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I've read many of your articles, will buy the book also!
/r/TheRedPill08/05/21 09:32 PM
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Good post mate. Glad to see red pilled guys who actually love women. The only think I disagree on is: why you keep orbiters? I can see there is an utility in preselection, but I don't want them to suffer. I don't like the idea of making a kind woman pay because another (not kind) woman wronged me.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/20 09:25 PM
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I feel you man, that's my point: not gender, not race, it's about class power. I disagree on the strategy tough... I'm not gonna hate on women, because they are victims too. I'll do my best interests of course, but if possible also help my people. My people is middle class, men and women. Do the spergs here actually like to bed women? Sometimes it looks like they don't do it and they don't even like it. Sometimes it looks like they are angry for the pussy they cannot get. That is totally unrelat…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/20 08:17 PM
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The more you associate with BLM Feminists etc the more they will vampirize you with their dumb bullshit. Why? Because that's the whole point of those organizations: leaching off intelligent productive men. You are saying yourself that the point is leaching off the middle class. Who cares about feminists, the more you fight them, the more you validate them. The problem in today's society is not gender, not race, but income inequality. Wealth distribution. Media in the USA is excellent at polarizi…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/20 06:24 PM
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Why should it be polarizing? Because many users are angry at women and they need to generalize and abstract them to an enemy, to numb the pain. I think they have the right to be angry, but not the right to generalize. I'm not really talking about intelligence, I'm talking about dealing with childish unresolved emotions. TRP is way more powerful when contextualized. If you need to spit fire because some broad made wrong to you, I can empathize but in the end you will need to fix the wound yoursel…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/20 01:39 PM
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The world is NUANCED as fuck. That's exactly the Achille's heel of TRP. Thinking black and white, generalizing absolutes on small samples, simplifying to excess. Being angry and judgemental, without considering context. I find TRP principles good to read facts at a glance, but when I really want to understand a situation I must analyze the specific environment, the people involved and their motivations. Our little brains try to make the world as simple as possible to defend our fragile egos. Com…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/20 10:01 AM
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IF you spend more than a few minutes on them.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 11:03 AM
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You really have no better use of your time than trolling? And from 2 different accounts? Get a life weirdo
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 01:02 AM
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Can't see anywhere in my post or comments any hint of 1, 2 or 3. Maybe that's your way of doing it and you are projecting.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 12:32 AM
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My rates are fine, but my time is not much. Anyway I am going to clarify for you. I am not trying to reject first, I want to know who I am approaching, know it's worth it, and then go for it. At that point anything can happen and I will accept it. I have no fun anymore, even when the hottie says yes. Hard to understand, right? That's because you have no experience. Bye
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 09:55 PM
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Thank you mate. I was a little unfair saying "not useful". Let's say "not efficient"
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 08:28 AM
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I think this is the right way to do it. Deeply study the demographic you want and go wherever they are. Good luck mate
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 10:30 PM
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Who cares if they roast you, keep your frame and only take constructive feedback. Can you elaborate on how things "lined up" and women "showed up"? I am really behind at this, I need to know what to expect and how to recognize it and grow with it
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 08:33 PM
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In the beginning it was a challenge, then it became fun, then frustrating, then fun again and so on for a few cicles. In the last year it has been boring to know new girls and even when I am successfull I don't get satisfaction or any personal growth. It has been a slowly growing awareness that it's not worth it. In the beginning I was "not enough", I had to prove myself. Now I see I have too much value to give away time and attention for free. I prefer getting less action but only interact with…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 08:29 PM
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Yeah right, you approach girls just to select them, not to get them. And after a few lines of text you contradict yourself by counting how many approaches it takes to build plates. Come on man
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 03:49 PM
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What can I say, I am a romantic guy and think women are people as much as men are
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 03:46 PM
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Depends on how much time you have, because if you don't jave much you are forced to go on the route with highest return. Let's say you get to a point of your life where time and work are more important than sex. Let's speak about this then.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 03:41 PM
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Cold approach should be at least paralled by a social circle, organic strategy. Both PUA and TRP focus way too much on cold approach and not enough on core social skills. So if you are younger than me, you have all my encouragment to go approach, grow and have fun. Just remember, the hard work with high ROI is hobbies and social circles.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 03:38 PM
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I lived in north Europe for a year, can confirm your view. Why the hell our girls are so picky. Could be the church and slut shaming, could be us males being too aggressive. Great to talk to you, I will be happy to contact your friends in Rome and get a beer together
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 01:59 PM
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We may have different libido levels pal
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 01:34 PM
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I would be happy for your 30% and ask you to teach me. I doubt it is true because you would have no time for reading and writing in this thread.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 01:21 PM
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Is there any way to have a continuous flow in a social circle? Do social circles definitely exaust or there are way to renovate them? That's were I want to put my "resourcefullness"
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 01:17 PM
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Can you elaborate on the difference between Italy ans the countries you had experiemce in? Ciao caro ti ringrazio...
