best friend so after a good amount of day drinking, I was not exactly ready for how deep it went 😅 Edit: His friend who opened for him was great too who talked about how much he loved his wife and the only reason he didn’t take her last name is because it sounded horrible with his first name. (Think James James) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 05:43 PM |
| 149 | Good men hold other men accountable. End of story.I saw him do this routine live and I was SHOOK. I know his comedy is deep, but god damn I was not expecting it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 05:37 PM |
| 3 | What is the worst suggestion for a date you have ever had?Haha. There’s no beach anywhere by me, but some thing to take a break from studying or to just get out of the house in the middle of the day is nice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 11:27 PM |
| 14 | What in the PiCk Me I’M a CoOL GirL Hell is this????!!!I think you’re more likely to find a HVM at the gym. I can’t stand a guy who won’t to the bare minimum 3-5 hours a week to work on fitness. It’s so good for mental and physical health. I’ve dated guys who don’t work out and it is such a pain. The constant fights over why I’m not spending every second of my free time with him, the accusations of eating disorders, the insinuations that I’m insecure in my body.... Not every guy at the gym will be HVM, but everyone who avoids working out is LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 08:04 PM |
| 17 | What is the worst suggestion for a date you have ever had?The Whole Foods by my place has a little dinning area where they serve beer and wine. It would be a good lunch date if I’ve already been seeing the guy. That’s a whole lot different tho from the guy who wanted to meet up at Walmart | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 07:49 PM |
| 14 | “Isn’t a date all about communication” —> proceeds to take you to a field 🤡communication is important has terrible written communication skills Ok, buddy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 07:47 PM |
| 6 | Anyone else not finding a home first date with Mac and cheese fish crackers that cute or HV?Fair enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 05:48 AM |
| 8 | Anyone else not finding a home first date with Mac and cheese fish crackers that cute or HV?Mac and cheese can be a full dish if you add a protein to it and maybe add a side of veggies. I like adding Italian sausage or hamburger meat, but I’ve seem people add things like lobster or other sea food. If it’s from scratch and he’s trying something new with the goldfish- sure, why not. If it’s box Mac n cheese- fuuuuuuuuck no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 05:41 AM |
| -2 | Women are opening their eyes to the lies of libfem culture!I love my terrible pop songs. I don’t think most of them are liberating, but they’re fun and they have good beat to dance to. If guys can like their terribly written action movies, then I’m allowed to enjoy my terribly written songs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 02:24 AM |
| 2 | An LVM date wet dreamIndeed I did! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Couples on YouTube/ in the media who are actually good couples?Jamie and Shaaba are sooo cute. They’re super cute together and he has nothing but great things to say about her. I believe they’re both PhD students and they both support each other’s work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 01:21 AM |
| 9 | An LVM date wet dreamMy dream date is going to see a ballet or an opera and a cocktail bar afterwards to talk about the show and what we liked/ found interesting. But I guess sitting at home is fine too... Edit: /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 12:40 AM |
| 7 | Tattoos/symbols that remind you to be true to yourself first?I have a little stegosaurus that covers up a self harm scar. The actual tattoo doesn’t matter all that much (even tho I love my little dinosaur) but it’s the symbolism of moving on from that dark place I was in. It’s reminding myself that there are good things (stegosaurus) that might not erase the bad (the scar) but can help make it a little better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 06:23 AM |
| 20 | Why do men generalise women based on nationality?Latina here. Not offended, just sorry you had to deal with the same expectations of being a “spicy” stereotype. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 04:20 AM |
| 1 | I know my comment is about to rain down hate upon me (fb screenshot).What’s the context? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 06:48 PM |
| 2 | If you are a woman, DO NOT join the military! They don’t give a fuck about you, and the men there pray on women and get away with it.I’m army lower enlisted and I have a similar experience. I haven’t experienced any more sexism or harassment in the military than in my civilian life. The education benefits are amazing and work experience I’ve gained is unparalleled. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 02:43 PM |
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