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It certainly could, if you choose to define your connection and your identity in a certain way. If you choose to see your connection as something that you can't function without, then yes, it will hurt when you don't get your fix. I know it's all logical, I can see that but daaamn, I can suppress my negative feelings but I can't suppress the fact that I miss her. Of course it's possible that you have feelings for her. But the question to ask yourself is, what are those feelings based on? And are…
/r/seduction21/06/13 01:57 PM
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I know what you mean, that's why I concentrate on making myself 1st place, in a way. At the end of the day, I take care of myself. It's not really that cynical, I just realized that asking for total priority in someone else's life is kind of ridiculous, if you think about it. They have to take care of their shit. And take this girl for example. If she wants to change the world, I'd consider it a point of pride to be involved with such a person. True, but being almost totally ignored by someone y…
/r/seduction21/06/13 05:11 AM
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Nice. Awesome. Now don't forget that if you want to do this, it will be a 24/7 job at times. But the more you do it, the more those negative thoughts will recede. And take care what ammunition you choose when you fight the thoughts. As long as you are choosing a logical rebuttal or similar rebuttal based on concrete evidence that contradicts the thought in question, you should be fine. Today, just a thought of how awesome can I be with women was enough. Plus, I approached 1 girl, complimented 1 …
/r/seduction20/06/13 08:40 PM
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Tried that technique of thinking about something positive when something negative comes to my mind. It actually works. Whenever something negative started appearing I was closing my eyes, reminding myself of my first successful pickup, second successful pickup, of my friends that care about me and other positive things to came to my mind. I was standing there with a big smile on my face, people around were looking at me with "wtf" look on their faces. Thanks. Can we talk now about expectations f…
/r/seduction20/06/13 07:35 PM
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So in your opinion you can suppress any negative feeling? Even the strongest ones? Or maybe they're growing bigger and stronger because they're accumulating? I'm sorry for taking so much of your time but you're talking like you know what I'm going through.
/r/seduction20/06/13 08:11 AM
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Thoughts are controllable: You can choose what to think about. I know and I feel like it's possible to but when I remind myself about how I felt on last Saturday, how strong that fear was I feel so small. Imagine that. You're sick, at home, it's your day off, you have literally nothing to do but lay down on your couch. You're one on one with your thoughts. She's been ignoring you for couple days. Not answering your message, even though she's online liking and commenting some stupid photos. You'r…
/r/seduction20/06/13 05:37 AM
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Thank you, really thank you. You gave me some ideas how I should change my views. Hopefuly it will help me out. Though, isn't it hard to change they way you perceive relationships, love and human relations? As I'm sitting now, I know that this fear is stupid, irrational and shouldn't have place but I think it's a part of being a human being and you can never get rid of that - you can only learn how to deal with it.
/r/seduction20/06/13 05:09 AM
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Value giving or contributing to someone's life. Does this mean to be positive? Helping people you care about and not expecting anything in return? Do I understand this right?
/r/seduction19/06/13 05:33 PM
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This hints at a need or preference in you to be in a certain kind of relationship where the other person needs you. A relationship where the other person validates you. This is a problem, because you apparently allowed your need for this push you off balance. I'd wager that you gave up a part of your identity and started investing in this idea that you were going to be part of a couple, not just an individual. Would this be correct? Probably correct but in 100%. I don't have an urge of being nee…
/r/seduction19/06/13 03:47 PM
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Didn't think of that in that manner. Maybe you're right. Though, I use facebook as a communicator only. I don't use it very often, yes, I am online but that's all. SHE was the one to msg me, SHE was the one to act like she needs my attention. When it was gone, I became that person "blowing off her msg box". So yes, my neediness came out of nowhere and I used facebook ... as a tool to.. well, bitch a little. I thought I finally and forever got rid off that shit called needines - I hate that word.…
/r/seduction19/06/13 02:23 PM
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That's the thing. I don't post anything but music from time to time. Fb chat... Ye, that's a good advice I guess.