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 01:14 PM
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So your point is, cold approach is going to make you good at warm approach more than doing the warm approach itself? Does not look logical to me, neither emotionally sound. Cold approach gives a lot, I never said it's not useful. It's just NOT EFFICIENT
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 01:12 PM
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Oh yeah I can relate. I had some LTR who was creative and with good values... spending an afternoon with them is better than fucking "plates".
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 01:02 PM
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True, but I don't feel like recommending 20 yo guys to invest much energy in it as I did
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 12:57 PM
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Why wait for signals and be passive when you can try approaching and be active? Tell me the rate fo success of cold approaching without prior invitation from her, vs the rate after IOIs.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 10:34 AM
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is it really necessary in sales go for the cold call? What about inbound and networking?
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 10:29 AM
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You can BS yourself all you want, the reality is we all have finite time. I feel you mate. Time has so much worth, pussy is nothing in compare.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 10:21 AM
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How do you see if she’s worth it without cold approaching? Exaclty. You don't, and in order to see you give out too much of your time, attention and confidence. Better the other way around: first the signals of her value, then your actions.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 10:17 AM
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Of course cold approach can be fun and beneficial. I'm talking about efficiency here. ​ Meeting women by social circles is obviously the best way but a lot of us have really limited social circles. That is the problem, you see. I think as a community we should spend way more time talking about social circles than about cold approach. How to make friends, how to cultivate interests, how to grow your own social life. It's easy PUA lingo to say "just go talk to her", but ROI is low and there is no …
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 10:15 AM
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3% is high, almost pro level. Ask around
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 09:44 AM
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That's what I am talking about. Good for you mate
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 04:39 AM
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Sleeping around was an error, better realizing now than never Of course I want her to be pretty. Pretty AND interesting, that is what the "just" is for
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 04:34 AM
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What is useless here is the sentence: "do shit meaninfully".
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 04:31 AM
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There is a big risk in amassing knowledge if you don't also grow in physical fitness and social skills. To grow social skills you can avoid cold approach, but you need to develop social circles (around hobbies is the easiest). You need to become smart, fit and fun. At least two of the three ;)
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 04:28 AM
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1 - I did all that for years and got results. I don't need lessons, I'm giving my recap on everything I've learned. What gets natural is picking up IOIs and acting on them, all the rest is ego driven bullshit. 2 - What do you think of a woman who gives so easily herself to a stranger? Are you going to get a wife like that?
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 04:20 AM
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Inner game is more solid with an organic strategy because you develop relations instead of starting from scratch an interaction every time
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 04:09 AM
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I agree on all your points, the last sentence in paeticular. I see so much value in my time and attention right now, that the idea of giving it for free to a rando (just because her ass and tits) makes me ashamed. My last ten years of life would have been so much better if I developed a solid social circle instead of cold approaching. Yes I fucked many, but nothing of them stayed with me. And my heart is cold as ice. Sucks so much to realize the waste of time
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 03:50 AM
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Reading signals and acting on it is a lifestyle :)
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 03:32 AM
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No more attention to you, troll
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 03:29 AM
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Some guys don't get signals, or get too few. Developing a social life takes time, so many of us (I was the same) end up squeezing their balls and going talk to random girls in order to make something happen. I'm not here to condemn cold approach, I want every young guy here to know that an organic strategy is way more rewarding
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 03:28 AM
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Good luck to you friend, thank you for sharing
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 03:19 AM
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Conversion rate for organic approach is almost an order of magnitude higher
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 03:15 AM
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Another guy is telling the same as you, being that a novice needs to do this experience to gain confidence even if it's not efficient. Not convinced about this. I know many guys who do great without ever cold approaching, because they started since teenagers to develop interests and social skills. Also, by cold approaching so much I developed an insensitivity I am not proud of. I did things I totally regret in the name of getting confident. BTW you got the main point of my post, thank you
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 03:12 AM
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I can see you are a sales guy. Also username check out ;) I respect your view, rejection is the price for freedom. Not the only way to pay, you know better than me there are other strategies to sell than cold calling. I'm gonna stop cold approach for a long time, that right to reject has to be earned by more than beauty. Cold approach it's not fun anymore...
