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The facts have been laid out and that is great. So what will you do about it? I agree that men don't have the same support system in this world as women, it's painfully obvious. What is also painfully obvious is that men run the medical world from the top down which means men aren't creating space for men to have their needs addressed. What are you going to do to change this? You're so passionate about this. I have seen your posts before and you care a lot but how are you going to take all that …
/r/MenSupportMen01/03/22 07:50 PM
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I won't try to convince you otherwise because not only do I see that in the world, but more importantly that is your experience. You are right that you are experiencing lack of support. It breaks my heart every time I hear a man talk about how he just won't get the support he needs even when he asks for it. Usually this leads toward anxiety, depression, alienation, and potentially suicide. Our work, yes ALL men, is in directly asking for support when we need it knowing full well that someone may…
/r/MenSupportMen29/11/21 02:17 PM
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Of course man. You're not alone and you don't have to do this alone! I still have my moments of real sadness and doubt that anything has changed because I just want to explode at someone.. so I grab a pillow and I scream into it 10 times saying "Fuck you!". If I'm still angry I beat the shit out of my pillow and bed for 5 minutes straight with my fists. If I'm still just as angry I do 50 push ups. Still angry I do 50 jumping jacks. Still angry, I go for a run. Create a safe environment to be mad…
/r/MenSupportMen23/11/21 10:33 PM
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I really hear you brother. That is a lot of what I go through when I feel angry.I feel like people don't respect me, like I'm unimportant, like I'm disposable or replaceable... and I realize that that is my own shit now to deal with. They are not actively trying to disrespect me, but my mind and body are wired in a way that those moments FEEL disrespectful. I was nurtured to feel that when my coworkers are late for my meetings that they don't respect me, because my dad always told me it was disr…
/r/MenSupportMen23/11/21 08:03 PM
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OOOOF brother. This hits HARD. One thing I'll caution you about is this idea that she has to tell you she's willing to change for you to actually change. She is looking for a leader, someone who isn't going to wait on anyone or anything else in the world to give him permission to become the greatest version of himself. What I hear is: "If you just tell me you're willing to change, I'll go to anger management" (or whatever support group you need to begin working with your emotions in a healthy wa…
/r/MenSupportMen23/11/21 03:51 PM
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Perfectly common problem to experience as a man my brother. I know you're not a monster, no one taught you how to experience anger and frustration in a healthy way so over time it has become non-existent or explosive. Are you surprised she doesn't reach out after you yell at her? I certainly wouldn't feel safe to talk about tough topics if I believed I was going to be yelled at. I say that not as a knock on you, just as something to reflect back to you. Truthfully it sounds like you're coming to…
/r/MenSupportMen22/11/21 11:37 PM
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Hey brother, I'm really sorry you went through all of that. You are right, no kid deserves to get abused. No one does. There are a few things that I've seen work for men in the circles I sit in. They include shadow work, somatic therapy, and sometimes simply just being fucking angry or sad and shouting or crying. Their ability to move beyond their childhood abuses is the result of a many small consistent steps. If you'd like help, reach out brother. I got your back.
/r/MenSupportMen19/10/21 03:26 PM
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There's a lot at play here and the only thing I can say is own your half of what happened. If you like her and want a relationship be clear about it. "I like you and want to be in relationship with you" is enough. No explaining necessary. She will feel that directness and respond to you directly because of it. "I like you and want to make this work" is vague, which means she felt she could be vague with you. Women The Feminine energy plays inside of whatever boundaries it is granted. Sure up you…
/r/MenSupportMen16/09/21 04:17 PM
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OP, I'm so sorry to hear you are in such pain. I tried to take my life when I was 22 years old and thank god every day it didn't work out. I didn't know how to get out of my situation which was one of psychological bullying while in college. I felt isolated and hated and like I could never be apart of anything without my bullies attempting to ruin it for me. I feel for you. We all deserve happiness and being stripped of our humanity is so defeating. I feel that hollow place in my chest right now…
/r/MenSupportMen27/08/21 04:27 PM
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Thank you for your work, your service, your guidance, and your leadership in this world. Traver is a beast of a man and if you are leading groups in his program I would love to know you brother.
/r/MenSupportMen05/08/21 07:58 PM
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If by building up positive masculinity you are referring to what exercises or practices I would recommend, rather than what I believe positive masculinity to be at its core, I would say: - Work on your relationships with men in your life. The most important way to test masculinity is to pit it against another masculine figure. Competition is healthy for us as men, it's a massive driving force when we learn to be competitive with ourselves and draw inspiration from other men on how to do that. Ta…
/r/MenSupportMen05/08/21 05:04 AM
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this might be the most amazing thing i've ever seen. got a great laugh out of this. props to that dude.
/r/seduction27/12/16 05:59 PM
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existing social circle isn't exactly high calibre. so i'm basically in this on my own. Maybe i'm thinking of this in too traditional of a way though. Maybe it really is just supposed to be me, going to high calibre places, putting myself out there, and just getting the damn thing done rather than waiting around for a friend to introduce me to someone and I slowly climb some sort of social ladder. Everything I see on this sub and in youtube videos feels so different than how I see things in real …
/r/seduction26/12/16 04:17 PM
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That makes sense. But I guess what I was trying to say is that I'm middle class but there are upper class people I want to meet and also I want to become that too. But there is a significant barrier to me meeting those people right now and that's the money and maybe places I hang out vs places they hang out
/r/seduction26/12/16 03:48 PM
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yikes man. thats.. harsh
/r/seduction19/12/16 07:52 PM
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Introverted for sure. I lean more towards that side but have no problem steering a conversation for hours on end either. So i'm somewhere in the middle of the spectrum I guess and haven't been with someone as introverted as she is before. Or maybe its just that I haven't interacted with a new introvert in a long time. Thoughts on how to build that true connection and still play that seductive game?