/r/seduction19/06/13 06:36 AM
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I was or I still am dating this girl - gave her some space now. We've landed in her bed couple times. Only some oral fun since she wanted to wait with sex a little longer. Anyway, I figured out why did I freak out. I wasn't going out for the past two weeks - beside the dates with that girl. I was alone and just one on one with my stupid thoughts. I guess the lesson here is to never forget how your social circle and socializing important is.
/r/seduction19/06/13 05:57 AM
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Right? Right? I'm sitting here, browsing reddit, watching some TV, chilling after day of work and wondering why the fuck do I keep my account "alive". It only made me look like a crybaby.
/r/seduction18/06/13 06:36 PM
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I'm a newb, I don't get laid, I'm 21 years old and honestly "getting laid like a rock star" doesn't feel like something I'd like to do for now. I'm trying to find a girlfriend, establish some relationship firstly to know how does it feel like and if this is my thing or maybe I should focus on scoring more and more women. My question is, can I implement those, let's say tips, to attract a particular girl and then establish relationship? Or maybe those tips only apply to one-night-stands? (and aft…
/r/seduction15/05/13 05:58 PM
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You're doing some great job. Easy and fast to read and remember. Thanks!
/r/seduction08/05/13 07:04 AM
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Good job! PS you're lucky you have a decent wingman
/r/seduction28/04/13 03:14 PM
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And please, remember to INVITE people to do something. Never, ever wait for them to invite you first! Show people that you like them and you care about them even a little! This one thing, which I read on reddit, helped me so fucking much, you won't even believe. Good luck !
/r/seduction27/04/13 07:31 PM
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Really? Shit and I was wondering where did I go wrong last time... Had almost the same problem as OP. Thanks.
/r/seduction25/04/13 05:45 PM
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You're amazing, thanks man.
/r/seduction17/04/13 08:26 PM
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And that is such a bad paid job? Maybe consider looking for something else, something that will make you happy and feel better about yourself, something that you will enjoy doing or at least something better paid.
/r/seduction16/04/13 04:52 AM
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what do you do for living?
/r/seduction15/04/13 06:33 PM
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Stealing some of your openers. They're hilarious.
/r/seduction15/04/13 04:11 PM
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"Doesn't matter, had sex" :P
/r/seduction14/04/13 12:05 PM
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Forgetting her name. NEVER. FORGET. GIRL'S. NAME. Seriously, never. I learned that and if I meet someone new (doesn't matter if it's a girl or a dude) I repeat her/his name in my head couple of times or simply use his/her name during the small-talk.
/r/seduction13/04/13 05:03 PM
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Understand? Totally, thanks!
/r/seduction09/04/13 06:02 PM
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So, basically any excuse would be good?
/r/seduction09/04/13 04:56 PM
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Wow, and... how to say someone is "lurker" or actual PUA ? Asking because I am still newb to this stuff and I ask a lot here or on /r/askseddit - don't want to be adviced / take advices from other newbs.
/r/seduction09/04/13 04:37 PM
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Same here; it actually had a bad influence on my inner game.
/r/seduction08/04/13 01:32 PM
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Tell me then, why they did research only on same-sex couples.
/r/seduction08/04/13 01:30 PM
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Ok, hb8 just flaked on me so I was reading seddit to look for something cheering up and here it is Love is like a fart, if you have to force it, it's probably shit. And a nice one, it's always good to throw "it" away. [talking about the hard feelings, not the girl /L ]
/r/seduction07/04/13 09:07 PM
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Well, she might be just a bi... mean! really really mean! PS It was a joke, no offence.
/r/seduction07/04/13 08:50 PM
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Came here to ask for the same thing. I fucking thought that in Asia it's ok to actually bring a damn hamster to a date.
/r/seduction05/04/13 04:55 AM
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u no funny :[
/r/seduction04/04/13 05:47 PM
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BAAAAAM PWNED!