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 03:04 AM
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Social circles, hobbies, work and family... Organic is every situation in which the context for interaction is already open, while with cold approach you need to create it.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 02:55 AM
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If you have value people want to spend time with you and respect you. There will be women around just for that reason. At that point there is no real need for cold approach, that's the nature you talk about I understand it takes time, but really believe me: cold approach is fun, but the worst (less efficient) way to get pussy
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 02:51 AM
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Oh you give a fuck, you just commented on it
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 02:42 AM
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Good luck to you brother, enjoy ;)
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 02:41 AM
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You started it, by typing on a keyboard before internalizing what you read, and without having facts to back up your opinion. Btw, I did not ask for opinion on cold approach. I gave my insight after 12 years of doing it. See the difference?
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 02:40 AM
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You really believe in pickup videos? Most of them are made to sell workshops and have nothing to do with seduction
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 02:38 AM
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Happy for you. But I'm not seeing your numbers, or any factual evidence.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 02:36 AM
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I rarely watched pickup videos, I was busy doing it for real. Cold approach (without nonverbal invitation from her) is the opposite of being the prize.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 02:34 AM
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Did you compare cold vs organic? I did. After 12 years that's my recap. Curious to know your numbers... And no, cold approach is giving you the impression of access, not real access.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 02:31 AM
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3% cold < 20% organic My game is probably better than yours, with all due respect
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 02:25 AM
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Can you argument around that? My experience tells the other way around: volume is wasted energy
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 02:20 AM
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"it works" it's not enough. The point is how much it works in respect to other strategies.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 02:16 AM
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Fair point on the extended concept of cold approach. You need to tell me, how many times it worked? Do you got a measure on it? I do.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 02:14 AM
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What about developing social skills organically? If you really think you are the prize, why should you approach?
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 02:13 AM
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Questo governo non opera col favore delle tenebre
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 02:10 AM
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Start the foreplay before making out, before getting home. It can be done with WORDS at dinner or while driving or walking. You need to understand her fantasies and play around that. It's normal for her to wish for longer foreplay, but it will amaze you how fast you can get her hot if you push the right buttons. Try to understand what makes her horny: situation, role playing, caressing on what part of the body, you need to know how she works. So sorry to disappoint, you still don't get how your …
/r/askTRP17/06/20 11:16 PM
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I'm going to be a little blunt, hope you understand I'm doing this in a constructive way. Content- the ideas that are being presented through the writer's form and style- can be reduced to bullet points... but where is the emotion in that? Writing is less about the transmission of ideas, but rather the way they're presented to evoke emotion. No bullet points, and no enigma. Somewhere in the middle maybe? For example: "Writing is less about the transmission of ideas, but rather the way they're pr…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/20 08:35 PM
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There is a theme in the post, about people wanting lies from each other instead of the truth. I really like his writing style and how he mixes images and reasoning. Sometimes he is too synthetic and it's hard to follow because it requires all your concentration. u/LastRevision, if you are reading this: 1 - kudos for the writing 2 - please simplify
/r/TheRedPill03/06/20 05:31 PM
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The reframe I found comforting is that she did you a favour by ghosting, that tells which kind of person she is. She is a coward for not letting you know she's not interested. Do you really like a woman like that? Move on to better people and healthier relationships. It's ok to be critical of yourself in order to improve, but don't take blame for other people's mistakes.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 02:18 AM
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Thank you. Are these rules written somewhere? Can't find them in the sidebar
/r/TheRedPill21/01/20 07:57 PM
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Since we are here. Why I can't post on this sub? When I post it automatically gets removed. What should I do to get permissions?