/r/seduction19/12/16 07:52 PM
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you're not the first person to do this in this thread! I definitely could have worded this different.
/r/seduction14/12/16 05:00 AM
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yea. take it at face value. and if she is cute... STAY AROUND HER! She probably has cute friends and will start to validate you to other women. Don't lose that leg up.
/r/seduction13/12/16 02:34 AM
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Ya. That relationship is as dead as it can get for sure. And who doesn't love free boba? You'd be crazy to not take it.
/r/seduction12/12/16 04:13 AM
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no easy way to express that in less than 10 words. or its sunday and i'm lazy.
/r/seduction11/12/16 10:57 PM
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yea as with anything in life we just take as much into account for the situation and make the best decision we can. so anytime someone sleeps with a friends ex or however you want to phrase it, its just its own special case. no 'rules' can really apply. just general guidelines and thats about it.
/r/seduction11/12/16 10:16 PM
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touché. isn't girl code a little less.. strict though? women seem to do anything and everything they want, regardless of the women around them. men seem to do that less often. i could just be justifying my choice to want to get with her though.
/r/seduction11/12/16 09:43 PM
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Hahaha. I was wondering what your comment was all about. Yea. That'd be fairly messed up.
/r/seduction11/12/16 07:51 PM
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its my exes friend. definitely something i have to get in. tiny asian women are my thing. :p so... when she gives you a line like 'well i'm talking about people i date' basically trying to friendzone me, i cut her off for now but we're supposed to hang out tonight. do i just need to sort of get in state and not let myself be seen as a friend?
/r/seduction11/12/16 06:06 PM
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Can you elaborate on "call her out without passing judgement". I've always felt calling people out is inherently judgmental and negative. Not that we shouldn't do it, but how do you go about being so subtle yet confident about it all at the same time?
/r/seduction09/12/16 05:34 PM
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Yes. Alcohol is one hell of a drug. It can make for the best and the worst nights. But it seems like you know what you did wrong and can change. Another small piece of advice, don't let this consume you. Keep working on all aspects of your life and the opportunities to practice will just start to happen. It's important to be the best, fullest version of you.
/r/seduction03/12/16 09:42 PM
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Its your first kiss. Don't stress so much. Honestly, every person has their own sort of 'style' when it comes to making out. Some girls are use a TON of tongue and some girls thing tongue is disgusting. Some girls seem to peck because they have tiny lips and some girls have big lips and don't do that. Just go easy on yourself man. You have a long road ahead of you. You might as well enjoy it. You have 2 or 3 options in my eyes. 1) Youtube or movies. Watch and learn. This is probably the least fu…
/r/seduction03/12/16 06:07 PM
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Its really okay to be angry. Emotions are a real thing. But letting them get the best of you and turn you into someone that hurts others for your own gain is dangerous. I hope you're feeling better today. Also, something that many of the PUAs talk about and encourage and something I've used to curb my emotions since I was about 18 (7 years now) is meditation. If you have just 5 minutes a day to sit and close your eyes and breath, which you do because you're clearly trying to better yourself, the…
/r/seduction03/12/16 04:50 PM
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Dude. Props to you for saying this. This post is fucking garbage and why people think this subreddit is disgusting and for man whores. This guy clearly doesn't get it.
/r/seduction02/12/16 06:52 PM
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You should watch Liam McRae' shut the fuck up video. You need to listen better if you think you're running out of things to say. There's a huge world out there to talk about and women have a lot to say about it if you're really listening.
/r/seduction02/12/16 06:49 PM
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Words won't be able to change the vibe sadly. When you already know someone and they have a preconceived notion about the type of person you are, only actions can change that.
/r/seduction02/12/16 01:07 AM
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Yea, I'm not getting into details about that. But she reached out when the engagement was broken off and told me she would be home over christmas time for a few weeks. Not sure if its a friendly notice or what but since we haven't talked in awhile its hard to read. All I know is I'm different than she remembers. Fixed my act right up and have had no problem with dating and closing with women that I would never have been able to close on when she was around in my life. So... I feel like I gotta d…
/r/seduction01/12/16 10:45 PM
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Ultimatums are a bad move when you don't have any leverage. Its not like when you say that she will suddenly fall for you.
/r/seduction01/12/16 10:41 PM
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Okay. That makes sense. They have to put me out of their mind for me to get out of the friend zone and sorta start fresh. Now, here's a wrench in the equation. I got engaged awhile back. When I did, apparently she cried for days. I'm no longer engaged. Haven't been for awhile. So it seems she realized she missed out. Change anything in your eyes? I feel like knowing that sorta puts me with the upper hand as long as I don't lose my frame when I'm with her if I do see her.
/r/seduction01/12/16 06:45 PM
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14 months. Thats when she moved.
/r/seduction01/12/16 04:38 PM
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