/r/seduction04/04/13 04:27 PM
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It won't work in Eastern Europe! Everyone has vodka in his/her palce. Good one though.
/r/seduction04/04/13 04:26 PM
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Coffee is quite neutral. If you wisely pick up place of meeting you can go for some kino. Plus, you can always do something afterwards. Drinks not really. Depending on her type of personality she might think you want to get her drunk. I guess you have to do some research during the first meeting. You know, like, you feel she likes partying/clubbing you can go for drinks.
/r/seduction04/04/13 04:25 PM
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Yes! I was wondering if there are PUAs out there trying to hold on with the first kiss. Guess I'm gonna have to try both ways like you did and figure out which one works best for me.
/r/seduction26/03/13 08:29 PM
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Haha, that wasn't the question... but... good job ... I guess !
/r/seduction26/03/13 08:25 PM
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I know it sounds bad but it works. I was even worse than a drug addict. You've no idea how many people with "social issues" is out there.
/r/seduction26/03/13 08:24 PM
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That's why you FAKE your confidence. When you FAKED it much enough it will "evolve" into real confidence. Don't you get it? You have to fail and fail and fail and fail to achieve something.
/r/seduction26/03/13 08:01 PM
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why
/r/seduction26/03/13 07:03 PM
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haha, absolutely brilliant. it can make you appear more game-y and scare away the girl when she goes home. I'll keep that in mind. Thanks for your answers!
/r/seduction19/03/13 06:35 PM
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Opener is pretty cool. That recording gave me some idea of how to lead the convo. Thanks. Do you have any other recordings? Maybe profile on this website? I can't find any playlist or profile button. And a question about kino, as the conversation flows, u used something more direct or stayed with "social-friend-type" touching?
/r/seduction19/03/13 06:16 PM
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Thank you for this post. I just realised something.
/r/seduction19/03/13 06:12 AM
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I am not entirely sure if "not giving fuck" is a good option. I was just called submissive because I didn't care about shit. She was triying to tease me - in a quite bad manner, but still - agree n amplify or ignore, she was triying to take the lead - in most of the cases, ignore. Now I told her, that we're different and we should meet other people and she said that ye, we are different and she feels like I'm submissive (as I said before) and was triying to MAKE me fight her will - wtf. Am I on …
/r/seduction18/03/13 08:51 PM
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Don't make the mistake I did and don't date girl you don't feel comfortable with or you have nothing in common. Just don't.
/r/seduction18/03/13 07:58 PM
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shame? what shame?
/r/seduction18/03/13 04:47 PM
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Don't you think he gets laid a lot because he has a passion? Becuase he's different (tattooed all over the body, piercings) ? And well, maybe cos he's confident enough to actually go out and talk to girls? EDIT Basically, he's different than most guys. Look isn't the ultimate thing that makes women want to sleep with you. It's we, men, we're shallow. We want to sleep with beautiful women. By the first 5 seconds I meet a random girl I can tell you if I want to bang her or not.
/r/seduction12/03/13 05:10 PM
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This could have been for a thousand reasons, but my gut tells me she knew that I wasn't just gonna sit around and be her bitch I feel pretty much the same. Good job!
/r/seduction12/03/13 05:04 PM
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slap her back! PS And for real, try catching her hand + heavy eye contact + a little smile / pinning her to the wall or anything like that. Hope you got my point.
/r/seduction12/03/13 12:44 PM
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"Hi my name is Scorpio, and I have to say that your daughter looks absolutely stunning". Made my day. <hi5> o/
/r/seduction11/03/13 06:31 AM
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tl;dr pwns
/r/seduction10/03/13 04:52 PM
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do. not. try. this. in East Europe. DO.NOT.