/r/TheRedPill21/01/20 06:20 PM
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From TRP weed out: - misoginy - anger - absolutism And you have a gold mine of life/dating advice. Same thing for FemaleDatingStrategy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 07:56 PM
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Admit to yourself that you love her.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/19 05:02 PM
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It means, a blind man can't see the sun
/r/TheRedPill16/12/19 01:54 PM
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You must be willing to journey into the darkside of the all pervasive intelligence of nature and use it to judge yourself, to refine yourself into a being that nature will respect. Best post I ever red on TRP. You somehow managed to put together the crudeness of biology with spirituality. I always tried to do that but never been able to reframe the suffering of life in a practical way. Deep, meaninful, true. Thank you with the heart.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/19 08:48 PM
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What you’re seeing FDS do is adjust down expectations to what you all are in reality, which is quite frankly unimpressive and mostly a net negative. Same for women, but not "all" of them, since I don't believe in AWALT. But you may be too much on the extreme to see shades. ​ Think about the fact that Jordan Peterson and TRP made an entire movement telling men such basic things as “clean your room” and “girls like men who make efforts to be attractive” and you’ll start to see the absurdity of the…
/r/askTRP17/11/19 09:41 PM
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I have way more success in real life than on tinder. That app is really too much about pics, and the quality of women is LOW. You'll have no problems my friend, just go to events and clubs where you can find your ideal demographic of women... It's all about niches. Good luck
/r/TheRedPill17/11/19 03:46 PM
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Too easy and too lazy. If you really have something to bring in the discussion, explain it will be a pleasure to see your point.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 12:47 PM
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If you read around, you will find alpha women. From what they write I'm confident there are hot ladies, many feminazis, a few balanced personalities, femcels, and all the rest. Don't oversimplify mate, that sub is golden
/r/askTRP16/11/19 12:42 PM
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RPW is a nice read, but doesn't fill the whole story to me.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 12:34 PM
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Spot on. You know I understood recently that they've been spoonfed lies too. They were promised: they can have it all, career and family (they only get one, or zero) they can have prince charming (instead they get chads who fuck amd dump, and an ocean of betas they don't like) they can be picky as long as they want (they hit the wall) I used to envy women, right now I don't want to be in their shoes.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 12:31 PM
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Agree it's the perfect manual for game! I know for a fact that many of the women on FDS read TRP, for the same reason...
/r/askTRP16/11/19 12:15 PM
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Don't think so. They're all about strategy and improving, give it a try and read it with a neutral eye. It's worth it pal...
/r/askTRP16/11/19 03:57 AM
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True that, our discussion is way more logical. Nevertheless, I see value in understanding their "feelz logic" directly as they put it
/r/askTRP16/11/19 03:14 AM
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You're not getting my point man. You need to interpret their material from their biological point of view, not from ours. They want you to be sexually satisfied AFTER you commit, not before
/r/askTRP16/11/19 03:04 AM
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Yoga is powerful: your mind gets sharper, you get way more relaxed, you can better feel and control both body and mind. Best win for me with yoga was having a better connection with the body, less lower back pain, and the yoga class is always full of pussy. Only downside I found, don't do Yoga alone because it can calm you down too much. I'm mixing it with calisthenics ;)
/r/askTRP15/11/19 03:23 AM
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It's an interestong question, I often find myself thinking about this kind of conundrum. So, I really have not an answer, but somehow I feel that alternating discipline with freedom is the best way to conduct life and continually improving. For example, the only way I found to keep an healthy diet is to allow a weekly cheat day. Without cheat day, I loose the motivation because I feel imprisoned in a nazi goal I don't share anymore. Same with excercise: 2 ore 3 times a week feels good and I can …
/r/askTRP08/11/19 01:12 AM
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All you need is love
/r/askTRP20/10/19 11:32 PM
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Totally agree. Herd mentality and taking principles literally is just dumb. It's a way to simplify the world, avoid reasoning about complex things and just sacrifice truth in order to preserve a mediocre mind sanity. I love here on TRP the discussion about evolutionary psychology, the invitation to go for your mission and continuously improve yourself. What I don't like is the anger, the politics, the harsh misogynistic vein. There is no better way to understand women than actually listen and ta…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/19 12:06 PM
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That's why I believe in a good combination mate
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 06:31 PM