/r/seduction06/03/13 08:49 AM
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What motivated you to push forward after setbacks and how do your feel about the future? Some day I woke up and realised something... I got rejected by 2 girls in the same year. I had no friends, no social life. I got rejected again, then had some kind of mental "crush", I was a wreck. I had problems with sleeping, I felt this fking hole, black fking hole in my life... terrible feeling. One morning I found reddit.com, I started browsing subreddits and I got here. I kept reading and reading and r…
/r/seduction05/03/13 02:59 PM
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/r/sex
/r/seduction05/03/13 07:20 AM
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Hahaha, best. approach. ever. or at least one of the funniest !
/r/seduction02/03/13 06:01 AM
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You just want to get laid or looking for a relationship? Beside that, always be honest in your intentions. Why would you care about what other people think of you? And what do you mean "fucked up" ? Like, getting refused by some girl? So what, move on. People forget things, especially women, you shouldn't bother.
/r/seduction01/03/13 04:31 PM
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That doesn't sound like anything new. If you want someone to like you, make this person do the most talking. Plus, take up lots of space, show your confidence. Those are 2 basic things. Good reminder though.
/r/seduction01/03/13 04:24 PM
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with a cigarette in your mouth and a bottle of beer / glass of whiskey in your hand, yeah !
/r/seduction01/03/13 04:15 PM
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"hey, this is crazy, but here's my number, so call me maybe" :E
/r/seduction27/02/13 06:49 PM
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To get better with women.
/r/seduction26/02/13 08:15 PM
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Yes, this is MAGIC. I'm dating a girl, when on our first date I grabbed her hand, then let it go, then grabbed again, and let it go something "cool" has happened. She opened up a little more and was all over me almost instantly.
/r/seduction26/02/13 07:53 PM
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Not your fault. Keep in mind there is a lot of weirdos out there.
/r/seduction24/02/13 11:55 AM
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Same, trying to be playful, plus, if we won't see each other for a couple of days I sometimes text something like "hey, what's up" / "hey, how have you been" / "how was ur day" or stuff like that. EDIT Not everyday, <lol>, no need to lynch me!
/r/seduction24/02/13 09:53 AM
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Well, good job man, though I feel like you could work a little more on your text game, it seems a little... awkward? I'm not an expert but yeah, I feel like you could do some improvement on that.
/r/seduction24/02/13 09:38 AM
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Awesome job man. I wonder if "you're my girlfriend" part would work for different type of girl.
/r/seduction22/02/13 08:26 PM
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Is it? I can't compare it to other EU countries nor USA but I wouldn't say it is super hard. Of course, some of the girls are intimidated and act like they have never spoken to a guy before but is it really hard? I'm going to UK for the summer, then prolly Sweden, will do some... "research". EDIT It also depends on girl, right? I know girls that are talkative, high-energy, self-confident and I know girls that are shy and insecure at the beginning, you just have to pay a lil more time for them.
/r/seduction22/02/13 07:49 PM
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Hahaha, -hey babe -sdojmvwpoerjoper -ok let's fuck
/r/seduction22/02/13 08:13 AM
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You don't need like months to get laid. I met at least 2-3 girls in the past 3 weeks who wanted to be friends-with-benefits. I dunno, maybe you're unlucky or doing something wrong.
/r/seduction22/02/13 08:12 AM
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I live in Poland, and yes, the same rules apply. However, I feel like girls here are a lil more prude than in US.
/r/seduction21/02/13 07:39 PM
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Alcohol only makes you think so. Relax man, she's a human being too, be yourself and have fun !
/r/seduction19/02/13 01:32 PM
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Missed your post. I don't see much room for improvement I wish it was true. Thanks anyway!
/r/seduction19/02/13 12:10 PM
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I think it was more of a tease than a proposition. Again, played it cool and like I don't care.
/r/seduction19/02/13 12:08 PM
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That was essentially a shit test. Next time, say "Let's find out" and proceed to kiss her. I thought the same, it was a shit test obviously but instead of pushing and risking the rejection / looking needy I decided to play it cool, like I don't care. Also, as mentioned in the comments, when she has that particular mindset of how she's hot shit, and turns down kisses, punish her with a freeze out, talk to another girl and create a jealousy plotline. It works wonders and they'll come running back …
/r/seduction19/02/13 12:07 PM
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Apparently I'm a hater.