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Capitalism is great for most services and goods, but for education and health care socialism is the way to go. You don't want to live in a country where the right to be cured and to learn are treated like a donut in a fast food. And where if you have no money and you get sick you just die, and can't send your children to school. Fuck that. Proudly european here. We are getting capitalism right. As for the rest, great post :)
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 08:08 PM
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Search the "self authoring program" by Jordan Peterson
/r/askTRP18/08/19 03:27 PM
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Will think about this thanks
/r/askTRP16/08/19 01:58 PM
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Absolutely right. I don't know why my intention to use time wisely is seen as fear of rejection. Looks to me as a blind negation of gaming (which is there to improve our success rate and minimize rejection by definition) For example in the approach phase there are many ways to find receptive sets before opening, I don't know why we can't apply the same strategy with escalating.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 01:54 PM
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Man I wrote in the post that I escalated. I don't know why so many people here is so eager to tell others to grow balls. I remember in all this cases of attention whoring, I was phisically attracted but the girl was not smart and not even fun. Maybe you have a point on also me not being really interested. In general, and in the context of CLUBS, I find it hard to meet interesting women, and easy to meet hot ones
/r/askTRP16/08/19 01:47 PM
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Yes this is a good point. I can recall many signals of this
/r/askTRP16/08/19 01:38 PM
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What you call "high social intelligence caliber", that's the point. I want to develop more of that. "the signals are almost indistinguishable" ALMOST, that's why I want to learn them Seems to me that you understood what I'm talking about, but you don't want to think about it deeply
/r/askTRP16/08/19 03:57 AM
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I'll think about this
/r/askTRP16/08/19 03:46 AM
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Exactly what I'm saying, game is to minimize rejection. If you agree on this you should agree in finding signals to differentiate validation seeking vs attraction. For the beta orbiting, that's not going to happen in any case. I decide if it's the case to escalate or not, if yes I'm gonna see how she reacts, if not I'm going to game somebody else. No orbiting mate
/r/askTRP16/08/19 03:39 AM
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Your answer seems interesting bit I don't know if I get it. Are you saying that she wants to be validated because she finds me valuable? So why just validation and not more?
/r/askTRP16/08/19 03:35 AM
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My open to close ratio is high. You know why? Because I study and apply game. Game is there to increase success and avoid rejection, sounds logical to me. I already got my fair share of rejections, on the hundreds - and still counting. No need to call me beta or tell me to grow a pair. You know the difference between a sniper rifle and a machine gun? I will always go for the sniper style. Thank you anyway
/r/askTRP16/08/19 03:21 AM
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Sounds good. What if I want to know before escalating? Think about the approach phase. There are many ways to minimize rejection (waiting for IOIs, preselection, contextual opener, etc.). Why opening sets at random if I can open just what is worth opening. See where I am going?
/r/askTRP16/08/19 03:07 AM
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First of all, thank you for the discussion. I'm enjoying. There is no 100% batting, but 30% is better than 20%. For example, we can easily reduce rejections on opening by waiting for IOIs, or by finding a good contextual opener, or by preselection, you name it. That's what game is for, augmenting our probabilities of success. It would be blind and dumb to say "just open and see if you get rejected", I don't like to waste my energy like that. Same applies with "just escalate". Don't you find it t…
/r/askTRP16/08/19 03:03 AM
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I started gaming 10 years ago, with an LTR in between. I can handle rejection, I'm just really really tired of wasting time. When she does not like me, I know it's time to accept it and move on. When she is just leading me on, it's like she is stealing my time and that makes me angry :(
/r/askTRP16/08/19 01:57 AM
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I want to recognize the attention whore BEFORE escalating
/r/askTRP16/08/19 01:10 AM
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I have fear of rejection like most other guys, no problem admitting that. What if I didn't write the suggestion was from a woman? I bet the discussion would be different, but it's too late. To go back on the question, how do you recognize an attention whore as early as possible? As you see in the example I escalated and realized she was not into me. I would like to know that before wasting all that energy.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 01:08 AM
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Man, can we stay on the point of the post? Do you really think that just because the tip was from a woman, it is wrong? Please (really), read the points and tell me what you actually think..
/r/askTRP16/08/19 12:53 AM
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Her suggestions are just fine, and helpful as I'm trying them out. Care to elaborate on your doubts? Or you just ignore what a woman says just because you need to restrict the world to TRP's point of view? Otherwise it gets too complicated?
/r/askTRP16/08/19 12:24 AM
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Man you have a great family don't risk it too much. There is a difference between what you read in an internet forum and real life. Do sports, cultivate hobbies, maybe fuck some chick on the side, but don't ruin your family with open relationships or some weird dread game. Improve yourself without destroying what you got
/r/TheRedPill06/08/19 10:19 PM
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Chill out man. She wants you, go out with her again with better logistics
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 06:19 PM
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How do you get into that creative state, how do you warm up? Can you train stuff by yourself? I'll suggest you to find some way to express yourself, don't know if improv or painting or whatever. And then try to bring this new found passion into everyday human interactions. Most conversations I'm having are bland or boring because I have a very stern and serious, even depressed, mindset. I'm serious and boring too, when I can't connect with people. A depressed mindset is good for black humor for …
/r/TheRedPill03/06/19 10:18 PM
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Great post man, kudos for the many insight you gave. I want to drop some words on improv, since I've been practicing for 7+ years and traveled around my country's theatres. The impact of improv on my social and professional life has been staggering. Now I just don't give a shit about appearing silly or weird, I just go with the flow and connect the dots. I am able to take the funny out of something that is not funny at all and able to engage in conversations in a totally original way. I can talk…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/19 01:27 PM
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You got a lot of good advice man. I'm gonna be the one empathizing with you. You felt connection and a sense of comfort. When the woman is right it doesn't matter if you are sick or if you don't fuck at first date. The relation develops naturally, both of you jumping over stupid obstacles. You just met a girl that didn't really care about you and just wanted sex. Yeah you missed a good fuck, but who cares. I know it's hard but at least you still feel something. It just isn't the right person. So…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 02:39 PM
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Try to work on your body language so it begins as more "feminine". Later in the interacrion, when they feel safe, show the manly side. When you approach women, don't do it up front, but always being rotated with your body at three quarters in respect to them. Don't occupy too much space with legs and arms, keep them near your body Keep your wrists bent Smile a lot and use puppy/tender expressions (surprise, curiosity, playfulness, sweetness) Being a little "gay" in your body language allows you …
/r/askTRP25/05/19 10:36 AM
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Best post I red on this sub. I love women.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/19 04:56 PM
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No way. Muscles are a plus but not a necessity. The necessity is going out of the comfort zone and learning from mistakes (on the long term that becomes confidence). She came to you. At least drop some game my friend, it's always a pleasure to get to know women. You had a chance there
/r/askTRP14/05/19 07:57 PM
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Why you said no? Wasn t better "what do you give me in exchange" or "only if you buy me a drink". I don't see the point of rejecting an approach. Ok it was a shit test approach, but nevertheless an approach
/r/askTRP14/05/19 06:11 AM
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Going to search Sydow and Perrion, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 10:06 PM
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Not really, I'm all for strategy. The hypergamy talk on TRP is centered (as you say) on plates and having an harem. That's fine. But there is no polygamy talk when it comes to explain female fears. I find that intellectually dishonest. Way better strategies and practical advice can be given by taking into account cultural and individual differences on top of the (poorly understood) biological ones. Also I don't like treatong women as a they would be one person. Oh no, they are really different a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 09:50 PM
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Red pillers selectively insist on female hypergamy and selectively ignore male poligamy. If we're going to talk about evolutionary psychology, we need to tell the whole story.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 09:16 PM
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I usually give a couple of options, like "Let's go xxxxxx. I'm free tuesday and friday night." When xxxxxx is related to something we talked about o we made jokes about or it's a common interest, it works waaaay better. Anyway don't overthink, when they want to know you there is no need to play games. If she flakes or make it difficult or doenst find the time for two or three times in a row, she is not interested. Deal with it
/r/askTRP07/05/19 09:59 AM
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Get into an impro theatre group
/r/askTRP03/05/19 05:07 PM
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I feel you. I renounced many plates just to don't hurt them. When I meet a "nice girl" I don't want to take revenge on her for another bitch that gave me a hard time. I've been fucking 3 or 4 girls in the same period and that did not give me happyness. Now I prefer taking the risk of oneitis than missing a good woman just because I'm afraid to get involved. I get hurt. I deal with it. The red pill is about evolutionary psychology, and while the concepts are absolutely true statistically, nobody …
/r/askTRP02/05/19 11:29 PM
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Why spinning plates against your own desire if you found a woman that you really like, she is into you and she's not a psycho? I know it's risky, but there is only a way to see if she gets crazy after you give her the exclusive. Which is, give it to her and build something together. Good luck
/r/askTRP29/04/19 06:24 PM
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I reached that point many years ago. It didn't make me happy as being in love and being loved back. Which of course pertains much bigger risks
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 05:26 PM
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I started in 2008 too, after a couple of years of improving and cold approaching my game was fine. This pickup theory and practice actually works, but there are a few things you only discover if you dive deep enough. OP said many of them, the one I most agree on is the focus on understaing WHAT YOU NEED. It's difficult to understand if a desire you have is really a desire or just a whim; hard to tell if it's actually driven from inside or from outside; impossible to discover and accomodate all y…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 03:43 PM
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