/r/seduction18/02/13 09:38 PM
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Let's watch the number of downvotes on this topic. Those who did / will do that could at least post a comment what they downvoted it for.
/r/seduction18/02/13 09:20 PM
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Swinging in front of a chick while introducing yourself? Must look nerdy!
/r/seduction18/02/13 09:12 PM
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I know I'm the fucking prize without a shadow of a doubt. tell her in a flirty manner but fucking mean it, like literally when I get backlash I will just walk off and chat another girl up, because I genuinely do not give a fuck. I like that, will try it the next time. Thanks!
/r/seduction18/02/13 07:46 PM
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Then drop it, if you don't feel like club is your niche, you can always drop it - 2bad you will drop it without trying but forget it. you can meet women everywhere, malls, bars etc.
/r/seduction18/02/13 06:13 PM
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I wasn't a social type in high school either. I wasn't since the last year. Anyway, take ANYONE, it's always easier to go out with a friend. Bribe the bouncer, wth ! It depends on a club, some don't have bouncers some do. They'll let you in if you don't look like a "problem" - for example, a friend of mine, he's short, buffed and looks like a thug, bouncers hate him and in 2 out of 3 cases he's not allowed to enter. Dress code, again, depends on a club you're going to. Sometimes you have to wear…
/r/seduction18/02/13 05:53 PM
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Why alone? It's all about having fun. Don't you have anyone to go out with you? You don't even have to explain your intentions, just take someone with you, grab a drink, have fun. At some point you'll feel confident enough to go on the dancefloor or to go up to some chick and ask her to dance with you. People that are in clubs, are there for some reason, to meet new people and again, have damn fun, in some cases you don't even have to introduce yourself or anything else, just go up to her and po…
/r/seduction18/02/13 05:15 PM
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YT stands for YouTube. Club dance, hard to explain, go out, grab a drink in a club, see what people do, go to the next club, grab a drink, observe people. That should give you idea of what I'm talking about. EDIT Do not observe those guys dancing alone for a longer period of time or in group of males - so called wiener groups. Observe those cool looking dudes hitting on the hottest chicks. Never criticize, if someone does better than you, watch and learn.
/r/seduction18/02/13 05:00 PM
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That's a little chaotic. What table, what kissing, what friend. Read your post again. Would you understand anything from that if you were me? Edit it , give more info or delete and post again with more info.
/r/seduction18/02/13 03:24 PM
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Damn it, I knew I should've tried bumping from bar to bar. Thanks. EDIT And yeah I need to figure out how to turn the tables. She's quite attractive (body 11/10, trust me) and is hit on very often so she's very self-confident and .... one more thing... I guess her ex-bfs were Mr Nice Guy's and put her on pedestal. During the night, her Ex was spamming her cellphone with msgs and kept calling her practically non-stop, she didn't answer even a single text but still, that makes her even more confid…
/r/seduction18/02/13 02:14 PM
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No you don't need a journal. When you go out, let's say on Saturday night, the next day, Sunday, try to think what did go wrong / well and improve your game. Visit /r/socialskills and look for some guides on small talk.
/r/seduction18/02/13 01:29 PM
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Bolivian mating dance prolly. It was a club, standaring "bouncing". The thing is, that when you dance you massively kino the girl you're with. PS If you got problems with club dance or dance at all, watch YT, search for posts on reddit. Seen some good advices here. Oooooor simply take lessons.
/r/seduction18/02/13 01:20 PM
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Pull? Avoid getting number and try to go out with her right away?
/r/seduction18/02/13 12:19 PM
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One of the rules of seduction says "never get too drunk" !
/r/seduction18/02/13 12:05 PM
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